Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships

Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT - Christian Marriage And Family Therapist, Pastor’s Wife, Mom of 4

Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles.

Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do.

But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons.

It is my prayer that you will find that here.

Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life.

Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support.

Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon!

~ Jess

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Feb 20, 2024 · 27 min
How To Deal With Cranky Kids And Be A Peace-Filled Mom In The Middle Of It All
Episode 180 // No mom enjoys dealing with cranky kids. But eventually, every mom has to! And sometimes the real problem is - when they’re cranky, we get cranky. But it does not have to be that way! Today, I’ll share some tips and encouragement in how to hold onto your own PEACE even when your kids are whining, grumbling, and giving into all of their big emotions. It can feel overwhelming, but there are strategies that will help. Ready for more peace in your own heart, mama? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on building biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ MENTIONED TODAY: FREE Conflict Resolution Cheatsheet, Devotional Joy in the Journey, Devotional Keep Your Cool, Mama! ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Feb 16, 2024 · 17 min
Hope For The Struggling Christian Wife
Episode 179 // Happy marriages take work. And guess what? They aren’t ALWAYS happy. There is still conflict. There are still disappointments. But let’s not forget - God is in it with you, friend. He cares about your marriage and He cares about you. I’ve spent over 10 years helping couples as a Christian marriage counselor, and I’ve seen God do amazing things! Join me today for some encouragement and reality-checks to help you, when you’re feeling stuck and discouraged in your Christian marriage. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned Today: FREE Conflict Resolution Checklist, my 40-day Communicating to Connect Devotional, and the online courses for intimacy from Sheila Gregoire ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. Some of my links are affiliate links and I earn a small commission if you purchase through them. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Feb 13, 2024 · 27 min
Time For Date Night! 5 Tips For How To Enjoy More Steamy Date Nights With Your Hubby
Episode 178 // Happy Valentine’s Day! Let’s get into the good stuff today, friend - because I know you want a hot and steamy date night with your man this week.. and every other week too. Intimacy is usually not a problem while we’re dating and in the newlywed stage. But then kids come along, we get busy, the bills pile up… what about date nights??! I’ve been a Christian marriage counselor for over 10 years. Yes, I know that date night isn’t a magic wand for your marriage. But I also know that it can make a big difference. So I want to share some practical ideas for how to have fun (sometimes for free!) and enjoy more fabulous date nights with your man. Ready? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned Today: FREE Conflict Resolution Checklist, online courses for intimacy from Sheila Gregoire ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. Some of my links are affiliate links and I earn a small commission if you purchase through them. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Feb 9, 2024 · 20 min
How Confident Are You About God's Plan And Purpose For You And Your Christian Family?
Episode 177 // Hopefully, you believe me when I tell you that God has a purpose for you. You matter! You are not in your family by mistake. And God’s plans are good. But really, you don’t have to believe me. Let’s hear it from God Himself. Today, we’ll walk through 4 amazing Bible verses that remind us of who we are, whose we are, and why this crazy thing called family life really does matter… and you can do it, by God’s strength. Join me, friend. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Feb 6, 2024 · 25 min
Feeling DEFEATED As A Mom? You Are Not Alone - And God Has A Plan For You
Episode 176 // Are you struggling with the mom guilt, a sense of failure, and just feeling defeated in your family relationships? You’re not alone, friend. This is such a common struggle for Christian moms! And you don’t have to sit in that feeling of being defeated. There are no perfect parents, and God did not mess up when He created you, redeemed you, and placed you in your family. So today, let’s tackle some real-life ideas for how you can kick this feeling to the curb and start feeling confident again in who you are as a Christian, a woman, a wife, and a mom. Ready? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Feb 3, 2024 · 3 min
[Bonus] Build Biblical Marriage Habits With Us!
Today is an invitation, friend. As we jump into the shortest month of the year, let's make it count. Join us inside the Faith Fiver Club today and grab your workbook, private podcast, and plenty of resources and encouragement for our February Monthly Challenge - Building Biblical Marriage Habits. hugs & blessings, Jess ❤️ Faith Fiver Club - www.patreon.com/loveyourpeoplewell ❤️ Marriage Resources - www.loveyourpeoplewell.com/marriage
Feb 2, 2024 · 15 min
How To Use The Bible To Help When You Feel Like You’re Drowning In Overwhelming Emotions
Episode 175 // The greatest resource that you have for managing hard emotions is the Lord. Is his Holy Spirit growing fruit in your life, like patience and self-control? Are you experiencing the peace and joy that Jesus promises? One of the keys to this type of spiritual growth and deep faith is spending time in the Bible. And the Bible has a LOT to say about our emotions! Let’s take a look at some key Bible passages about emotions, and find encouragement and help for everyday family life, so we can enjoy it more. Ready? Let’s go! hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned Today: FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible and Prayer Challenge, 40-Day Devotional Keep Your Cool, Mama! ❤️ Build a deep FAITH ❤️ Enjoy a happy MARRIAGE ❤️ Find joy in PARENTING ❤️ Invest in HOME & FAMILY LIFE ❤️ Manage hard EMOTIONS ❤️ Learn great skills for COMMUNICATION ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE ❤️ Find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY > Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! > Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. > Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 30, 2024 · 26 min
DROWNING In All The Emotions? Steal My Best Counselor Tips To Start Managing Hard Emotions Today
Episode 174 // Do you ever feel like you’re drowning in all the big emotions of motherhood? You are not alone! Emotions can be hard to manage, and they can make it really difficult to enjoy and embrace everyday family life. So listen in today, because I’ve got some helpful tips to get back on track with managing those hard emotions. This is one of the most common topics that comes up in the counseling room, and I know that Christ can bring you VICTORY in managing your emotions! Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our February Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on biblical marriage habits. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned Today: Keep Your Cool, Mama! 40-Day Devotional For Emotional Control ❤️ Build a deep FAITH ❤️ Enjoy a happy MARRIAGE ❤️ Find joy in PARENTING ❤️ Invest in HOME & FAMILY LIFE ❤️ Manage hard EMOTIONS ❤️ Learn great skills for COMMUNICATION ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE ❤️ Find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY > Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! > Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. > Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 26, 2024 · 29 min
10 Crucial Bible Verses To Help You Build CONNECTION With Your Christian Family
Episode 173 // When you’re trying to strengthen communication in your family relationships, there is great wisdom to be found in God’s communication with us: The Bible! Join me today to dive into 10 crucial Scriptures that help us understand, improve, and grow in our communication. This is how we build connection as a family - we create a home life filled with words of encouragement, active listening, and biblical interactions. Let’s dive into God’s Word together, friend. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! And February is coming soon, where we’ll focus on Biblical Marriage Habits. < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode. ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 23, 2024 · 28 min
Stop Feeling DISCONNECTED And Start Communicating Better With Your Family… Without Even Needing To Talk About It
Episode 172 // Communication can be a key part of feeling disconnected in family relationships. ANd it’s especially discouraging when you’re trying, and just don’t feel like things are clicking! So today, I want to share some practical ideas for how you can strengthen communication in your home - without even needing to have an awkward sit-down-and-let’s-talk-about-this conversation. You can make a big difference in what your family relationships look like. Ready for some tips and encouragement? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! And February is coming soon, where we’ll focus on Biblical Marriage Habits< < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned today: Free Conflict Resolution Checklist, the Communicating to Connect Devotional ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode. ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 19, 2024 · 17 min
3 Helpful Scriptures For When You're Feeling DISTRACTED And Need To Re-focus On What Truly Matters In Family Life
Episode 171 // Friday Faith Followup It’s hard enough to get clear on the truest, deepest priorities that you have for yourself and your family. But trying to live out those priorities in the middle of a busy, media-filled, stressful day? It can feel almost impossible! While there are plenty of tips and tricks to help us focus on God and grow spiritually, the ultimate help that we have comes from God himself. The Bible gives us the wisdom and encouragement that we need for daily life. Join me today to look at 3 Scriptures that will help you deepen your faith life and stop feeling distracted in family life. These verses will help you focus on what really matters, so you can build up your family relationships and enjoy the big and small moments with your people. Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned today: Free 45-Day Bible and Prayer Challenge ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode. ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 16, 2024 · 31 min
Mom Hacks To Find Time And Energy For The Lord: Fight DISTRACTION With A Deeper Faith
Episode 170 // Are you feeling distracted in mom life? It’s so easy to get scattered and off track by the things of life and miss out on what truly matters. You won’t enjoy your family relationships if you’re always feeling DISTRACTED. And the best solution is to refocus onto the true purpose of your life. As you deepen your faith and walk closer with Jesus, you’ll find so much more joy in day-to-day family life! But things will still be busy. So what’s a Christian mom to do? Well, I’ve spent a lot of time trying to answer that question for myself. With 4 little ones ages 4 and under - plus, oh yeah, all the other things of life! - it can be a challenge to spend time with the Lord and grow my faith. But it can happen! So today I want to share some of my favorite “mom hacks” so you have some tips and tricks to get you DEEPER with the Lord, and less distracted in life. Join me, friend! Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Mentioned today: Free 45-Day Bible and Prayer Challenge ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode. ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 12, 2024 · 18 min
What Do Healthy, Happy, And Holy Family Relationships REALLY Look Like?
Episode 169 // What do you REALLY want your family relationships to look like? It can seem like a “duh” question… but it is actually really powerful to pause and get clear about what you’re aiming for. As we’re looking this week at 4 really common roadblocks to enjoying family life, let’s make sure we’re also clear about what road they are blocking! Where do you want to go? What do healthy, happy, and holy family relationships really look like? (And then, don’t worry, we’ll dive into each one over the rest of this month, to get really practical about HOW to get to this end goal!) Ready? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Build a deep FAITH ❤️ Enjoy a happy MARRIAGE ❤️ Find joy in PARENTING ❤️ Invest in HOME & FAMILY LIFE ❤️ Manage hard EMOTIONS ❤️ Learn great skills for COMMUNICATION ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE ❤️ Find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY > Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! > Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. > Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 10, 2024 · 17 min
The 4 Biggest Roadblocks (And Solutions!) To Healthy, Happy, And Holy Family Relationships
Episode 168 // Feeling stuck in your family relationships? You are not alone, friend. Marriage, parenting, family life - these relationships are so important, but they can be hard and exhausting! Today, we’ll take a reality check about the biggest roadblocks to enjoying and deepening these family relationships. What gets in the way? Why are these problems happening? And how do we get back on track?! (Don’t worry, we’ll dive into each of these solutions over the rest of the month to get really practical about HOW to change these!) Ready? Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < Freebies Mentioned Today: Conflict Resolution Checklist | 45-Day Bible and Prayer Challenge Devotionals Mentioned Today: Keep Your Cool, Mama! | Communicating To Connect RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Build a deep FAITH ❤️ Enjoy a happy MARRIAGE ❤️ Find joy in PARENTING ❤️ Invest in HOME & FAMILY LIFE ❤️ Manage hard EMOTIONS ❤️ Learn great skills for COMMUNICATION ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE ❤️ Find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY > Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! > Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. > Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 5, 2024 · 29 min
10 Great Bible Verses For Your Home And Family
Episode 167 // Friday Faith Followup Nothing will be more powerful for your family relationships than learning and living out God’s Word. Are you reading the Bible regularly and considering how it impacts your home? Your family? Dive in with me today for 10 great Bible verses that will encourage and strengthen your home and family. If you want healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, it all starts with the Bible! And if you want help getting more confident and comfortable reading the Bible, start with my FREE 45-day Bible and Prayer Challenge! hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read this on the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Jan 2, 2024 · 27 min
My Year-End Review, 2024 Goals, And An Invitation To Join Me For An Intentional Year
Episode 166 // Happy New Year, friend! This is the perfect time for reflection and goal-setting. So today, I want to share mine with you. Join me for a walk through my 5 focus areas of 2023 and the new goals, priorities, and plans that I’m working on in 2024. You’ll find encouragement for your own season of life, and realize that you definitely aren’t alone in this crazy journey of Christian family life! And then, join me for our BRAND NEW monthly challenges inside the Faith Fiver Club! For only $5 a month, you’ll get a personal workbook, private podcast, weekly Scripture encouragement, and more that dives into a new theme each and every month. Join me here! Let’s dive in. hugs & blessings, Jess > > Our January Monthly Challenge in the Faith Fiver Club is focused on spiritual disciplines. Join us! < < RESOURCES FOR YOU ❤️ Invest in a Fruitful Faith ❤️ Enjoy your family: Happy Marriage | Joyful Parenting | Home & Family Life ❤️ Tackle roadblocks: Manage Emotions | Communicate Well ❤️ Start with a FREEBIE or find the perfect DEVOTIONAL ❤️ Read the BLOG ❤️ Grab helpful printables for moms in my ETSY SHOP * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you enjoy family life during the long season of raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships, with Jesus at the center of it all. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * SUPPORT THIS MINISTRY ❤️ Leave a written review to help us grow! Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! ❤️ Use the 3-dots above and click “Copy This Link” to send this episode to a friend. While you’re at it, click “Follow” to subscribe to the show. ❤️ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show AND get lots of extra perks and support. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Dec 29, 2023 · 18 min
Ideas For Your 2024 Goals... PLUS A Sneak Peak Of Our NEW Community Monthly Challenges!
Episode 166 // If you’re feeling excited for the new year… but a little stuck on what your goals should be… today’s episode is for you, my friend. Today I’ll share a variety of practical, meaningful goals that you can be working on in the new year - to strengthen your marriage, parenting, communication, faith, and more! Get those creative juices flowing and find some encouragement with me today! I’ll also share an invitation to you - to work on those family relationships right alongside me for the new year! Inside our private Faith Fiver Club, we’re kicking off brand new 2024 Monthly Challenges - a great chance to go deep, build your skills, find weekly encouragement and practical tools delivered straight to your inbox (or earbuds). Join us! hugs & blessings, Jess * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY Christian family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * DIVE DEEPER: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Home & Family | Emotions | Communication Start with a FREEBIE or grab a DEVOTIONAL. Join us inside our Patreon community to support this ministry and get extra perks! * * * * * CONNECT, SHARE, & FOLLOW: If you got value or encouragement from my show, please leave a rating and review! This helps me support more women to enjoy Christian family life and build stronger family relationships. Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, be sure to follow the podcast, so new episodes pop right up in your library. Then, copy and share the link for today’s episode with a friend who needs encouragement. Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Dec 26, 2023 · 25 min
How To Make An Action Plan For 2024 Goals In Your Marriage, Parenting, Faith, And Family Life
Episode 164 // Today is the perfect day to start prepping for a great 2024. If you really want to ENJOY family life in the new year, you can’t just sit back and see how things unfold. Your relationships will grow as you focus intentionally on the things that are most important to you. But how? Last week, we looked at how to set family goals even if you’re the only person working on them. Today, we’ll continue that conversation. We’ll look at how to take your goals and break them down into action steps. This will be an encouraging and practical podcast to bless your Christian marriage, parenting, family, and your own spiritual life. Are you ready? Let’s dive in. > > Get plenty of support with your 2024 goals and action plans inside the Faith Fiver Club, where we’ll have new monthly challenges and resources for you all year long! < < hugs & blessings, Jess * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY Christian family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * DIVE DEEPER: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Home & Family | Emotions | Communication Start with a FREEBIE or grab a DEVOTIONAL. Read this episode on the blog. (Coming soon.) Join us inside the Faith Fiver Club to support this ministry and get extra perks! * * * * * CONNECT, SHARE, & FOLLOW: If you got value or encouragement from my show, please leave a rating and review! This helps me support more women to enjoy Christian family life and build stronger family relationships. Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, be sure to follow the podcast, so new episodes pop right up in your library. Then, copy and share the link for today’s episode with a friend who needs encouragement. Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Dec 22, 2023 · 18 min
Handling The Disappointment Of A Less-Than-Perfect Family Christmas
Episode 163 // The holidays can be wonderful, fun, amazing… and sometimes, very disappointing. If you’re feeling sad after Christmas, you are not alone. But you can bounce back! Maybe it was some family conflict that upset you. Maybe everyone got sick and the holiday was boring and stressful. Whatever went wrong, you can move forward into the new year in a good place. Today, I’ll share 10 important things to do if you’re feeling discouraged or sad after a less-than-perfect Christmas holiday. Ready? Let’s dive in. P.S. YOU ARE INVITED to join us inside the Faith Fiver Club for something new! We’ll be starting 2024 with brand new monthly challenges to help each of us be purposeful and productive in growing our faith, marriage, parenting, and home life. Join us here. :-) hugs & blessings, Jess * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY Christian family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * DIVE DEEPER: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Home & Family | Emotions | Communication Start with a FREEBIE or grab a DEVOTIONAL. Read this episode on the blog. (Coming soon.) Join us inside our Patreon community to support this ministry and get extra perks! * * * * * CONNECT, SHARE, & FOLLOW: If you got value or encouragement from my show, please leave a rating and review! This helps me support more women to enjoy Christian family life and build stronger family relationships. Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, be sure to follow the podcast, so new episodes pop right up in your library. Then, copy and share the link for today’s episode with a friend who needs encouragement. Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
Dec 19, 2023 · 25 min
Ready To Set Some Great Family Goals For 2024?
Episode 162 // Setting goals is such a fun part of the new year. And if you want to enjoy family life in the year ahead and deepen your relationships, there are some great goals that can help you do just that! Today, we’ll talk through why it is helpful to set goals, how to think about your plans for your family in the new year, and - perhaps most importantly - is it really possible to strengthen family relationships if you’re the only one working on it?? (Spoiler alert: It is definitely possible!) Join me, my friend! Let’s find encouragement together today. P.S. YOU ARE INVITED to join us inside the Faith Fiver Club for something new! We’ll be starting 2024 with brand new monthly challenges to help each of us be purposeful and productive in growing our faith, marriage, parenting, and home life. Join us here. ❤️ hugs & blessings, Jess * * * * * Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY Christian family life. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. You’ll find everything at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com. * * * * * DIVE DEEPER: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Home & Family | Emotions | Communication Start with a FREEBIE or grab a DEVOTIONAL. Read this episode on the blog. Join us inside our Patreon community to support this ministry and get extra perks! * * * * * CONNECT, SHARE, & FOLLOW: If you got value or encouragement from my show, please leave a rating and review! This helps me support more women to enjoy Christian family life and build stronger family relationships. Click here in Apple Podcasts, scroll to the Ratings & Reviews and click “Write A Review.” Let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, be sure to follow the podcast, so new episodes pop right up in your library. Then, copy and share the link for today’s episode with a friend who needs encouragement. Prayer requests? Questions? Topics you want me to cover? Email me at jessica@loveyourpeoplewell.com. * * * * * DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my link. Read my disclaimers here. * * * * * ✨ Grab tons of resources and biblical encouragement today at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨