Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford

Kamie Crawford

An advice podcast that covers all relationship topics - the good, the bad and the straight up shitty. Relationships are hard. Whether they be with romantic partners, coworkers, family members or friends - some shit is always bound to go down. Hosted by your virtual BFF, TV Host, Kamie Crawford and a new special guest every week - nothing is off limits. Need advice? Send us a DM on Instagram @relationshit or leave us a voicemail on the Relationsh*t hotline at speakpipe.com/relationshit!

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228 episodes
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Friday · 1 hr 12 min
The Fine Line Between Love & Hate on Love Island USA with Iris Kendall
Bestie, this bombshell has some truth bombs to drop. This week we sit down with content creator and Love Island USA Season 7 and Beyond The Villa Season 2 star, Iris Kendall for an honest conversation about what life is really like after reality TV. From navigating the dark side of online hate and receiving death threats to finding real love with her boyfriend TJ, Iris opens up about the parts of her journey viewers never got to see. We also get into what makes long distance relationships actually work, how to know when you’re truly ready to love again, friendship “tiers,” why first dates should never happen at someone’s house and answer your burning relationship questions. Follow Iris: @iriskendall on IG, @iriskendalll on TikTok Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 24 · 1 hr
Talk Dirty To Me: The Secret To Better Relationship Communication with Shan Boodram
Besties, I know that last Mercury Retrograde had some of y'all thinking you developed telepathy... but your partner still can't read your mind. This week, we sit down with Certified Sex Educator and Host of the Lovers by Shan podcast, Shan Boodram, for one of those conversations that will have you looking at your relationships a little differently. We talk about why your communication style might be setting you and your romantic partners up for disappointment, the power of expressing desire, and how feeling emotionally safe changes the way you love. We also get into the idea of "serving" your partner, whether compatibility is something you find or create and the surprising ways love can completely shift your perspective. Plus, Kamie and Shan share some personal stories about what it really feels like to build a relationship where both people choose each other every single day. Follow Shan: @shanboodram on IG, @shanboody on TikTok, and her podcast LOVERS by Shan Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 17 · 51 min
I'm SO Happy... So Why Am I Crying? The Part of Marriage I Didn't Expect to Grieve
Bestie, nobody warns you that walking into one of the happiest seasons of your life can also feel like you’re leaving something behind - but joy and grief can exist at the same time. This week, Kamie is flying solo for one of her most vulnerable episodes yet. Fresh off her bachelorette trip, she reflects on the unexpected emotions that have come with preparing for marriage. While this season has been filled with excitement and gratitude, it's also brought a surprising sense of grief as she prepares to say goodbye to the life she's always known and step into a new chapter. From changing her last name to navigating the identity shift that comes with becoming a wife, Kamie opens up about the side of marriage that no one warns you about. She also shares why this journey has reminded her that choosing the right partner isn't just about finding love - it's one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford + Relationshit @relationshit for more. Watch on YouTube at @relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 10 · 1 hr 5 min
A Little Mix of Finding Your Voice, Reclaiming Your Power & Navigating Motherhood with Leigh-Anne
Who got the power? Leigh-Anne does - and she knows exactly how to use it. This week, we sit down with the incredibly talented former Little Mix member turned solo artist, Leigh-Anne for an honest conversation about finding your voice, reclaiming your confidence and stepping into a new version of yourself. Leigh-Anne opens up about her experience as the only Black woman in one of the world’s biggest girl groups, why she refuses to stop speaking out about race and colorism, and how each of us can help create a better future for the next generation. She also gets candid about the realities of motherhood - how becoming a mom changed her, the parts of herself she felt she’d lost along the way, and the journey of rediscovering who she is while building a career that’s fully on her own terms. Follow Leigh-Anne: https://www.instagram.com/leighannepinnock https://www.tiktok.com/@leighannepinnock?lang=en Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 26 · 1 hr 19 min
What Gen Z Really Thinks About Dating, Friendship & Corporate Girl Life ft. My Sisters & Their BFF
It’s giving the Gen-Z version of the View because we can certainly learn A LOT from the mouths of these babes! This week is extra special as we sit down with ⅖ of Kamie’s sisters, Victoria & Karynton along with their honorary cousin Aiyu for the conversation they’ve been itching to yap about on the pod for years. We talk about dating in New York City (hellscape, obvi), navigating friendships as adults & highlighting the friendship red flags people usually ignore. They share why your standards should evolve as you do and offer advice to the corporate baddies on navigating work life balance. We also answer your questions about friendship jealousy, how to have hard but honest conversations, and why you should never lose yourself in a relationship. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 19 · 1 hr 8 min
Your “Type” Might Be What’s Keeping You Single: Dating Tips, Dealbreakers & The Illusion Of Choice with Hollywood Matchmaker, Jaydi Samuels Kuba
Bestie, you might want to grab a notebook for this one. This week, we're joined by TV writer turned matchmaker, dating coach, and author of Your Last First Date: Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker, Jaydi Samuels Kuba, to break down what it actually takes to find lasting love in today's dating world. We get into modern dating, matchmaking, dating apps, dealbreakers, and why so many of us may be searching for love the wrong way. We talk about the difference between preferences and true dealbreakers, why instant chemistry isn't always the best predictor of long-term compatibility, and how an endless checklist can keep us from seeing the people who are actually right for us. Jaydi also shares how she accidentally matched herself with her now-husband, what she's learned after helping countless couples find love, and why lasting relationships are built on shared values - not just the fact that you both love dogs, hiking, and spicy margs. Follow Jaydi: @matchmadeinhollywood https://www.instagram.com/matchmadeinhollywood/ Book Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 12 · 1 hr 2 min
Dear Islanders: The Best & Worst Lessons Love Island Taught Me with Chelley B
I GOT A TEXT!!! It says, “never let the world tell you who you are.” This week, we're joined by Love Island USA Season 7 fan favorite and certified girls' girl, Chelley Bissainthe, for a candid conversation about fame, dating, self-worth, and staying grounded when the whole internet has an opinion about your character. We get into life after reality TV, navigating online criticism, battling imposter syndrome, her new approach to dating, and why protecting your peace is the ultimate form of self-respect. Plus, Chelley opens up about navigating public perception after the villa, learning to trust herself more, and the advice she'd give to the current Islanders on Love Island Season 8 when the cameras are off and reality sets in. Follow @chelleyb https://www.instagram.com/chelleyb/?hl=en Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 5 · 1 hr 3 min
Your Hosting Girl Era Starts Now: The Lost Art of Friendship, Community & Social Etiquette with Akilah Releford Gould
Now THIS is the social event of the season. This week, we sit down with hostess with the mostess, creator and CEO of Wedding Chicks, Mary Louise Cosmetics, Lucky Girl Rosé, and Creative Director of her family’s winery, Casa Locé and Bloom Ranch, Akilah Releford Gould. We get into the art of hosting, building community, making meaningful connections, and why inviting people over is about so much more than pretty tablescapes and good food (although, besties… the food better be good). We also talk about what it really means to be a good guest, how social media has changed the way we show up for each other, the death of social etiquette, wedding planning, and the little details people remember long after the party is over. Follow @akilahreleford Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 29 · 42 min
Life Update: My House Is Gutted, My Wedding Is Coming & What Do I Want To Be When I Grow Up?
Jesus take the mf wheel. This week, our host Kamie is riding solo to give us some real talk around career anxiety, burnout, wedding planning updates, home renovation chaos, the current state of media, and the pressure of feeling like you constantly need to have your next move figured out while simultaneously trying not to lose your mind?! And of course we also get into your questions about friendship shifts, entering your 30’s with excitement & why Kamie genuinely believes we’re only get hotter, smarter, and more powerful with age. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, existential, emotionally exhausted, deeply confused, or like your life is currently being held together by caffeine and delusion… we’re in this together, diva. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 22 · 58 min
Why You’re Scientifically Addicted to Your Situationship & How to Let Them Go with Amy Chan
Besties… if you’ve ever spiraled over a situationship, stalked an ex’s Instagram like it’s your part-time job (be so forreal - we’ve all done it), or wondered why you keep attracting the same kind of emotionally unavailable person - you’ve come to the right place. This week, we’re joined by dating expert, author of Unsingle, and founder of Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan to talk about the psychology behind heartbreak, attachment styles, dating burnout, avoidant behavior, “icks,” and why situationships can sometimes hurt more than real relationships. Amy breaks down how breakups affect the brain like withdrawal, why closure doesn’t always feel like closure and the dopamine loops that keep us attached to inconsistent people. Trust us, you’re gonna want to take notes on this one. Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/missamychan Buy Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts: https://bookshop.org/p/books/unsingle-how-to-date-smarter-and-create-love-that-lasts-amy-chan/d34e1fd29833adec?ean=9781419779848&next=t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 15 · 1 hr 7 min
“Don’t Talk About Money” Is Terrible Relationship Advice: Finding Your Money Type with Elizabeth Husserl
More money, more problems? Says who? This week, we sit down with Investment Advisor, Co-Founder of Peak360 & Author of The Power of Enough: Finding Joy in Your Relationship to Money, Elizabeth Husserl for a conversation about money, and let’s just say this episode is RICH. Elizabeth breaks down the reasons why money is still such a taboo subject, how childhood and family dynamics shape the way we spend, save, date (and argue) & why financial security and emotional safety are NOT always the same thing. We also talk about how to invest, identifying your “money archetype”, the pressure to constantly chase money and the societal effects of women who out earn men. Follow : https://www.instagram.com/elizabethhusserl/ Book : https://elizabethhusserl.com/book Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 8 · 43 min
Wedding Planning Is Testing Me… So I Took My Lashes Off: Bridal Crash Outs, Dating Icks & Your Boyfriend Told You to Get A Boob Job??
Behind every bride there’s a lash appointment & one final inconvenience hanging on by a thread. Bestie, this week our host Kamie is riding solo and we’re not gonna lie - she is going THROUGH it. Between wedding planning chaos, people absolutely trying her, and a full emotional spiral that somehow ended with her ripping off her lash extensions… she is accepting any and all prayers at this time, thankyaa! Kamie gets real about bridal stress & the very real crash-outs that come with trying to plan the “perfect” wedding while also trying to preserve your sanity, your patience, and your edges. And of course, she’s also diving into your questions like, how to navigate dating multiple people at once, when to listen to an ick vs. when to move past it, how to set boundaries with the bridezilla in your life and what to do when your boyfriend asks you to get a boob job (???). Much to discuss. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 1 · 1 hr 22 min
Honey, It’s Not Just Your Hormones: Anxiety, Burnout & Literally Everything Else with Dr. Sarah Oreck
Girl, it’s not just you - the world is on fire, there’s a full moon in Scorpio… and you just got your period. TRIPLE homicide. This week we’re joined by Reproductive Psychiatrist, Therapist and Co-Founder of Mavida Health, Dr. Sarah Oreck and let’s just say - this conversation was MUCH needed. We talk about the intersectionality of women’s reproductive and mental health, the emotional load of existing in a chaotic world, and how hormones can impact everything from anxiety & gut health to relationships. We also get into tips for those dealing with PMDD, PCOS, perimenopause, fertility fears, and how to tell the difference between life stress and hormonal stress. As well as finding micro joys, protecting your peace, and why having “mom brain” is actually a superpower Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 24 · 58 min
Wait… Do Spirits Watch Us Have Sex?! What Happens When We Die & Messages from the Other Side with Travis Holp
I mean, I know Nana is “always with me”… but like, how often are we talkin’?! This week, we’re joined by medium and Are You There, Spirit? It’s Me, Travis author Travis Holp for a conversation about what really happens when we die. We talk intuition, connecting with spirit, and why so many of us have been taught to ignore our spirit guides entirely. From signs we write off as coincidence to the fear of death and dying, Travis breaks down what it actually means to be “tuned in” to spirit, how we can start trusting ourselves more, and the messages people need most when they’re grieving to find real closure. Plus, Kamie gets her very first reading from Travis and hears a very special message from the other side. Follow Travis: Instagram | TikTok | Private Readings | Tour Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 17 · 51 min
Life Update: I Said Yes to the Dress, The Bob Is Back & I Have Thoughts On Your Breakup
You said you wanted more solo episodes and our girl Kamie is here to deliver! This week, we’re talking all things wedding planning: picking THE dress, bridesmaids dresses (because why is a good thing so hard to find?!) and the hard truth you need to hear before you ruin your own proposal. We get into relationships & Relationsh*t (because, well… yes) - from how to walk away from something that isn’t toxic but still isn’t right, to how to communicate with your partner that you’re unsure about having kids and why fear will keep you stuck way longer than love ever should. The bob is back - and she has opinions. Thank you again to everyone who answered our listener survey! We love hearing from our besties and your answers are so helpful in allowing us to give you more of the show you love to tune-in to every week xx Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 10 · 1 hr 10 min
You Can Have It All… But Not All At Once: Marriage, Motherhood & Building Tower 28 with Amy Liu
Beyoncé said it best - a diva IS the female version of a hustler. And this week, we’re joined by a real-life empire-building diva: Tower 28 founder and CEO, mom of three, and beauty industry powerhouse, Amy Liu. We get into what it actually looks like to build a business while raising kids, being married, and trying to hold onto your identity as a woman who wants more. From launching her company at 40 to navigating motherhood and entrepreneurship at the same time, Amy breaks down the reality behind building a big life — and what it really takes to sustain it. We talk about why she doesn’t believe in balance (and what to aim for instead), how she and her husband/CFO have stayed connected through it all and what it looks like to run a business with your partner. Plus, we get into dating, standards, and how to choose someone who genuinely supports your ambition - because marrying your equal has a lot less to do with money and everything to do with mindset. Follow: @amyliu_t28 & @tower28beauty Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 3 · 1 hr 5 min
Am I Ugly Or Are The Dating Apps Broken? Unfiltered Dating & Beauty Influencer Tea with MacDaddy
This kiki is sponsored by FaceApp… jk but our inbox is open! This week, we’re joined by beauty creator, founder, and icon, Angel Merino aka MacDaddy. From the OG YouTube era to today’s algorithm-driven chaos, we’re unpacking influencer culture - what’s real, what’s performative, and how to build actual relationships in an industry built on perception. Then we get into the trenches: Hinge, dating in LA (an Olympic sport, truly), standards vs. delusion, trusting your gut and why being intentional is the only way to survive out here. Follow : @mac_daddyy Plus, we answer your relationship advice questions & obviously Kamie has thoughts on the Summer House drama. Spoiler: they’re not kind. Follow: @mac_daddyy Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
March 27 · 1 hr 11 min
Prenups, Power & Protecting Yourself: The Truth About Love, Money & Modern Womanhood with Sahar Taylor
Besties… THIS is the uncomfortable conversation every woman needs to hear. This week, we’re joined by family law attorney, creator and internet big sis, Sahar Taylor to talk about how to protect yourself during the pre-martial process. From prenups (and why everyone should have one) to the realities of modern love, financial independence, and protecting yourself in a world that *shocker* fails to protect women - Sahar breaks it all the way down. She also opens up about her self proclaimed “identity crisis” and the importance of having people in your life who will tell you what you really need to hear, not just what you want to hear. Don’t forget: planning for your future isn’t pessimistic - it’s powerful. Follow Sahar @saharkhorramm on IG! Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
March 20 · 1 hr 14 min
Womanfesting, Talking to Strangers & The Philosophy of Joy with Beverly from The Grove
A chance run-in with a stranger that literally rewired our brain chemistry - in the best way. This week, we’re joined by casting director, human ray of sunshine, and the woman who truly has never met a stranger: Beverly Pomerantz, aka the queen of “womanfesting”. Beverly breaks down why talking to strangers might be the most underrated life hack, how to be more intentional with the words you speak over your life, and the philosophy of choosing joy that’s guided her for decades. We also get into why she’s never married (and never needed to), her solo travel adventures, and the reminder we all need: you can trust the timing of your life - even when it doesn’t make sense yet. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
March 13 · 52 min
“Pregnant? Engaged? Slick Back Bun? I’m Unfollowing You”: Social Media & The Death of Shared Joy
Besties… gather round. The time for a kumbaya has come - because what is actually going on out here? Lately the internet has developed a new full-time hobby: auditing other people’s happiness. Weddings? Problematic. Pregnancies? Selfish & apparently not eco-friendly. Healthy relationship? Suspicious. Slick back bun? STRAIGHT TO JAIL. This week, our host Kamie is riding solo to unpack the online discourse. From viral TikTok commentary to the bigger conversation about community in a post-Covid era, comparing your life’s progress to that of your friends, finding a middle ground and figuring out why is there so much hateration in this dancery? We also dive into your questions about engagement purgatory, the anxiety of posting big life updates and why major milestones can bring out both the best and the pettiest in the people around you. Follow: @kamiecrawford Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford

The Fine Line Between Love & Hate on Love Island USA with Iris Kendall

Talk Dirty To Me: The Secret To Better Relationship Communication with Shan Boodram

I'm SO Happy... So Why Am I Crying? The Part of Marriage I Didn't Expect to Grieve

A Little Mix of Finding Your Voice, Reclaiming Your Power & Navigating Motherhood with Leigh-Anne

What Gen Z Really Thinks About Dating, Friendship & Corporate Girl Life ft. My Sisters & Their BFF

Your “Type” Might Be What’s Keeping You Single: Dating Tips, Dealbreakers & The Illusion Of Choice with Hollywood Matchmaker, Jaydi Samuels Kuba

Dear Islanders: The Best & Worst Lessons Love Island Taught Me with Chelley B

Your Hosting Girl Era Starts Now: The Lost Art of Friendship, Community & Social Etiquette with Akilah Releford Gould

Life Update: My House Is Gutted, My Wedding Is Coming & What Do I Want To Be When I Grow Up?

Why You’re Scientifically Addicted to Your Situationship & How to Let Them Go with Amy Chan

“Don’t Talk About Money” Is Terrible Relationship Advice: Finding Your Money Type with Elizabeth Husserl

Wedding Planning Is Testing Me… So I Took My Lashes Off: Bridal Crash Outs, Dating Icks & Your Boyfriend Told You to Get A Boob Job??

Honey, It’s Not Just Your Hormones: Anxiety, Burnout & Literally Everything Else with Dr. Sarah Oreck

Wait… Do Spirits Watch Us Have Sex?! What Happens When We Die & Messages from the Other Side with Travis Holp

Life Update: I Said Yes to the Dress, The Bob Is Back & I Have Thoughts On Your Breakup

You Can Have It All… But Not All At Once: Marriage, Motherhood & Building Tower 28 with Amy Liu

Am I Ugly Or Are The Dating Apps Broken? Unfiltered Dating & Beauty Influencer Tea with MacDaddy

Prenups, Power & Protecting Yourself: The Truth About Love, Money & Modern Womanhood with Sahar Taylor

Womanfesting, Talking to Strangers & The Philosophy of Joy with Beverly from The Grove

“Pregnant? Engaged? Slick Back Bun? I’m Unfollowing You”: Social Media & The Death of Shared Joy