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Respectfully Gabby

Gabby Padron

You're listening to Respectfully Gabby — a podcast about glow-ups, mindset, love, and becoming her.

Formerly known as Way Too Wifey, this is a space for women stepping into their next level. We talk confidence, standards, ambition, healing, and the quiet power that comes from choosing yourself without apology.

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Yesterday · 13 min
You're Not Who You Think You Are
What if the things you love AND hate about other people reveal more about you than they do about them? This week on Respectfully Gabby, we're diving into the psychology of self-awareness, projection, and the blind spots that keep us from fully understanding ourselves. Inspired by an exercise from my hypnosis class, we're exploring the idea that the people we admire, the people who trigger us, and even the qualities we can't stand in others can act as mirrors reflecting parts of ourselves we haven't fully recognized. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
October 27 · 16 min
From Male Obsessed to Self Obsessed
Going from male obsessed to self obsessed starts with learning how to stop obsessing over men, decenter dating, and redirect your energy into self-improvement, personal growth, and becoming your best self. What if you took all the energy you've spent obsessing over men and became that obsessed with yourself instead? The overthinking, analyzing texts, checking your phone, fantasizing about potential, and emotionally investing in someone else's life... Imagine what would happen if you redirected all of that energy into building a life you're genuinely obsessed with. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
October 20 · 15 min
Stop Repeating Your Past and Step Into Your Winning Season
Your past does not have to dictate your future. If you’re ready to step into your winning season, it’s time to stop identifying with old stories, past trauma, and the version of yourself that learned to expect the worst. In this episode, we’re talking about how your identity is shaped by the stories you keep telling yourself, why you might find yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop even when life is finally going well, and how to stop carrying old experiences into a future that has the potential to look completely different. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
October 12 · 20 min
Build Victoria’s Secret Model Confidence (The Secret to Being Seen)
How to be more confident, magnetic, and comfortable being seen. In this episode of Respectfully, Gabby, we’re talking about the psychology of confidence, the fear of being perceived, and how to become the woman who walks into a room and owns it. What makes someone seem effortlessly confident? It’s not just their looks, body, or the way they carry themselves. It’s their relationship with being seen. We’re getting into the visibility wound, why you might feel uncomfortable attracting attention, how the fear of judgment can keep you playing small, and how your self-concept shapes the way you show up in the world. We’ll also explore how to stop shrinking yourself, become more comfortable taking up space, and build the kind of self-confidence that changes your entire presence. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
October 6 · 17 min
Stop Giving Them Airtime: Take Your Power Back
GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P How much of your day are you giving to someone who isn't even in the room? The checking. The replaying conversations. The wondering what they meant. The stalking their page. The creating scenarios in your head. The mental conversations you keep having with someone who may not even know they're getting this much of your energy. In this episode, we're talking about what happens when you stop giving people unlimited access to your attention — and why taking your focus back can completely change the way you feel, move, and show up.
September 29 · 21 min
Stop Putting Your Dream Life on a Pedestal
GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Your dream life shouldn’t feel like some distant, impossible reality that you have to become “worthy” of first. In this episode, I’m talking about why putting your dream life on a pedestal can actually keep you further away from it and why one of the biggest identity shifts you can make is learning to NORMALIZE the life you want before you have all the evidence for it.
September 22 · 14 min
How to have celebrity aura
What makes someone have that “who the hell is she?” energy the second they walk into a room? It’s not just looks. It’s presence. In this episode, we’re talking about how to have celebrity aura, the kind of energy that makes people notice you, remember you, and feel your presence before you’ve even said a word. GET THE IDENTITY UPGRADE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
September 15 · 20 min
Nice People Never Get What They Want
Being a good person and being a people-pleaser are two very different things.In this episode, we’re talking about why the “nice” person so often ends up feeling overlooked, underpaid, overextended, underappreciated, and frustrated that everyone else seems to get what they want.Because when you’re constantly trying to be easygoing, agreeable, understanding, and low-maintenance, you can accidentally train people to expect less from you — while teaching yourself that having wants, standards, and boundaries makes you difficult.GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsrFollow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabbywww.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
September 8 · 22 min
How To Be Unbothered AF
Want to reach Kanye West levels of unbothered? 😂 In this episode, I’m breaking down the 3 mindset shifts that will actually make you unbothered, not the fake “I don’t care” kind, but the kind where you genuinely stop letting other people’s opinions, behavior, rejection, or lack of attention dictate how you feel. If you’re tired of overthinking, overexplaining, seeking validation, or letting one person ruin your entire mood… this one’s for you. Let’s talk about how to become so secure in who you are that not everything gets access to your peace. GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
August 30 · 27 min
Your 6 Months Away From the Life You Want
I’m officially locking in for the next six months and I want to bring you along for it. In this episode, I’m talking about what made me choose six months, what I’m actually changing in my life, and what “locking in” really looks like beyond just going to the gym, eating better, or being more productive. We’re also getting into why we’re so good at waiting for the perfect time to start over, Monday, next month, our birthday, January 1st, and what actually happens when you stop waiting and decide that your life is changing now. GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
August 25 · 18 min
Your Subconscious Is Blocking the Life You Want
GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P You can consciously want a new life while subconsciously holding beliefs that keep you from creating it. In this episode, we’re talking about the hidden beliefs that may be conflicting with what you say you want — and why creating your dream life often requires closing doors, outgrowing people, and letting go of what no longer aligns.
August 18 · 29 min
How to Be Delusional & Get What You Want
What if being “delusional” is actually one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make? In this episode, we’re breaking down the 3 things you need to create the life you actually want: focus, emotional state, and beliefs. I’m talking about the psychology behind getting clear on what you want, training your brain to look for opportunities, regulating your emotional state, and becoming delusional enough to believe your desired reality is possible before you can see it. If you want to manifest your goals, change your mindset, and become the version of yourself who actually gets what she wants, this episode is for you. Start Here: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby
August 11 · 16 min
A Man Is Not Your Business Plan
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P What if the life you’re dreaming about doesn’t require a man to fund it? In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable truth behind making a relationship your financial plan — waiting for a husband to provide the lifestyle you want, assuming marriage will solve your money problems, or subconsciously choosing men based on what they can give you instead of who they actually are.
August 4 · 18 min
They Moved On.. And You're Still Stuck
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Have you ever looked at someone who hurt you and thought, How did they get to move on while I'm still picking up the pieces? In this episode, we're talking about one of the most painful comparisons after heartbreak: watching someone else seemingly move on while you feel like you're standing still.
July 28 · 10 min
Falling for Potential
Why do we get so far ahead of ourselves? We start planning our lives around a person, a career, a city, or an opportunity before we’ve even stopped to ask ourselves, Do I actually want this? Is this even for me? In this episode, we’re talking about the danger of becoming emotionally attached to a future that exists mostly in our heads—and how getting caught up in the potential of something can make us lose sight of what’s actually happening in the present. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
July 14 · 11 min
Are They Standards... or Just Emotional Walls?
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P We've all heard the advice to "raise your standards." But what if some of the things you're calling standards are actually emotional walls you've built after being hurt? In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest misconceptions in healing: the difference between healthy standards that attract aligned relationships and protective walls that keep intimacy out altogether. We'll talk about why avoiding vulnerability isn't the same as having self-respect, how unhealed wounds can disguise themselves as empowerment, and the subtle ways fear can convince you you're just "being picky."
July 7 · 13 min
Get Your Spark Back
Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, Where did my spark go? Whether you've been heartbroken, burnt out, stuck in survival mode, or simply spent too much time centering everyone else, this episode is your reminder that your glow isn't gone—it's just waiting for you to come back to yourself. JOIN THE PROGRAM: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
June 30 · 22 min
The Secret Shift About Detachment They Don't Tell You
Everyone tells you to "just let go." Stop checking his story. Stop overthinking. Stop caring so much. But if it were that simple, you would've done it already. In this episode, we're talking about why detachment isn't something you force—it's something that naturally happens when you change the beliefs keeping you emotionally hooked in the first place. I'll break down why anxious attachment isn't a self-control problem, it's an identity problem, and how your subconscious beliefs about love, worthiness, abandonment, and safety are creating the very attachment you're trying to escape. If you've been trying to detach by using willpower alone, this episode will show you why it hasn't worked—and what actually will. Identity Upgrade Program: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
June 24 · 29 min
Q&A Episode: 4 Years of Respectfully Gabby
Today we're celebrating 4 years of the podcast! 🎉 I'm answering your questions and reflecting on some of the biggest lessons I've learned about confidence, relationships, personal growth, and becoming the woman I am today.Thank you for being part of this journey. Here's to 4 years of growth and what's next. 💖JOIN MY COMMUNITY: ⁠https://stan.store/respectfullygabby⁠Follow for more on social media: ⁠www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby⁠⁠www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby⁠ Grab a copy of my book: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P⁠Passenger Princess Ebook: ⁠stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook⁠
June 16 · 21 min
When the Past Returns: Is It a Sign or a Test?
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Passenger Princess Ebook: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook Have you ever been doing just fine when suddenly an ex texts you, an old friend reaches out, or someone you haven't thought about in years randomly crosses your mind? People often say that once you've fully learned a lesson, you'll never see that person again. But is that actually true?In this episode, we're unpacking why people, patterns, and memories from the past seem to reappear out of nowhere—and what it might really mean. Is the universe testing you? Is there unfinished business? Are you being given a second chance, or simply an opportunity to see how much you've grown?

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