
The Hard Yes Nobody Warns You About | Episode 249: Shelby Gardner
Episode 249 Shelby Gardner is an author, speaker, entrepreneur, and mom of two spitfire daughters, and one of the most refreshingly honest guests I have had. A year ago she stepped away from a ministry position she loved because she felt God asking her to, expecting life to take off the very next week. It did not. We talk about what that brutal, transformative year has really looked like: watching her old community from the outside, discovering how much of her self-worth was tied to a title, and learning that obedience does not come with a guarantee that "better" looks the way you pictured it. Shelby wrote the devotional Lily Pads: A Heart Study, and I love the picture behind the name. Every season of life is just another lily pad. Not a step up, not a step down; another place to sit, learn, and grow. We talk about why your story is not for you, the Rahab novel she is working on, sharing the hard days of motherhood honestly, and her family's core value that stuck with me most: "We do things scared." Connect with Shelby at shelbygardner.com, where her weekly blog lives along with links to the book. Lily Pads: A Heart Study is on Amazon. Today's sponsor: Five Star Painting of Tulsa (fivestarpainting.com/tulsa). Join our free online community: skool.com/sharingpassionandpurpose Chapters: 0:00 Coming up 0:36 Sharing Passion and Purpose 0:53 Meet Shelby: author, mom, in-between season 3:21 Leaving ministry: the hardest decision 4:46 "I thought my life was gonna take off" 7:41 Obedience without a guarantee 9:44 A word from our sponsor 10:38 Why a devotional 13:10 The lily-pads picture: seasons, not steps 15:48 Your story is not for you 18:00 The Rahab novel 20:10 Sharing the hard days of motherhood 23:36 Rapid fire 25:08 Reba and the wooden spoon 27:46 The greenhouse storytelling studio 29:13 "We do things scared" 30:33 The hard yes that changed everything 32:33 Where to find Shelby + Lily Pads 33:27 Until next time ABOUT NANCY Nancy Moore is the host of Sharing Passion and Purpose, a weekly podcast offering career and creative inspiration to help you build a purpose-filled life. Pursuing a career with passion, tapping into your creative potential, and building on your best resource: yourself. ABOUT SHELBY GARDNER Shelby Gardner is an author, speaker, and entrepreneur. After seven years in ministry, she stepped away to pursue what God had next, a season she writes about with rare honesty. She is the author of the devotional Lily Pads: A Heart Study (available on Amazon), writes a weekly blog at shelbygardner.com, helps run her husband's real estate brokerage in Sapulpa, and is raising two daughters under the family motto "we do things scared." Website: https://shelbygardner.com CONNECT & GO DEEPER Join Nancy's free community: https://www.skool.com/sharingpassionandpurpose Podcast website: https://sharingpassionandpurpose.com Work with Nancy: https://nancymoore.co