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  • #411
    Monday · 32 min

    Just Be Wrong, It's Okay (#526)

    Just Be Wrong, It’s OK #526 Comedian S. Anthony Thomas tells stories about people who get so caught up in anger that they keep looking for a fight, even after they learn they were wrong. From a jealous boyfriend at a sports bar to two drivers who turn a traffic dispute into a police stop, the takeaway is simple pause, reassess, and don’t let pride make the situation worse. In this episode Thomas recounts how a friendly conversation with a fan was mistaken for a romantic advance, nearly sparking a fight. A misunderstanding about comedy club tickets turns into a lesson in how quickly anger can outlast the facts. He reflects on accusations in a relationship and the difficulty some people have admitting they were wrong. Stories of bar fights show how people can become determined to fight someone, even when the original reason has disappeared. Thomas explains why choosing not to fight can be a better solution than proving a point physically. A hothead challenges a group of experienced fighters, with consequences that could have been avoided by asking a calm question. A road-rage story shows how one driver’s reckless move and another driver’s decision to follow escalate into a fight in front of police. Thomas’s advice when you realize you’re wrong, let the anger go before it leads to a worse decision. Timestamps 00:00 - The story of a fan mistaken for a flirtation 03:06 - A jealous boyfriend storms over 06:11 - The comedy tickets clear up the misunderstanding 08:04 - When proof doesn’t end an accusation 10:43 - The search for a fight continues 12:24 - How people forget why they were fighting 15:02 - Why Thomas sees fighting as a failure to find a better solution 18:04 - The harassed man’s friends reveal a crucial clue 21:50 - A challenge to fight outside 23:21 - The confrontation and its consequences 25:14 - How one calm question could have changed the night 27:39 - From honking to road rage 30:07 - The cost of letting anger take over

  • #410
    October 26 · 28 min

    Don’t Put All Your Eggs in One Basket - Forever (#525)

    # The Value of Eggs in One Basket: A Life Lesson > Exploring the balance between commitment and caution in life choices. It’s easy to be told not to put all your eggs in one basket, but what if the truth is more nuanced? In a recent conversation, S Anthony Thomas reflects on this age-old adage and how sometimes, the best approach is to embrace focused commitment. ## The Perils of Overexposure S Anthony shares a cautionary tale from his past about a friend's relationship that took a sharp turn for the worse when secrets were spilled during a breakup. > "Sometimes you got to share everything with everybody. Just most stuff. Stuff that's pertinent to the relationship. Stuff that this person needs to know." > This incident illustrates the risks of revealing too much to one person, especially when that relationship is put under stress. **Keeping certain things to yourself can be a form of protection.** ## Commit to Your Goals Yet, there are times when you should put all your eggs in one basket, especially when you’re pursuing significant goals. S Anthony recalls a transformative period in his life when he immersed himself in fitness and health. > "I dived into the lifestyle with these folks because I like the way they looked. And I didn’t look like that. Then all of a sudden I looked like them." > This commitment led to a remarkable physical transformation, but it also highlights a crucial point: **the importance of building your own resilience and knowledge.** ## The Risks of Dependency As friendships evolved and S Anthony found himself alone, he realized that he had put all his fitness success in the hands of others. When those friends moved on, so did his motivation. > "I put all my eggs in the basket of their knowledge and their encouragement. And guess what happened?" > This emphasizes the importance of not becoming overly dependent on others. A well-rounded approach involves **diversifying your support systems** while still pursuing your passions wholeheartedly. ## Reflections on Balance S Anthony encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with relationships and commitments. Have you ever lost touch with friends or neglected personal growth for the sake of a relationship? > "You get married and all of a sudden you lose your friends. Right?" > This observation serves as a reminder that while it’s essential to invest in relationships, it’s equally vital to maintain your individuality and connections outside of them. In the end, whether it’s in relationships, fitness, or career goals, **finding a balance between commitment and caution is key.** Embrace the power of focused efforts while safeguarding your personal journey. For a deeper dive into these insights and more, check out the full episode.

  • #409
    October 19 · 30 min

    Rich People And Poor People Share THIS (#524)

    # The Surprising Commonalities Between Rich and Poor > Exploring the emotional and relational parallels across economic divides. In a fascinating dive into the shared experiences of wealthy and struggling individuals, we uncover how both sides of the financial spectrum grapple with similar emotions and desires. ## The Envy Exchange S. shares his insights from observing both rich and poor lives, revealing a curious paradox. When you're broke, you often look up at the wealthy, dreaming of what you would do with their money. Conversely, the rich often envy the connections and genuine relationships that can accompany a simpler life, devoid of financial strings. "Rich people are looking at us, realizing that usually if somebody likes us, they actually like us because we ain't got any money to give them." ## Boredom: A Universal Struggle Both groups also face the universal enemy of boredom. S. delves into the complexities of relationships, noting how even love can become mundane. "The nicer they were, the more you got suspicious. Why are they being so nice?" This sentiment resonates across social classes, illustrating how we can sometimes take affection for granted. ## The Danger of Entitlement As relationships develop, there's a risk of entitlement creeping in. S. vividly illustrates this point: "They get used to it. And then it gets to the point where they feel entitled to it." This shift often leads to dissatisfaction and conflict, regardless of financial status. ## The Lure of Newness Another commonality is the allure of new relationships, where excitement can overshadow long-term connections. S. describes how the thrill of a new partner can be intoxicating, leading individuals to overlook the stability they once valued. "Boredom could be a dangerous thing, man." ## Reflections on Wealth Shifting focus back to the wealthy, S. reflects on their own struggles, emphasizing that financial success doesn't shield one from emotional turmoil. Even those with millions can feel a void, longing for genuine relationships amidst their riches. "It's gotta be exciting for them... but at what cost?" In conclusion, whether rich or poor, we share a tapestry of emotions and experiences that bind us. The longing for genuine connection, the dangers of boredom, and the complexities of relationships are not confined to any economic class. As you reflect on these insights, consider how we can foster genuine connections in our own lives, transcending financial divides. For a deeper dive into this thought-provoking discussion, listen to the full episode!

  • #408
    October 12 · 34 min

    The Pushtheirluckables (#523)

    # Navigating the Push Their Luckables in Your Life > How to set boundaries with those who overstay their welcome. There's a unique group of people that many of us encounter throughout our lives, and I like to call them the **Push Their Luckables**. These are the individuals who, despite being told no or given clear signals that their presence is unwelcome, continue to push boundaries. ## The Overstaying Neighbor Imagine this scenario: I’m hanging out with a friend when an overly enthusiastic neighbor starts showing up daily. At first, it’s manageable. You make small talk, share a laugh, but soon it becomes too much. > "Every day for the first week, I'm hanging out with my boy, and he looks at me like, 'What the heck is this?'" Before you know it, the neighbor is showing up six days a week, interrupting work and personal time. My friend's patience is tested as he tries to work through the chaos of this unexpected social commitment. ## Borrowing Sugar: A Metaphor for Boundaries In my own experience, I had a neighbor who was always borrowing a cup of sugar. Initially, it seemed harmless. But as time went on, I realized that he expected me to provide sugar every time he ran out, effectively making my kitchen a secondary grocery store. > "To him, I was sugar." This constant borrowing blurred the lines of our relationship and left me feeling like the bad guy when I had to say no. The moment I set a boundary, his demeanor shifted — he no longer greeted me with a smile. ## The Guilt Factor Setting boundaries often comes with feelings of guilt. Telling someone they can’t come over every day or that you won’t lend them what they can easily acquire themselves is uncomfortable. My friend faced this when he had to confront his neighbor. > "You come here five days a week... and even though I like having you, I’m not getting any work done." It’s a tough conversation, one that could lead to the other person feeling betrayed or hurt. But sometimes, we must prioritize our peace and productivity over someone else's feelings, even if that means being perceived as the ‘bad guy.’ ## Finding Resolution In the end, my friend learned that it's okay to assert his needs. He articulated his feelings clearly, stating that while he enjoyed their interactions, they needed to find a balance. > "We have a talk in the hallway relationship. If we ever become really close friends, then that's different." Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. It’s not just about saying no; it’s about respecting your own time and space while navigating the feelings of others. As you go about your day, consider the Push Their Luckables in your life. Are there boundaries you need to establish? How can you communicate your needs without guilt? Remember, it's okay to prioritize your well-being. --- This conversation resonates deeply in today’s fast-paced world. If you want to dive deeper into these themes, consider checking out the full episode.

  • #407
    October 5 · 31 min

    S Anthony Is a weirdo (#522)

    S. Anthony Thomas opens up about his lifelong journey of embracing his weirdness. From childhood experiences to stand-up comedy, he reflects on how being different shaped his identity. The Early Years: A Proud Weirdo S. Anthony admits, "I am a huge weirdo and I'm not ashamed of it." He recalls how his love for reading the encyclopedia for fun made him an easy target in school. While other kids struggled with homework, he breezed through, leading to confrontations with teachers who couldn't understand how someone could be so knowledgeable at such a young age. "Adults don't like to be corrected, especially by kids." This quote highlights the disconnect between youthful curiosity and adult expectations. The Misunderstood Genius His experiences in school were often marred by bullying, but they also laid the groundwork for his future. S. Anthony shares a vivid memory of dissecting a frog in science class, where his prior knowledge made him appear suspicious to teachers and classmates. "How did you dissect and label that frog's parts so fast?" This question encapsulates the challenges he faced, navigating a world that often mistook intelligence for cheating. Finding Community in Comedy At the age of 17, S. Anthony found solace in the world of stand-up comedy, surrounded by a diverse group of friends. He describes how performing brought out his quirky side, and how his youthful awkwardness often turned date nights into comedic acts. "You're turning into Captain Performer... awkward and wacky to impress the older women." His reflections reveal the struggle of fitting in while staying true to oneself. Lessons from Life As he reminisces about moments that felt embarrassing or out of place, S. Anthony invites listeners to embrace their own weirdness. He emphasizes that being different is not something to hide but rather something to celebrate. In the end, S. Anthony reminds us all that our quirks and differences make us who we are, and it's time to embrace our inner weirdos.

  • #406
    September 28 · 21 min

    Mr. Reliable vs Mr. Flake (#521)

    These stories remind us of the delicate balance between expectations and reality. Whether it’s a business or a friend, how we perceive reliability can shape our experiences profoundly. The next time you encounter a situation where expectations aren't met, consider how past reliability influences your feelings. To hear more about these experiences and insights, check out the full episode!

  • #405
    September 21 · 29 min

    Don't Babysit FOOLS (#520)

    # Don't Babysit Fools > Navigating friendships and financial boundaries with care. In the latest episode, S. Anthony Thomas dives deep into a crucial life lesson: **don’t babysit fools**. He shares compelling stories that highlight the perils of being too nice, especially when money is involved. ## The Danger of Enabling Bad Behavior S. Anthony reflects on his own life choices, proudly stating, "I've never cheated on a girlfriend... I've never stolen anything." However, he warns that having a clean record can sometimes lead to friends expecting more from you—like lending money under dubious circumstances. "If you're known among your friends as the one who doesn’t do dumb stuff, they’ll start to lean on you more, and that can lead to situations where you inevitably have to step in and stop them from making poor choices," he explains. ## A Cautionary Tale One story stands out: a friend who continually lent money to a mutual acquaintance, only to see it returned late or not at all. S. Anthony urges listeners to recognize when helping becomes enabling. > "If lending money doesn’t change their life, maybe it’s time to say ‘no.’" He recounts a troubling incident where his friend put him in the uncomfortable position of being a collection agency for a debt he wasn’t even responsible for. "I didn’t lend the money!" he exclaims, illustrating how quickly boundaries can blur in friendships. ## Setting Boundaries Over time, S. Anthony has learned to set clear boundaries with his friends. He humorously notes how he trained those around him to respect his space during NFL Sundays: "Everybody has been trained. When it’s football Sunday, leave S. Anthony alone." This brings a powerful reminder: you have to communicate your limits. If you let people know what you will and won’t tolerate, it can save you from awkward situations later. ### Final Thoughts The episode serves as a reminder to evaluate your friendships and the expectations tied to them. It’s not just about lending money; it’s about understanding the dynamics of your relationships. As S. Anthony puts it, "You have to train people around you what not to do to you." For more insights and personal anecdotes, be sure to tune in to the full episode.

  • #401
    August 17 · 32 min

    Salt, Pepper, Ketchup, And Good Good Lovin' (#519)

    🎤 Ever feel like your favorite restaurant is taking you for granted? Tag someone who knows that feeling! We all have that one spot we love—where the food is great, and the people know us. But what happens when they start messing up our orders? Just like in relationships, we sometimes take things for granted. When you order something a certain way, and it’s not delivered as expected, it stings. Just like missing relish on a sandwich can ruin the experience! Let’s talk about how expectations in relationships can shift over time. Just like that sandwich, sometimes you need to bring your own ‘relish’ to keep things flavorful. What’s your experience with expectations in relationships? Let’s dive deeper into this topic!

  • #400
    August 11 · 33 min

    Just Because Someone is CLOSE To You Doesn't Mean They're Close To YOU (#518)

    🌟 Just because someone is close to you doesn't mean they truly care. Ever felt like your friends or family aren't cheering for your success? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! 💬 In life, we often mistake proximity for loyalty. I remember thinking my comedy friends were supportive, but when it came to opportunities, many were silent. Why? Jealousy can lurk in the shadows, even among those we trust. This isn't just about friendships; it's applicable to romantic relationships too. Sometimes, people are drawn to what you have rather than who you are. Think about it! Are they close to you, or just close to what you bring? It’s essential to recognize the difference. Surround yourself with those who genuinely uplift you. Remember, just because someone is close to you doesn’t mean they’re close to you. What’s your experience with this? Let’s talk about it!

  • #399
    August 3 · 20 min

    Good People, Bad Moments (#517)

    Ever trusted someone completely, only to find out they have a hidden side? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! I’ve seen good people do surprising things. Like the guy at my office who everyone trusted with petty cash. He started by pocketing small amounts, thinking no one would notice. But once he got greedy, it spiraled out of control. You’d never guess he’d risk it all for a few bucks—but it happens. Everyone has a ‘bad spot.’ What’s yours?

  • #398
    July 9 · 18 min

    Back Of The Refrigerator People (#516)

    Many of us have experienced that moment of cleaning out the fridge, discovering old food that's gone bad. You might find a half-eaten sandwich or a juice box that seems to have been there since ancient times. You know you won't eat it again, yet it remains in your fridge, taking up space. This is a reflection of a deeper issue: why do we hold onto things we know we don’t want or need?

  • #396
    April 20 · 1 hr 59 min

    Classics From The Vault

    Ever felt like you’ve broken up with something you love without even realizing it? Here’s my story about stand-up comedy and rediscovery. Tag someone who needs to hear this! I’ve been away from the mic for a while, and it’s wild how easily we adapt to life without our passions. I remember when I was in great shape; I thought it was permanent. But life happened. I got busy, stopped working out, and just like that, I learned to live without it. It's the same with stand-up. After years of being on stage, I let life take me away from performing. I didn’t mean to step back, but I got used to it. Now, four months from stepping back into the spotlight feels like reuniting with an old flame. The love is still there, but I know I’ve got to reconnect and relearn how to perform at my best again. What’s something you’ve stepped back from that you miss? Let’s reignite those passions together!

  • #395
    April 12 · 17 min

    Another Trip To The Emergency Room (#514)

    Another Trip To The Emergency Room #514 Ever been terrified walking into the ER? 😱 Here’s what went down when I had to face my fears. Tag someone who needs to hear this! Going to the ER is scary, even if you think you won’t find anything serious. I found myself sweating—not just from discomfort but from the anxiety of what could be revealed. I thought, "What if they find something else?" After some tests, the doctor explained I just needed to ice and rest due to a minor injury. Phew! The kicker? Health bills can make you think twice about seeking help. Ever been there? It's a huge fear for many, but your health should always come first. Remember, it’s better to be safe than sorry! What’s your take on this? Let’s normalize talking about health fears! #HealthAwareness #EmergencyRoomStories #TakeCareOfYourself #MentalHealthMatters #HealthFirst

  • #394
    April 5 · 17 min

    Life is your biggest bully (#513)

    Life is the biggest bully we face, but I'm not letting it push me around anymore. How about you? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! I've been bullied before, and I made a vow to never let that happen again. But here's the kicker: the real bully isn't just the kids at school—it's life itself. Whether it's bad relationships, a tough job, or health issues, life has a way of knocking us down. From the everyday frustrations to the bigger challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, just like I fought back against my bullies in school, we can fight back against life too. Start taking control: eat better, exercise, and nurture your relationships. Life’s clock is ticking, but we can run up the score. Make positive impacts, cherish every moment, and leave a legacy that outlasts any bully. How do you plan to fight back against life’s challenges? Much love, and let’s keep inspiring each other! #LifeLessons #Inspiration #SAnthonySays #Podcast #MentalHealth

  • #391
    Nov 11, 2025 · 17 min

    You're the Thing Before You're the Thing (#512)

    Summary This conversation explores the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of overcoming obstacles, maintaining a positive mindset, taking accountability for actions, and embracing change for personal growth. The speaker encourages listeners to look at themselves objectively and recognize their potential for transformation.

  • #388
    Oct 16, 2025 · 15 min

    Dehumanization in Relationships (#511)

    Summary In this conversation, S. Anthony Thomas explores the theme of indifference in relationships, detailing how it manifests and the emotional consequences it brings. He discusses the gradual decline of feelings in a relationship, leading to indifference, and how this can result in dehumanization of partners. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's humanity and the need for respect in relationships to avoid the pitfalls of indifference. Takeaways Indifference can creep into relationships gradually. Dehumanization occurs when partners stop caring for each other. Indifference leads to a lack of emotional pain, which can be dangerous. When you dehumanize someone, you also damage your own humanity. Conflict can arise from indifference and lack of respect. It's important to communicate and address issues before they escalate. Indifference can lead to infidelity and emotional detachment. Respecting each other's humanity is crucial in relationships. Before acting out of anger, consider the consequences. Ending a relationship respectfully is better than becoming indifferent Sound bites "You don't feel the pain anymore." "You don't become who you're supposed to be!" "Indifference never is." Chapters 00:00 The Journey of Indifference in Relationships 08:05 Dehumanization and Its Consequences 12:33 The Importance of Humanity and Respect

  • #387
    Sep 21, 2025 · 8 min

    THIS is what I do when I'm about to get burned out (#510)

    Yes, BURNOUT is REAL! (#510) Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses the importance of recognizing the signs of burnout before it becomes overwhelming. He shares personal experiences with burnout and food poisoning as analogies for understanding one's limits and the necessity of self-awareness. By taking proactive steps, such as taking breaks and being mindful of one's feelings, individuals can prevent burnout and maintain their passion for their work and relationships. Takeaways Recognizing the early signs of burnout is crucial. Taking breaks can prevent long-term burnout. Self-awareness helps in managing mental health. Communication is key in relationships to avoid burnout. Understanding personal limits can lead to better coping strategies. Proactive measures can help maintain motivation. Burnout can affect various aspects of life, including work and relationships. Learning from past experiences can guide future actions. It's important to take control of your own life decisions. Self-care is essential for sustaining passion and creativity. Titles Preventing Burnout: A Personal Journey The Signs of Burnout: What to Look For Sound bites "You gotta check the signs." "I took a day off." "This guy is back, baby." Chapters 00:00 Recognizing Burnout Before It Strikes 04:49 The Importance of Taking Breaks 07:47 Taking Control of Your Life A Few Minutes With Mr. S. Anthony Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlbdSctC_LJ2Jp_Wq74leURVXgZYB9cgH Subscribe to the channel here: https://www.youtube.com/MrSAnthonyThomas?sub_confirmation=1 Don't forget to check these out too! You'll love them! Mr. S. Anthony Thomas has TWO podcasts on YouTube Music: S. Anthony Says: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlj68RG78OQieykB_cLCnVu3jwJtjPKZi The S. Anthony Thomas Show: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLL7V6HqKs_2ZtTv2Q5Ek0Anm5Tcp7JgDj CHECK THEM OUT! And SUBSCRIBE! 👂🤣👍 🐆🆚 Shorts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlbdSctC_LJ3pcCh0eMeNMWh3sh2tPiYEFollow online/subscribe to: Podcasts: S. Anthony Says (#Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/1IL82agwuMKCWfJiZPBU4B https://twitter.com/santhonysays The S. Anthony Thomas Show (#Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/4dd78p9ywd2rkMjz0oMJee https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas All Video Clips/Photos Herein Used With Permission ALL Other Material Is The Property And/Or Creation Of Mr. S. Anthony Thomas #Podcasts #Comedy #Shorts #YoutubeShorts #ComedyPodcast #MrSAnthonyThomas #SAnthonyThomas #YouTuber #Comedian #ShortVideo #BestShorts #FunnyShorts #Podcaster #Funny #StandUpComedian #Vlogger #youtubemusic Keywords burnout, self-awareness, mental health, coping strategies, personal growth, relationships, food poisoning analogy, creative work, motivation, inspiration

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