Love This Way!

Shaleea Venney

The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!

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Oct 20, 2025 · 9 min
Stop Chasing Happiness—Start Choosing Peace
Send us Fan Mail Everybody’s chasing happiness… But happiness is fleeting. Circumstantial. Temporary. And the truth is—most people aren’t unhappy… They’re just unfamiliar with peace. In this episode, I’m teaching you the difference between momentary highs and lasting inner peace—and why chasing happiness will never fill the void inside. You don’t need more things “happening”... You need to learn how to be still. This episode might be the one that resets your entire nervous system. Support the show
Oct 19, 2025 · 9 min
It’s not who you attract — it’s who you entertain!
Send us Fan Mail If you're the whole package, you're going to attract a little bit of everyone. The question is: Why do you keep keeping the ones who can't handle you? This episode is your wake-up call. It's time to protect your peace, elevate your discernment, and stop confusing attention for love. Because being desired is not the same as being valued. Listen now to reclaim your power and stop settling for less than you deserve. Support the show
Oct 6, 2025 · 8 min
You’re Not Hard to Love—You’re Just Afraid to Be Seen, and Held Accountable
Send us Fan Mail You’re not hard to love. You’ve just never felt safe enough to be held, seen, and called higher. This episode is going to sit with you. Because real love doesn’t just hold your hand—it holds up a mirror. If you say you want real love, ask yourself: Are you someone love can stay with? Tap in. This is the one. Support the show
Sep 29, 2025 · 10 min
Why You Keep Getting Played—Even Though You’re the Whole Package
Send us Fan Mail You’re not getting played because you’re not enough— You’re getting played because you keep offering the whole package to people who aren’t even shopping for anything real. Support the show
Sep 22, 2025 · 10 min
The Little Girl Who Got Lost in This World
Send us Fan Mail Some women weren’t wild—they were wounded. They weren’t cold—they were covered in pain. They weren’t broken—they were never poured into. This episode is for the little girl who got lost in this world. The one who never got the love she needed… so she started chasing it in all the wrong places. This is your reminder: You are not beyond healing. You are not too far gone. You just need to be found—by you. Support the show
Sep 14, 2025 · 9 min
Men Aren’t Broken—They’re Starved
Send us Fan Mail He’s not cold… He’s carrying frostbite from years of emotional neglect. Most men don’t need fixing—they need pouring into. They’ve been asked to give love they’ve never received. To be strong without ever being held. In this episode, we unpack the emotional starvation so many men carry, and why they’re not broken—they’re starved. This one is for the little boy inside every grown man still waiting to be seen. Support the show
Sep 8, 2025 · 10 min
You Don’t Want a Partner—You Want a Parent!
Send us Fan Mail You don’t want a partner—you want a parent. Too many people are confusing dependency with devotion, expecting someone to rescue them instead of walking beside them. That’s not love—that’s immaturity. A real relationship is built between equals. Two whole people who choose to grow together, not one person carrying the other like dead weight. Support the show
Aug 31, 2025 · 9 min
Stop Asking If They Love You—Start Asking If They Respect You!
Send us Fan Mail They can say “I love you” every day… but if they don’t respect you, those words mean nothing. Respect is what keeps love safe. Respect is what proves love is real. Because you can have respect without love—but you can never have love without respect. Support the show
Aug 24, 2025 · 8 min
They Don’t Hate Commitment—They Hate Accountability
Send us Fan Mail They don’t hate commitment… they hate accountability. They don’t mind your time, your body, your love, or your energy—what they hate is being responsible for how they treat you. Commitment isn’t the issue. Character is. Support the show
Aug 17, 2025 · 10 min
If You Think Men Owe You Money, You’re Already Losing
Send us Fan Mail If you think men owe you money just for spending time with you… you’ve already lost. Because here’s the truth: 👉 Most men aren’t well off. 👉 Sleeping with someone doesn’t mean you’re owed their bank account. 👉 Love built on manipulation will never last. When love becomes a hustle, you don’t just lose the relationship — you lose yourself. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone who thinks love is about what you can take instead of what you can build. Support the show
Aug 11, 2025 · 8 min
Some People Need You Broken So They Can Feel Whole
Send us Fan Mail Some people don’t actually love you — they love the version of you that’s broken enough to need them. Your pain gave them purpose. Your wounds gave them control. But the moment you start to heal, to rise, to live without their permission… they’ll call you “different” like it’s a bad thing. The truth? They were never in love with you — they were in love with your dependence. Heal anyway. Rise anyway. Be whole… even if it makes them uncomfortable. Support the show
Aug 4, 2025 · 10 min
God Sent or Just Sent? When Counterfeit Love Looks Like a Blessing
Send us Fan Mail Just because they came after a prayer doesn’t mean they were the answer to it. Some relationships show up wrapped in your desires, looking like healing—but they’re just disguised distractions. Not everything sent to you is sent by God. And not everyone calling you “mine” was heaven-approved. Today, we’re breaking down how to discern God-sent love from emotional counterfeits, and how to protect yourself from dressing up pain in divine packaging. Support the show
Jul 28, 2025 · 8 min
Are They Your Partner—Or Your Parasite?
Send us Fan Mail Some relationships don’t feel heavy because they’re real… They feel heavy because you’re carrying them alone. If you’re always overgiving, over-functioning, and underloved— you’re not in a partnership… you’re being emotionally fed on. Support the show
Jul 20, 2025 · 10 min
You’re Not the Victim—You’re the Problem!
Send us Fan Mail You swear you’re the one who's always being hurt… but what if you’re the one doing the damage? What if your need for control is the reason love keeps slipping through your fingers? This episode is not for the faint of heart—but it might be the mirror you’ve been avoiding. Support the show
Jul 13, 2025 · 8 min
The People Who Hurt You Still Think They Love You
Send us Fan Mail Some people do love you. But not in a way that honors you. Not in a way that protects you. Not in a way that makes you better. This episode is for anyone who’s ever been confused by the pain love left behind. Why they “meant well” but still hurt you Why love is not just a feeling — it’s a skill And how to finally stop internalizing someone else’s damage as your worth Because you were never too much. You were just loving someone who didn’t know how. Support the show
Jul 6, 2025 · 9 min
They Were Never Yours—They Just Broke You while passing Through
Send us Fan Mail Some people weren’t meant to stay. They were just passing through —but they left with pieces of you. This episode is for the ones grieving almosts, situationships, and soul ties that never made sense. For the ones still haunted by a connection that didn’t last, but still lingers. Support the show
Jun 29, 2025 · 9 min
Blocked Blessings: When How You Treat Her Is Why God Isn’t Answering You
Send us Fan Mail He Prayed for Promotion… But God Was Watching How He Treated Her. You can’t be cruel to the woman God gave you… and still expect favor to flow. 💔 Some men don’t realize their life is falling apart because of how they’re treating their woman. Support the show
Jun 21, 2025 · 9 min
You Misunderstood the Proverbs 31 Woman—She’s Not Who You Think She Is
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Love This Way Podcast, we’re calling out the misuse and misunderstanding of the P31 woman by both men and women. Because if you say you want her—but you’re intimidated by educated, powerful women… You’re not ready. And if you say you are her—but you’re leading with looks and laziness… You’re not her. Support the show
Jun 16, 2025 · 9 min
The Truth About Casual Sex: Why Promiscuity Costs More Than You Think
Send us Fan Mail They told you giving your body away freely was power. That it meant you were confident. Liberated. In control. But what if they lied? In this episode, we break down: – Why casual sex isn’t as casual as it seems – How your body stores emotional memory from every encounter – Why the more people you sleep with, the less it means — and what that does to your soul – The five steps to reclaim your worth and your peace Support the show
Jun 8, 2025 · 8 min
You Want Loyalty and Support—But Are You Giving It Back?
Send us Fan Mail You keep asking for loyalty… Support… Consistency… But have you really created a relationship where that kind of love can exist? This week’s episode is a gut check. Because some of us are showing up like emotional freeloaders—demanding love we haven’t learned to give. This one will make you reflect. And if you’re brave enough to listen, it might just change the way you love forever. Support the show