Dec 18, 2025 · 1 hr 20 minSpecial Edition [] Riley and Donald Kindt [] A Father, A Daughter, and the Power of Support
🎧 Episode Summary:
In this heartfelt, funny, and emotional father-daughter edition of Outside the Pins, UW-Oshkosh alum Riley Kindt is joined by her father, Deke, for a raw and powerful conversation on legacy, love, and what it means to show up—for your family, your team, and yourself. From backyard trampolines and youth sports stories to Deke’s recent cancer diagnosis, the Kindts open up about the moments that shaped them, the perspective gained through adversity, and the unwavering support system that made it all possible. It's about more than volleyball—this episode is a celebration of grit, gratitude, growth, and the beautiful mess of doing life together.
🏠 The Kindt Family Foundation: Love, Loyalty, & Laughter
Raised in a family of athletes (including an NFL legacy), Riley shares stories of growing up under the guidance of a dad who led with heart—not volume—and modeled resilience in every way. Whether she was working through her 16th birthday car accident or her 16th missed tip in practice, Deke’s steady support and high expectations became her compass.
💔 Cancer, Perspective & Purpose
Deke recounts the shocking moment his daughter noticed his yellow skin after a fishing trip—leading to a life-changing cancer diagnosis. With honesty and grace, he shares the brutal truths about navigating treatment delays, palliative care conversations, and the frustrating gaps in cancer care. Through it all, Riley—alongside her aunt and extended family—has been a relentless advocate and caregiver. The journey has changed everything: diet, mindset, faith, and purpose.
“It’s been hard—but it’s also been beautiful. I’m reminded every day how supported we are.”
🏐 Volleyball as a Vehicle for Life Lessons
From her first tooth falling out on a tee-ball field to nearly quitting club volleyball, Riley’s story is filled with memorable, formative moments—and always, someone in her corner. Coaches from her MVP club days to college created environments where she felt wanted, supported, and inspired to keep going. Deke remembers every bit of it. Every serve. Every mile driven.
“My parents went everywhere for me. I had to do the same for Riley. No question.”
💪 Work Ethic Without Apology
Whether wearing long sleeves to sweat more in practice or redefining what a “super middle” looks like, Riley’s unmatched motor and toughness became part of her identity—and her legacy. Her dad, now battling cancer, credits her as part of the reason he’s fighting so hard.
🎓 The Next Chapter
Now a nurse, homeowner, and engaged to her fiancé Cole, Riley continues to support her family while navigating adulthood with the same determination she brought to the court. Deke, grateful and proud, reflects on how incredible it is to see his daughter leading in life the way she once did in sport.
🌎 Costa Rica & Collective Joy
One of the standout memories for both came during the team’s international trip to Costa Rica. From ziplining to waterfall swimming, Deke embraced every moment—even when the current took him under (but the phone stayed dry!). For Riley, seeing her family and teammates connect across borders made it unforgettable.
🏆 Legacy of Support – From Stands to Sidelines
The Kindt family—and the entire Oshkosh Family—created an atmosphere of unconditional support in the stands that mirrored the culture built on the court. Win or lose. Starter or not. Everyone mattered.
❤️ Final Takeaways:
From Riley: “If you’re upset, go outside. Move. Work through it. That came from my dad. And now I live by it.”
From Deke: “The fight is worth it when you’re not in it alone. And thanks to this family, I never am.”
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