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I Failed...

Shay Ruff

Let's be honest... NO ONE wants to talk about their failures but WE NEED TO.

From "social media flexin'" to "Started from the bottom, now I'm here"... NO ONE is sharing how hard it is to actually overcome past failures. We're always told that failure isn't an option but in real life... it happens! So, my friends and I are sharing our failures so that we can confirm that WE ALL ARE HUMAN! Struggles are real but they don't define us. Yes! Failing is embarrassing. Yes! Failing is horrible.

BUT... you're not alone.

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  • S7 · E4
    August 12 · 10 min

    Confessions of an Emotional Hoarder | Disappointment

    Host, Shay Ruff shares one of her confessions as an Emotional Hoarder. Think about the earliest moment you can remember being genuinely disappointed by someone you trusted. How old were you? What did you decide about people, or about yourself, in that moment? Are you still living by that decision?

  • S7 · E4
    August 12 · 10 min

    Confessions of an Emotional Hoarder | Disappointment

    "I don't like asking for help!! I rather go at it alone." In this episode, Shay Ruff gives one of her confessions as an Emotional Hoarder. She acknowledges that disappointment has been one of her biggest motivations. Is this you, too?

  • S7 · E3
    July 28 · 26 min

    Overcoming Childhood Isolation

    The Impact of Emotions on Growth Olivia Ruff, the daughter of Shay Ruff, read her latest book and is now asking hard questions. It's a Mother-Daughter episode. Get your copy of "Hi! I'm An Emotional Hoarder" here.

  • S7 · E3
    July 28 · 26 min

    Overcoming Childhood Isolation

    It's a Mother/Daughter Episode! Olivia Ruff, the daughter of Shay Ruff, interviews her about: Childhood Independence Emotional Struggles Lessons from Family Dynamics Navigating Mother-Daughter Relationships Get your copy of "Hi! I'm An Emotional Hoarder" here.

  • S7 · E2
    July 21 · 46 min

    Unpacking the Journey of Emotional Hoarding

    From the Reader's Thoughts to Questioning the Author Reader, Rudy Milton, asks questions about: The Journey of Writing the Book Understanding Emotional Hoarder Practical Steps for Healing The Author's Personal Challenges

  • April 20 · 13 min

    How Did We Get Here

    Uncover the silent emotional armor you've been wearing, hidden trauma, unresolved pain, and the dangerous cycle of emotional hoarding. The host and writer, Shay Ruff, reveals how avoiding emotions for decades keeps us trapped, disconnected, and in 'survival mode.'

  • S7 · E1
    April 9 · 3 min

    It's Been A While

    No filter needed. WE ARE BACK! Can you believe that it's been three years since we last spoke?! The "I Failed..." Podcast is back with a twist! Since 2020, I have been writing this book about my personal journey of emotional hoarding, and now it is a best-selling book. But aside from that celebration, I want to share my story with you so that you can See where I've been How I'm adjusting How this "emotional hoarding" thing started I believe that it's going to help you too.

  • S12 · E70
    Sep 23, 2022 · 13 min

    I Failed... The Burnout

    Whew!! It was on my heart to do this impromptu podcast about my personal burnout. Usually, when we experience something, someone else may have a similar experience. So this one is for all of my people who are feeling burned out and experiencing self-awareness. Thank you for listening!

  • S11 · E62
    Aug 15, 2022 · 1 hr 1 min

    I Failed: Marriage & Who was your example?

    If you've ever been in a dating relationship and/or marriage that ended, you've had a reflection moment afterward. You're trying to figure out what went wrong. Was it you? Was it them? How could have things been redirected away from a breakup? Most of us never realize that our upbringing usually plays a part in how we date. Today's guests, Rickey and Shalonda Schoonmaker share their moments of clarity after breakups and divorces. Origins: Detroit, Michigan Expertise: Logistics, Non-Profit, and Business Management

  • S11 · E61
    Aug 8, 2022 · 56 min

    I Failed: MARRIAGE & Backup Plans

    Is it okay to "just in case" your marriage if things don't work out? Should you have a person of interest on standby should your marriage go left? While some of us think that this is crazy, it's very real for a lot of people. The "backup plan" has some people in divorce court or annulment highway. Ty and Tera share their wisdom about the matter. Origins: The Virgin Islands and Florida Expertise: Risk Management and Product Development

  • S11 · E60
    Aug 1, 2022 · 1 hr 9 min

    I Failed: Commitment & What does it look like to you?

    Commitment can be a forbidden word to some, while others crawl under their beds to hide from the challenge. But do we make commitment harder than it is? Today's guests, Joshua & Tasha Ikegulu, share how they are consciously working through commitment. Origins: Nigeria and New Orleans, Louisiana Expertise: Oil Industry and Psychology

  • May 20, 2022 · 57 min

    I Failed... Being a Friend to ME

    When we think of friendships, we think of those who have been closest to us for a long time. We think of those that we can confide in, laugh, cry with, and share life with. BUT! We never consider being a friend to ourselves. In order to be a friend, you have to show yourself friendly even to thine own self. Today's guest, Dr. Heather James, shares the importance of befriending yourself and taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional health. Origin: Lansing, Michigan Expertise: Medical Doctor, Mental Health, Physical Health, Holistic Health

  • S10 · E59
    Apr 26, 2022 · 1 hr 9 min

    I Failed... Friendship and Long-Distance

    Your sound decision to move away from the place and people that you've every known can be rewarding and heartbreaking all at once. While others are celebrating your bravery to move on, others are devastated and feeling betrayed. But for the friends who are cheering for you, you find a way to stay connected. Sometimes it's hard, but you're intentional about nourishing those friendships. Today's guest, Charlene, shares her story and experience of friendship, long-distance.

  • S10 · E58
    Apr 18, 2022 · 1 hr 5 min

    I Failed... Single & Hopeful about Marriage

    The dating world has changed drastically and some are giving up on the idea of ever walking down the aisle. But some are holding onto their faith no matter how grim the dating world can be. Frank and Rhuneisha share their personal journeys of singleness, waiting, and meeting each other. Origin: Harlem, NY and Ocala, Florida Expertise: Photography and Travel Social Media: @lifewithrhu and @frankr

  • S10 · E57
    Apr 15, 2022 · 56 min

    I Failed... Friendship and the Workplace

    Ahhh. The Workplace. A place where most of us spend most of our time. And during that time, we eventually become closer to those that we work with because they're the ones who see us the most. But is friendship always a good thing in the workplace? Or should you just keep it professional? Natasha shares her wisdom about Friendship in the Workplace. Origin: Savannah, Georgia Expertise: Cosmetology & Nutrition Social Media: @NatashaP

  • S10 · E56
    Apr 4, 2022 · 56 min

    I Failed... Do You Want to be Married?

    Have you thought about being married? If so, what makes you hopeful about it? And how bad do you want to be married? The thought of marriage can make us all re-evaluate our "why." Today's guests, Tyrone and Samantha, share their journey to marriage and why it can work. Origin: Miami, Florida Expertise: Insurance and Social Media Management Social Media: @sam_socialsolutions & @tyroneharrell

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