
Home As A Mirror
In this episode, Lyssia sits down with architect, feng shui educator, and author Anjie Cho to explore the connection between our inner world and the spaces around us. Drawing from her background in architecture, feng shui, mindfulness, and contemplative practices, Anjie looks at the home as more than simply a place we live. It can also be a reflection of what is happening in our lives. The conversation explores what feng shui actually means beyond the rules and misconceptions that often surround it. Anjie explains why there is no single “perfect” home, why good feng shui can look different depending on the person and the season of life they are in, and why she begins her work by asking a surprisingly simple question: What do you want for your life? They take the conversation deeper into the relationship between our inner and outer environments. Anjie explains the feng shui idea that our homes can act as extensions of ourselves, and why neglected, broken, or frustrating parts of a home may invite us to look more closely at what is happening elsewhere in our lives. A cluttered refrigerator, a bedroom we continually avoid addressing, a difficult-to-find front door, or even a piece of furniture we constantly bump into can become opportunities to pay attention. Lyssia and Anjie also explore how different environments affect different people. Through the five elements of wood, fire, earth, metal, and water, Anjie explains why one person may feel restored overlooking the ocean while another feels grounded in the mountains or energized by a city skyline. They discuss how recognizing the places where we naturally feel most supported can help us bring some of those same qualities into our homes through texture, light, materials, objects, and even the way a room is arranged. The conversation moves into some of the deeper practices that have shaped Anjie’s approach to space, including meditation, Japanese tea ceremony, and ikebana, the Japanese art of flower arranging. Anjie explains how these practices teach us to slow down, notice subtle changes, connect with the seasons, and pay attention to experiences we might otherwise rush past. They also discuss why the environment surrounding a ritual or everyday activity can completely change the way we experience it. Anjie also shares why changing a home can feel so significant. From rearranging furniture to undertaking a full renovation, she describes changes to the home as a kind of restructuring—and explains why that process can sometimes feel difficult or transitional before it feels like a fresh start. The goal, she says, is not to create a perfect-looking home, but to create one that feels supportive of the person actually living there. The episode ends with a surprisingly simple place to start: the floor beneath your feet. Anjie encourages listeners to notice the surfaces supporting them every day, clean an overlooked corner, walk barefoot through their home, or simply pay attention to how the ground beneath them feels. It is a reminder that creating a more supportive home does not necessarily require buying something new or redesigning an entire room. Sometimes it begins with noticing what is already there. By the end of this episode, you may start looking at your home a little differently and asking a bigger question: if our spaces can reflect what we are holding onto, what we are neglecting, and what we may be ready to change, what might your home be trying to show you? More Room to Think: Anjie Cho / Holistic Spaces Website: https://www.anjiecho.com/ Holistic Spaces Podcast: https://www.holisticspaces.com/podcast Mindful Design Feng Shui School: https://mindfuldesignschool.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anjiecho/ Room to Think https://roomtothinkpodcast.com/ Loved this episode? Let us know! Subscribe to Room to Think If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share it with someone who would appreciate a more thoughtful approach to their space. New episodes every week. Build a better life by design. Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Instagram
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