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SS Quickie - "Peter Meter" Challenge, 2 Week Update (Podcast)

I'm 2 weeks into my plant-based diet. Things have changed for the better, seriously! I even asked my lady to give her thoughts about the diet. I think she's happy with the results. Have a listen.

SS - The Importance of Quickies (Podcast)

Quickies are fun. Sometimes, it's just what the doctor ordered. In this episode, I discuss fun sexual positions for quickies (i.e. bent over the desk at work). Don't forget, an oral sex quickie also count (...especially on the desk at work). Enjoy.

SS - Watching Porn Together (Podcast)

Should you watch porn together? I think so. Its a good way to spend time together and hopefully, have a bit of fun. Also, you can learn a few things about your partner but please, do not make assumptions.

SS - The "Peter Meter" challenge...

Gentlemen, can a plant-based diet help your sex life? Maybe. After watching The Game Changers on Netflix, I think it is possible but the science is still missing. But still, I'm going to start the Peter Meter challenge. So...possibly stronger erections from eating healthy? Sign me up!

SS - Having a Fetish. (Podcast)

What's a fetish? While they are found more in men, women have them as well. Are they good for you? Do you have an actual fetish or a sexual preference? Have a listen...

Quickie: Female Athletes and Sexual Desire (Podcast)

From a conversation with my lady and her friends who are athletes, the question was posed, "Why am I horny all the time?" Could their level of physical fitness affect their sexual desire? Maybe...and also, they could just like sex. Have a listen... Shout out to Ms. Jazz, Ms. Rhi and Ms. Lauren. Enjoy.

SS - The Importance of Touch (Podcast)

We need touch in our life, including non-sexual touch. For some, non-sexual touch is more important than sex. Do you agree? Furthermore, I want to say its time for us to take a more active look at our sexual health and make sexual touching a priority. Thanks for listening.

SS - (Lauren #1) - The rapid increase of STDs (Podcast)

With a very special guest, we discuss the new report from the CDC on the increase of syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia over the past 5 years. What are the causes and possible solutions?

SS - Blow Jobs! (Podcast)

Now that I have your attention, I'm talking about fellatio today. Why do guys like them so much? Are their techniques to make them better? Yep...and I discuss these topics too. Plus, I mention one woman's solution to make her husband "happy" everyday. Enjoy...

SS - Are you in an "Emotionally Safe" relationship? (Podcast)

While many of us are in relationships or married, do you feel safe to express yourself on an emotional level? While articles say empathy plays a large role in feeling safe, are toxic thought and inconsistent behaviors harming your relationship?

SS - How do you show your lady she is loved and appreciated? (Podcast)

Following last weeks podcast about showing love for men, how do you show the lady in your life she is loved and appreciated? This should be fun. I suggesting 'sweating the small stuff.' Comments appreciated...

SS - How do you show your man he is loved and appreciated? (Podcast)

While #SCF promotes female pleasure, we cannot forget about men. So, how do you let your man know he is loved and appreciated for everything he does to make your life better? How does he know you want him sexually?

SS - The Importance of Kissing (Podcast)

Kissing provides many benefits to your relationship. It helps with stress and intimacy. So, how many of you have been kissed passionately lately? Plus, there's a homework assignment at the end of the podcast too. I think you'll like it.

SS Quickie - Suggestions on Cunnilingus #2, Humming? (Podcast)

Have you ever tried humming on your lady's clit? It may give her an extra level of pleasure. Be sure to ask her first. So, how do you do it?

SS - Can your sexless relationship survive? (Podcast)

How did you end up in a sexless relationship? There are various reasons why this happened but, can your relationship last? If you both match on certain criteria sure, it can work. But, what if you no longer match each other sexually?

SS - Suggestions on Cunniligus...eating Pu$$y (Podcast)

Hey. Here is a quick podcast that's full of suggestions on how to perform cunnilingus. A friend offered her tips as well. Also, if you have suggestion, add them below. #EachOneTeachOne

SS - When she has a higher sex drive? (Podcast)

What happens when she has a higher sex drive than he does? At the same time, I'm hearing from women they are not getting any sexual attention from their husbands/ boyfriends. This is like a perfect storm for concern. I'd like to believe Selfless Sex could help in this situation but I'm not sure. What is really going on out there?

SS - Do you have any insecurities when it comes to sex? (Podcast)

In the podcast, I discuss a study that looked at some of the more common sexual insecurities, for both men and women. The impact of these insecurities can be devastating. I ask, if you've ever had a sexual insecurity, what did you do to work through it?

SS - Putting effort into your relationship (Podcast)

Are you putting a good faith effort into your relationship? While men typically get the bad rap for this, women have to put in work too. Also, are you putting any effort into your sexual relationship?

Can Black Women Afford to Save Broken Black Men? (Podcast)