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43. What 8.5 Years of Not Sleep Training Taught Me About Trusting My Gut (Season 1 Finale)

After eight and a half years of helping my three kids fall asleep every single night, no sleep training, no cry it out, this past weekend they told me they were ready to try it on their own. This is the story of that night, what I didn't expect to feel, and the honest update on what's happened since 💛 I'm getting real about what it took to trust my gut through years of doubt, comments, and exhausted nights, sleep trained or not, and why this is the first thing in parenting I have zero regrets about. If you're in the thick of sleepless nights right now and unsure which way to go, or tired of people weighing in on your choices, this one's for you. In this episode, you'll hear: 📝 Our sleep backstory: 8.5 years of no sleep training, and how we made it work What it actually felt like the night my kids said they were ready to sleep on their own Why trusting my gut on this one decision became my anchor through years of doubt The honest, unexpected update on what happened just days later My biggest advice if you're in the thick of sleepless nights right now, no matter which path you're on This also happens to be our season one finale, and I could not be more grateful for this community. Thank you for listening, sharing, and being here. If there's a topic, guest, or story you want next season, please send it my way 🙏 Connect with me: 💛 🌐 Website: milestonesandmotherhood.com 📸 Instagram: @milestones.and.motherhood and @more.than.milestones ✍️ Substack: https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones 🍼 Tummy Time Masterclass: https://milestonesandmotherhood.com/tummy-time 🛍️ Amazon storefront: https://a.co/d/03ucPZbo ✉️ For sponsorship or guest inquiries: podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 💦 LMNT: http://drinklmnt.com/MILESTONE Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase. If you loved this episode: ⭐ Please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a parent who needs to hear it 🙏 See you next season on More Than Milestones!

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42. Beyond Stretching and Exercises: How the Nervous System Impacts Pain, Movement & Your Child's Development with Taylor Kruse

I am so excited to share this conversation with you 🎙️ I sat down with Taylor Kruse, co-founder of Kruse Elite and a strength and mobility coach specializing in applied neurology, and honestly, this episode opened my eyes in ways I wasn't expecting, even as a physical therapist myself. We break down why so many pain and movement issues actually start in the nervous system, not the muscle or joint we tend to blame. Taylor walks me through the difference between "inputs" (the sensory information your brain takes in through vision, touch, and the vestibular system) and "outputs" (the movement, posture, or pain you actually experience), and why changing the input is often the fastest way to change the output. I share one of my favorite examples from my own practice 👶, why a "torticollis" diagnosis is sometimes actually a vision issue in disguise, and we get into why the vestibular system plays such a huge role in muscle tone, gait, and posture in kids. If you have ever felt like you were just told to "stretch it out" or "give it time" without anyone explaining the why behind your child's movement pattern, this one is for you 💛 And if you're a healthcare or movement professional who has sensed there's more going on than the textbook explains, I think you're really going to love this. In this episode, you'll learn: 📝 - What applied neurology and applied kinesiology actually mean, explained in plain language - The difference between sensory "inputs" and movement "outputs" and why it matters - Why the vestibular (inner ear) system can directly affect muscle tone, posture, and gait - A real example from my own caseload of how a vision issue can be misdiagnosed as torticollis - Why fast, dramatic results from nervous system work aren't a "hack," they're a sign the brain feels safer - How applied neurology can apply to pediatric populations, and what that looks like in practice - How to evaluate whether a provider is qualified in this space, and where the field is headed Connect with Taylor Kruse: 🔗 📸 Instagram: @kruseelite 🎧 Podcast: The KRUSE ELITE Podcast 📚 Courses: Neuro Foundations and The Neuro Dojo (https://www.kruseelite.com/) Connect with me: 💛 🌐 Website: milestonesandmotherhood.com 📸 Instagram: @milestones.and.motherhood and @more.than.milestones ✍️ Substack: https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones 🍼 Tummy Time Masterclass: https://milestonesandmotherhood.com/tummy-time 🛍️ Amazon storefront: https://a.co/d/03ucPZbo ✉️ For sponsorship or guest inquiries: podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com If you loved this episode: ⭐ Please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a parent or provider who needs to hear it 🙏 New episodes of More Than Milestones drop every other Tuesday!

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41. Raising a Highly Sensitive Child: The Neuroscience of Big Feelings with Dr. Aoife Durcan

Raising highly sensitive children: the neuroscience of big feelings, co-regulation, and supporting sensitive kids. In this episode of More Than Milestones, I am joined by Dr. Aoife Durcan, chartered counseling psychologist, author of Your Highly Sensitive Child, and founder of Highly Sensitive Psychologist, to explore what it really means to raise a highly sensitive child. Roughly 30% of children are born with a finely tuned nervous system that processes the world more deeply, feels emotions more intensely, and is more attuned to subtle changes in their environment. Drawing on both her clinical work and her experience parenting three highly sensitive boys, Dr. Durcan breaks down the neuroscience behind sensory processing sensitivity and offers compassionate, practical guidance for parents who feel like their child experiences everything more. Together, we talk about why some babies are so hard to soothe and what that means for postpartum mental health, the difference between high sensitivity and neurodivergence, and why co-regulation matters so much for these kids. We also get into emotional dysregulation, the "window of tolerance," holding boundaries without breaking connection, and how supporting a sensitive child early builds confident, self-assured adults. If you are a highly sensitive parent, raising a deeply feeling child, or simply trying to understand the big emotions in your home, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, validated, and equipped. In this episode, we cover: What sensory processing sensitivity actually is, from a neuroscience perspective Why roughly 30% of kids are born highly sensitive How high sensitivity shows up in babies and what it means for postpartum mental health The difference between high sensitivity and neurodivergence (and why the distinction matters) Why co-regulation is so important for a highly sensitive child Understanding the "window of tolerance" and emotional dysregulation How to become a "sensory detective" for your child and yourself Setting and holding boundaries without harming connection Why supporting sensitive kids early builds confident, resilient adults Neuroplasticity, repair, and why it is never too late to change your approach The number one thing every parent of a sensitive child should know Sensitivity is not a weakness to fix. It is a trait to understand and nurture. When we lean in, co-regulate, and help our children feel seen, we raise kids who grow into adults who feel assured in exactly who they are. Chapters / Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & introducing Dr. Aoife Durcan 00:34 – Aoife's background and her own highly sensitive boys 01:33 – The neuroscience: what high sensitivity actually is 04:52 – Sensing subtle shifts in tone (KC & Aoife's real-life examples) 07:14 – High sensitivity vs. neurodivergence: is there a difference? 08:57 – Just how common is it? (the 30% figure) 09:40 – What parents notice, including in babies 12:31 – Postpartum mental health and hard-to-soothe babies 14:28 – Why co-regulation matters so much 18:02 – When siblings feel the same thing differently 19:12 – Beyond the physical: the relationship is everything 22:10 – Emotional dysregulation and the "bucket" that overflows 23:40 – The window of tolerance & becoming a "sensory detective" 28:12 – "The only kid who won't leave my lap" and why support pays off 30:05 – Repair, neuroplasticity, and hope for parents 31:58 – Holding boundaries without breaking connection 36:03 – You don't have to say the perfect thing 37:27 – The number one thing every parent should know 39:26 – Where to find Dr. Durcan and her book Connect with Dr. Aoife Durcan: 📖 Book: Your Highly Sensitive Child https://www.amazon.com/Your-Highly-Sensitive-Child-overwhelming/dp/1804581585 📱 Instagram: @highlysensitivepsychologist 💻 Website: https://www.instituteofhighsensitivity.com/ Connect with KC and Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱 Follow KC: @milestones.and.motherhood 🎧 Follow the podcast: @more.than.milestones.pod 📬 Subscribe to the newsletter: https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC's favorites: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🔥 Go deeper with KC on Substack — More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood conversations you will not hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Love this episode? It would mean so much if you: ⭐ Rate and review the podcast 🎧 Follow or subscribe so you do not miss an episode 📲 Share this episode with a friend who is navigating the same questions LMNT: Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase at http://drinklmnt.com/MILESTONE. Find your favorite LMNT flavor, or share with a friend.

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40. The Power of Play: How Inclusive Spaces Shape Childhood and Belonging with G Cody QJ Goldberg

Inclusive playgrounds, accessibility, and why play matters for everyone. In this episode of More Than Milestones, I am joined by Cody Goldberg, co-founder and Chief Play Officer of Harper's Playground, to explore the power of inclusive playgrounds and why accessible play spaces are about so much more than play. Inspired by his daughter Harper's experience navigating the world with a rare genetic disability, Cody shares how a simple moment at a local playground sparked a movement to transform communities through radically inclusive design. Together, we discuss the difference between ADA compliance and true accessibility, the importance of designing spaces that foster belonging, and how thoughtful play environments can benefit people of all ages and abilities. This conversation challenges us to think beyond ramps and regulations and consider what it really means to create communities where everyone feels welcome, connected, and included. If you are passionate about accessibility, disability inclusion, child development, community connection, or creating spaces where all people can thrive, this episode is for you. In this episode, we cover: • The story behind Harper's Playground and how one family's experience sparked a global movement • Why accessible playgrounds are about belonging, not just compliance • The difference between ADA compliant and truly inclusive design • How playgrounds impact child development, social skills, and emotional growth • Why play is a fundamental human need across the lifespan • The hidden barriers that exist in many public spaces • How nature, community, and thoughtful design create better play experiences • The connection between inclusive spaces and reducing social isolation • What makes a playground physically, socially, and emotionally inviting • Practical steps for advocating for an inclusive playground in your own community • The future of accessibility and inclusive public spaces Inclusive design is not about creating separate spaces for people with disabilities. It is about building communities where everyone belongs. When we design for connection, accessibility, and play, we create environments that benefit all of us. Connect with G Cody QJ Goldberg and Harper’s Playground: 💻 Website: https://www.harpersplayground.org/ 📱 Harper’s Playground: https://www.instagram.com/harpersplayground/ 🔗LinkedIn: G Cody QJ Goldberg Connect with KC and Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱 Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips and parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates and new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips and podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom and baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🔥Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood conversations you will not hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Love this episode? It would mean so much if you: ⭐ Rate and review the podcast 🎧 Follow or subscribe so you do not miss an episode 📲 Share this episode with a friend who is navigating the same questions

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39. The Hormone Revolution: What Women Were Never Taught About Their Bodies with Mariah Berendt

PMS, painful periods, and how to support your body through nutrition In this episode of More Than Milestones, I am joined by Mariah Berendt, a holistic nutritionist and menstrual cycle educator, to unpack the truth about hormone health, PMS, and why so many women feel “off” for years without real answers. We talk about how common symptoms like painful periods, mood swings, fatigue, and cravings are often normalized, but are not actually something you have to live with. From the myths of cycle syncing to the foundations of true hormone support, this conversation offers a more realistic and sustainable approach. If you have ever felt like your body is working against you, this episode will help you understand why and what you can do about it. In this episode, we cover: Why many period symptoms are common but not normal The truth about hormonal birth control and what we still do not know Cycle syncing and where it can be misleading Why your cycle is not as simple as four phases The connection between blood sugar, stress, sleep, and hormones How modern life impacts your cycle more than you think The six foundations of holistic menstrual health Why doing more is not the answer A simple place to start that most women overlook You do not need a complicated plan or perfect routine. Supporting your hormones starts with small, consistent changes in how you eat, sleep, and care for your body. LMNT: Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase at http://drinklmnt.com/MILESTONE. Find your favorite LMNT flavor, or share with a friend. Connect with Mariah: 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nourishyourcycle/ 🍴 Big Girl Breakfast: https://www.nourishyourcycle.com/big-girl-breakfast Connect with KC and Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱 Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips and parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates and new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips and podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom and baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 🔥Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood conversations you will not hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones Love this episode? It would mean so much if you: ⭐ Rate and review the podcast 🎧 Follow or subscribe so you do not miss an episode 📲 Share this episode with a friend who is navigating the same questions

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38. Financial Literacy for Parents: Budgeting, Investing, and Raising Money-Smart Kids with Hannah Rein

In this episode of More Than Milestones, I’m sitting down with Hannah Rein, CPA, mom of three, and co-founder of Financially Engaged, to talk about financial literacy in a way that actually feels doable for real life. Because the truth is, most of us were never taught this. We break down the foundational pieces of personal finance, including budgeting, investing, debt payoff, and long-term financial planning, and how to approach it all without overwhelm or shame. Hannah shares simple ways to create a system that works for your life, not against it, and how to start building financial confidence step by step. We also talk about the real-life side of money. How to navigate finances with your partner, how to start having more open conversations, and how to model financial literacy for your kids in ways that feel natural and age-appropriate. One of my favorite parts of this conversation is when Hannah shares her “When We Die” folder. It completely shifted how I think about organizing our finances and planning for the unexpected, especially as a parent. In this episode, we cover: - How to create a realistic budget that you can actually stick to - Where to start with investing, including 401k, IRA, and index funds - High-yield savings accounts vs traditional savings accounts - How to build and prioritize your emergency fund - The snowball vs avalanche method for paying off debt - What accounts to consider for your kids, including 529, UGMA, and custodial IRA - How to have honest and productive money conversations as a couple - Simple ways to start teaching kids about money early on - What a monthly financial reset can look like - How to organize your finances with a “When We Die” folder If you’ve ever felt like you’re behind, confused, or just not sure where to start with your finances, this episode is for you. My hope is that you walk away feeling more clear, confident, and supported in taking your next step. Connect with Hannah: 💻 Website: https://financiallyengaged.com/ 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/financiallyengaged/ Connect with KC and Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱 Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips and parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates and new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips and podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom and baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 🔥Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood conversations you will not hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones Love this episode? It would mean so much if you: ⭐ Rate and review the podcast 🎧 Follow or subscribe so you do not miss an episode 📲 Share this episode with a friend who is navigating the same questions

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37. Low-Tox Living Without the Overwhelm: Simple Swaps, Safer Cleaning and Real-Life Wellness Habits

Non-toxic living is everywhere right now, but for most moms it does not feel empowering. It feels overwhelming. In this episode of More Than Milestones, I am joined by wellness educator Samantha Gutierrez to break down what low-tox living actually looks like in real life and how to approach it without fear, perfection, or falling into endless research rabbit holes. We talk about how to make simple, high-impact swaps in your home, how to think critically about products and marketing, and how to support your body’s natural detox systems with small, sustainable habits. If you have ever felt like you are not doing enough or you do not know where to start, this episode will help you take a deep breath and move forward with confidence. In this episode, we talk through: Why non-toxic living can feel overwhelming & how to simplify it How to make healthier swaps without throwing everything out What to prioritize first, including food, skincare, or cleaning products The truth about common household cleaners and disinfectants What quats (quaternary ammonium compounds) are and why they matter A breakdown of hypochlorous acid and safer disinfecting options How to navigate conflicting research Practical daily habits to support your body’s natural detox systems Circadian rhythm, sunlight, and simple wellness routines Glucose balance basics including meal order, walks, and easy metabolism habits Real-life meal prep and nutrition tips for busy moms Links & resources mentioned: Curativa Bay: https://www.curativabay.com/?rfsn=9019208.736ac22 (CODE: HABITS) EcoloxTech: https://ecoloxtech.com/samanthagutierrez (CODE: SAMANTHA10) Switch Natural App: https://gmm.one/5188d7a0-d51f-4838-bead-74bf87042643 Force of Nature: https://partners.forceofnatureclean.com/milestonesandmotherhood (CODE: MILESTONES for 40% OFF bundles) LMNT: http://drinklmnt.com/MILESTONE Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase. Some of these links are affiliate links, which just means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only ever share products we actually use and love. Connect with Samantha: 📲 Instagram & TikTok: @sam_healinghabits Connect with KC: 💻 Website: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📲 KC's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 More Than Milestones Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 🔥Subscribe to More Than Milestones: Unfiltered on Substack for 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month: https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

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36. Breaking Parenting Cycles: Emotional Regulation for Parents and Kids with Jon Fogel

How do you handle tantrums, big emotions, and discipline without yelling or punishment? In this episode of More Than Milestones, I sit down with parenting researcher & author Jon Fogel to break down what is actually happening in your child’s brain during meltdowns and why so many of us feel triggered in those moments. We talk about the difference between punishment and consequences, why traditional discipline often backfires, and what to do instead. Jon shares practical, research-backed tools to help you regulate your own emotions so you can respond instead of react. We also dive into why some kids feel harder to parent, how to break generational parenting cycles, and how to support emotional regulation in a way that actually sticks. If you have ever felt overwhelmed, reactive, or unsure how to handle your child’s behavior without yelling, this episode will give you clarity, tools, and a new perspective. This episode will help you: Understand the difference between punishment and consequences Learn why kids’ brains struggle during meltdowns Regulate your own emotions in high stress moments Respond to tantrums without yelling or shame Break generational parenting patterns with practical tools Connect with Jon Fogel: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wholeparent/ Website - https://www.wholeparentacademy.com/ Books: Punishment-Free Parenting & Set My Feelings Free (OUT APRIL 28TH) - https://www.wholeparentacademy.com/copy-of-book-2 The Whole Parent Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whole-parent-podcast/id1726080800 Connect with KC & Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱 Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips and parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates and new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/freetraining 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips and podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom and baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 🔥Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood conversations you will not hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

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35. Dyslexia in Children: Early Signs, ADHD Overlap & How to Support Neurodivergent Kids

What are the early signs of dyslexia in children and how can parents support neurodivergent kids? In this episode of More Than Milestones, I sit down with Dr. Jacob Santhouse, a counselor specializing in dyslexia and ADHD, to break down what dyslexia actually is and why it is often misunderstood. We talk about how dyslexia impacts language processing, working memory, and reading development, and why many bright children still struggle in school. We also cover early signs of dyslexia in toddlers and young children, including speech delays, difficulty with rhyming, word mix ups, and memory challenges. You will learn how dyslexia overlaps with ADHD, why many kids are not diagnosed until later, and what parents can do early to support their child. This episode also explores the emotional impact of learning differences, including shame, confidence, and how to help your child build resilience without pressure or fear. If you are wondering whether your child might be dyslexic or simply want to better understand neurodivergent development, this episode will give you clarity, tools, and reassurance. This episode will help you: Understand what dyslexia actually is and is not Recognize early signs in toddlers and young children Navigate testing, school support, and IEPs Support your child without shame, pressure, or “just try harder” messaging Shift from fixing your child to truly seeing and supporting them Connect with Dr. Jacob Santhouse and explore all of his incredible resources below! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drjacobsanthouse/ Website - https://www.bluejcoaching.com/ Counseling - https://www.olivecounseling.com/ For more of KC and Milestones & Motherhood: 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milestones.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/freetraining 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom & baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com 🔥 Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

34. Tongue Tie Truths: Evidence, Risks, and Informed Decisions

Feeling unsure about tongue ties or overwhelmed by conflicting advice? This episode breaks down what actually matters so you can make confident decisions for your child without fear or pressure. In this roundtable conversation, I’m joined by Dr Yvonne LeFort NABBLM-C, Kara Larson CCC-SLP, and Brianna Mulik CCC-SLP—three experts in pediatric feeding, swallowing, and breastfeeding medicine to unpack one of the most talked about topics in parenting right now: tethered oral tissues. We talk about what tongue ties actually are, when they matter, and why so many parents feel pushed toward quick decisions without fully understanding their options. In this episode, we cover: What tongue ties actually are and when they matter Why function matters more than appearance How to know if feeding challenges need further evaluation Red flags to watch for when seeking support What the research says about speech, sleep, and older kids Risks and benefits of intervention What true informed consent should look like If this episode helped you feel more confident, share it with a friend or another mom who might need it too. 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

33. Traditional Chinese Medicine for Modern Motherhood: Supporting Women’s Health, Energy Balance & Family Wellness with Dr. Felice Chan

Ancient wisdom has a lot to offer modern motherhood, especially when it comes to supporting our bodies, emotions, and families in a more holistic way. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Felice Chan, a doctor of acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine and the founder of Felice Acupuncture and Moonbow. We talk about how using practices from traditional Chinese medicine, like acupuncture, herbal medicine, and food as medicine, can support women’s health, postpartum recovery, emotional balance, and even children’s immune development, all in ways that feel practical and supportive for today’s busy moms. In this episode, we talk about: How traditional Chinese medicine views the body as an interconnected system Why many women feel dismissed when something feels “off” but lab work looks normal The role of balance, energy (chi), and nervous system regulation in healing A traditional Chinese medicine perspective on fertility and postpartum recovery Blood- and yin-nourishing foods that can support postpartum healing The four pillars of traditional Chinese medicine: acupuncture, herbal medicine, food as medicine, and lifestyle Supporting babies’ and children’s immune systems through a holistic lens Understanding “hot” vs. “cold” illnesses and how the body responds to each The connection between emotions, organ systems, and overall health What to know about herbal medicine and working with a practitioner Small, practical ways busy families can begin incorporating Chinese medicine principles Links Connect with Dr. Felice and explore all of her incredible resources below! Online Course – https://felice-chan.mykajabi.com/offers/pTosH8gc/checkout Acupuncture Clinic Booking Site – https://www.feliceacupuncture.com/ Moonbow Skincare – https://moonbowskin.com/ Postpartum Recipes – https://www.amazon.com/First-Forty-Days-Essential-Nourishing/dp/1617691836 National Website for Acupuncturists – https://www.ncbahm.org/find-a-practitioner-directory/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drfelicechan/ TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@drfelicechan Website – https://drfelicechan.com/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

32. Preparing for Labor & Delivery: What to Expect, Birth Options & Making Informed Decisions with Lo Mansfield

Preparing for pregnancy, labor, and delivery can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to make informed decisions about testing, birth plans, and the support team around you. In this episode, I’m joined by Lo Mansfield, RN, certified lactation consultant, mom of four, and the voice behind The Labor Mama. With years of experience in labor and postpartum nursing, Lo walks us through an honest and empowering look at what to expect throughout pregnancy and birth, from understanding prenatal testing and how pregnancy risk can change, to choosing your birth setting, navigating interventions during labor, and feeling more confident advocating for yourself during one of life’s biggest moments. Key topics we cover: What “high-risk pregnancy” actually means and how pregnancy risk can change over time Common prenatal tests in the first, second, and third trimesters How to think through hospital vs. birth center vs. home birth options The differences between an OB, midwife, and doula and how each supports you during pregnancy and birth Understanding the cascade of interventions during labor and delivery How to prioritize what matters most when making decisions about your birth experience Pain management during labor, including epidurals and other options Planned, repeat, urgent, and emergency C-sections and when they may be necessary Practical advice for advocating for yourself and asking for time, space, and information during labor Links: Follow Lo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelabormama Check out her podcast: Lo & Behold: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lo-behold-pregnancy-birth-motherhood/id1813937326 Listen to KC’s episode, episode 32: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tummy-time-sitting-rolling-walking-milestones-made/id1813937326?i=1000743032221 Grab a free copy of the Birth Plan/Birth Priorities tool: http://thelabormama.com/third Check out all of Lo’s online courses & guides: https://thelabormama.com/online-birth-postpartum-and-newborn-classes 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

31. Brain-Based Treatment 101: How Applied Functional Neurology Supports Kids’ Development and Adult Recovery

Feeling stuck when it comes to your child’s development or your own body can be incredibly frustrating, and sometimes the missing piece isn’t where you think it is. In this episode, I’m joined by neuro educator Missy Bunch, who shares how her own career-ending knee injury as a professional dancer led her to discover the powerful connection between the brain, nervous system, and body. Through her work in applied functional neurology, Missy breaks down how the brain processes input, why the body compensates the way it does, and how seemingly unrelated systems (like your eyes, ears, and even sense of smell) can directly impact movement, behavior, and overall function. This conversation will challenge the way you think about symptoms, encouraging you to zoom out, look for root causes, and better understand what your or your child’s body might be trying to communicate. In this episode, we cover: What “brain-based treatment” and applied functional neurology actually mean. How the brain processes input and why the nervous system plays a central role in development. Why the body is constantly compensating and what that can look like in both kids and adults. The connection between cranial nerves, movement, and overall function. How sensory-seeking behaviors may be your child’s way of asking for specific input. Why everything above the neck has a major impact on the rest of the body. The importance of identifying root causes instead of just treating symptoms. How to find qualified practitioners trained in this approach. Simple, practical tools you can try at home, like breathwork and using smell to assess the nervous system. Links: Check out Missy’s website: https://www.missybunch.com/ Connect with Missy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missybunch15 Learn more about Z-Health and find a trainer near you at: https://zhealtheducation.com/find-a-trainer/ 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

30. Creating a Peaceful Home: Intentional Parenting, Supporting Sibling Dynamics & Supporting Our Children in Navigating Friendships with Dr. Hanaa Ghannoum

Creating a peaceful home doesn’t come from perfect parenting; it comes from practicing presence, compassion, and intention. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Hanaa Ghannoum, parenting coach, mom of three, and founder of Peace Within Home. With a PhD in early childhood and curriculum studies, Dr. Hanaa helps parents raise their children with calm, confidence, and connection while also doing the inner work of re-raising themselves along the way. Our conversation explores what it really means to create a safe and peaceful home, how to approach sibling conflict in a healthy way, and how we can guide our children in building strong, meaningful friendships. If you’ve ever wanted to parent with more intention and less reacting, this conversation offers both perspective and practical tools. In this episode, we talk about: The idea of “practicing” parenting and how both parents and children are constantly learning How staying present helps us respond to our kids with more calm and compassion What it really means to create a safe home where children feel supported, even when they make mistakes The power of small daily moments of connection with our kids Understanding sibling conflict and why it can actually be a valuable learning space for kids Simple ways to support siblings through conflict without always stepping in to fix it, including the impact of one-on-one time with each child Creating family traditions that strengthen connection between siblings Ways to start meaningful conversations with kids about friendship and how to recognize healthy versus unhealthy relationships Teaching kids to trust their internal compass and pay attention to how others make them feel Helping children hold boundaries while still responding with kindness and courage Links Connect with Dr. Hanaa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhanaa.peacewithinhome Dr. Hanaa’s website: www.peacewithinhome.com Check out all of Dr. Hanaa’s incredible resources, including the Sibling Conflict Crash Course and The Friendship Lab, at www.peacewithinhome.com/shop 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

29. Your Menstrual Cycle Explained: Hormones, Reproductive Health & Advocating for Yourself with Dr. Kerry-Anne Perkins

Hormones influence far more than just our menstrual cycle, yet many women reach adulthood realizing how little they were ever taught about their own bodies. Today I’m joined by Dr. Kerry-Anne Perkins, a board-certified OB/GYN and passionate advocate for women’s health education. Together, we unpack why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, why female health has historically been overlooked in medical research, and how everyday factors like stress, nutrition, and environmental exposures can influence our reproductive health. Dr. Perkins also walks us through the phases of the menstrual cycle in a clear, practical way, explains why tracking your cycle matters, and shares how parents can help normalize conversations about periods and body literacy for the next generation of girls. Key Topics Covered: Why women have historically been underrepresented in medical research and how that impacts care today. The cultural and lifestyle differences that shape our health and hormones. Rising reproductive health challenges, including infertility and hormonal imbalances. How nutrition, sugar intake, and ultra-processed foods affect hormone balance and overall health. Environmental factors that influence reproductive health, including stress and endocrine disruptors. Understanding the phases of the menstrual cycle and what’s happening hormonally throughout the month. Why different phases of your cycle can affect energy, strength, mood, and focus. The importance of teaching girls what’s normal when it comes to periods, pain, and cycle changes. Why hormonal birth control is often used as a quick solution and what conversations may be missing. Practical ways women can advocate for themselves and find providers who truly listen. Links: Follow Dr. Perkins: On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callmedoctor.p On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Callmedoctor.p On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@callmedoctor.p On TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@callmedoctor.p Dr. Perkins’ website: https://callmedoctorp.com/ 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

28. Perimenopause As a Reset, Not a Breakdown: Hormones, Nutrition, and Strength for Moms with Dr. Amy Shah

Perimenopause isn’t a sudden switch, it’s a gradual shift that can begin years before most women realize what’s happening. I sit down with Dr. Amy Shah, double board certified MD and nutrition expert, to unpack what perimenopause actually is, why women’s symptoms have historically been misunderstood in medicine, and how to feel empowered instead of blindsided during this transition. Together, we reframe this season of life as an opportunity to build strength, resilience, and long term health from the inside out. Key Topics Covered: The 7 to 10 year hormonal transition and how it unfolds over time. Why women have been underrepresented in medical research. Cortisol, estrogen, and progesterone explained in simple terms. Early signs that signal shifting hormones. The gut hormone brain connection and why the gut acts as a control center. How nutritional needs evolve in your late 30s and 40s. Intermittent fasting for women and what to consider. Why prioritizing protein, fiber, and probiotics matters. Using food to build strength rather than shrink your body. Questions to ask when searching for a supportive healthcare provider. Dr. Amy Shah’s Book, Hormone Havoc: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/hormone-havoc-amy-shah-md?variant=43869469081634 Follow Dr. Amy Shah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dramyshah/ Dr. Amy’s Website: https://amymdwellness.com/ Links & Resources 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/freetraining 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom & baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones Love what you’re hearing? Follow, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow mom or caregiver who needs a litt

27. Rewrite Your Parenting Story With Therapist Eli Harwood: Attachment Styles Explained and What You Actually Need to Know to Raise Secure, Connected Kids

Attachment isn’t just a parenting buzzword. It’s the invisible thread that shapes how we connect, love, and feel safe for the rest of our lives. In this powerful conversation, therapist, author, and the face behind @attachmentnerd, Eli Harwood brings nearly two decades of clinical experience to unpack what attachment really means, why secure relationships matter far beyond childhood, and how parents can intentionally build safety and trust with their children. From understanding the different attachment styles to exploring whether healing your own wounds can truly impact your parenting, this episode offers clarity, hope, and practical tools. Eli also shares four realistic ways to foster secure relationships at home and a simple but transformative activity that helps children feel safe bringing any topic to their parents. Key Topics Covered: What attachment is and why humans are wired for connection. The different attachment categories and how caregiver reliability shapes them. Why attachment styles are flexible and can evolve over time. How to identify your own attachment style and recognize patterns in your child. The pressure to “break cycles” and how that mindset impacts today’s parents. Whether healing your past can influence your child’s sense of security. What reflective function is and why it matters. A nuanced conversation around sleep training and attachment. Four attainable strategies to strengthen connection at home. A practical communication exercise to help kids feel safe opening up. Follow Eli on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd/ Follow Eli on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/attachmentnerd Visit Eli’s Website: https://www.attachmentnerd.com/ Eli’s Adult Journal: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/securely-attached-workbook Raising Securely Attached Kids: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/raising-securely-attached-kids The Mother/Daughter Journal - Uniquely Us: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/uniquely-us-mother-daughter-journal How to Deal with Your BEEP! So Your Kids Don’t Have To: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/how-to-deal Links & Resources 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence

26. My Hot Takes on Weddings, Wine Culture, Wearing Jorts + More!

This episode is a fun, rapid fire hot takes roundup straight from my Instagram community, where nothing was off limits and everything from jorts to uninviting kids from weddings made the list. Pineapple on pizza? Pickle potato chips? Taking three kids anywhere in public? We’re covering it all. I share how my perspective has shifted from first time mom to third time mom and how experience has softened some of my rigid thinking. We talk shared bank accounts, who gets up in the middle of the night, in law dynamics, co-sleeping, mommy wine culture, intimacy after kids, and whether no gift birthday parties are actually a gift to parents. I also weigh in on helmets and torticollis, and one of those is absolutely not something to ignore. This conversation is lighthearted and honest, but also a reminder that most things in motherhood are nuanced and confidence often comes with time, growth, and doing what truly works for your family. Links & Resources 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/freetraining 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom & baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones Love what you’re hearing? Follow, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow mom or caregiver who needs a little less pressure and a little more support. 🤍 This episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

25. Big Kids, Bigger Feelings: Alyssa Campbell on Supporting Emotional Development in Ages 5 to 12

Alyssa Campbell joins More than Milestones to dive into one of the most overlooked yet critical stages of child development: ages 5 to 12. With a master’s degree in early childhood education, research experience in emotional development, and as the founder of Seed and Sew and a two-time bestselling author, Alyssa helps parents understand why big emotions in big kids are not something to fix, but information to listen to. We explore how emotional and social development shows up differently in school-aged kids compared to toddlers, why connection is the foundation for everything, and how parents can stay close even as peer influence grows. This conversation offers practical insight for navigating big feelings, conflict, honesty, and tough topics with confidence and compassion. Key Topics Covered Why ages 5 to 12 are a critical and often overlooked stage of emotional development How big emotions show up differently in school-aged kids versus toddlers Why big emotions are not a phase, but important information The nine senses and how they influence emotional regulation in kids How to identify what triggers your individual child and what they truly need Staying connected as kids start prioritizing peer relationships How to repair after missteps in connection with your child Talking to kids about puberty, sex, drugs, and peer pressure earlier than expected Why lying can be developmentally appropriate at this age and how to respond Navigating conflict between kids and knowing when to step in versus step back Follow Alyssa on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/seed.and.sew/ Alyssa’s Website: https://www.seedandsew.org/about Free Questionnaire: https://regulationroadmap.softr.app/ Get Your Copy of Alyssa’s Book Tiny Humans, Big Emotions: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/Tiny-Humans-Big-Emotions-book Get Your Copy of Alyssa’s Book Big Kids, Bigger Feelings: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/big-kids-bigger-feelings-book Links & Resources 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones

24. Sex After Kids: How to Reconnect as Partners, Reignite Intimacy & End the Roommate Phase With Vanessa & Xander Marin

If you’ve ever felt like your partner turned into a roommate after kids, this conversation is for you. I'm joined by the one and only Vanessa and Xander Marin. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience in sex therapy, and Xander left his career at Google to focus on helping couples talk openly about sex. In this episode, we dive into the “roommate phase,” the bristle reaction, and what it really looks like to reconnect sexually after kids. Vanessa and Xander normalize the fact that every couple struggles with intimacy, from mismatched sex drives to communication breakdowns and share practical, realistic tools to help partners feel less alone and more connected. Key Topics Covered Why intimacy shifts for every couple The “roommate phase” and how couples drift Preparing for how parenthood impacts your sex life Mom mode → me mode → we mode, and why transition time matters after birth Mental desire vs. physical arousal, including responsive desire How to communicate needs and invite reconnection without rejection Why sex shouldn’t feel like a chore—and how to rebuild real connection Follow Vanessa + Xander on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/ Visit Vanessa + Xander’s Website: vmtherapy.com Their Book; Sex Talks: https://sextalksbook.com/ Links & Resources 💻 Website & Blog: https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/ 📱Follow KC for daily motor milestone tips & parenting support: https://www.instagram.com/milesto nes.and.motherhood/ 🎧 Follow podcast updates & new episode drops: https://www.instagram.com/more.than.milestones/ 🆓 Get my free tummy time training: Mastering Milestones with Confidence https://www.milestonesandmotherhood.com/freetraining 📬 Join the email list for milestone tips + podcast updates https://idyllic-hat-942.myflodesk.com/fwefz61097 🛒 Shop KC’s favorite mom & baby finds: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amazon/amazonstorefrontmm 🤝 Sponsor or guest inquiries? Contact us at podcast@milestonesandmotherhood.com Go deeper with KC on Substack More Than Milestones: Unfiltered is my subscription channel where I release 2 exclusive bonus episodes every month. Even more raw, unfiltered motherhood chats you won’t hear anywhere else. https://substack.com/@morethanmilestones Love what you’re hearing? Follow, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow mom or caregiver who needs a little less pressure and a little more support. 🤍