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Real Raw & Relatable

Denny Willard & Piper Kaiser

Healing marriages and life after divorce

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  • Tuesday · 41 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 63 "I married the wrong person"

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 63: I Married the Wrong Person Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, "You're not the person I married!" Well, guess what? Neither are you! In this episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, Denny and Piper explore a powerful truth about marriage: The person you marry is not the same person you'll stay married to, because we all change. Life happens. Careers, children, mortgages, financial struggles, heartbreaks, victories, and disappointments shape us into different people than we were when we first said, "I do." But does changing mean your marriage is failing? Absolutely not! We share lessons from our own experiences, including two 25-year marriages that ended in divorce, and discuss what it means to continue choosing love, growing together, and rediscovering the person standing beside you. Marriage isn't about never changing. It's about learning how to love through the changes. ❤️ JOIN OUR FREE COMMUNITY! We'd love to invite you to our Facebook group: Real Raw and Relatable, The Podcast Come connect with our community, share your thoughts, give us feedback, and suggest topics you'd love to hear on future episodes. 🙏 Need prayer for your marriage? We'd be honored to pray with you and for you. Whether you're navigating a difficult season, healing from divorce, or simply looking to strengthen your relationship, you're welcome here. We're not licensed marriage counselors. We're just two people sharing our experiences, our faith, our struggles, and what we're learning along the way. Real conversations. Real struggles. Real hope. Thanks for listening, and remember: You're not alone in your journey! Support the show

  • July 28 · 38 min

    Real Raw & Relatable episode 62 " The Little Things "

    Send us Fan Mail Love isn't always found in grand gestures. Sometimes it's a handwritten note in a lunchbox. A text that simply says, "Thinking about you." Making breakfast before work. Bringing home flowers for no reason. Cleaning the snow off a windshield. Taking a moment to really listen. In this episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, we're talking about the little things that make people feel seen, appreciated, and loved. Healthy relationships aren't usually built by one big moment—they're built by thousands of small, intentional moments over time. We'd love to hear from you! Join our Real, Raw & Relatable – The Podcast Facebook group and become part of the conversation. Share your thoughts on this episode, suggest future topics you'd like us to discuss, ask questions, and let us know how we can pray for you. Our hope is to build more than a podcast—we want to build a community where people can encourage one another and grow together. What's one little thing someone has done for you that made you feel truly seen and appreciated? We'd love to hear your story. 🎙️ Listen now wherever you get your podcasts, then come join us in the Facebook group. We can't wait to connect with you! (8) Real Raw & Relatable the Podcast about saving marriages. | Facebook Support the show

  • July 14 · 28 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 61 " Visit Their World "

    Send us Fan Mail What if one of the biggest secrets to a healthy marriage isn't finding someone exactly like you—but becoming genuinely curious about the person you love? In Episode 61 of Real Raw and Relatable, Denny and Piper explore how stepping into each other's worlds has strengthened their relationship after divorce. From binge-watching Love Island, to cheering for the Detroit Lions, to seeing Predator: Badlands, Wicked, and even movies that neither of them would normally choose, they discovered that connection often grows when we're willing to experience life through our spouse's eyes. If you're looking to heal your marriage, reconnect after divorce, or simply become more intentional in your relationship, this episode will challenge you to stop asking, "Why don't they like what I like?" and start asking, "Teach me why you love it." Sometimes the strongest marriages aren't built on shared hobbies—they're built on shared curiosity. Five Hashtags #RealRawRelatablePodcast #HealingMarriages #LoveAfterDivorce #MarriageGrowth #ChooseEachOther Follow us on Facebook and YouTube. (11) Real Raw & Relatable the Podcast about saving marriages. | Facebook http://www.youtube.com/@RealRawRelatablePodcast Support the show

  • July 4 · 28 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 60 " The Danger in Trusting Your Feelings "

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever made a decision based purely on how you felt... only to regret it later? In this episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, we explore the danger of letting emotions become the driver of our lives. Feelings are real, but they're not always reliable. We talk about relationships, assumptions, communication, faith, happiness versus joy, and why maturity isn't ignoring emotions—it's learning to manage them with wisdom. If you've ever reacted before thinking, assumed the worst, or struggled to separate your feelings from the truth, this episode is for you. We'd love to hear your thoughts! Join our Real Raw and Relatable the Podcast Facebook group and be part of the conversation. Your story may encourage someone else who's walking through a similar season. #RealRawAndRelatable #Faith #Relationships #EmotionalHealth #PersonalGrowth Support the show

  • June 25 · 34 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 59 " Half a deal and a Cracked windshield "

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, we share two ordinary moments that became extraordinary tests of integrity. One involved a car deal I desperately needed. The other involved a cracked windshield that could have easily been overlooked. In both situations, we were faced with the same question: Do we compromise our character when life gets hard? We talk about the pressure that fear and desperation create, why honesty costs something in the moment, and why a clear conscience is worth more than a bigger paycheck. Through personal stories, biblical principles, and an honest conversation between Denny and Piper, we explore what it really means to choose integrity when nobody would know the difference. If you've ever wrestled with taking the easy way out, this episode is for you. "A commission check gets spent. Character remains. A clear conscience is the best pillow." Support the show

  • June 15 · 37 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 58 " Extra Tarter Sauce & Fresh Cut Flowers "

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 58: Extra Tartar Sauce & Fresh-Cut Flowers The Little Things That Keep Love Alive What do Filet-O-Fish sandwiches with extra tartar sauce and fresh-cut flowers have to do with a healthy relationship? Maybe more than you think. In this fun and lighthearted episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, Denny and Piper put each other on the spot to see just how well they know one another. From favorite foods and dream vacations to pet peeves, favorite colors, and the little quirks that make each other unique, they laugh, stumble, and discover that love isn't about having all the right answers—it's about never stopping the pursuit of your partner. Along the way, they share personal stories, inside jokes, and the small everyday moments that have helped strengthen their relationship. Whether it's remembering extra tartar sauce, bringing home fresh-cut flowers, or simply paying attention to what matters most to your spouse, this episode is a reminder that lasting love is often built through ordinary acts of kindness and thoughtfulness. This isn't a test to see if you know everything about your partner. It's an invitation to stay curious, keep dating each other, and never stop learning the person you love. Join Denny and Piper for an episode filled with laughter, authenticity, and a simple reminder that the little things often become the big things. Because healthy relationships aren't built on grand gestures alone. Sometimes they're built with extra tartar sauce, fresh-cut flowers, and the decision to keep showing up for each other every single day. Support the show

  • June 9 · 36 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 57 " Put the " F " word into your relationships.

    Send us Fan Mail In this week's episode of Real, Raw & Relatable, we're putting the F-word back into marriage... FUN! (Get your mind out of the gutter! 😄) Somewhere between careers, bills, raising kids, busy schedules, and simply trying to survive life, many couples stop being best friends and start becoming roommates. The laughter fades, date nights become rare, and the little moments that once brought joy get replaced by responsibilities. Join Denny and Piper as they share personal stories, hilarious memories, and real-life moments that prove connection doesn't have to come from expensive vacations or grand gestures. From card games and cheap date nights to the unforgettable Mexico spa adventure, awkward family stories, and the moments that had them laughing until they cried, this episode is a reminder that some of the strongest marriages are built in the simplest moments. We'll also talk about why friendship is the foundation of lasting love, how playfulness can break stress patterns, and why couples need to intentionally make time to laugh, flirt, and genuinely enjoy being around each other. Marriage can't survive on responsibilities alone. Somewhere in the middle of life's chaos, couples have to remember how to have fun together again. Because years from now, you probably won't remember every bill you paid or every errand you ran—but you'll never forget the moments that made you laugh until you couldn't breathe. So sit back, relax, and let's put the F-word back into marriage... FUN! Support the show

  • May 28 · 29 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 56 " What's In Your Toolbox, How To Be Emotionally Available When No One Taught You How "

    Send us Fan Mail For years, many men were taught how to provide, protect, sacrifice, and carry pressure… but nobody ever taught us how to stay emotionally connected while carrying all that weight. In this powerful solo episode of Real Raw & Relatable, Denny opens up about emotional availability, masculinity, silent pressure, abandonment wounds, and learning how to let the people you love see the human being behind the armor. Using the metaphor of a toolbox, this episode explores the emotional tools many men were never handed growing up: 🔨 The hammer of provision and protection 🪛 The screwdriver of listening 🔧 The wrench of emotional flexibility 🔦 The flashlight of self-awareness 📏 The tape measure of understanding your spouse 🛠️ The drill of commitment through difficult seasons Denny also reflects on the unforgettable Rocky III moment where Rocky finally admits: “I’m afraid.” This episode is for: husbands fathers men carrying silent pressure couples struggling with emotional connection and anyone trying to understand what emotional availability actually means. Because emotional availability isn’t weakness… It’s allowing someone to emotionally know you. 🎙️ Real Raw & Relatable Podcast Support the show

  • May 25 · 37 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 55 " TJ and Kimberlie Testimony "

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when an agnostic alcoholic reaches the end of himself… and a praying wife is ready to walk away? In this powerful episode of Real Raw & Relatable, TJ and Kimberlie share their incredible testimony of brokenness, addiction, faith, restoration, and redemption. TJ spent years battling alcoholism while questioning God and living far from faith. Kimberlie stood by him through the chaos, praying, hurting, fighting for hope, and eventually reaching the point where she was ready to leave the marriage altogether. But God had other plans. What followed was a radical transformation that changed not only their marriage, but their entire purpose in life. Today, TJ is sober, walking with Jesus, and together they now serve in church helping others find hope, healing, recovery, and faith. This episode is for anyone: struggling with addiction fighting for their marriage feeling hopeless questioning God or wondering if people can truly change Sometimes the greatest testimonies are born from the darkest seasons. 🎙️ Real Raw & Relatable Podcast Support the show

  • May 19 · 34 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 54 "Dating Doesn’t Have to Be Expensive… It Just Has to Be Intimate"

    Send us Fan Mail After paying bills and realizing there wasn’t much left over for date night, we chose connection over consumption. We walked together to a local festival, listened to live music, played cornhole, laughed, exercised, and simply enjoyed being present with each other — and it cost almost nothing. This episode dives into: • Why presence matters more than price tags • How modern distractions steal intimacy • The beauty of simple moments together • Why uninterrupted connection is becoming rare • How love grows stronger through intentional presence, not expensive experiences Sometimes the best nights aren’t the glamorous ones. Sometimes they’re the nights where you slow down long enough to truly see each other again. 🎧 Real, Raw & Relatable Podcast — Episode 54 Support the show

  • May 11 · 50 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 53 " The Wedge - How marriages slowly drift apart "

    Send us Fan Mail Tonight’s episode is one of the rawest and most honest conversations we’ve ever had. We’re talking about the wedge that slowly forms in marriages — not overnight, but through years of responsibilities, survival mode, emotional drift, pride, unhealed wounds, and two people quietly sacrificing connection on the altar of obligations. So many couples don’t stop loving each other… they simply stop intentionally pursuing each other. Date nights disappear. Communication becomes defensive instead of connective. Teammates slowly become opponents keeping score against each other. In this episode, we unpack: how marriages slowly starve, why emotional drift happens, trauma responses and nervous system triggers, learning how to see each other beyond our wounds, rebuilding trust after years of patterns, and why somebody has to choose the emotional high road and begin sowing love, grace, empathy, and intentionality back into the relationship before a love harvest can ever return. We also discuss: 🌾 “Sucker or Sower” 🌾 emotional deposits 🌾 forgiveness as stewardship 🌾 covenant over feelings 🌾 protecting the team instead of protecting pride This conversation is not about perfection. It’s about awareness, healing, humility, and fighting for connection before the wedge becomes permanent. Because healthy marriages are not sustained by emotion alone… they’re sustained by intentional investment over time. 🔥 “You cannot expect a love harvest from a field you stopped watering.” #RealRawRelatable #Marriage #Relationships #Healing #LoveHarvest Support the show

  • May 1 · 40 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 52 " How do you go from 25 years together to.....complete strangers.

    Send us Fan Mail How do you go from sharing a life with someone for decades… to not even speaking anymore? In this episode of Real Raw & Relatable, we open up about one of the strangest and hardest parts of divorce—the silence. After 25+ years of marriage and 30 years together, we never imagined life would look like this. No communication. Separate lives. Two completely different paths. We talk about what that feels like, how identity shifts after divorce, and why it can be so hard to process going from “we” to “me.” If you’ve ever asked yourself: “How did it end up like this?” “Why does it feel so surreal?” “Who am I now after all of this?” You’re not alone. We also share how faith plays a role in healing and moving forward—even when it doesn’t make sense—and how God can create something new out of something that once felt permanent. This one is real, unfiltered, and straight from experience. If this resonated with you, join our Facebook community Real Raw & Relatable Podcast—we’d love to hear your story, your struggles, and how we can pray for you. And if you’re going through something right now and need more than just listening… reach out. You don’t have to walk through it alone. Support the show

  • April 20 · 27 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 51 " Smile through the Storms "

    Send us Fan Mail In this Episode we talk about what we learned in our church service, smile through the storms. Follow us on Facebook, Real Raw & Relatable the Podcast and give us feedback and share your storms. Support the show

  • April 13 · 50 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 50 " Change "

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode we talk about change and to embrace it as God is molding you for a better plan. We reference Ecclesiastes 3:1 and Jeremiah 29:11. Follow us on Facebook and give us feedback. God Bless you. Support the show

  • January 22 · 40 min

    Episode 48 " Focus on gratitude "

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode we share 7 things to help change your perspective to gratitude. I know it is easier said than done but we hope that this will help you along the way. We love you guys and God Bless you. Support the show

  • January 5 · 40 min

    Episode 47 " 5 ways to tune out noise in your relationship "

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode we unpack so many things to fight for our attention and slowly cause you to fall into an unhealthy pattern that we do not even realize is happening. Follow us on Facebook in the Real, Raw & Relatable Podcast Facebook group and share your input. Happy new year and we love you guys. Support the show

  • Dec 25, 2025 · 53 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 46 " Recap "

    Send us Fan Mail In this Episode we talk about the events that happened the last month and recap the podcast over the last year. Merry Christmas you all and God Bless you. Support the show

  • Nov 24, 2025 · 42 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 45 " Focus on what you are thankful for "

    Send us Fan Mail Hey guys, this episode we wanted to encourage you to be thankful for what you spouse is good at and not what they are lacking, we all have weaknesses and it could be easy to focus on that. Jesus knows our faults and sins and yet he still loves us through those short comings. Happy thanksgiving to you all and we love a are thankful for you. Support the show

  • Nov 19, 2025 · 33 min

    Real Raw & Relatable Episode 44 " Learn to Rest "

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode we talk about the wellbeing of your soul and the importance of taking a day of rest to recharge you. Come join us as we talk about how important it is to rest you spirit, mind and soul. Support the show

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