
E91: Deep Listening With Oscar Trimboli
Deep listening changes not just how we hear others, but how we relate to ourselves. In this episode of the Infuse Compassion podcast, Amy and Mark talk with Oscar Trimboli, host of the “Deep Listening” podcast and author of “How to Listen,” about what it means to listen beyond the words. Oscar defines deep listening as hearing what isn’t being said as much as what is—and explains why it starts with listening to yourself, just as compassion starts with self-compassion. He shares how our brains think at 900 words per minute while people speak at about 125 wpm, and how that gap leads us to jump ahead in conversations. In this conversation, you’ll learn: - Why the goal of listening is not to understand others, but to help them understand themselves - A simple question to ask yourself before and during conversations: “What would make this a productive conversation?” - Why great listening happens in the space between speaker and listener Oscar’s insights offer practical ways to slow down, stay present, and create more meaningful, compassionate connections. Oscar Trimboli is an award-winning author, host of the Apple award-winning podcast Deep Listening and a sought-after keynote speaker. His third book is “how to listen – discover the hidden key to better communication” – the most comprehensive book about listening in the workplace. Along with the Deep Listening Ambassador Community, he is on a quest to create 100 million deep listeners in the workplace. Through his work with chairs, boards of directors, and executive teams, Oscar has experienced firsthand the transformational impact leaders can have when they listen beyond words. Learn to listen better: https://oscartrimboli.com/howtolisten www.listeningquiz.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


















