346. Why You Stay: The Brain Science of Trauma Bonding and How to Break Free

You know the relationship isn’t healthy. Your friends see it. You feel it. So why can’t you let go?

 

Maybe you’ve said something like:

• "They’re not perfect, but we have a deep connection."
• "When it’s good, it’s really good."
• "I know I should leave, but I just can’t."

 

Today we’re diving deep into the neuroscience of trauma bonding: why your brain gets hooked on the highs and lows, what it’s trying to protect you from, and how to break free from cycles that feel like love but aren’t.

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Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-you-stay-the-brain-science-of-trauma-bonding-and-how-to-break-free

 

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