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It's Not That Deep

Lumma

The ultimate self transformation, and self development podcast.

Lumma Aziz is known for her vibrant personality, and her ability to blend humour with insightful commentary on various topics, making her relatable to a wide audience of viewers who enjoy her mix of entertainment and genuine advice. 

Welcome to "It's Not That Deep,” In each episode, we’ll delve into the moments that shape us – Through personal anecdotes and candid reflections, this podcasts aim is to entertain, enlighten, and uplift. Whether you're navigating relationships, or simply seeking a dose of inspiration, this podcast is your cozy corner of authenticity.

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  • 16 episodes
  • Avg 24 min
  • English
  • S2 · E7
    August 17 · 11 min

    You’re Not Supposed To Chase What’s Meant For You | EP 7

    A little reminder that your thoughts are powerful, and what you consistently believe, focus on, and speak into your life can shape the way you move through it. You don’t have to chase everything you want, sometimes it’s about getting clear on what you desire, trusting that it’s possible, and allowing the right things to find their way to you.

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  • S2 · E6
    June 1 · 21 min

    How To Turn Your Anxious Attachment Into Confidence | EP 6

    Do you overthink texts, need constant reassurance, or feel like your mood depends on someone else's attention? In this episode, we're unpacking anxious attachment and how to stop chasing validation from everyone but yourself. We'll talk about why you get attached so quickly, the habits keeping you stuck in the cycle, and how to build the kind of confidence that doesn't disappear when someone leaves you on read.

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  • S2 · E5
    May 1 · 11 min

    He’s Not the Prize. You Are (Wake Up) | EP 5

    This is your reminder that you’ve been romanticizing someone who barely meets the bare minimum. He’s not the prize. You made him the prize in your head. This episode is basically a wake up call to detach a little, stand up, and remember who you are — because once you do, the whole dynamic changes besties!

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  • S2 · E4
    April 19 · 17 min

    Fear was holding me back... So I left (moving overseas alone) | EP 4

    This week’s episode is a little different, more like a real talk with myself that you get to overhear. I finally had to admit that fear was running the show… so I did something about it. I packed up my life and moved overseas, alone. No perfect plan, no guarantees, just a decision to stop letting “what if” win. If you’ve been feeling stuck, scared, or like you’re meant for more but can’t quite move yet, this one’s for you besties!

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  • S2 · E3
    March 16 · 15 min

    You’re Not Behind in Life. You’re Just Human | EP 3

    A self-love pep talk for anyone who feels like they’re falling behind. We’re pausing the pressure, getting honest about life, and reminding ourselves that being human means figuring things out as we go.

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  • S2 · E2
    March 7 · 14 min

    How To Make A Man OBSESSED With You (He Will Chase) | EP 2

    In this pep talk we're breaking down how attraction actually works and why the key to making a man obsessed with you isn’t chasing—it’s energy. We talk about confidence, feminine magnetism, and the small mindset shifts that make someone naturally gravitate toward you. ✨

  • S2 · E1
    February 10 · 15 min

    How to Thrive Alone: A Luxury Mindset Shift | EP 1

    In this episode, we dive into the luxury of choosing yourself: the mindset shifts, the emotional upgrades, and the quiet confidence that comes from realising you don’t need anyone else to validate your worth.

  • S1 · E9
    January 10 · 18 min

    If He Wanted To, He Would | EP 9

    In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the most uncomfortable truths in dating: when someone genuinely wants you, their actions will always reflect it. No confusion. No mixed signals. No constant guessing. We talk about how being overly available, predictable, or afraid to walk away often leads to women being taken for granted—and why “nice,” accommodating behavior is frequently rewarded with the bare minimum. This isn’t about blaming women; it’s about recognizing patterns, unlearning excuses we’ve been conditioned to accept, and understanding how low standards invite low effort.

  • S1 · E7
    Jun 19, 2025 · 21 min

    The Version of You Right Now Deserves Love too | EP 7

    This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to be “healed,” successful, or perfect. You’re not a project—you're a person. Whether you're in a mess, in progress, or just figuring it out, you’re still deserving of care, kindness, and softness. We talk self-worth & self-talk baby!

  • S1 · E6
    May 21, 2025 · 36 min

    How to be alone without feeling lonely | EP 6

    In this episode, we dive into what it really means to enjoy your own company and thrive on your own. Whether you're healing from a breakup, navigating a friendship shift, or just craving deeper self-connection — let it be the most powerful chapter of your life.

  • S1 · E4
    Mar 26, 2025 · 24 min

    It's OK To Feel Lost In Life (And Other Hard Pills to Swallow) EP 4

    In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most universal feelings: being lost in life. Whether it’s questioning your career, relationships, or sense of purpose, we all hit moments where nothing seems to make sense. But what if being “lost” isn’t a bad thing? What if it’s a sign that you’re exactly where you need to be? Tune in for some real talk, practical tips, and a comforting reminder that it’s okay to not have all the answers.

  • S1 · E3
    Mar 5, 2025 · 32 min

    Next Chapter Energy: Letting Go Like a Pro | EP 3

    Let’s talk friendship breakups, because sometimes, losing a friend hurts more than losing a partner. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how to let go without the drama, without the guilt, and without looking back. I’ll break down the mindset shifts, the cutthroat truth about outgrowing people, and the habits that will have you moving on with confidence and ease, this applies to relationships too!

  • S1 · E2
    Jan 31, 2025 · 39 min

    How to make this your BEST year yet | EP 2

    In this episode, I’m sharing the changes I've made, and the habits I've let go of, in order to set myself up for my best year yet. Let’s dive into how these shifts are helping me level up and create my dream life, we also dive into some pop culture including Selenas engagement...

  • S1 · E1
    Jan 23, 2025 · 20 min

    Daily Rituals To Protect My Peace | EP 1

    Welcome to Episode 1! In this debut episode, we’re diving into the daily rituals that keep my peace intact. We’ll explore how to create boundaries, embrace mindfulness, and cultivate a life that feels aligned and fulfilling. Grab a cup of tea, find your cozy spot, and let’s talk about it!

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