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How To Stop Being A Loser

Bella Dane

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Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser with Bella Dane - a podcast about becoming the best version of yourself, without taking yourself too seriously. We dive into self-improvement, science, dating, drinking, intellectual curiosity, men, communication, career, success, wellness, lifestyle, psychology, neuroscience, sarcasm, style, and everything in between.

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  • S2 · E1
    Thursday · 40 min· Video

    WTF is Neuroplasticity

    Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week: We're getting into neuroplasticity - the brain's incredible ability to change, adapt, and rewire itself. Then, it's time for Non-Loser Behavior - because knowing better is great, but actually doing better? Even better. Press play. Your brain will thank you. New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you! Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser Hosted by @beedane A little disclaimer: Everything shared on the show is intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.

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  • Wednesday · 1 min· Video

    Season 2 Trailer

    Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. Bella may not be an expert in every topic she tackles, but she's committed to doing the homework. She learns from industry professionals and digs into science, evidence, and real-life lessons to bring you information that's actually worth your time. From science for curious minds to health and wellness, practical advice, unexpected deep dives, and everything in between - Bella's sharing it all. New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you! Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser Hosted by @beedane A little disclaimer: Everything shared on the show is intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.

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  • August 19 · 50 min

    How to Build a Science Backed Skincare Routine

    In this episode, we'll talk about skincare products that actually work and explain how to build an effective, sustainable routine! I'll explain how and why sunscreen is so important, how to pick a cleanser, how to actually hydrate your skin, and ingredients that have been proven to do what they say they do versus trendy, not as effective ones. There is so much information available about skincare, I highly recommend getting most of your information from dermatologists! I'd love to do more specific videos on skincare and wellness trends in the future, so let me know what you want to see next. This information is for general learning only. It is not medical advice. Do not use it to diagnose or treat health problems. Always talk to a doctor for medical care.

  • June 17 · 50 min

    A Guide to Becoming a High Achiever

    In this episode, we'll talk about how to get over caring what others think of you to achieve your goals, how to manage being someone who has big dreams, work ethic, discipline and how to be a high achiever when your goals feel unreachable

  • June 10 · 45 min

    How To Be Unbothered

    In this episode, we'll talk about practical tools you can use to stop letting useless things drain you and treat your energy like your currency, the difference between setting boundaries and cutting people off, and how to truly be unbothered.

  • April 16 · 1 hr 7 min

    How I Became My Own Boss: Content Creating, Influencing + Entrepreneurialism

    In this episode, I wanted to talk a little bit about how I became a full time content creator, my career path, what I've learned and share a little bit of my story with y'all. Idk if this is boring or not... basically I'm just talking about myself for 45 minutes which, I thoroughly enjoyed, but. Hopefully some of my advice and story is helpful and interesting, I'd love to share more of it and hear feedback if it is <3

  • March 25 · 1 hr 22 min

    Neuroscience of Relationships, Attractiveness and Confidence: Q+A

    In this episode we'll discuss healthy relationship dynamics, the rolls different neuro chemicals can play in dating, how to get out of toxic relationships and general dating tips. I'll also be answering your questions about learning, confidence, beauty and much more. Thank you so much for listening and please follow!

  • March 11 · 38 min

    The Neuroscience of Resiliency and Controlling Burnout

    In this episode, we'll discuss how to manage burnout, increased stress levels, controlling feelings of being overwhelmed and anxiety, how to stay resilient and consistent with your goals and persevere through tough situations.

  • February 25 · 55 min

    A Q+A With Michael Smoak

    In this episode, we have our first ever guest on the show Michael Smoak or Higherup Wellness. We did a follower Q+A and answered questions about dating, fitness, mindset, etc. This was my first time ever crying on the internet so lucky you for witnessing this very vulnerable and slightly embarrassing but also iconic moment of mine. I was incredibly excited to have Michael on the show and I hope y'all enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed recording it! Apologies for the imperfect audio.... I literally spent days on this so listen to it anyways and deal with it thank you. Thank you for listening and supporting the show it means more to me than I can say!

  • February 12 · 46 min

    Building Emotional Discipline and Self Regulation

    In this episode, we'll talk about controlling reactions, emotional intelligence, managing our perceptions, how to self regulate and navigating relationships with emotional discipline!

  • January 22 · 55 min

    How to Rewire Your Brain

    In this episode, we'll talk about neuroplasticity, the science behind our brains ability to rewire itself, clear up common misconceptions, and explain how we can alter our perceptions, habits and behaviors for a better life.

  • January 7 · 39 min

    Social Magnetism + How to Make Friends

    In this episode, we'll talk about the importance of social connection, how to be socially magnetic and how to make friends as an adult.

  • Nov 17, 2025 · 53 min

    How To Invest In Your Appearance

    In this episode, we'll talk about why investing in your appearance is important, investing vs. obsessing, science backed tools for beauty, confidence and wellness, red light therapy, vitamins , collagen, skincare, posture, etc.

  • Nov 5, 2025 · 48 min

    How to Stop Overthinking

    In this episode, we'll cover how to rewire the brain to stop overthinking, learn to control the mind through practical strategies and psychological tricks, detach from situations and let go of things.

  • Oct 20, 2025 · 41 min

    How To Unrot Your Brain With Science

    In this episode, we'll talk about how to improve and maintain cognitive function, keep the brain sharp and focused, and support neuroplasticity in everyday life! I am not a neuroscientist or a neuroscience student this is just something I research for fun.

  • Oct 8, 2025 · 44 min

    How To Start Liking Yourself Again

    In this episode, we'll talk about how to get your spark back, how to get out of a slump and start feeling like yourself again.

  • S1 · E44
    Aug 28, 2025 · 35 min

    How to Stop Giving a F*: Mastering Detachment

    In this episode, we'll talk about the science of cognitive reappraisal, how to heal you attachment style, and detach from things that don't serve you.

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