Masocast
Casual Conversations With Kinky And Sex Positive People
Skye and James of unikink.com share the story of how their partnership—both personal and professional—grew out of a single six-hour photo shoot that changed everything. We talk about the spiritual and therapeutic dimensions of Shibari, the art of untying as aftercare, teaching all-levels workshops around the world, navigating the vulnerability of being a switch, finding the right rope for your practice and a ton more.
A conversation with Cat and Joshua of the Kink Collective where we get into their origin stories of discovering kink at a young age and the shame that came with it. Joshua shares his path from the Marines to professional domination and how he realized helping people through kink was his calling. They talk about connecting through the NYC scene and discovered they shared the same philosophy about hosting events. We dig into their ”People Before Kink” approach, removing hierarchy at events, rule readings as a filtering mechanism, and their zero-strike policy for bad actors. We discuss separating sex from BDSM as an exercise, how pairing unlikely partners together for practice leads to breakthroughs, service submission and so much more. Find out about the amazing work they do and their upcoming events at https://kinkcollective.net
A conversation wth Emily Letts, a therapeutic kink specialist, where we chat about how she discovered exploring kink in a therapeutic way, the connection between suppression of desires and toxic behavior, how she helps people explore and accept parts of themselves they may normally suppress, her classes, and lots more. Find her at soulkink.com where you can find all of her links to her podcast, youtube, tiktok and more Her video on the Wheel of Consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsAWZhOeJuo
Natasha Gornik is back! We dive into her journey away from sex work, choosing sobriety, and the beautiful story of her marriage. Natasha shares how breast cancer transformed her outlook on life, the power of friendship and support, and her evolving relationship with sexuality and desire. Find her at natashagornik.com
Petter Tupper is back to talk about this hsitory of BDSM. We discuss the fetishization of facist imagery, how scary and anxiety-inducing things become fetishized including COVID, how the fear of gender idenity manfiests, how depictions of bdsm have changed over the years but a common thread lines though many of them, why we no longer need to rely as heavily on mainstream media for positive depictions as other groups have needed to in the past. How he approaches lookikng at a new form of media’s depiction of kink, Find his blog at http://petertupper.com and he writs about this history of kink at https://historyofbdsm.com
A conversation with Knotty Chris where we discuss his interest in bondage, why kink and neurodiversity often go hand in hand, poly, exploring the scene and making spaces more friendily to people on the spectrum, the appeal of different kinds of rope and a dive into mummification. You can find him on fetlife at Knotty_Chris and read his writings where he reflects about his experiences.
Unicycle Girl Nyx shares her journey through the world of kink, identity, community, sneezing and burping fetishes, her transition journey the clown kink community and more. You can find her on fetlife at unicyclegirlNyx
A conversation with filmmaker Hilton Ariel Ruiz about his documentary series on erotic art, highlighting its evolution over the past 20 years. We discuss his first documentary, “Art of Erotica: The Outsider,” his collaboration with artist Barbara Nitke, the shift from male to female creators, the impact of digital technology, and the changes in societal attitudes towards eroticism. Hilton shares insights on his upcoming sequel, emphasizing how contemporary artists, influenced by platforms like OnlyFans, express themselves with greater freedom and openness. Where to watch and follow Hilton: Watch “Art of Erotica: The Outsiders”: On Amazon: Search for “ART OF EROTICA” Free on the FAWESOME app: Download fawesome.tv and search “ART OF EROTICA” Follow Hilton: IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2081348/ Instagram: @hiltonarielruiz Twitter: @hiltonarielruiz
A conversation with Mistress Sato takes us on their personal journey through the world of kink and BDSM. From doodling erotic art as a child to exploring the early internet, Sato shares how they developed their dominant personality long before understanding what BDSM even was. We dig into Purgatory, the revolutionary collective Sato co-founded with Mistress Kiki, created specifically to uplift BIPOC, queer, and trans people. Rather than following the traditional dungeon model, Purgatory operates as a supportive community where members share skills, resources, and political values. We dig into consensual non-consent to the economics of male dominants in the industry, all while emphasizing how Purgatory’s anti-capitalist approach creates a more just and sustainable environment for peopl from all backgrounds. Find purgatory at https://purgatorynyc.org https://www.x.com/PurgatoryNyc https://www.instagram.com/purgatorynyc_ https://www.facebook.com/105282052534165
A chat with Foxie Lou about their early experiences with kink, the appeal of degradation from both the top and bottom, primal play and letting go safely, the fun part of adding to your kinky toolbox, clowns, mannequins, face flogging, positive and negative changes in the bdsm community pre and post pandemic, being a kinky coach to help people discover and accept areas of themselves, the difference between coaching and therapy, expressing ones desires and a whole lot more. Learn more about their coaching at foxieloucoaching.com and find them on IG at https://www.instagram.com/mxfoxielou/
A conversaton with SheMagick about SheMagickEvents, how she went from erotica to her first munch to making her own kink space, the wrong way to approach a dominant if you’re interested, her ideal service scene, d/s and lots more. Find SheMagickEvents on fetlife here IG here Sign up for the mailing list here and if you’d like to be vetted for events fill out this handy form
A chat with Emilie P Bush author of Fables in the Key of Kink: An Inappropriate Picture Book. We talk about her experience in non-monogamy, the kink community, her experience as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ child while living in a traditionally conservative part of the world, the organization she started to support families like hers (LILBURNPride.com) and of course her book Fables in the Key of Kink, her life experiences behind the book and more. You can buy book now here Get a sneak peak at two of the stories below
A chat with Goddess Ashley about growing up and discovering kink in singapore, what it’s like exploring for the first time as a sub and her evolution into domination. Kinks from around the world and what it’s like when she’s on tour. Learn more on her website Singapore-BDSM.com Twitter http://www.twitter.com/_GoddessAshley and IG http://www.instagram.com/bygoddessashley
Our first conversation was in 2009 so we have a lot of catching up to do. We talk about the changes in the NYC scene pre and post pandemic, inclusive spaces, dealing with health issues, submissive men and so much more. Find Coko on Fetlife here TES (She’s back on the board of TES since this recording can be found here ) SheMagick Events here
A great conversation with Madam Director where we talk about her process of making kink videos, what she looks for in play parnters depending on her mood, trends in the NYC kink scene post pandemic and so much more. Find her at madamdirector.net Her amazing and insightful blog at madamdirectorlola.wordpress.com Her kink videos available at www.clips4sale.com/studio/129395/madam-director Membership Streaming: www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001983878/Madam_Director/Store/Videos Live weekly shows every Friday at 4 pm EST: onlyfans.com/that_lola Wishlist (currently crowdfunding a pair of Louboutins) www.wishtender.com/madamdirector
Peaches jumps on the show (been way too long since a fellow submissive guy was on the show) to talk about how he got his nickname, spaking and impact play, humiliation, chastity and a lot more. Find peaches online at https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/188875/simply-discipline https://fetlife.com/users/172906 https://twitter.com/Peaches1NYC
Mistress Kayla and Sorceress Bebe jump on the podcast to talk about their early kink experiences, the kink scene in California, walking the fine line of having a personal sub to something more romantic, their experiences during covid and their new female run multipurpose kink space Venus In Bells. Find Kayla at Mistresskaylabdsm.com Bebe at SorceressBebe.com and learn more about Venus in Bells at Twitter.com/venusinbells
If you or someone you know would like to jump on for a conversation on the podcast drop me an email masocasot@gmail.com In this episode a conversation with a service-oriented sub who decided to dive into exploring decades into his marriage. We talk about therapy, seeking a pro domme, communication and the nature of service-oriented submission and how it look for him.
Part 1 of a conversation with Bruce and Shermie, two people who have been in the kink community in NYC for decades. They talk about how they met in the scene, the changes they’ve seen over the years, how the internet changed things and more