

Mayada Fahim: From Engineer to Head of Engineering, Building Teams, Culture and Leadership
In this episode of Leadership Kitchen, I sit down with Mayada Fahim, Head of Engineering at JOIN, to talk about her journey from software engineer to leading an engineering organization of around 50 people, building high-performing teams, hiring for culture, women in engineering, and what great engineering leadership really looks like. Mayada grew up in Alexandria, Egypt, and knew from a very young age that she wanted to become an engineer. After starting her career as a software engineer in Egypt, she moved to Berlin looking for a new challenge and an opportunity to learn in a more international environment. Eight years later, she is still at JOIN, having grown from software engineer to Head of Engineering. Together we explore: • Why Mayada left Egypt for Berlin and what she learned from starting over in a new country • How she went from software engineer to Head of Engineering by taking initiative and solving problems beyond her role • Why great teams start with hiring for culture and mindset, not just technical skills • The surprising reality of becoming a manager and why leadership results can take months to show • Why engineering leaders need to stay hands-on, especially in the age of AI • Women in engineering, imposter syndrome, and the problem with being treated as a diversity token • Why new managers shouldn't rush to change everything in their first 90 days • How great leaders build trust, stay close to their teams, and create a culture where people want to perform And of course, Mayada shares her Leadership Recipe: 🥄 Stay close to your team 🥄 Stay hands-on and understand what your people are experiencing 🥄 Build the environment and tools that enable people to deliver Because leadership isn't about changing everything the moment you become a manager. It's about understanding your people, earning their trust, creating the right culture, and giving them the environment to do their best work. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Leadership Kitchen 00:40 From Alexandria to engineering and moving to Berlin 02:28 Finding an engineering role in a new country 03:48 Why Mayada chose JOIN 05:15 Becoming an engineer and the influence of childhood 06:38 How we can encourage more women into engineering 07:30 Mayada's favorite food and Egyptian cooking 09:07 From software engineer to engineering leader 10:40 Building a new team and hiring different profiles 12:50 Taking initiative and earning your leadership role 14:12 The surprising reality of becoming a manager 16:00 Why great teams start with hiring 18:09 Do engineering managers still need to be technical? 19:27 How AI is changing engineering leadership 20:25 Supporting women in engineering 22:13 Imposter syndrome and proving yourself 24:58 Advice for new engineering managers: the first 90 days 28:10 What makes a great engineering leader? 29:46 Mayada's Leadership Recipe 30:37 Final reflections and closing The conversation covers engineering leadership, career growth, hiring, culture, AI, women in tech, imposter syndrome, change management, and why great leaders stay close enough to their teams to understand what is really happening. Connect with Mayada Fahim: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayada-fahim/ Connect with Renita Käsper: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renitakasper/ Follow Leadership Kitchen for more conversations on leadership, AI, hiring, founder journeys, and building teams across cultures and borders: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/leadership-kitchen/


