
74. What Are You Practicing When You Drink?
Every time you drink, you're practicing something. Drink after a stressful day—you're practicing using alcohol to escape stress. Drink because everyone else is drinking—you're practicing letting the group influence your decision. Drink whenever you're bored, anxious, or celebrating—you're reinforcing the association between those experiences and alcohol. But here's the good news: Every time you choose not to drink, you're practicing something too. In this episode, I offer you one simple question that can completely change the way you think about both your drinking nights and your sober ones. You'll learn: how repetition turns drinking patterns into automatic habits; what you're actually practicing when you reach for alcohol in response to stress, boredom, FOMO, or uncomfortable emotions; why a sober evening isn't simply an absence of drinking—it's practice for a new way of responding; one question to ask yourself the next time you're deciding whether to drink. Every repetition gives your brain new evidence about what you're capable of. And if you want not drinking to eventually feel easy, you have to give yourself opportunities to practice it while it still feels hard. If you keep finding yourself repeating the same drinking patterns even though you genuinely want to change them, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how every small choice can become practice for doing something different. 🎓 Want help getting better at not drinking? Join my free live class, How to Stop Wanting Alcohol, where I'll teach you three skills to help you feel in control around alcohol and stop constantly negotiating with yourself about when and how much to drink. Grab your spot here: https://acloudcoaching.as.me/ *** Grab my free guide "7 Steps to Kickstart Your Sobriety": https://www.adrianacloud.com/7-steps Book a free consultation: https://acloudcoaching.as.me/consult Get in touch with questions or comments: adriana@adrianacloud.com Follow me on TikTok: @coach_cloud_