No One Is Normal

S2E15 - Jenna Udenberg - Normal Is a Myth

Most people never think about accessibility until they need it. They walk into buildings without wondering if everyone can get through the door. They make plans without thinking about whether the space was designed for everyone. They assume the world works because, for them, most of the time it does. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Jenna Udenberg, educator, author, advocate, and founder of Above and Beyond With U, to talk about disability, resilience, inclusion, and what it means to build a life in a world that was not always designed with you in mind. Diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis at age seven, Jenna has endured chronic pain, multiple joint replacements, more than a dozen surgeries, and countless accessibility challenges throughout her life. Yet what stands out most is not what she has endured. It is what she has built. From a 19-year teaching career to founding a nonprofit focused on accessibility and inclusion, Jenna has turned personal challenges into opportunities to help others. We talk about disability, leadership, confidence, depression, advocacy, accessibility, and why asking better questions often matters more than having the right answers. Jenna shares practical ways people can create more inclusive communities and challenges the assumptions many of us make without even realizing it. This conversation is not about sympathy. It is about understanding. Because disability is not rare. At some point, it touches all of our lives. 🌐 Learn more about Jenna and Above and Beyond With U: https://www.aboveandbeyondwithu.org/ 📚 Jenna's Memoir – Within My SpokesA powerful story of resilience, disability, identity, and finding purpose while navigating a lifetime of challenges. https://a.co/d/020VH6ss 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF 🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E14 - What is Normal?

People use the word normal like the definition is obvious. But most of us were handed that definition long before we were old enough to question it. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I talk about the difference between what is familiar, what is healthy, and what people judge simply because they do not understand it. We explore how family, school, work, culture, trauma, disability, grief, addiction, anxiety, and recovery all shape the way people move through the world. Sometimes what gets called “not normal” is actually just unfamiliar. Sometimes what gets called “normal” is something unhealthy that people have repeated for so long they stopped questioning it. This episode is about separating difference from damage. It is about dignity, honesty, accessibility, self-understanding, and learning that the goal was never to become normal. The goal is to become honest enough to know what needs to change, what helped you survive, and what was never wrong with you in the first place. Because maybe the better question is not: Am I normal? Maybe the better question is: Am I being honest? 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book: https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 🛍️ Merch: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E13 - Debbie Weiss - Life After Loss

Some losses do not happen all at once. Sometimes they unfold slowly. Over years. Through caregiving, exhaustion, changing roles, and the quiet grief of watching someone you love slowly fade in front of you while life keeps moving around you. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Debbie Weiss to talk about caregiving, grief, burnout, identity, and what happens after survival mode finally begins to quiet down. Debbie spent decades taking care of others. Beginning at 17 after her father suffered a massive stroke, she eventually became a caregiver for her son with special needs and later for her husband as he battled physical illness, severe depression, and terminal cancer. But this conversation is about more than caregiving. It is about what happens after loss. We talk about grief that begins long before someone dies. The quiet exhaustion of always showing up for everyone else. The guilt of choosing yourself. The resentment caregivers are often too ashamed to admit. And the difficult reality of learning how to rebuild when so much of your identity was tied to taking care of someone else. Debbie shares the mindset shifts that helped her move forward, how she learned to stop living as a victim of circumstance, and why healing does not mean forgetting the people we loved. Because moving forward is not the same thing as moving on. Sometimes life after loss is not about becoming someone new. Sometimes it is about finally finding the person you forgot to take care of along the way. 🌐 Learn more about Debbie Weiss: https://www.debbierweiss.com/ 📚 Debbie’s books: https://www.debbierweiss.com/books 🎙️ Maybe I Can with Debbie Weiss: https://maybeicanwithdebbieweiss.buzzsprout.co 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF 🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E12 - What Death Reveals

Death changes more than the room. It changes the people standing in it. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I talk about grief, funerals, family dynamics, and the things death exposes once there is no more pretending that time is unlimited. This is not a philosophical conversation about death from a distance. It is about the version people actually live through. The hospital rooms. The funeral home air. The calls nobody wants to get. The tension that surfaces inside families. The regrets. The awkward moments. The greed that sometimes shows up before someone is even laid to rest. And the love that suddenly feels bigger once somebody is gone. We talk about grief in a real way. Not the polished version people post online, but the messy version. The version that hits months later when you hear a voice, smell something familiar, or realize there will not be another phone call, another visit, or another chance to say what you meant to say. This episode also explores what funerals reveal about people. Who softens. Who hardens. Who reaches for connection. Who reaches for control. And what death has a way of exposing in families once emotions are running high. Because death is undefeated. The real question is: Who do we become in full view of it? 🔗 More from me:🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E11– Jennifer Chase - The Addict. The Daughter. The Mother.

Addiction rarely starts with the substance. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Jennifer Chase, recovery coach, speaker, and founder of Rise Addiction Life Coaching, to talk about addiction from three perspectives: daughter of an alcoholic, addict, and mother of a child struggling with addiction. Jennifer shares how trauma, childhood instability, and years of emotional pain shaped the path that eventually led her into addiction after a brain tumor surgery left her living in chronic pain and prescribed opioids. She opens up about the guilt of realizing she had unintentionally become part of her son’s addiction story, the shame that followed, and what finally shifted when the consequences of addiction outweighed the relief addiction once provided. We talk about trauma, people-pleasing, masking, and how many addictions are lessabout weakness and more about trying to survive emotional pain. Jennifer sharesone of the most powerful mindset shifts of the episode: Not “What’s wrong with you?” but “What happened to you?” We also discuss the stigma surrounding addiction, why society judges some copingmechanisms while praising others, and why empathy and accountability can existat the same time. This conversation is about healing, responsibility, recovery, and the possibility ofrebuilding — even after life feels completely broken. 🌐 Learn more about Jennifer Chase: https://www.riseaddictionlc.com 💜 Need help or support?Jennifer welcomes outreach through her website if you or someone you love isstruggling with addiction or recovery. 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF 🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E10 - Why I Am Wired This Way

A lot of adulthood starts making more sense once you understand the emotional climate you grew up in. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I talk about family life, instability, and the quiet ways childhood shapes who we become long before we have language for any of it. This is not about blaming family or putting private moments on trial. It is about understanding what happens when unpredictability becomes normal, when you learn to read tension before words are spoken, and when connection feels rare enough that you hold onto it harder than most people understand. I share how growing up in emotional instability shaped the way I watched people, attached to relationships, stayed alert, and struggled to fully relax even when life became calmer. We talk about how many things we call “personality” are actually adaptation, and how survival skills built early in life can quietly follow us into adulthood. This episode explores nervous system patterns, emotional caution, loneliness, connection, and why some people feel “too much” when relationships finally feel safe. Because sometimes the better question is not: “What is wrong with me?” Sometimes the better question is: “What did I learn too early that I still carry today?” This conversation is about context, self-understanding, and learning that being shaped by something is not the same thing as being sentenced to it forever. 🔗 More from me:🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/06CoAtVF🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E9 - Randy Bishop - Shunned, Then Rebuilt

There’s a point in life where everything can look fine on the outside… but internally, something feels completely off. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Randy Bishop to talk about identity, authenticity, and what it really means to start over later in life. Randy opens up about approaching 60 and realizing that despite a lifetime of experience, success, and roles he had played, he no longer knew who he actually was. What followed was a complete unraveling of identity. From leaving a 30-year marriage and walking away from 16 years in ministry, to questioning beliefs he once stood firmly on, this conversation dives deep into what happens when the life you built no longer feels like yours. We talk about why so many people stay stuck in identities that no longer serve them, how social media distorts reality, and why being authentic is one of the hardest things a person can do. Randy also breaks down his “RE Method” — reflect, reframe, restore — and why most people struggle with actually repeating the process. This episode is about more than change. It’s about becoming who you actually are. Because at some point, the question shows up whether you’re ready or not: Who am I… really? 🌐 Learn more about Randy and the ER Method: https://www.amazon.com/author/randyebishop 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes:⁠https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast⁠ 📖 Book (Print + Kindle):⁠https://a.co/d/016Dh1eB⁠ 🎧 Audiobook:⁠https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ⁠ 👕 Wear the message:⁠https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

S2E8 - We Are Not Normal, Now What?

At some point, I had to stop asking how to become “normal” and start asking a different question: Now what? In this episode of No One Is Normal, I talk about what happens after the realization hits that normal was never really the goal in the first place. Because so many people spend years trying to force themselves into expectations, identities, careers, relationships, or lifestyles that were never actually built for them. And eventually that pressure breaks something. This episode is about what comes next after the mask slips. After the burnout. After the identity crisis. After realizing I can’t keep performing a version of myself that only exists to make other people comfortable. I talk about rebuilding from that place. Not perfectly. Not instantly. But honestly. Because maybe the goal was never to become normal. Maybe the goal was to become real. 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Normal-Adversity-Self-Discovery/dp/B0G2TN62YV/ 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Normal-Adversity-Self-Discovery/dp/B0GJFZ142N/ 🛒 Merch: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S2E7 - Bonnie Hill - Healing After Abuse

Healing is not a straight line. It is messy, frustrating, emotional, and at times feels impossible. After a six-part series sharing the reality of living through domestic abuse, Bonnie Hill joins me for a raw and honest conversation about what happens after survival. Because leaving is not the end of the story. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, Bonnie opens up about the healing process after years of abuse. The emotional aftermath. The triggers that still show up. The guilt, fear, self-doubt, and the challenge of rebuilding trust in yourself after spending years walking on eggshells. We talk about the realities people do not always see from the outside. Why healing can feel lonely. How trauma rewires the way you think, react, and protect yourself. And what it looks like to slowly begin rebuilding confidence, boundaries, and identity. Bonnie also shares what helped her move forward, what support actually looked like, and why healing does not mean forgetting. It means learning how to live again without the past controlling every part of your future. If you or someone you love has experienced abuse, this conversation is a reminder that survival is only the beginning — healing is possible. 💜 Want to Connect with Bonnie? Due to the sensitive nature of Bonnie’s story, direct contact information is not publicly shared. If you would like to reach Bonnie, please email: info@bradhhill.com and your message will be forwarded. 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9H8Z3GQ 🎧 Audiobook on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 🛍️ Merch & Support the Mission: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

S2E6 - Bonnie’s Story Part 6: The End

This is Part 6 of 6 in Bonnie’s story. Healing does not begin the moment someone leaves. In many ways, that is where the real work starts. In the final chapter of Bonnie’s story, survival finally begins making room for something unfamiliar: peace. But healing is rarely simple. After years of fear, control, emotional exhaustion, and learning how to survive, rebuilding a life means learning how to trust again. Learning who you are outside of fear. Learning that safety, love, and peace do not have to come with conditions. Part six is not about pretending the pain never happened. It is about what comes after survival. The grief. The rebuilding. The rediscovery of identity. And the quiet strength it takes to choose yourself after spending so many years simply trying to make it through. If you have ever wondered whether healing is possible after trauma, questioned whether peace could ever feel real again, or needed a reminder that your story is not over, this chapter is for you. You are not alone. Next week, Bonnie joins me for a raw and honest conversation reflecting on the full journey, what healing actually looks like, and what life feels like now on the other side of survival. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S2E5 - Bonnie’s Story Part 5: The Final Sequence of Events

This is Part 5 of 6 in Bonnie’s story. Sometimes the moments that change our lives are not loud or dramatic. Sometimes they build quietly until one final sequence of events makes it impossible to ignore what has been true for far too long. In part five of Bonnie’s story, everything begins moving toward a breaking point. The emotional weight of survival reaches a place where difficult truths can no longer be pushed aside. Fear, exhaustion, and years of emotional damage collide with the painful reality that something has to change. This chapter explores the complicated emotions that come before major life decisions. The fear of the unknown. The grief of what was lost. The confusion of loving someone while also recognizing the damage being done. And the quiet moments where survival slowly begins turning into courage. If you have ever stood at a crossroads, wrestled with impossible decisions, or questioned whether life could ever feel different than the pain you had learned to live inside, this story may resonate deeply. You are not alone. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S2E4 - Bonnie’s Story Part 4: The Downward Spiral

This is Part 4 of 6 in Bonnie’s story There comes a point in survival where exhaustion replaces hope. When surviving no longer feels temporary, and the weight of carrying everything alone begins changing who you are. In part four of Bonnie’s story, the downward spiral deepens. Fear becomes routine. Emotional exhaustion settles in. The distance between who Bonnie once was and who survival forced her to become grows wider. And when chaos becomes normal, even recognizing how much has been lost can feel impossible. This chapter explores the emotional reality of living inside prolonged trauma. The loneliness. The confusion. The invisible ways people adapt to survive situations they never imagined would become their life. If you have ever felt emotionally worn down, trapped inside circumstances that slowly changed you, or wondered how people lose themselves while simply trying to make it through another day, this story may resonate more deeply than expected. You are not alone. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S2E3 - Bonnie’s Story Part 3: The Abortion

This is Part 3 of 6 in Bonnie’s story. Some decisions leave marks that never fully disappear. Not because they were easy, but because survival sometimes forces choices no one should ever have to make. In part three of Bonnie’s story, the emotional toll deepens as fear, control, and instability begin shaping impossible decisions. The weight of survival grows heavier. The lines between hope, guilt, love, fear, and self-preservation become harder to separate. And the emotional cost of trying to survive inside chaos becomes impossible to ignore. This chapter explores one of the most painful realities many people quietly carry: how trauma, manipulation, and fear can leave lasting emotional wounds that continue long after the moment itself has passed. If you have ever had to make an impossible choice, carried guilt for surviving, or struggled with decisions made during painful seasons of life, this story may resonate more deeply than expected. You are not alone. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S2E2 - Bonnie’s Story Part 2: The Gaslighting Narcissist

This is Part 2 of 6 in Bonnie’s story. Sometimes the hardest part about emotional abuse is that it rarely arrives all at once. It builds quietly. Slowly. Through confusion, manipulation, guilt, fear, and the constant feeling that maybe somehow everything is your fault. In part two of Bonnie’s story, the emotional weight deepens. What once felt manageable begins shifting into something harder to explain and even harder to escape. Isolation grows. Fear becomes familiar. Reality becomes harder to trust. And the version of yourself you once recognized slowly begins slipping away. This chapter explores something many survivors understand all too well: abuse does not always leave bruises people can see. Sometimes it changes the way you think, the way you feel, and the way you begin questioning your own worth. If you have ever felt emotionally trapped, questioned your own reality, or struggled to explain why leaving felt impossible, this conversation may resonate deeply. You are not alone. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S2E1 - Bonnie’s Story Part 1: The Beginning

This is Part 1 of 6 in Bonnie’s story. Some wounds do not begin with violence. They begin quietly. Slowly. In the moments we dismiss, excuse, or explain away because we want to believe things will get better. In this deeply personal and emotional six-part series, Bonnie shares the beginning of a story that many people never fully understand from the outside. A story of survival that did not look dangerous at first. A story about how fear, control, and emotional manipulation can slowly become normal until you no longer recognize how much of yourself has disappeared. Part one begins at the beginning. The early years. The dreams, the hope, the warning signs that are often invisible when you are living inside them, and the slow normalization of a life built around survival. If you have ever questioned your own reality, stayed longer than you thought you would, or wondered how people slowly lose themselves inside difficult relationships, this story may resonate more deeply than expected. You are not alone. 🎙️ Podcast & Episodes: No One Is Normal Podcast 📘 Book (Print + Kindle): No One Is Normal: From Adversity and Trauma to Self-Discovery & Healing 🎧 Audiobook: No One Is Normal Audiobook 🛍️ Merch: No One Is Normal Merch

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S1E26 - Kirk McCarley - This Should Have Killed Me

What would you do if your life changed overnight… twice? In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Kirk McCarley just days after he was hit by a truck while cycling. With broken ribs, a concussion, and 16 stitches in his head, Kirk shares what it feels like to face life from a completely different perspective — again. This isn’t the first time. Kirk also opens up about surviving a major heart event that led to triple bypass surgery, and how that moment forced him to rethink everything. From walking away from a stable career in human resources to becoming an executive coach later in life, his story is a powerful example of what it means to take control of your direction… even when it feels too late. We talk about depression, anxiety, and the weight of trying to hold everything together. We also get into why men struggle to open up, how small actions create momentum, and what it really takes to move forward when you feel stuck. One of the most powerful moments in this episode is when Kirk shares how he reached out to the man who hit him — not with anger, but with forgiveness. This conversation is about perspective, resilience, and understanding that it’s never too early… or too late… to change your life. 🌐 Learn more about Kirk McCarley:⁠ https://theseedsowercoach.com/ 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes:⁠https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast⁠ 📖 Book (Print + Kindle):⁠https://a.co/d/016Dh1eB⁠ 🎧 Audiobook:⁠https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ⁠ 👕 Wear the message:⁠https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

S1E25 - Practicing Gratitude

Gratitude sounds simple until life gives me every reason not to feel it. In this episode of No One Is Normal, I talk about the difference between fake positivity and real gratitude. Not the social media version. Not pretending everything is perfect. Real gratitude is harder than that. It’s learning how to recognize what still matters while life is uncomfortable, uncertain, frustrating, or painful. I share how easy it is to become consumed by stress, comparison, resentment, and survival mode without even realizing it. Because when the mind is constantly focused on what’s missing, broken, unfair, or out of reach, eventually nothing feels like enough anymore. This episode is about perspective, awareness, and learning how to stop overlooking the things I once prayed for just because they became familiar. Gratitude doesn’t erase struggle, but it changes how I carry it. Because sometimes the problem isn’t that life gave me nothing. Sometimes it’s that pain made me blind to what was already there. 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Normal-Adversity-Self-Discovery/dp/B0G2TN62YV/ 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Normal-Adversity-Self-Discovery/dp/B0GJFZ142N/ 🛒 Merch: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

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S1E24 – Olaolu Ogunyemi - Raising Unbreakable Kids

Some paths are shaped by talent. Others are shaped by the people who step in at the right time. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Olaolu Ogunyemi, United States Marine, author, and founder of Parent Child Connect, to talk about the role mentorship, failure, and environment play in shaping who we become. Olaolu shares how growing up in Louisiana, the right mentors helped guide him away from paths that could have led somewhere very different. From family and coaches to leaders who gave him second chances, those influences shaped his journey into the Marine Corps, leadership, and fatherhood. We talk about failure, especially his early struggles during Officer Candidate School, and how those moments taught him the importance of preparation and breaking challenges into smaller, manageable steps. He explains how confidence alone is not enough. Growth comes from discipline, consistency, and learning how to respond when things do not go as planned. This conversation also explores parenting in today’s world. How constant information, outside influence, and social pressure impact children. And why creating a safe environment for kids to fail, process emotions, and learn is one of the most important roles a parent can play. Olaolu shares his philosophy of “Lead Last,” emphasizing the importance of understanding yourself, the people around you, and the environment before trying to lead effectively. This episode is about mentorship, resilience, and the responsibility we all carry to influence the people around us in a positive way. 🌐 Learn more about Olaolu & Parent Child Connect: https://parent-child-connect.com/ 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/016Dh1eB 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 👕 Wear the message: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

S1E23 – Control the Controllables

There is a line in life most people never clearly see. The line between what we can control and what we cannot. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I talk about what happens when we spend our lives trying to control everything except the one thing that is actually ours. Ourselves. I share personal stories about guilt, loss, relationships, and decisions that forced me to confront how little control we truly have over outcomes, and how much we still have over our choices. From a fatal accident that stayed with me for years, to staying too long in relationships that were never going to become what I wanted, to walking away from security and taking a massive pay cut to build something different. These moments all carried the same question underneath them. What is actually mine to own here. We talk about the illusion of control, how people take responsibility for things they were never meant to carry, and how that mindset keeps them stuck. We also break down the difference between reacting to life and actively choosing how to show up in it. This episode is about shifting your focus away from outcomes you cannot control and putting that energy into your effort, your boundaries, your decisions, and your next step. Because life will always be unpredictable. But your response to it does not have to be. 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/016Dh1eB 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 👕 Wear the message: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch

S1E22 – Robin Clare - From Struggle To Peace

Some struggles hide in plain sight. They can last for years, sometimes decades, while the outside world sees something completely different. In this episode of the No One Is Normal Podcast, I sit down with Robin Clare, bestselling author and creator of the Harmony Method, to talk about her journey through more than forty years of battling obsessive eating and bulimia. Robin shares how trauma, shame, and humiliation shaped much of her early life and how the long path of healing eventually led her to develop a framework for personal alignment. Her Six Elements of Harmony include awareness, commitment, mastery, service, leadership, and freedom. Together they form a path toward bringing the inner world and outer life into alignment. We talk about the role trauma plays in shaping behavior, how social media and outside pressures can disrupt inner peace, and why silence, reflection, and strong personal boundaries can help people stay grounded in a chaotic world. This conversation explores the idea that harmony is not about eliminating life’s challenges. It is about learning how to stay centered within them. 🌐 Learn more about Robin Clare: https://www.robinhclare.com/ 🔗 More from me: 🎙️ Podcast & episodes: https://www.bradhhill.com/podcast 📖 Book (Print + Kindle): https://a.co/d/016Dh1eB 🎧 Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/No-One-Is-Normal-Breaking-Free-from-Normal-Audiobook/B0GJFWBSBZ 👕 Wear the message: https://www.bradhhill.com/merch