Mention It All

Betches Media

Betches Media presents Mention It All, a podcast dedicated to breaking down all things Bravo. Your host, certified Bravoholic Dylan Hafer, is covering everything Real Housewives and more, including weekly episode recaps and analysis, the latest social media drama, and interviews with your favorite Bravolebrities. For more Bravo memes, commentary, and special guests, follow @bravobybetches on Instagram.

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January 27 · 35 min
Dr. Heavenly Responds To Gizelle Bryant & Quad's Beef, Breaks Down The Toya Texts, & Her Run For Congress Ft. Dr. Heavenly Kimes
On this week’s video episode, Dylan sits down with Married to Medicine’s Dr. Heavenly to unpack why this season has felt heavier and more difficult than any of her past ones, including her very bold take on her “perfect” marriage with Dr. Damon. She claps back at Quad and Gizelle Bryant’s comments on WWHL and says that, like her, Gizelle just likes to talk. Then she addresses her relationship with Toya and makes it clear she’s not entertaining the disrespect. Plus, she reacts to Dr. Simone weighing in on her run for Congress, shares why she chose forgiveness while Simone is dealing with a lot, and closes by laying out exactly what she wants to do in office and why she thinks you should vote for her. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 23 · 44 min
KyManda Calls It Quits, Andy’s SLC Exit, & Ladies of London is Back With… A Man? (RHOSLC, RHOP, RHOBH)
Dylan is back for this week’s Bravo recap, starting with a dramatic reading of Kyle Cooke and Amanda Batula’s breakup statement. It’s not surprising, but is it still kind of shocking? From there, he recounts his experience at Dorinda Medley’s (very early) DJ event, before launching into the interesting twist on the newly-announced Ladies of London reboot. For this week’s shows, he focuses on the RHOSLC reunion, where Meredith launches a big accusation at Britani, and Andy Cohen walks off the stage amid Lisa and Angie’s big argument. He also recaps RHOBH, where Amanda and Dorit’s feud is starting to bubble into something major, and RHOP, where Gizelle goes off on Angel over her failed Colorado trip plans. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 20 · 31 min
Why Stassi Is Still The Vanderpump Rules Blueprint Ft. Venus Binkley
On this week’s video episode, Dylan is joined by Vanderpump Rules reboot star Venus Binkley to get into what life has been like since the show dropped, including getting recognized in NYC and why he feels like reality TV comes naturally to him. Venus tells Dylan how Stassi hooked him immediately back in the OG Vanderpump days, what it was like working at SUR when Scandoval broke, and why that summer was the busiest he’s ever been working in a restaurant. Then, Venus breaks down the Marcus and Kim chao and why he refuses to trust Marcus moving forward. Plus, Venus weighs in on Angelica, the penis pump story getting told to Lisa Vanderpump, what Lisa is really like off camera, and why Venus thinks the whole thing was meant to make Jason look bad. Finally, he teases what’s coming as the season heats up, from the group trip to the reunion, and what he wants to bring next season, including his twin sister and his soon to be released memoir. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 16 · 50 min
Nene's Big Return, Potomac's Nightmare Trip, & Salley's Friend Zone Disaster (RHOP, RHOBH, Southern Charm, & RHOSLC Reunion Recaps)
Big news: Friday episodes are now on video! This week, Dylan has a full plate of topics, from his IRL Traitors experience to all the latest Bravo episodes. He also digs into the cast announcements for the next edition of Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, and what this means for the Bravo future of Nene Leakes. After that, he discusses the RHOP cast's hilariously awful trip to Colorado, and Angel's bizarre disinterest into giving "the ladies" a positive experience. From there, he jumps to RHOBH's Sedona trip, and Amanda's ham-fisted attempt to address Sutton's assistant drama. Then, it's time to catch up on Southern Charm, and Venita's prediction about Salley and Craig's dynamic comes true in about five seconds. But how will Salley's friend-zoning affect Craig's crush on Charley? Finally, Dylan arrives at the RHOSLC reunion, which is off to a strange start after a trip down memory lane and a puzzling explanation of Lisa Barlow's business. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 13 · 35 min
Mercedeh 'MJ' Javid On Returning To TV & Life After Separating From Tommy Ft. Mercedeh 'MJ' Javid
On this week’s video episode, Dylan sits down with Mercedeh “MJ” Javid to talk about her return to TV with “The Valley: Persian Style”. Dylan and Mercedeh get into the name evolution, Persian pride, and why “The Valley: Persian Style” feels like a fresh chapter instead of Shahs reboot. Did Rihanna have something to do with it? MJ opens up about her life now, including her “modern separation” with Tommy and how they’re still a family by design, down to living less than a minute apart. Plus, they also talk about new cast dynamics, the very real way logistics can mess up romance, and her ironic season on The Traitors. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 9 · 57 min
Secret Traitors, Sisters of Salt, & The Return of the Shahs
Dylan returns for the first Friday episode of 2026, and it’s a week full of drama, deception, and debauchery in the Bravo world. We kick things off with RHOSLC’s season 6 finale, where the group melts down in the wake of watching their personalized Greek tragedy. Dylan unpacks some burning questions about the finale, and where the ladies can go from here. Next, he shares some quick hit takes from RHOBH, back after a lengthy holiday break with a trip to Sedona. Can newbie Amanda overcome her rough edit, or is she doomed to be a punchline (with $10k worth of crystals)? Then, Dylan digs into the all-new show The Valley: Persian Style, which remixes some beloved Shahs of Sunset OGs with the winning formula of The Valley. It’s off to a strong start, even if some of the relationships are on very shaky ground. And finally, we finish things off with a recap of the first THREE episodes of The Traitors, featuring lots of spoilers about the latest twist to the game, the first murders and banishments, and who’s standing out so far. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
January 6 · 36 min
Captain Sandy On Seeing Hannah Ferrier Again At BravoCon Ft. Captain Sandy Yawn
It’s the first video episode of 2026 and Dylan is kicking off the new year with a Below Deck legend: Captain Sandy Yawn sits down to talk Season 10 of Below Deck Med, what it’s like looking back on 30+ years in yachting, and why BravoCon always reminds her the Below Deck universe is truly a global family. Sandy breaks down the V moment and why giving someone space to heal is literally part of maritime training. Plus, she shares what fans don’t always understand about leadership under pressure. Then, we get into the behind the scenes logistics that make the show possible, from how they choose locations and anchorages to why weather protection matters so much when you’re trying to get off the dock every charter. Captain Sandy also gives an update on her relationship with Hannah Ferrier and what it was like seeing each other again at BravoCon. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 30, 2025 · 27 min
Who’s the Delusional Bravo Icon of the Year?
On the last video episode of 2025, Dylan is closing out the year with his Bravo Awards, handing out trophies for everything from the “thank you for your time” exits he’s begging to see in 2026 to the flop comebacks that happened in 2025. Dylan also breaks down which housewives improved the most this year, who’s truly owning her sophomore season, who’s still on the rise, and why it was objectively a terrible year to be named Todd. Then it’s time to honor the most delusional behavior, the most painfully awkward sprinter van rides, and the reunion moment that deserves a permanent spot in the Bravo Hall of Fame. And yes, Dylan crowns a Housewife of the Year to end it all. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 23, 2025 · 35 min
Southern Charm’s Molly O’Connell on her relationship with Salley Carson Ft. Molly O'Connell
On this week’s video episode, Dylan sits down with Southern Charm star Molly O’Connell to talk about stepping into her sophomore season and finding her footing in Charleston. She reflects on her time on America’s Next Top Model and explains how wildly different filming Southern Charm has been. Molly opens up about navigating drama for the first time, the Craig and Austen dynamic now that Craig and Paige are broken up, and how group dynamics shift when new cast members enter the mix. She also gets real about sharing her mental health journey, body image struggles, and why being a little weird might be her superpower. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 19, 2025 · 50 min
Dorit Needs A Forensic Accountant, Not A Money Queen (RHOBH, RHOSLC, RHOP, Southern Charm)
It's the last Friday episode of the year, and Dylan comes ready to discuss a pair of tantalizing casting rumors. Is NeNe burying the hatchet with Bravo in time for the 20th anniversary of Housewives? And will a Jersey OG be making the jump to RHOC? Then, he digs into this week's slate of recaps, starting with Dorit's divorce bootcamp and Kyle's kinda coming out on RHOBH. From there, he discusses Angel's confusing living situation on RHOP, Meredith's disengagement on RHOSLC, and the mounting frustration with the hot tub situation on Southern Charm. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 17, 2025 · 33 min
Dr. Simone Breaks Down Her Complicated Relationship With Quad On M2M Ft. Dr. Simone Whitmore
On this week’s video episode, Dylan is joined by Married to Medicine OG Dr. Simone Whitmore to unpack all the Season 12 drama. She talks about inspiring the next generation of brown girl physicians, the fake invitation fiasco with Quad and what it means for their friendship, plus her thoughts on Heavenly running for Congress. Spoiler: she won’t be going to her election night party. They also get into welcoming newbies into an already tight group, the energy Dr. Mimi brings, and her thoughts on Phaedra Parks exit from the show. Is there any hope for their friendship after last season? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 12, 2025 · 56 min
Another Todd Bites The Dust (RHOSLC, Southern Charm, RHOBH)
Another week comes to an end, with an explosive bit of news regarding one of the bleakest Housewives marriages. After dealing with that, Dylan gets into storytime about two fever dream experiences from his weekend: Britani Bateman’s cabaret debut, and Peacock’s Reality Hot Seat taping. Then, he catches up on this season of Southern Charm, with a breakdown of what’s happening with the guys (chaos, as usual), and whether the drama with the girls is finally compelling. Later, he debriefs the latest episodes of RHOBH and RHOSLC, with Kyle (mostly) opening up about her relationship situation, and SLC’s Greece trip off to a somewhat frustrating start. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 9, 2025 · 35 min
Vanderpump Rules’ New Stars Respond to Bravo Fans’ Criticism Ft. Natalie & Marcus
On this week’s video episode, Dylan is joined by Vanderpump Rules’ newest stars, Marcus Johnson and Natalie Mcguire, for a wild look inside life at SUR. They spill all about the infamous security footage suspension, messy ex drama, Lisa Vanderpump’s tough love, and the pressure of stepping into Bravo’s most iconic restaurant. Plus, they react to comparisons to the OG cast, unpack the tension between co-workers, and why this season feels like classic Vanderpump Rules again. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 5, 2025 · 1 hr
VPR’s New Shift & RHOBH’s Divorce Parade (Plus RHOSLC & SLOMW)
It’s another very busy Friday episode, and before diving into the week’s biggest news, Dylan takes a minute to honor his favorite Bravo memes of 2025. Then, he shares some thoughts on the latest season of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, the Fruity Pebbles drama, and whether the show will be able to keep up with the cast’s never-ending mess. Then, he checks in on Vanderpump Rules, who kicked off its new era this week to mixed reviews. This cast has a lot of the right pieces, but is there any way to shake off the comparisons? Later, he recaps the season 15 premiere of RHOBH, which sees a whole host of divorce updates along with Rachel Zoe’s chic arrival. He finishes the episode with some quick RHOSLC thoughts, and an update on Jen Shah’s impending prison release. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dec 2, 2025 · 31 min
Meredith Marks Talks About Jen Shah's RHOSLC Future & Their Prison Phone Call Ft. Meredith Marks
On this week's video episode, Dylan is joined by RHOSLC icon and DJ Meredith Marks for an unfiltered conversation about Season 6, the cast friendships, and the rumors she’s had enough of. Meredith sets the record straight on the infamous flight drama, the yacht fallouts, and the group’s obsession with “takedowns.” She opens up about returning to Mary Cosby’s church reopening, supporting Lisa despite the accusations, and why she refuses to do the group’s “dirty work.” Meredith also talks DJ life, BravoCon mayhem, Brooks’ next-gen fame, and how she feels about Jen Shah’s return to the real world. Can we expect to see Jen holding a snowflake again? Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 21, 2025 · 1 hr 25 min
Who Was the MVP of BravoCon 2025? (Plus RHOSLC & RHOC)
Dylan is back from a whirlwind weekend in Vegas, and he wastes no time getting into all the important details from BravoCon 2025. He unpacks which panels delivered (and which ones flopped), which cast needs to up their energy levels, and all the announcements for what’s coming in 2026. Then, it’s time for a host of important legal updates, from Jen Shah’s updated prison release plans to Wendy and Eddie’s comical (alleged) aliases. Later, he recaps this week’s episode of RHOSLC (still cringing at Britani and Jared) and part three of the RHOC reunion (where do we even go from here?). Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 18, 2025 · 31 min
Angel Massie Says Gizelle Bryant Tried to Embarrass Her on RHOP Ft. Angel Massie
On this week’s video episode, Dylan sits down with Angel Massey from The Real Housewives of Potomac for a very real conversation about her rookie season. Angel explains what you did not see on the Nevis trip, including the truth behind that infamous photo at dinner, why being called a catfish hit differently when she was away from her kids and still breastfeeding, and how hard it was to process a table full of women coming for her who she was trying to build friendships with. She breaks down the difference between the supportive WAG sisterhood and the Potomac Housewives, where you can be bonding one day and on the chopping block the next, plus where she really stands with Gizelle and Wendy today. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 14, 2025 · 48 min
Snowflakes On A Plane (RHOSLC, RHOP)
Before heading off to BravoCon, Dylan is back for another whackadoodle-time journey through this week’s Bravo news. First up, he discusses a viral clip from Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test, which makes it clear that Gia Giudice didn’t fall far from the tree. Then, he locks in for an important RHOSLC recap, because we need to figure out WTF happened on the flight from hell. Are Meredith and Lisa lying about bullying Britani? Could Mary hear all the way from her seat? And most importantly, which movies did Meredith watch on the flight? Much to unpack. Later, he covers RHOP’s last day in Nevis, which features another confusing crashout from one of the newbies. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 11, 2025 · 34 min
Kathy Griffin on Being “The Most Canceled Celebrity Ever” Ft. Kathy Griffin
On this week’s video episode, Dylan is joined by the one and only iconic Kathy Griffin for a truly unfiltered conversation about her career, comedy, and comeback. Kathy opens up about rising from the ashes after her most controversial moments, her deep love for the gay community, and why she proudly calls herself “the most canceled celebrity ever.” She looks back on her Bravo beginnings with ‘Life on the D-List’, finding the funny in absolutely everything, and why she’s now the self-proclaimed captain of all gay cruises. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 7, 2025 · 52 min
Tamra 2.0 Needs A Factory Reset (RHOBH & VPR Trailers, RHOC, RHOSLC)
The temps are dropping outside, which means it's time for a sneak peek at our winter Bravo slate. Dylan kicks off this week's Friday episode with a breakdown of new season trailers for both RHOBH and Vanderpump Rules. In Beverly Hills, Kyle is finally coming out (sort of), while the brand new VPR crew has big shoes to fill. Best of luck! Then, he recaps the latest episode of RHOSLC, where Britani and Meredith's yacht fight reaches a new decibel. Meanwhile, Lisa is exhibiting similar behavior to Tamra at the RHOC reunion, which isn't off to a great start. Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices