SEND Parenting Podcast

Dr. Olivia Kessel

Welcome to the Send Parenting Podcast. I'm your neurodiverse host, Dr Olivia Kessel, and, more importantly, I am a mother to my wonderfully neurodivergent daughter, Alexandra, who really inspired this podcast.

As a veteran in navigating the world of neurodiversity, I have uncovered a wealth of misinformation, alongside many answers and solutions that were never taught to me in medical school or in any of the parenting handbooks.

Each week on this podcast, I will be bringing the experts to your ears to empower you on your parenting crusade.

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Feb 17, 2025 · 50 min
EP 111: Building resilience in adolescent girls with Kim McCabe, founder of Rites for Girls
This episode addresses the critical transition girls face when moving from primary to secondary school, especially concerning the challenges of puberty and neurodiversity. Experts share insights on the importance of community support and the role of mothers in empowering their daughters as they navigate these pivotal years. • Discussion of the transition to secondary school • Insights on neurodiversity and adolescent challenges • Importance of creating supportive communities for girls • Overview of the Girls Journeying Together programme • Role of facilitators in guiding and empowering girls • Strategies for mothers to connect with their daughters • Exploration of mental health statistics among young girls • Emphasis on self-acceptance and resilience in adolescence • Future vision for empowering girls through rites of passage Click to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges. Click here for more information on Rites for Girls Click here for Kim's book, From Daughter to Woman: Parenting girls safely through their teens 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Feb 10, 2025 · 57 min
EP 110: Underdiagnosis of ADHD in girls and women with Rosie Turner
This episode focuses on the underdiagnosis of ADHD in women and girls, exploring the emotional impact this has on their mental health. Rosie Turner shares her journey from misdiagnosis to understanding her ADHD, highlighting the unique challenges faced by women's evolving symptoms and the importance of exercise and self-acceptance. • Examining how ADHD presents differently in girls compared to boys • The emotional toll of misdiagnoses and societal expectations on women • The role of hormonal changes in exacerbating ADHD symptoms • Validating the uniqueness of ADHD as potentially beneficial • The critical importance of movement and lifestyle changes in managing ADHD • Practical strategies to engage with the ADHD experience constructively Click to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges. Reach out to Rosie @ ADHD Untangled Training Link Bali retreat ( one space left) Instagram adhd_untangled rosieadhduntangled ADHD Coaching link 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Feb 3, 2025 · 49 min
EP 109: Supporting teen mental health with Alicia Drummond, Wellbeing Hub for Teens
This episode focuses on the alarming rise in anxiety and other mental health issues among teenagers, especially neurodiverse youth and how parents can provide support. Alicia Drummond shares insights from her Wellbeing Hub initiative, discussing practical strategies for fostering emotional resilience and maintaining open communication. • Discussion on increasing mental health referrals among children and teens • Addressing anxiety in neurodivergent children • Importance of recognizing anxiety as communication • Fostering emotional resilience through competence and responsibility • Strategies for maintaining open lines of communication with teenagers • Tips for parents to model positivity and awareness Join our Send Parenting community to share experiences and support one another on this journey. Visit the show notes for details! Click here for the Wellbeing Hub from Teen Tips Click here to join the SEND Parenting WhatsApp Community 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Jan 27, 2025 · 58 min
EP 108: Navigating family stress and neurodiversity with Lisa Chan
Imagine preparing for a family gathering while navigating the intricate world of parenting a neurodiverse child. The noise, the chaos, and the unsolicited advice often threaten to overwhelm. Through this heartfelt episode, we promise to equip you with strategies to create a compassionate and supportive environment for your family. We are thrilled to welcome Lisa Chan, a dedicated pediatric occupational therapist from Canada, who shares her expertise in helping children with autism, ADHD, and sensory processing challenges. Lisa illuminates the importance of early intervention and emphasizes the need for an integrated approach, where parents are active participants in their child's journey. Parenting neurodiverse children isn't just about managing behaviors; it's about understanding the underlying causes and decoding them effectively. Our discussion touches on the delicate balance of responsibilities, the stress of perceived unfairness among siblings, and the dynamics of communication within partnerships. Discover how to set boundaries with well-meaning but misinformed relatives, maintain confidence in your parenting choices, and foster resilience and independence in your children. We delve into transforming family dynamics by building consistency, setting realistic expectations, and embracing community support. Join us as we unravel the challenges neurodiverse families face and explore practical tips and personal anecdotes to improve family harmony. Learn how to navigate the emotional journey from isolation and guilt to building confidence and understanding. Our conversation with Lisa provides invaluable insights into the "five whys" technique, empowering you to uncover the root causes of behaviors and transform daily routines into cooperative environments. Don't miss the opportunity to become part of our Send Parenting Tribe, a community where we celebrate both challenges and successes in a judgment-free space. Click here for Lisa Chan's website Click here to join the SEND Parenting Community on WhatsApp #neurodiversitypodcast #parentingpodcast #familypodcast #teacherpodcast 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Jan 20, 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
EP 107: Supporting stressed teens with Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker
Unlock the secrets to helping teenagers overcome burnout with insights from Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker, authors of "The Teenager's Guide to Burnout." Our conversation dives deep into the pressures faced by today's teens, examining how academic demands and societal expectations contribute to chronic stress. We question the traditional education system's role in this growing issue, advocating for a shift towards more personalized and compassionate learning environments. Through engaging illustrations and straightforward advice, this episode promises to equip parents and teens with the tools to navigate these challenges effectively. Discover the powerful impact parents can have on their children's stress levels, intentionally or not, and learn strategies to foster a nurturing environment that prioritizes mental well-being over mere academic success. By drawing parallels between toxic work environments and school settings, we challenge you to reconsider the conventional paths to success often touted as the norm. This episode also highlights the importance of understanding teenagers by meeting them where they are and supporting them in finding balance amidst the chaos of modern life. As we explore pathways to recovery from burnout, you'll be introduced to a compassionate four-step process designed to guide teenagers toward a more balanced and fulfilling future. Real-life stories illustrate how alternative routes to success can be both rewarding and enriching, emphasizing personal fulfillment over traditional achievements. Whether you're a parent seeking to support your child or a teenager grappling with the pressures of adolescence, this episode offers invaluable perspectives on redefining success and nurturing happiness. Join us for this enlightening conversation that champions the well-being of young people and empowers them to forge their own paths. The Teenager's Guide to Burnout: Finding the Road to Recovery by Dr Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker Please click here if you would like to join the SEND Parenting Community on WhatsApp 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Jan 13, 2025 · 1 hr 4 min
EP 106: Celebrating inclusivity in theatre with Chicken Shed Theatre
This episode highlights the transformative power of Chicken Shed Theatre, a leader in inclusive theatre arts for 50 years. Susan shares her heartfelt journey as a mother of a neurodiverse child, while Charlotte delves into Chicken Shed's core mission to foster acceptance, understanding, and growth through artistic expression. • The origins and history of Chicken Shed Theatre • Personal stories of transformation through art and community • The importance of peer learning in inclusive settings • Insights for parents on embracing their child's uniqueness • The call for kindness and understanding in diverse environments Prepare to be inspired by stories of empowerment, advocacy, and the transformative power of inclusion. From Emma’s evolution into a confident performer and educator to the unwavering determination of her family, each tale underscores how perseverance and community support can break down barriers. As Charlotte and Susan reflect on the past and future of Chicken Shed, listeners are invited to join a movement that champions understanding and compassion through the universal language of the arts. Click here for a link to Chicken Shed Click here to join the SEND Parenting Private community on WhatsApp 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Jan 6, 2025 · 56 min
EP 105: Special Needs Education with Kelly Jarvis and Chrissa Wadlow
What if you could transform the education system for neurodiverse children? Kelly Jarvis and Chrissa Wadlow from Sunshine Support are revolutionizing how we support neurodivergent children in schools. Kelly’s journey as an educator breathing new life into special educational needs and Chrissa’s relentless advocacy for her daughter form a compelling narrative of collaboration against systemic challenges. Together, they reveal their pioneering approaches that empower both families and educators in a landscape often fraught with obstacles. Listeners will gain invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of Education, Health, and Care Plans (EHCPs) and the Individual Development Plan (IDP) system in Wales. These documents hold the key to ensuring the well-being of children with special educational needs, yet they come with their own set of challenges. Our new Welsh division is here to demystify these processes, providing parents with tools to assert their rights and advocate effectively for their children. We discuss the urgent need for transparency and accountability in local authorities, shining a light on the critical role of informed advocacy. This episode also addresses the pressing issue of underfunding in special education and its impact on neurodivergent children, particularly those with autism and ADHD. From the financial strain of seeking appropriate educational environments to the systemic inefficiencies that misplace resources, we underscore the importance of collaboration and modernization in educational approaches. Discover how building supportive communities, like our private Send Parenting WhatsApp group, can foster positive change and offer much-needed solidarity for families navigating these challenges. Join the conversation as we advocate for a reimagined education system that truly supports every child's learning journey. Join SEND Parenting Community Click here for Sunshine Support 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Dec 30, 2024 · 33 min
EP 104: Raising Resilient Kids with Dr. Maryhan
Dr Maryhan, a clinical psychologist and esteemed fellow podcaster, joins us to celebrate the 100th episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast. Have you ever wondered how to raise neurodiverse children within the UK education system without losing your mind? This milestone episode offers a treasure trove of insights as Dr. Maryhan shares wisdom from her upcoming book, "How Not to Screw Up Your Kids." We tackle the intricate dance of parenting in a world where children are moulded by influences beyond our control, aiming to bolster resilience through the power of community support. Traditional discipline methods often fail to equip children for real-world challenges. We promise a fresh perspective on parenting, focusing on replacing punitive measures with natural consequences. Learn how this approach fosters independent decision-making while nurturing a cooperative family environment. Dr Maryhan and I delve into practical examples, like making a bed, to illustrate how meaningful, value-aligned consequences can help cultivate responsibility in our children, turning their natural curiosity into a powerful tool for growth. Parenting is undoubtedly a tough journey, but it's easier with self-care and a strong community. We explore personal strategies for managing stress, from the cathartic power of journaling to the refreshing benefits of outdoor activities. The "bucket" metaphor emerges as a shared language to gauge emotional capacity, emphasising the beauty in messy, imperfect parenting. This episode is a heartfelt nod to our collective journey with our supportive tribe, reminding us that every small victory is a stepping stone toward raising resilient, confident individuals. Tune in to discover how these insights can transform your parenting journey. Click here to contact Dr Maryhan 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Dec 23, 2024 · 33 min
EP 103: Dealing With Conflict At Home with Sarah Fisher
Ever wondered how to transform your parenting approach to better support neurodivergent children? Sarah Fisher, an adoptive mom and author of "Connective Parenting," joins us for our milestone 100th episode to share her insightful experiences. Sarah opens up about her journey with her son, revealing the remarkable impact of Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) techniques in managing challenging behaviors. Together, we unpack the importance of shifting our focus as parents from correcting our children's behaviors to understanding our own reactions, paving the way for more harmonious family dynamics. Experience the power of parenting through connection and understanding as we explore how emotional regulation can lead to a calmer home environment. From personal stories of managing stress during menopause to handling holiday-induced challenges with neurodiverse children, this episode is packed with strategies for both parents and children to thrive. We emphasize the significance of reconnecting with our kids after conflicts, teaching them resilience and emotional management through lived experiences rather than mere words. Our conversation touches on the evolving landscape of modern parenting, where emotional awareness takes center stage. Insights from our recent Connective Parenting conference underscore the benefits of a child-paced approach, allowing us to meet our children where they are and support their unique needs. We also delve into the challenges of gaining support from family and friends unfamiliar with this approach, sharing success stories that prove change is possible. Celebrate with us as we reflect on this journey and look forward to future discussions that promise continued growth and shared understanding within our Send Parenting community. Click here to connect with Sarah Fisher 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Dec 16, 2024 · 51 min
EP 102: Disengaged In School with Dr. Chris Bagley
What if our education system could truly embrace individuality and foster genuine growth for every child? Join us for our 100th episode of the Send Parenting Podcast, featuring the astute Dr. Chris Bagley, who argues for revolutionary changes in how we perceive and implement education. Dr. Bagley, a educational psychologist and advocate for neurodiverse children, sheds light on the limitations of traditional schooling methods and the rise of home education as a viable alternative. Together, we unravel ways to tap into each child's unique potential, offering a fresh perspective on educational reform that champions inclusivity and the joy of learning. In this landmark episode, we tackle the pressing issues faced by young learners navigating an education system that often shifts focus from intrinsic motivation to extrinsic pressures. Dr. Bagley dives deep into the consequences of this shift, such as marginalization and exclusion, urging for a reevaluation of what belonging and competence should look like in schools. We explore the empowering potential of alternative learning communities and democratic approaches, which prioritize student agency and redefine success beyond conventional metrics. It's a conversation that promises to challenge your views on what education should achieve. With Dr. Bagley's insights, we explore the crucial role of consent and self-determination in education, advocating for systems that engage students on their terms. The pioneering work of States of Mind is highlighted as a beacon of hope, demonstrating the transformative impact of co-constructed learning experiences. This episode makes a compelling case for education systems that nurture a child’s autonomy and prepare them for the world they will inherit, sparking a necessary conversation about reimagining what it means to educate and empower the next generation. Click here for Dr Chris Bagley Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other. 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Dec 9, 2024 · 33 min
EP 101: Nutrition for Neurodivergent Children with Lucinda Miller
Episode 101 Unlock the secrets to nurturing neurodivergent minds with the wisdom of Lucinda Miller, founder and clinical lead of NatureDoc, as we celebrate our monumental 100th episode. Lucinda returns to discuss her groundbreaking book, "Brain Brilliance," a nutritional guide tailored for neurodivergent individuals. From her beloved Cherry Sleepy Smoothie to ingenious recipes like margarita pizza waffles, Lucinda shares how nutritious meals can transform emotional regulation, anxiety, and sleep for children with conditions like ADHD, autism, and more. Discover the profound link between gut health and brain function, and the role of the gut microbiome in shaping mood, memory, and behavior. Lucinda offers practical strategies for enhancing gut health without invasive tests, emphasizing the importance of dietary diversity, fermented foods, and probiotics. By fostering openness to new foods, these approaches aim to alleviate stress and anxiety in neurodivergent children, nurturing a curious palate and a resilient mind. Lastly, we tackle the critical oversight in medical education regarding nutrition, shining a light on how this gap affects patient care. Lucinda and I discuss the pivotal role nutritionists play in bridging this divide, offering insights and support to families navigating neurodiversity. Join our SEND Parenting Tribe's private WhatsApp community for support, shared experiences, and celebrating each other's journey through the complex world of neurodiversity. Click here for Lucinda Miller Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other. 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 27, 2024 · 5 min
EP 100: RSVP to the Celebration event 🥳
Episode 100 week long free event RSVP now to be part of this transformative event. What if there were ways to make the complex journey of parenting neurodiverse children a bit smoother? Join us for a week-long celebration of our 100th episode milestone on the Send Parenting Podcast, where we're offering just that. Dr Olivia Kessel, inspired by her own journey as a parent to a neurodivergent daughter, welcomes a stellar lineup of experts ready to share insights and strategies tailored for the SEND community. Dr. Lucinda Miller kicks things off with her invaluable expertise on the intersection of nutrition and neurodiversity, gleaned from her latest book, "Brain Brilliance." Dr. Chris Bagley follows with his fresh perspectives on re-engaging with education, promising to reignite your passion for learning alongside your children. As the week progresses, Sarah Fisher will guide us through the art of handling home conflicts using nonviolent resistance techniques. At the same time, Dr. Marianne reveals top parenting tips from her popular podcast, "How Not to Screw Up Your Kids." Finally, Chrissa Wadlow and Kelly Jarvis from the Sunshine Support Group wrap up the celebration by equipping you with essential strategies for navigating SEND in education. Although pre-recorded, each session includes live chats, offering a unique opportunity to interact with me and our esteemed guests and connect with fellow parents. Don’t miss this chance to celebrate, learn, and empower yourself with practical tools and communal support. RSVP now to be part of this transformative event. Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other. 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 25, 2024 · 51 min
EP 99: Supporting Neurodiverse Children with Amanda Ashy
Episode 99 Amanda Ashy's inspiring journey from television producer to a champion for neurodiverse children offers a unique perspective on parenting. Join us as Amanda, a clinical nutritionist, mindfulness expert, and yoga teacher, shares how she transformed her life and career to focus on family regulation, connection, and resilience. Get ready to uncover the profound impact of mindfulness and somatics in nurturing behaviour patterns and resilience, as Amanda highlights the importance of understanding the whole body, including emotions and nutrition, for achieving well-being. This episode navigates the emotional complexities faced by neurodivergent children and the phenomenon of masking in school settings. Amanda provides insights into how these challenges often manifest at home, offering practical tools to decode children's behaviour and map out their unique experiences. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, we explore the evolution of parenting styles and how connecting with oneself can foster a loving environment for children. Amanda introduces the Parent Reset Program, a transformative initiative guiding parents from fear-based to love-based discipline to nurture deep connections and harmonious relationships. As we journey through the multifaceted world of parenting, discover empowering strategies for self-care and boundary-setting. Learn how to maintain calm during challenging conversations and the art of co-regulation. Amanda emphasises the significance of fostering an environment where neurodiverse children can thrive, offering tips on sensory management, dietary adjustments, and soothing routines. We conclude with a heartfelt call to choose love over fear, celebrate the power of community and invite listeners to join our private Send Parenting WhatsApp community for support and shared wisdom. Amanda Ashy Instagram Link Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other. 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 20, 2024 · 7 min
100th Episode Celebration Event Announcement! 🎉
Click here for a link to sign up for the event. Hello, Neuro Nurturers, I am beyond excited to share this incredible milestone with you—the 100th episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast!🎙 This journey has been one of connection, learning, and empowerment, and I could not have done it without you. Your stories, your resilience, and your love for your children have been the heart of everything we do here. To celebrate, we have planned something truly special—a week-long event series featuring some of the podcast's most beloved guests. These amazing experts and advocates are returning to share what they have been working on since we last spoke, all with the goal of supporting and uplifting neurodiverse families like yours. Signing up is quick and easy. Just click the link below to secure your spot for one, two, or all of the sessions. These events are pre-recorded but include a live chat, so you can ask questions, share insights, and connect with me, our guests, and other parents throughout. Based on feedback from our SEND Parenting Community, we have included a mix of evening and lunchtime sessions to suit your schedules. Whether you prefer to join us after the kids are in bed or during your lunch break, we have got you covered. 🗓 Event Schedule: Monday, 2nd December, 8 PM: Nutrition and Neurodiversity with Dr. Lucinda Miller Tuesday, 3rd December, 12 PM: Disengaged with Education with Dr. Chris Bagley Wednesday, 4th December, 8 PM: Dealing with Conflict at Home with Sarah Fischer Thursday, 5th December, 8 PM: How Not to Screw Up Your Kids with Dr. Maryhan Friday, 6th December, 12 PM: Navigate SEND in Education with Chrissa Wadlow and Kelly Jarvis Here is what makes this celebration so special: Real-Time Connection: During each event, you can join the live chat to ask questions, share your thoughts, or simply connect with other parents who truly understand. Actionable Insights: Every guest will bring fresh perspectives and practical tips that you can use to make life easier and more meaningful for you and your family. Community Celebration: This is not just a celebration of the podcast but a celebration of you—our incredible community of warriors who advocate fiercely for your children and their unique needs. This week is about honouring how far we have come together while looking ahead to all the possibilities that await. I cannot wait to celebrate this special moment with all of you. So, please mark your calendars, RSVP for the events, and get ready to connect, learn, and celebrate with us. RSVP Here Thank you for being part of this journey. You have made the SEND Parenting Podcast what it is today—a safe, empowering space for parents navigating the neurodiverse parenting journey. See you there! Warmly, Dr. Olivia 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 18, 2024 · 59 min
Ep 98: Rethinking Language Development with Cathy Schilling
Episode 98 Unlock the secrets of gestalt language processing as we sit down with Kathy Schilling, a leading speech and language therapist and the visionary behind the Speech Den. Cathy unravels the intricacies of this unique form of communication, especially prevalent among neurodiverse children, and how it contrasts with traditional language development. Dive into the world of echolalia, where children’s repeated phrases hold profound meaning, serving as more than just mimicry. We explore the pioneering works of Anne Peters and Dr. Barry Prizant, along with Marge Blanc's influential study, which laid the groundwork for the natural language acquisition framework. Discover how to become an astute detective in recognising and supporting gestalt language processors (GLPs). Cathy and I shed light on identifying early signs like echolalia, where children's echoed phrases from media and interactions are meaningful communicative attempts. We emphasise the role of parents in interpreting these signals, which sometimes include non-verbal cues like replaying media clips. Learn strategies to nurture these unique communication styles, enhancing understanding neurodiverse children’s distinct language paths. This episode is a guide to fostering a supportive learning environment tailored to the individual needs of GLPs. Cathy shares stories and practical insights on the significance of intrinsic motivation, challenging traditional literacy methods, and embracing child-led learning. Hear compelling narratives that illustrate how understanding gestalt thinking can transform educational approaches, especially in the face of cognitive disruptions. We wrap up with actionable advice for parents who suspect their child might be a GLP, stressing the importance of observation, patience, and professional consultation in supporting their unique communicative journey. Key Recommendations and Resources Books Natural Language Acquisition on the Autism Spectrum: The Journey from Echolalia to Self-Generated Language by Marge Blanc (available soon at the Speech Den). Additional handouts and resources on GLP at Natural Communication Center. Webinars and Courses Free one-hour webinar by Alexandria Zakos on GLP through Meaningful Speech. Parent and professional training programs offered by Cathy’s team at the Speech Den. Social Media and Blogs Follow these experts for strategies, insights, and affirming practices: Alexandria Zakos (@MeaningfulSpeech) Rachel Dorsey, SLP (@RachelDorseySLP) Crescendo Communication (@CrescendoComm) Happy Chatters (Autism-specific after-school support in London) Additional Insights Cathy recommends checking out Learn Play Thrive’s podcast episode featuring Alexandria Zakos on GLPs. Occupational Therapy by Kelsey Olds focuses on regulation and sensory-based play. Activities like music therapy and sensory engagement can help children regulate and communicate effectively. For Further Exploration Visit The Speech Den for Cathy’s courses and resources. Explore Instagram for practical daily tips from experts like @HappyChatters and @MeaningfulSpeech. Investigate your child’s unique sensory preferences and play preferences to better support their communication. Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.< 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 11, 2024 · 48 min
EP 97: Effective Communication and Emotional Regulation with Dr. Gilly Kahn
Episode 97 Unlock the secrets of effective communication in neurodiverse families with invaluable insights from Dr. Kahn, a clinical psychologist and ADHD advocate. Discover how emotional regulation plays a pivotal role in shaping interactions between parents and children, and even between partners themselves. Dr. Kahn shares her personal journey with ADHD, diagnosed at the age of 33, and provides practical strategies for navigating familial tensions, particularly when one parent is hesitant about seeking an ADHD evaluation for their child. Navigate the complex world of parenting within neurodiverse families and learn how to tackle the unique challenges that come with it. From understanding the dynamics when both or just one parent is neurodivergent, to the hurdles faced by single parents, particularly mothers, in advocating for their children, our conversation offers a deep dive into these intricacies. We also explore how neurodivergent individuals often find a more forgiving and supportive environment among each other, fostering stronger family bonds. Gain insights into managing emotional dysregulation with effective strategies, such as the use of visual aids and rewards in therapy, and uncover the misunderstood power of extrinsic motivation. Dr. Kahn discusses the unique challenges of emotional regulation for children and adolescents with ADHD and autism, advocating for a compassionate approach that understands the root causes of emotional outbursts. Finally, we explore the profound impact of hormonal changes on neurodiversity, particularly in women experiencing menopause or perimenopause, emphasising the importance of compassion and understanding within family dynamics. Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other. Click here for more Dr Gilly Kahn 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Nov 4, 2024 · 41 min
EP 96: Empowering Neurodivergent Artists: Accessibility and Inclusivity with Stephen Bailey
Episode 96 Award-winning neurodiverse director and producer Stephen Bailey joins us to share his compelling journey from history and law to the vibrant world of theater. Diagnosed with neurodivergence in his mid-20s, Stephen found his true calling in directing, creating powerful productions like "The Real Imagined History of the Elephant Man." As the artistic lead at Vital Exposure, a disabled-led theater company, he is committed to pushing the boundaries of accessibility and inclusivity in the arts, offering a fresh perspective on how neurodivergent individuals can thrive creatively. Navigating the complexities of professional environments, especially in the arts, Stephen candidly discusses the challenges of advocating for access accommodations and the emotional labor of self-advocacy. He shares insightful strategies for adapting communication in job applications and interviews, highlighting the importance of access riders and reasonable adjustments. By addressing the evolving nature of recruitment processes and emphasizing the transformative power of access support, Stephen sheds light on fostering empowering environments for neurodivergent individuals in the arts sector. Immerse yourself in a conversation that celebrates the richness of neurodiversity and explores innovative approaches like dual language captioning and the use of tech to enhance accessible theater. Stephen's insights offer hope and inspiration, drawing attention to the growing recognition of neurodiversity and disabilities and the vital role that art plays in societal change. From empowering young audiences with accessible performances to championing inclusive narratives, this episode promises to broaden your understanding of inclusivity in the arts and beyond. Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either click here or send a message to +447856915105 and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other. Click here for Vital Xposure Click here for the upcoming production Blackbird Hour by Babirye Bukilwa 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Oct 14, 2024 · 57 min
EP 95: Understand Your Genetics & Improve Your Nutrition with Dr. Jill Crowfoot of Renude Health
Episode 95 What if you could unlock the secrets of your DNA to enhance the well-being of your neurodiverse child? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Jill Crowfoot a seasoned GP and founder of Renude Health, as she shares her groundbreaking insights on personalized nutrition and genetic testing. She explains how understanding your genetic makeup can guide you in making tailored nutritional and lifestyle choices, particularly for neurodiverse children. We discuss the limitations of traditional medicine that often focus on symptoms rather than root causes, and how this innovative approach can shift the focus from treating illness to fostering proactive wellness. Explore with us the complex relationship between hormones, genetics, and personalized nutrition. Dr. Crowfoot unravels the intricate interplay between sex hormones and nervous system hormones, and the impact of hormonal imbalances on neurodiverse individuals. Through fascinating analogies and expert insights, she emphasizes the necessity of personalized nutrition and genetic analysis in meeting unique biochemical needs. Our discussion delves into the context-dependent nature of certain genes and the importance of professional guidance to navigate this complex landscape, revealing how genetics can inform more effective health interventions. Dr. Crowfoot's passion for women's health and personal experiences as a mother illuminate the benefits of integrating genetics with lifestyle changes for conditions like ADHD and perimenopause. By examining the influence of lifestyle on gene expression, we underscore the importance of a holistic approach that incorporates nutrition, lifestyle, and hormonal balance. This episode challenges the traditional medical model and advocates for a more comprehensive understanding of health, moving beyond prescriptions to embrace a more informed and personalized approach to wellness. Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either click here or send a message to +447856915105 and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other. Click here for RENUDE Health 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Oct 7, 2024 · 1 hr 16 min
EP 94: Challenging Traditional Parenting with Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker
Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either Click Here or send a message to 07856 915 105 and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other. What if traditional parenting methods are doing more harm than good? Join us as we welcome Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker, co-authors of the enlightening new book "When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse," to challenge popular parenting wisdom. This episode promises a fresh perspective on raising neurodivergent children and the liberation that comes from understanding each child's unique needs. Naomi and Eliza share their personal journeys, illustrating how low demand parenting can transform pressure-filled homes into nurturing environments. We unravel the concept of low demand parenting, emphasizing the importance of respecting a child's stress limits and sensitivities. Naomi and Eliza argue that good parenting cannot be judged solely by a child's behavior, especially when dealing with neurodivergence. By embracing empathy over control, parents can foster deeper connections and encourage true growth. We also delve into the science behind the genetic and environmental factors that shape our children, urging parents to let go of societal expectations and focus on their child's individual path. Screen time often gets a bad rap, but this episode reimagines it as a tool for connection rather than isolation. Learn how to engage with your children's digital lives constructively, turning screen time into meaningful moments. We tackle the pervasive fears parents have about their children's futures, discussing the importance of being present and supportive through their unique journeys. Finally, Naomi and Eliza highlight the necessity of authenticity and self-care in parenting, ensuring that we're not only meeting our kids' needs but also nurturing our well-being. Click here to order When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse before October 9th to get a free ticket for a live webinar based on their book scheduled for October 9th @7:30-9:30. You can also buy tickets for this webinar as usual. Click here for link to sign up for Live Webinar 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...
Sep 30, 2024 · 57 min
EP 93: AI and Assistive Tech: A New Era in Education with Brian Friedlander
Episode 93 Discover how assistive technology is revolutionizing education for neurodiverse children with our special guest, Brian Friedlander. From his dual expertise as a school psychologist and assistive technology consultant, Brian shares his incredible journey and the transformative tools he's encountered along the way. Learn about the progression from rudimentary assistive devices to the cutting-edge technologies now available, and hear real-life stories of how these innovations are changing the educational landscape for students with dyslexia, dysgraphia, and other learning differences. Immerse yourself in the fascinating world of voice technology and its impact on education. We discuss the game-changing capabilities of tools like Google Docs, Google Classroom, and Microsoft’s immersive reader, which are helping neurodiverse students express their creativity despite fine motor challenges. Gain practical tips on how to effectively incorporate voice technology in the classroom, and understand the pivotal role teachers play in guiding students through the cognitive demands of voice-assisted writing. The future of learning is here, and it's more accessible than ever. Lastly, we navigate the complex landscape of educational support systems in the US and UK, with a particular focus on the revolutionary potential of AI. Brian highlights essential testing accommodations and shares invaluable insights on digital tools that assist high school and college students in organizing their materials. Discover how AI-powered resources like Magic School AI and Diffit AI can tailor learning experiences to meet individual needs, making education more inclusive and effective. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that underscores the importance of parental advocacy in securing the best possible educational outcomes for their children. Click here for a list of all the AI and Technology that Brian talked about in this episode. Brians Blof Assistivetek 📚 New Book — Out Now 👉 Order your copy Beyond the Label: Empowering Parents of ADHD Girls A powerful blend of science and lived experience to help you truly understand and support your daughter. 💬 Connect with Us 🌱 Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a free, safe, welcoming space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand the realities of neurodiverse family life. ⚡ Ready to go deeper? Become part of the ADHD Warrior Mum’s Membership — a paid membership space with group coaching with Dr Olivia, access to masterclasses with neurodiverse experts, monthly self-care and real connection. You don't have to navigate this journey alone. 📩 Contact Me If you wou...