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Reality with Raya

Raya Hensler

Raya Hensler is the host of Reality with Raya, a pop culture podcast breaking down reality TV, Bravo, celebrity headlines, and the internet’s most chaotic moments. Known for her witty commentary and storytelling style, Raya brings a relatable, unfiltered perspective to the entertainment world. A Houston native and pop culture commentator, she was recently featured on the Today Show to discuss the resurgence of reality TV watch parties.

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S1 · E91
September 1 · 43 min
EP 91: The Valley Season 3 Reunion with Lacy Nicole
Send us Fan Mail Reality with Raya welcomes Lacy from The Valley Season 3 for an exclusive conversation following the explosive reunion. Raya and Lacy go beyond the episode to unpack the season’s biggest storylines, the reunion moments that had viewers talking, and what it’s really like navigating reality television when the cameras are rolling and when they aren’t. Beyond the drama, Lacy opens up about therapy, trauma, healing, and living with endometriosis, offering a more personal look at the woman behind the reality TV headlines. From cast dynamics and shifting relationships to the moments that never made it on screen, this conversation gives listeners an inside perspective on one of reality TV’s most talked-about seasons, while going deeper into the real-life experiences that shape what we see on screen. Follow Lacy Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E90
August 22 · 1 hr 25 min
EP 90: Taylor Swift Wedding, McBee Prison, and Housewife Divorces
Send us Fan Mail This episode is a full-on reality TV spiral, and we’re spending A LOT of time in The Valley, McBee Dynasty, and House of Stassi. First up, The Valley — Jax may have cameras following him again after being spotted canoodling with his former publicist in Mexico, Danny is officially entering his demon era, Brittany gets a mommy makeover, Zack has an emotional breakdown, and somehow the cast is headed on ANOTHER trip with babies in tow. We’re talking Luke actually supporting Kristen, Danny’s drinking, the cast’s questionable choices, and that absolutely wild skinny-dipping scene. Then it’s time for McBee Dynasty Season 3. Steven Sr.’s trial and verdict, Steven Jr. and Allie moving at LIGHTNING speed, the infamous dream-wife list, the Stagecoach text rampage, Cole and Kacie FINALLY getting engaged, and Ali and Jesse struggling to communicate while living separately. Plus, the question nobody can stop asking: why are men willing to have babies together but suddenly terrified of marriage? And we’re getting into House of Stassi — the latest Vanderpump Rules-adjacent chaos, Stassi’s return to reality TV, the drama, the relationships, and whether this new chapter is giving us the reality TV comeback we’ve been waiting for. Plus: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Taylor Swift wedding updates, celebrity breakups, toxic love stories, and a life update from Raya on the World Cup, the content rat race, being called “intense,” mental health, and upcoming watch parties and events. Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E89
August 14 · 1 hr 2 min
EP 89: Breaking Down Million Dollar Nannies | The Bravoholics Anonymous
Send us Fan Mail This week, Raya is joined by Bravoholics Anonymous for a deep dive into Million Dollar Nannies, breaking down the cast, drama, relationships, biggest moments, and everything you need to know about the new reality series. Then, we’re getting into West Wilson’s viral whiteboard breakdown by Soho Brody, plus the latest from Love Island, the FIFA World Cup, and all the other reality TV and pop culture moments taking over the internet. From Bravo and reality TV drama to celebrity gossip, dating shows, sports, and viral moments, Reality with Raya brings you the unfiltered commentary you actually want to hear. 🎧 In this episode: Million Dollar Nannies recap and breakdown West Wilson’s whiteboard breakdown by Soho Brody Love Island updates and drama FIFA World Cup discussion Reality TV and pop culture news Celebrity gossip and viral internet moments Subscribe to Reality with Raya for weekly reality TV recaps, Bravo commentary, celebrity gossip, pop culture news, and unfiltered takes on everything happening in the world of reality television. Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E88
June 19 · 56 min
EP 88: Breaking Down the Summer House Aftermath with Jazmine Henley-Brown
Send us Fan Mail This has been a long journey to deal with the Summer House scandal. I for one, am glad it's finally over! We got all we are going to get out of West and Amanda via Kyle and Lindsay on the bonus episode of Summer House Aftermath. Jazmine Henley-Brown graced the studio and gives her hot takes as we breakdown and discuss the episode. Listen to that and more, now! Follow: Jazmine Henley-Brown & on YouTube! Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E87
June 11 · 1 hr 39 min
EP 87: Summer House Reunion Part 3 Recap and In The City | Watch What Lisa Says
Send us Fan Mail Much like Lindsay Hubbard, I too am unclear after the 3 part Summer House reunion. Still so many unanswered questions from West Wilson and Amanda Batula. I break it down with Watch What Lisa Says Follow Watch What Lisa Says Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E86
June 4 · 1 hr 1 min
EP 86: Summer House Reunion Part 2, The Valley, and Alex Cooper's Pregnancy
Send us Fan Mail This episode is packed with major headlines. We're discussing Alex Cooper's pregnancy announcement and what this next chapter could mean for the Call Her Daddy host and media mogul. Then we're diving into the internet frenzy surrounding Alix Earle after her mysterious Malibu Starbucks date was finally revealed. Over in the Bravo universe, we're recapping Summer House Reunion Part 2, unpacking the biggest confrontations, lingering questions, and where the cast may stand moving forward. We also share our thoughts on the premiere of The City and whether the iconic reality series revival lives up to the hype. Of course, we have to talk about The Valley. From relationship drama to questionable behavior, we're discussing the latest episode and why Danny Booko has viewers talking. Finally, we're covering the shocking murder-suicide that recently shook Houston's River Oaks community and discussing the details surrounding the tragic story. If you love Bravo, reality TV, celebrity news, influencer culture, and unfiltered commentary, this episode is for you. Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E85
May 29 · 1 hr 56 min
EP 85: Summer House Watch Party, Snake In The Grass, and HEB Gunman | Alyssa Polinsky
Send us Fan Mail You might have seen my cycling around the news, which is crazy its happened 3 time this year......but yes, that was me on KPRC and Inside Edition for being held in the stockroom of my local HEB while there was a gunman in the parking lot on Cinco De Mayo. All ended up being good and everyone was safe due to the fast action of HEB! PS. I'm still waiting for a call for my partnership... I'm joined with Alyssa Polinsky who is not only a fashion girlie and your favorite bravo astrologer, but also an author! Pre-order her new book Styled by the Stars at all major retailers! We breakdown the Summer House Reunion Part 1 and In The City. Part 1 of my Summer House Watch Party was SOLD OUT!!!!! Don't miss out the next two weeks (June 2nd & June 9th) at Casa Azul in Houston. RSVP links are in my linktree and on my website! Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E84
April 24 · 1 hr 5 min
EP 84: EMERGENCY EPISODE: SUMMER HOUSE REUNION LEAKED AUDIO
Send us Fan Mail I've done something crazy and it's rebranding! I hope you love the new name, but don't worry, it's the same show. 🚨EMERGENCY🚨 LEAKED AUDIO OF SUMMER HOUSE SEASON 10 REUNION DROPPED...it's bad. I discuss word for word on the alleged audio with no remorse in sight. Catch up on the latest Summer House drama as well as RHORI, Lisa Hochstein mug shot, Alix vs. Alex, and more on Reality with Raya! Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E83
April 3 · 1 hr 7 min
EP 83: Breaking Down a Timeline of Mid-West: Amanda, West, Ciara of Summer House
Send us Fan Mail I am joined by the ever so funny and talented internet personality, Farai Bennett! We break down all that we know so far about the Summer House drama involving West Wilson, Amanda Batula, and Ciara Miller. This saga leaves us with more questions than answers, but one thing we do know is that Bravo cameras need to be picked up stat! Summer House season 10 reunion films April 15th, allegedly. Follow: Farai Bennett Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E82
March 27 · 1 hr
EP 82: ICYMI: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Timeline
Send us Fan Mail In case you feel behind and like you cant keep up with all of the drama coming out of Utah, this is the episode for you! I do my best to update you with a timeline of everything that has happened with Secret Lives of Mormon Wives since March 19, 2026. And trust me, its A LOT. More drama is swirling in the bravosphere with a potential Scandoval part 2 featuring West, Amanda, and Ciara of Summer House?! Also discussed is Justin Timberlake's DUI leaked video footage, the Duggars arrest, Hannah Montana 20th anniversary special, Age of Attraction, and more! Catch me on Bella Talks TV Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E81
March 20 · 27 min
EP 81: SHOT- SLOMW and The Bachelorette S22 CANCELLED!
Send us Fan Mail Emergency episode!!!! Raya breaks down what's going on in Utah between the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, The Bachelorette, and Vanderpump Villa. Buckle up! It's a bumpy ride! THE WATCH PARTY FOR SUNDAY 3/22 IS STILL ON! RSVP HERE Missed me on the TODAY show? Watch here! Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E80
March 12 · 1 hr 10 min
EP 80: Watch Parties, Messy Exes, and My Today Show Era!
Send us Fan Mail After being featured on the Today Show, I'm spilling the behind-the-scenes tea on how watch parties are officially back—and SURPRISE! I'm throwing another one for the most chaotic reality TV crossover of the year: The Bachelorette starring Taylor Frankie Paul, fresh off the drama of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. But the episode quickly spirals (in the best way) into a hilarious story about a recent story where I discovered my ex called me a “crazy bitch” and like Lisa Rinna, I'M OWNING IT!!!! Of course, no pop culture rundown would be complete without thoughts on the premiere of Southern Hospitality, plus my passionately and slightly unhinged declaration that Wuthering Heights might actually be the best movie ever. And because life isn’t all reality TV and messy exes, the episode also sheds light on a little pep talk for anyone who’s been feeling stuck, discouraged, or just having one of those weeks. Consider this your reminder that things turn around. WATCH ME ON THE TODAY SHOW RSVP to The Bachelorette watch party Details: -Sunday, March 22nd -6:30/7pm CST -Highline Park, Houston, TX Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E79
February 26 · 55 min
EP 79: RHOSLC Death, ANTM, and Lisa Rinna Roofied?
Send us Fan Mail This week on Coffee Meets Vodka, we’re serving up the wildest pop culture tea you need to know. From Sofia Franklyn’s revealing Daddy Issues memoir to the mysterious disappearance of Nancy Guntrie, we’re breaking down the headlines everyone is whispering about. In pop culture and TV deep dives, we unpack: • The Beauty FX • The ANTM documentary and the Dirty Rotten Scandal rival doc • The enduring love story of JFK Jr. and Carolyn Besstte Kennedy And of course, Bravo never sleeps: • Traitors tea including the shocking Rinna roofie claim • RHOP reunion fallout and Wendy’s arrest drama • Kelly Dodd’s latest crash-out • RHOM filming delays and behind-the-scenes mess • Plus heartbreaking updates involving Mary’s son, Robert Jr., and the RHOSLC production pause If you love Bravo drama, celebrity tea, reality TV breakdowns, and unfiltered pop culture commentary — this episode is your weekly fix. Connect With Us: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Shop Newsletter Email: coffeemeetsvodkapod@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E78
February 26 · 1 hr 37 min
EP 78: Karen Huger Post Jail Interview, Amanda and Kyle's Divorce and More! | Worm With A Mustache
Send us Fan Mail Happy 2026! Did you miss me?! I missed you! I sat down with your favorite worm to recap all thats happening in the bravosphere! Follow worm_with_a_mustache ______________ Connect With Us: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Shop Newsletter Email: coffeemeetsvodkapod@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E77
Dec 29, 2025 · 1 hr 18 min
EP 77: COFFEE MEETS VODKA LIVE SHOW 11.10.25
Send us Fan Mail IT'S HERE!!!!! We had a SOLD OUT show in November and I'm so excited to share with you. This was the first time I hosted a live show (and definitely won't be the last!!!!). We are already planning a 2026 show and working to make it even better! Thank you to our sponsors: Rock Mortgage Goosehead insurance https://www.instagram.com/goosehead_heightshtx/ Bone On The Bayou Sleek Multimedia Bubbl'r Infinite Links By K Venue: Wicklow Heights Production: The Focus Pictures Follow the Guests: Her Opinion Show Her Media Network Voces De Dinero Mix and Mingle Her Houston Social Club Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E76
Nov 21, 2025 · 1 hr 36 min
EP 76: BravoCon 2025 Recap | Bella Talks TV
Send us Fan Mail I'm recapping our BravoCon weekend with Bella Talks TV! It was truly unforgettable and I wish I could relive it over and over again! Follow: Bella Talks TV Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E75
Nov 6, 2025 · 1 hr 24 min
EP 75: RHOC & the Bravo Breakdown Before BravoCon | Worm with a Mustache
Send us Fan Mail We’re kicking things off with all things BravoCon 2025 — who we’re dying to see, what to expect from the panels, and which after-parties are shaping up to be the most chaotic (in the best way) 🍸 Then, we dive into the Real Housewives of Orange County where Gretchen and Heather’s LGBTQ+ dinner scene stirs up new drama — plus, the alleged rumor that Slade is secretly running Gretchen’s socials while she takes the hit to protect his image 😬 Over in Salt Lake City, the tea is hot: Heather may have hooked up with Captain Jason, and Jen Shah is counting down less than 40 days until her prison release ⏰ The McBee Dynasty saga takes a dark turn as Steven McBee Sr. is sentenced to 24 months in federal prison for a multimillion-dollar crop insurance fraud scheme, plus over $4 million in restitution and property forfeiture 💰 And finally, in Southern Charm news, Olivia and her fiancé call it quits, JT’s activism sparks conversation, and the new trailer promises a messy (and emotional) season. We wrap it all up with a little Love Thy Nader — because no Coffee Meets Vodka episode is complete without some real talk, laughs, and a touch of chaos. ☕️ Grab your drink and join Raya Hensler for your weekly dose of Bravo gossip, pop culture commentary, and unfiltered fun. Follow: worm_with_a_mustache Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E74
Nov 3, 2025 · 1 hr 32 min
EP 74: Sugar Mama's, Hot Takes, and Blind Dates | Her Opinion Show
Send us Fan Mail this week’s episode of Coffee Meets Vodka is serving pop culture, purpose, and a pinch of chaos. With BravoCon just two weeks away, Raya’s spilling her predictions and what she’s most excited to see. Plus, she’s giving a sneak peek into her live show happening November 10th at 7 PM at Wicklow Heights, where community, connection, and cocktails collide. She also sits down to chat about attending the You Have a Purpose Foundation Empower Luncheon with Nushin from Her Opinion Show, and why it’s giving all the girlboss energy we love. Then it’s time to dive into the drama — from your friends trying to set you up with someone you’re just not attracted to, to Darcey and Georgi’s wild story of meeting on a sugar mama site (allegedly). And because Raya’s always on the move, she wraps it all up with some honest talk about traveling — solo vs. with friends — and why sometimes a little getaway is exactly what you need. ✨ Whether you’re a Bravo-holic, a pop culture junkie, or just here for the real talk, this episode has a little something for everyone. 🎟️GET FREE TICKETS TO THE HOUSTON LIVE SHOW HERE Follow: @heropinionshow @jusnunuslife @hermedianetwork Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E73
Oct 17, 2025 · 34 min
EP 73: SHOT- Real Housewives of Prison
Send us Fan Mail Breaking Bravo News!!!!! Wendy and (Happy) Eddie Osefo were arrested for fraud charges and later were out on bail. Catching up on all things housewives: RHOP, RHOM, RHOSLC! You Have A Purpose Foundation Luncheon Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok
S1 · E72
Oct 10, 2025 · 1 hr 36 min
EP 72: Taylor Swift The Life Of A Showgirl Album Review & Pivoting Your Business | The Chauncey Show
Send us Fan Mail Places everyone! The Life Of A Showgirl is finally here!!!! It's gotten a lot of criticism and I can't say I helped the cause....what are your thoughts on Taylor Swift's new album? I'm joined this week by an amazing content creator and business woman, Chauncey Pham! She's a former full-time REALTOR®, turned TV Show Host, 7-figure house-flipping investor, coach, speaker, and interior designer, here to serve you the TRUTH about real estate investing. We have a great conversation about how to pivot your real estate business when the market dips. So many good nuggets of information! I also discuss 90 Fiancé Happily Ever After, Selena and Benny Blanco are married!, Catch up on housewives, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban are divorcing, and an update on Diddy's prison sentence. Follow Chauncey Pham: Instagram YouTube Website Connect With Me: Instagram TikTok LinkTr.ee Website Email: realitywithraya@gmail.com Host: Raya Hensler Instagram TikTok

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