Marriage 911—After the Affair
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Marriage 911! What's your emergency?
HELP! How can I ever get over the pain of my partner’s affair?
Believe it or not, it is possible to recover from a betrayal in your relationship. It may not be easy, but great relationships always revolve around intention.
On today’s Best Of episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m teaching you everything you need to know about affairs—and what you and your partner can do in the aftermath to try and reestablish trust in your relationship.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
(02:18) There are sexual affairs and emotional affairs and they can be equally devastating
(03:29) An emotional affair is when you're sharing intimate hopes and dreams with someone who's not your spouse and your spouse doesn’t know
(06:49) All sympathy tends to go to the person who’s been cheated on, but we’re all just bozos on the bus who make mistakes
(09:40) No one can earn our trust, they can only choose to act in a trustworthy manner
(10:33) Very few things hurt as much as being betrayed, but there is hope
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