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How To Be Happy

BU Happiness College

There's no goal more universally desired than living a happy life. But these days, happiness can seem pretty hard to reach.

That's why this podcast exists. To serve as a compass in your pursuit of happiness.

Built on over 10 years of studying the science of happiness and 7+ years of coaching people across 5 countries, join your host & Happiness Researcher - Declan Edwards as he brings you:

- evidence-based strategies for mastering your mind and emotions.
- inspiring interviews with individuals who have transformed their lives
- and practical tips and techniques to help you do the same.

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S2 · E31
Tuesday · 37 min
Business for Good - A Conversation with B1G1 Founder's Paul Dunn and Masami Sato
What if simply showing up to work and doing your day-to-day job could give you a profound sense of meaning, contribution, and joy? In a world where so many people feel like their work completely lacks a core purpose, we often default to a dangerous corporate mindset: “One day, when we are large or successful enough, then we will think about giving back.” But waiting for an arbitrary finish line is a massive trap that robs your team of fulfilment right now. In this special workplace edition of How to Be Happy, I am absolutely thrilled to be joined by Paul Dunn and Masami Sato, the visionary founders of B1G1 (Buy1Give1). For nearly six years, my organisation, BU Happiness College, has proudly partnered with B1G1 to embed real-world impact directly into our daily operations—including this very podcast, where every single subscription protects one square meter of threatened rainforest. Paul and Masami share the unfiltered story of how they flipped traditional philanthropy completely on its head by shifting away from grand corporate donations and focusing on the unshakeable momentum of micro-giving. We break down the behavioral psychology of why authentic generosity functions as a massive workplace performance lever, how to craft an internal giving culture that drives long-term resilience, and a sneak peek into their brand-new global program designed to bring this exact habit right into your family household In this episode we explore: The Power of Small to All: How tracking an aggregated total of over 404 million positive impacts shifts a business from an empty transaction mindset to a legacy mindset. The Forklift Example: A real-world look at how linking a basic manual labor task to a direct, external ripple effect instantly elevates employee engagement. Playful Micro-Giving Targets: The highly unique, creative ways businesses are using the B1G1 platform to incentivise good habits, reward meeting punctuality, and spark daily gratitude. Fostering Humanity’s Flourishing: Moving beyond the standard "Experience Economy" into the "Transformation Economy" to make business the most rewarding thing you do. Links and Next Steps: Bring B1G1 to Your Business or Family: Ready to turn business as usual into a vehicle for global good, explore their massive list of 495 active projects, or sign up your kids for the mobile app? Head straight to B1G1.com. Subscribe to the Show: If today's conversation on micro-kindness inspired you to take action, please hit Subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts! For every new subscriber we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest through B1G1. Connect with Me: If you are a business or HR leader who wants to learn more about how we personalise our giving filters to boost our team's satisfaction, reach out to me personally on any social media platform.
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S2 · E30
August 18 · 22 min
Celebration & Recognition at Work
Are you running an organisation or managing a team that is constantly hitting milestones, only to immediately sprint toward the next KPI without a single moment of pause? In today’s high-pressure corporate world, we have institutionalised an endless treadmill of "more"—and it is driving our best talent straight into burnout and resignation. In this episode of How to Be Happy (at Work), host Declan Edwards breaks down the fifth pillar of employee happiness: Celebration. Written specifically for progressive leaders, people managers, and business owners, this episode dives into the heavy-hitting behavioural data showing why genuine recognition is your ultimate retention engine. Moving far beyond tokenistic corporate gestures like pizza parties or generic shout-outs, Declan shares the neurobiology behind true appreciation and reveals a practical blueprint to make your teams feel deeply seen, validated, and valued. In this episode we cover: The High Cost of Silence: Discover why employees who receive high-quality recognition are up to 56% less likely to look for a new job, while a lack of feedback is processed by the brain as an active social threat. The Addiction to "Next": Learn the organisational psychology behind the corporate "hedonic treadmill" and why intentional checkpoints are vital to refill your team's psychological fuel tanks. The BIA Praise Model: Master a simple, highly effective 3-part framework to move away from empty, performative praise and deliver surgical, high-impact validation that inspires peak performance. Bring Declan to Your Next Event: Want to transform your organisation's people experience or bring this data-backed approach to your executive leadership team? Declan regularly keynotes and runs immersive workshops at corporate events, company retreats, and team offsites. Click here to browse his offers and start the conversation: https://declanedwards.com.au/
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S2 · E29
August 11 · 18 min
Why Your Environment Affects Your Mood
Have you ever walked through your front door after a long day, looked at the mess, and felt instantly overwhelmed? You are not alone. Our homes have become overcrowded warehouses for our stress . In this episode of How to Be Happy, happiness researcher Declan Edwards explains how your living space secretly rules your mood . We look at the fascinating science of "Environmental Wellbeing" . You will learn why online shopping only gives us a fake, temporary mood boost . We also share a UCLA study that shows how a cluttered room physically spikes your stress hormones . If you are ready to turn your home back into a peaceful sanctuary, this episode gives you the exact, bite-sized steps to do it . Quick Links & Resources: Take the Free Happiness Scorecard: Want to see how your environment is tracking? Take our quick 3-minute quiz for a personalised breakdown of your well-being . Read the Book: If you love relaxing in a clean space with a great read, grab Declan’s new book, How to Be Happy, at bookstores, Amazon, Booktopia, or on Audible . Subscribe & Protect: Hit subscribe on your podcast app ! For every single person who follows the show, we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest .
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S2 · E27
July 28 · 48 min
How Annelise McCarthy Became Her Happiest Self
Have you ever ticked every single box of success—earned the degrees, smashed your goals, and worked yourself to the bone—only to realise you’ve completely forgotten how to relax? It is incredibly easy to fall into a cycle of perfectionism, chronic people-pleasing, and hustle culture, running your health straight into the ground just to prove your worth. In this episode of How to Be Happy, I’m sitting down with the absolutely electric Annelise McCarthy; a women's communication expert, speaker, Coach, and proud graduated of BU Happiness College. Annelise spent 3 full years studying the skills and science of happiness at BU Happiness College, and she is the ultimate case study of what happens when you take radical responsibility for your life. We take a trip down memory lane to map her massive personal transformation from a high-strung, boundary-less overachiever to a woman who is now completely thriving. Annelise lifts the lid on her personal toolkit, sharing how tools like fierce self-compassion, firm boundaries, and the feelings wheel protect her mental health and wellbeing. We also explore the deep connection between positive psychology and confident communication, proving why public speaking is actually a game of self-trust, emotional vulnerability, and learning how to truly face yourself. In this episode: The "How to Be" Shift: What happens when you stop studying how to do more and start learning the baseline emotional skills required to actually live in the present. Redefining Self-Compassion: Why treating yourself with kindness isn't a lazy cop-out, but a form of discipline that gives your body what it needs instead of just what it wants. Internal vs. External Boundaries: How to build a healthier relationship with your phone and social media to protect your time and energy. The Real Secret to Public Speaking: Why consuming endless books and videos is useless if you lack the internal self-trust to back yourself in a boardroom or on a stage. The Fear of Being Seen: Why the universal dread of speaking is deeply tied to our fear of visibility, and how connecting with yourself unlocks your ability to connect with an audience. Links & Next Steps: Connect with Annelise: Ready to master communication and learn how to own any room you walk into? Check out her expert coaching and resources at AnneliseMcCarthy.com or find her on social media @theannelisemccarthy Claim Your Free Happiness Connection Call: Inspired by Annelise's journey to stop surviving and start prioritising your development? Let's chat! For a limited time, I am opening up my personal calendar for a free, 15-minute connection call to map out your next steps. Click here Grab Your Copy of 'How to Be Happy': Want to master the exact tools Annelise and I discussed today? Emotional intelligence and literacy are the very first skills I explore in my brand-new book, featuring a comprehensive breakdown of the feelings wheel. Pick up your copy at all good bookstores, online via Amazon or Booktopia, or download it immediately on Audible.
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S2 · E26
July 21 · 56 min
What 250 Million Data Points Reveal About Happiness at Work - Interview with Matt Phelan; co-founder of The Happiness Index
We spend a massive chunk of our waking hours at our jobs, yet millions of people drag themselves through the week feeling completely unseen, disconnected, and burnt out. As organizations, we pour millions of dollars into flashy HR software, task-tracking apps, and corporate wellness initiatives. But according to the raw data, most companies are aggressively over-investing in operational systems that have zero impact on human fulfilment, while completely ignoring what actually makes us thrive. In this special workplace edition of How to Be Happy, I’m joined by Matt Phelan, the Co-Founder and Co-CEO of The Happiness Index. Matt and his team have analyzed an incredible 250 million data points from over 170 countries to map out the psychological reality of the modern employee experience. We dive straight into the findings of their 2026 Global Workplace Happiness Report, crunching the numbers on what happens to our performance when our basic human needs are ignored. Matt opens up about why he spent 11 years trapped in the "perfectionism loop" before finally declaring this "Year Zero" and getting the data out into the world. We challenge the standard corporate approach to return-to-office mandates, break down why 100% virtual environments are backfiring for younger workers, and expose why the executive suite is often a far lonelier, less happy place to be than middle management. In this episode we explore: The Flywheel Effect: How Matt utilised a basic efficiency workflow to bridge data and technology, and why it completely cleared the "cognitive debt" out of his business. The "Snickers Bar" Exception: A look at why the basic foundations of human motivation haven't evolved in thousands of years, proving that happiness at work costs absolutely nothing. Treating People How They Want to Be Treated: Why generic corporate recognition system defaults fail, and how to customise appreciation to fit introverts, extroverts, and everyone in between The Autonomy vs. Proximity Debate: A real-world breakdown of why location autonomy outscores office proximity for creative problem-solving and focus. Ignorance vs. Incompetence: A hard call-out to modern executive boards on why ignoring workplace culture metrics is no longer just a HR issue—it’s a commercial performance failure. Links & Next Steps: Download the Full Report: Ready to see how your own team or organisation stacks up against tens of millions of cultural insights? Click here to sign up for and download the complete Global Workplace Happiness Report for free! Connect with Matt: Follow Matt Phelan’s world-class thought leadership and research directly on Linkedin or check out his personal website at https://mattphelan.co.uk/ Subscribe to the Show: If this conversation helped you find a fresh perspective on your own work life today, please hit Subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts! For every single person who follows the show we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest
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S2 · E25
July 14 · 16 min
Hygge: The Danish Secret to Wintering Well
How many times over the last few weeks have you looked out the window at a grey, freezing morning and felt your mood instantly take a nosedive? As human beings, we have a bad habit of becoming "weather hostages"—holding our happiness ransom until the sun graciously decides to return . We treat winter like an adversary to survive rather than a natural season to enjoy . In this solo episode of How to Be Happy, Declan Edwards shares a perspective shift . Year after year, the World Happiness Report is dominated by Nordic countries like Denmark and Finland . If happiness required blue skies, they would be at the bottom of the list . Instead, they thrive by practicing Hygge (pronounced hoo-gah); the deliberate curation of intimacy, presence, and sanctuary . Declan breaks down the cognitive psychology behind our "cultural scripts" about the cold and shares the hard science of how shifting your physical environment can soothe your nervous system . In this episode, we explore: The Scandi Contrast: Why populations dealing with sub-zero temperatures and under four hours of daylight report the highest life satisfaction on earth . The Psychological Impact of Low Light: How changing your environmental cues shifts your body out of "fight or flight" and directly into the parasympathetic nervous system . Cultural Schema: The difference between viewing winter as a negative cancellation of your plans versus an opportunity for cozy curation . Recommended Resources: Grab the Book: If your favourite way to practice Hygge is curling up under a heavy blanket with a hot drink and a great book, Declan’s brand-new book, How to Be Happy, is officially out now! Pick up a copy at all good bookstores, Amazon, Booktopia, or on Audible . Subscribe & Protect: Click subscribe on your podcast platform to support our independent show . For every single subscriber who joins the family, we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest .
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S2 · E24
July 7 · 39 min
Special Episode: Inside How to Be Happy (Ami Rankin Interviews Declan Edwards About His New Book)
If you opened up Google right now and typed in “how to be happy,” you would be hit with over eight billion different results. That is roughly one opinion for every single person alive on the planet today. In a world flooded with that much noise, it is completely normal to feel confused, overwhelmed, and stuck trying to figure out what actually works. In this special edition episode of How to Be Happy, I am stepping completely out of the interviewer's seat. For a change, I am sitting in the hot seat to be interviewed by our incredible Head of Personal Happiness Coaching at BU Happiness College, Ami Rankin. Ami has been diving into my brand-new book, How to Be Happy, and she has questions! In Part 1 of this multi-part series, we are focusing on the introduction and the first few chapters of the book. We call total time-out on modern "optimisation culture"—the exhausting checklist trap of 5 AM wake-ups, ice baths, and extreme routines that high-achievers use to score their worth. We look at why so many of us accidentally become "human doings" rather than "human beings," and break down the exact emotional stages our minds move through when trying to navigate our feelings. In this episode we explore: The Noise of 8 Billion Results: Why happiness feels so confusing when everyone on the planet has a different opinion, and what it means to be a "happiness translator". The Primary Color Trap: How limiting your language to standard "blanket emotions" like basic anger or sadness cripples your actual capacity for rich joy. Global Wellbeing Budgets: A look into how countries like Bhutan and New Zealand link economic frameworks to human quality of life, and where Australia has dropped the ball. The 100 "I Am" Lines: A powerful, direct practice to instantly build a three-dimensional identity so your worth isn't swallowed up by just your career or your parenting role. The 5 Stages of Emotional Intelligence: A deep dive into my signature framework—ranging from "The Rock" of total emotional numbness to "The Monk" of real-time emotional awareness. Grab a Copy of the Book & Support the Show Grab the Book or Audiobook: Ready to dive into the exact tools, reflection questions, and worksheets Ami and I discussed today? My brand-new book, How to Be Happy, is out on bookshelves everywhere! Grab your physical copy online via Amazon or Booktopia, or listen to me read it directly into your ears by downloading the audiobook on Audible. Subscribe to the Show: If this conversation brought a wave of relief or a helpful reminder to your day, please hit Subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts! For every new subscriber we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest.
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June 30 · 46 min
Movement is Life: How Rod & Jeni Cooper Blend Psychological & Personal Growth with Physical Fitness
Have you ever found yourself trapped in the frustrating "yo-yo" cycle of starting a strict new fitness routine, burning out after six weeks, and completely stagnating? We often look at physical health as a clinical chore; a prescribed block of time where we force ourselves to "exercise" to fix a lazy lifestyle. But what if true physical well-being isn't about isolated gym sessions, but about changing your entire mental relationship with your body? In this episode of How to Be Happy, I am joined by dear friends and local legends Rod and Jeni Cooper, the owners of The Movement Collective (TMC). We challenge the traditional fitness narrative by exploring why true, deep-seated transformation requires moving away from rigid expectations and stepping into a mindset of play, experimentation, and extreme curiosity. Rod and Jeni break down how the time and grit you invest into mastering a complex physical skill shapes your actual character and confidence. We also map out the exact blueprint they use to create an unshakeable sense of community and human connection. In this episode we explore: The Drivers of True Progression: Why long-term consistency is experienced by the people who walk into a space with total openness, an appetite for feedback, and a willingness to feel awkward. The "Short Wins" vs. "Long Wins" Data: Why hitting a quick, easy goal leaves you feeling completely empty, and how committing to a multi-year physical craft builds happiness skills that ripple into your marriage, parenting, and business. Social Fitness Integration: How to actively fight the modern loneliness epidemic by blending movement with group games, physical touch, and shared vulnerability. Links From This Episode: Connect with Rod & Jeni: Ready to break away from standard exercise and bring real movement into your life? Check out TMC's online training resources and content at The Movement Collective website or follow them on Instagram. Subscribe to the Show: Please hit Subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts! It takes less than a second, and for every single subscriber we pay to protect one square meter of threatened rainforest. Grab Your Copy of 'How to Be Happy': Want to unpack the exact skills of introspection and self-awareness we discussed in today's interview? My brand-new book is officially out now in stores everywhere, on Amazon, Booktopia, and as an Audible audiobook.
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S2 · E22
June 23 · 17 min
Beyond the Paycheck: Why Top Talent Needs to Feel Valuable, Not Just Valued
This episode of How to Be Happy: At Work explores the fourth of the 7 Cs of Workplace Happiness: Contribution. Declan Edwards dives into why "top talent" needs more than just a fair paycheck and recognition; they need to know that their work actually matters to another human being. Declan breaks down the "silent killer" of engagement: the rise of "BS Jobs", meaningless roles that leave employees feeling like cogs in a machine. By shifting from merely making employees feel valued to ensuring they feel valuable, leaders can unlock a level of discretionary effort and loyalty that traditional management styles simply can't reach. In this episode, we explore: Valuable vs. Valued: The critical difference between receiving praise and knowing your work makes a tangible, positive impact. The 5 Types of "BS Jobs": A look at David Graeber’s research into flunkies, goons, duct tapers, box tickers, and taskmasters; and why these roles destroy wellbeing. The Startup Edge: Why small teams often win on engagement because the "ripple effect" of an employee's work is immediately visible. The "3 Cs" of Meaningful Work: How clustering your team’s tasks around community, contribution, and challenge creates a core psychological sense of purpose. Job Crafting for Purpose: How to give employees the autonomy to shape their roles around the tasks they find most meaningful. Social Enterprise in Action: Declan shares how BU Happiness College uses its partnership with B1G1 to link everyday tasks—like subscribing to this podcast—to global impacts like planting trees and funding education. Meaningful work isn't a "nice-to-have" luxury; it is a core psychological experience that defines whether your best people stay or go. Use the resources below to start making contribution visible in your workplace. Action Steps & Resources: Check out B1G1 (Buy 1, Give 1): See how your organisation can embed real-world giving into your daily business activities. Use Declan’s referral code BUHAPPINESS to get started with impact tokens for your team. https://b1g1.com/ Book a B1G1 Strategy Call: If you want to bring this to your team, email Declan at declan@buhappinesscollege.com with the subject line "B1G1 in my workplace" for a complimentary 20-minute call to discuss the business benefits. The Executive Diploma of Happiness Leadership: Learn the evidence-based strategies to lead with purpose and build a high-performance culture. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/excecutive-diploma
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S2 · E21
June 16 · 12 min
Seasonal Self-Care: Why Your Routine Needs to Change with the Weather
This episode of How to Be Happy addresses a common frustration many of us face as the temperature drops and the days get shorter: the "winter slump." If you’ve been judging yourself for losing consistency with your morning walks or feeling a dip in your motivation, Declan Edwards is here to tell you that you aren’t lazy, you’re human. Declan explores the biological and psychological reasons why our summer self-care routines often fail us in the colder months. Instead of stubbornly relying on willpower to force a fixed routine, this episode teaches you how to design a "seasonal" self-care strategy that aligns with your biology and restores your energy In this episode, we explore: The Myth of the Fixed Routine: Why treating self-care as a year-round "constant" leads to guilt and burnout. The Science of the Winter Slump: How shifting levels of melatonin and serotonin impact your sleep, mood, and motivation during the darker months. The "Farmer" Analogy: Understanding that, like nature, humans have seasons for reaping and seasons for resting and conserving energy. Adapting vs. Forcing: Practical ways to swap high-intensity outdoor habits for cozy, "hygge"-inspired indoor alternatives. Nourishment and Light: The importance of seasonal eating and "letting the light in" to regulate your mood and counteract the winter blues. Low-Effort Connection: Why you should swap "going out" for high-connection, low-energy catch-ups to avoid the trap of isolation. Don’t try to wear your summer wardrobe in a winter storm. Use the steps below to adjust your self-care strategy for the season you’re actually in. Resources: Join the Happiness Blueprint: Learn all 75 skills of happiness and get the community support you need to stay intentional year-round for as little as $50 AUD/month. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/happiness-blueprint Subscribe & Plant a Tree: For every new subscriber to the show, we fund the planting of a tree and the protection of rainforest. Hit subscribe to help us re-green the world. Share the Ripple: Know someone struggling with the "winter blues"? Forward this episode to them to help them find a bit more compassion for themselves. What is one "summer" habit you are giving yourself permission to put on ice for the season?
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June 9 · 44 min
The $10 Trillion Wake-Up Call: Lessons from the 2026 Gallup State of the Global Workplace Report
In this second part of our deep dive into the state of the world's wellbeing, Declan Edwards and Ami Rankin shift their focus from the global happiness rankings to the frontline of our daily lives: the workplace. We spend a massive portion of our existence at work, yet the latest data from the Gallup 2026 State of the Global Workplace report reveals a cooling engine in the global economy. For the first time in recorded history, global employee engagement has dropped for two consecutive years, leaving only 20% of the world's workforce actually "checked in" to their roles. Declan and Ami unpack the "Leader’s Paradox"—the startling discovery that while leaders report higher overall life satisfaction, they are actually suffering through more daily anger, sadness, and loneliness than the teams they lead. This episode moves beyond the "bad vibes" to look at the trillion-dollar cost of disengagement and why the much-hyped AI revolution is currently stalling at the manager's desk. This conversation is an essential guide for both leaders and employees on how to reclaim autonomy and choice in a rapidly automating world. It's a raw look at why the "engagement premium" for managers is dead and how building humanistic workplaces—where people feel valuable, not just valued—is the only way to navigate the disruptions of the 21st century. In this episode, we explore: The $10 Trillion Leak: Why global disengagement is costing the world 9% of its total GDP through lost productivity. The Manager Bottleneck: Why AI is making us more productive as individuals, but failing to transform our organisations because our human leaders are burnt out. The Power of Choice: The science showing that employees who have a say in how they work are 50% more likely to be optimistic about their future. Ready to help your team take ownership and buck the trend of declining engagement? Executive Diploma of Happiness Leadership: Our 12-week program for emerging leaders and managers looking to master evidence-based skills to build high-performance, happy teams. The 2026 Gallup State of the Global Workplace Report: Click through to read the full report and learn more about the global world of work in 2026.
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S2 · E19
June 2 · 46 min
Paul Watkins: The Link Between Happiness and Hard Things
We live in an era obsessively designed for comfort, convenience, and hacking our way out of effort. But what if our non-stop pursuit of ease is actually rotting our resilience and long term happiness? In this episode of How to Be Happy, Declan Edwards sits down with Paul Watkins; a man described as a split between Harry Potter and Bear Grylls. Paul is an academic, a pharmacist, and an MBA graduate who also happens to push his mind and body to the absolute limits as an extreme ultra-marathon athlete. Paul shares the raw reality of his relationship with discomfort, including his grueling experience at the 6633 Arctic Ultra—a 600+ kilometer solo, unsupported footrace inside the Arctic Circle. He takes us out onto the ice to explore what happens when you have to reframe a crushing DNF (Did Not Finish) as an invaluable "training camp" rather than a failure. If you are currently feeling stuck in a repetitive routine, running at an emotional deficit, or trying to navigate a high-stakes life transition, this episode is your blueprint for building an elite mental toolkit. Declan and Paul dismantle the myth of the "overnight success" and map out how leaning into voluntary hardships can ripple out to make you a more patient parent, a more present partner, and an antifragile human being. Action Steps & Resources: Connect with Paul Watkins: Head over to PaulWatkins.com.au or follow his regular updates on LinkedIn to learn more about his corporate speaking and resilience frameworks. You can also follow his work on Substack Remember to subscribe to the show to receive more insights about happiness, wellbeing, and living a good life. We will also pay to protect a square metre of rainforest on your behalf. If you're listening on Spotify I'd love for you to answer in the comments: What is one "hard thing" you want to pursue in your life?
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S2 · E17
May 26 · 55 min
How Andy Danesi Re-Prioritised His Life for Happiness
"We check all the standard boxes of success—the director title, the high corporate salary, the beautiful home—but what happens when you reach the top of that ladder and realise you’re still going to bed stressed and unfulfilled?" In this episode of The Ripple Effect, host Declan Edwards sits down for a raw, and deeply human interview with Andy Danesi . Three years ago, Andy was a high-performing director at a Fortune 500 company . Today, he, his partner, their six-year-old son, and their dogs live full-time on the road in a 30-foot RV . This isn't some fantasy story about quitting a job; it’s a lesson in evaluating alignment and allowing yourself to shifting chapters with grace . Andy opens up about the slow evolution of his career burnout and his personal "punch" moment—the heartbreaking evening he looked at his three-year-old son and chose his work laptop over playing together . They map out the realistic tools, deep marital communication, and profound mindsets required to willingly trade 3,000 square feet of comfort for a tiny, shared space where you are forced to process everything together 24/7 . In this episode, we explore: The Poke, Push, and Punch Framework: How to recognise the subtle warning signs life gives you that a chapter has ended before a major life event forces you into a "punch" change . The "Wasting Time Goods" of Consumerism: Why an unhappy, over-stressed lifestyle accidentally drives us to constantly buy physical possessions, and how minimalist living breaks that consumer trap . No Corners to Hide In: The realistic interpersonal and parenting skills needed to survive full-time family proximity in a 240 sq. ft. box without losing your patience . Ready to stop serving a lifestyle that isn't serving you? Use the resources below to map out your next steps. Connect with Andy Danesi: Follow Andy on LinkedIn to check out his family's updates, his perspective on road life, and his stunning nature photography . Access the Happiness Toolkit: Explore our self-guided resources and enrolment options at BUHappinessCollege.com to build the mindset and emotional skills needed to handle massive life transitions .
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S2 · E17
May 19 · 16 min
Beyond Gratitude: The Secret Trio of Sustainable Fulfilment
"Happiness isn't a solo emotion. It’s a mix. It’s a blend. It’s a cocktail." In this episode of How to Be Happy, Declan Edwards challenges the myth that we are only supposed to feel one thing at a time. He introduces the concept of emotional complexity; the science-backed ability to hold and experience multiple, even contrasting, emotions at once to build higher resilience and wellbeing. Declan breaks down his personal favourite "happiness cocktail," a specific blend of three emotions that move beyond surface-level "good vibes" to create a grounded, sustainable sense of thriving. In this episode, we explore: Emotional Paint Mixing: Why primary emotions like joy and sadness blend to create rich, complex states like nostalgia or bittersweetness. The Gratitude Foundation: Using gratitude to zoom out and recognise the "bigger picture" and the good that already exists in life. Healthy Pride vs. Arrogance: Why acknowledging your own agency and the role you played in your success is essential for earned happiness. The Secret Ingredient (Compersion): Learning to find genuine joy in other people's success as the radical antidote to jealousy. The Science of the Blend: How these three specific emotions open the heart, connect us to our agency, and expand joy beyond ourselves. Ready to move from passive listening to active practice? Use the resources below to start mixing this cocktail in your own life. Action Steps & Resources: Join the Happiness Blueprint: Access the 75 proven skills and our supportive community for as little as $50 AUD a month. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/happiness-blueprint Enrol in a Short Course: Start with the basics and take the guesswork out of your growth at BU Happiness College. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/certificate Share the Ripple: If this episode gave you a "pride point" or a new perspective, forward it to a friend to keep the ripple effect going. What is one thing you are genuinely proud of yourself for today?
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S2 · E16
May 12 · 43 min
The Connection Crisis: Lessons from the 2026 World Happiness Report
For decades, Australia has been known as the "lucky country," but the latest data suggests that the luck might be running out when it comes to our collective wellbeing. In this month's episode of The Ripple Effect, Declan Edwards and Ami Rankin dive deep into the newly released 2026 World Happiness Report to uncover a startling trend: despite our economic stability and high life expectancy, Australia has been on a decade-long slide in the global happiness rankings. The culprit isn't just one factor, but a growing crisis of disconnection. We are living through a massive, 20-year social experiment where our attention is the primary currency for some of the world's wealthiest companies. Declan and Ami explore why the youth in developed nations—particularly young girls—are seeing their mental health plummet in an era where we are "more connected" than ever, yet feel increasingly alone. This conversation is a wake-up call for anyone feeling the "stolen focus" of the attention economy. It’s a raw look at how we’ve lost the restorative power of boredom and how reclaiming our time from algorithm-driven feeds is the first step toward rebuilding the tight-knit social bonds that make countries like Costa Rica the new leaders in global thriving. In this episode, we explore: The Youth Happiness Gap: Why life satisfaction is falling for those under 25 in Australia, the US, and the UK, and the specific toll it's taking on young women. The Social Media "Product Trap": Why an entire generation wishes social media didn't exist, but feels socially held hostage by it. Lessons from Costa Rica: How Latin American communities are outperforming economic expectations by prioritising deep, in-person social connection over digital noise. Ready to reclaim your focus and reconnect with your community? The Happiness Headline: Join our monthly email community to receive the latest evidence-based tips and tools directly in your inbox, away from the noise of social algorithms. The 2026 World Happiness Report: Click through to read the full 2026 findings and see where your country ranks and what the data says about our global future.
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S2 · E18
April 28 · 16 min
The Antidote to Micromanagement: Why Autonomy is a Business Requirement
"People don’t leave workplaces; they leave managers." In this episode, Declan Edwards tackles one of the biggest pain points in the modern office: micromanagement. We often hire capable, functional adults because we trust their skills, only to accidentally treat them like children the moment they start the job. Declan explains why this impulse stifles innovation, erodes trust, and ultimately kills performance. Continuing the 7 Cs of Workplace Happiness series, we dive into the third C: Control (or Autonomy). Drawing on Self-Determination Theory, Declan shares how providing a sense of agency isn't just a "nice-to-have" perk—it is a core psychological human need. In this episode, we explore: The Adult-to-Child Trap: Why well-meaning leaders accidentally smother their team's initiative by over-prescribing the "how". The Science of Self-Determination: A look at the three basic needs—Autonomy, Competence, and Relatedness—that fuel human motivation and wellbeing. Autonomy vs. Anarchy: Why giving people control requires more clarity and structure, not less. Real-World Innovation: Lessons from Google’s "20% time" and Atlassian’s "Ship It" days on how autonomy drives global products like Gmail. The Hybrid Work Choice: Why the secret to successful flexible work isn't where people work, but whether they have a voice in the decision. The Leader-as-Coach: Four practical shifts to help you move from an "inspector" to a high-impact mentor. Ready to stop managing and start leading? Use the resources below to help your team take ownership of their work. Action Steps & Resources: The Executive Diploma of Happiness Leadership (LAUNCHING LATE 2026): Explore our evidence-based program designed to help leaders build cultures rooted in trust and autonomy. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/excecutive-diploma Share the Ripple: Forward this episode to a fellow manager who wants to humanise their workplace and boost team engagement. What is one area of your workflow where you could invite more team input this week? Start the shift today by asking, "How do you think we should approach this?"
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S2 · E13
April 21 · 15 min
The Science of Motivation: What Actually Drives Us?
This episode of How to Be Happy tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in personal growth: Motivation. We’ve all felt that spark of excitement that disappears the moment things get difficult or boring. In this deep dive, Declan Edwards moves past the "just do it" clichés to explore the actual science of what drives human action and, more importantly, what keeps it sustainable. Declan breaks down the critical difference between Motivation (the push) and Inspiration (the pull). You’ll learn why your brain is hardwired to prioritise avoiding pain over seeking pleasure, and how to harness both to stop the "yo-yo" cycle of starting and stopping your goals. In this episode, we explore: Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Drive: Why internal meaning always outlasts external rewards like money or recognition. The Yo-Yo Change Cycle: Why "pain-based" motivation causes us to stop working the moment we start feeling a little bit better. The Inspired Procrastinator: How to bridge the gap between having a beautiful vision and actually taking the first step. The 4 Pillars of Sustainable Motivation: A practical framework involving emotional "Whys," systems over goals, compassionate accountability, and the power of micro-wins. The Support Problem: Why a "motivation dip" is often actually a hidden problem with clarity, energy, or community. Action Steps & Resources: [DIVE IN] Join the Happiness Blueprint Self-Study Program: Ready to take the guesswork out of your growth? Access our full curriculum of 75 happiness skills and join a supportive community for as little as $50 AUD/month. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/happiness-blueprint [SUBSCRIBE & RE-GREEN] Help Us Plant Trees: For every new subscriber to the podcast, we fund the planting of a tree to help re-green the world. Hit that subscribe button to play your part! [SHARE THE RIPPLE] Pass it On: If this episode gave you a spark of inspiration, share it with a friend who might be struggling with their own motivation dip right now. What is one "micro-win" you can celebrate today to tell your brain that your progress is working?
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S2 · E12
April 14 · 56 min
The Ripple Effect - Lessons & Insights from the 2026 Happiness Immersion Retreat
"The price of happiness is effort, and the price of genuine connection is inconvenience." In this special monthly edition of The Ripple Effect, Declan Edwards and Ami Rankin are back from the BU Happiness College Immersion Retreat in the Blue Mountains. This episode serves as a "taste test" of the retreat experience, offering a look at the tools, stories, and breakthroughs that happen when we intentionally step away from the "human doing" of daily life to simply be a "human being." Ami shares her honest experience of navigating the "excuses brain" and the anxiety that often precedes prioritising our own well-being. Together, they explore why there is never a "perfect time" to work on your happiness and why choosing to show up for yourself despite the chaos is where the real growth begins. In this episode, Declan and Ami explore: Choice Point Theory: How to move past the first-order discomfort of starting something new to reach the high-yield benefits of calmness and clarity. The Armour of Fight-or-Flight: Why we "armour up" against stress and how this protective shield accidentally blocks us from the joy and connection we crave. The Mutual Support Loop: A touching story from the retreat about the beauty of both giving and receiving support within a 24-hour window. Intuition vs. Fear: Declan’s reflection on a quiet moment watching a storm roll in, and the importance of following the "whisper" of intuition over the "yell" of judgment. Slow Body, Clear Mind: Why slowing down our physical physiology is the fastest way to settle a busy mind and reconnect with our vision. Mortality Motivation: A radical perspective shift for those who find themselves rushing: "Why rush through life when the finish line is death?" Action Steps & Resources: ENROL IN THE CERTIFICATE: The Certificate of Happiness Studies is officially open! Discover the five most foundational skills of happiness over six weeks. Use code PODCAST for 20% off. https://buhappinesscollege.thinkific.com/products/courses/certificate MEET DECLAN ON TOUR: Declan is hitting the road between April and June 2026 for a live positive psychology masterclass tour. Catch him in: - Newcastle: https://events.humanitix.com/happinessscience-newcastle - Sydney: https://events.humanitix.com/happinessscience-sydney - Perth: https://events.humanitix.com/scienceofhappiness-perth - Dubbo: https://events.humanitix.com/happinessscience-dubbo
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S2 · E11
April 7 · 55 min
How James Tanner Became Happier
This episode of How to Be Happy is a deep dive into the "human" side of the science of happiness. I’m joined by my long-time friend and BU Happiness College graduate, James Tanner, to explore how his approach to fulfilment has shifted over a fifty-year journey; from chasing external "wins" to finding a much deeper sense of internal peace. James opens up about the pressure of a "win-lose" mentality in his youth and the emotional toll of trying to earn happiness through achievement. We discuss his transition into a "win-learn" mindset and the critical role that curiosity and faith play in building a life that feels purposeful, even when it’s messy. Whether you consider yourself spiritual, religious, or simply curious, James's perspective on "loving God, loving people, and loving yourself" offers a universal roadmap for better connection. In this episode, we explore: The Achievement Trap: Why tying your happiness to external "happenings" is a recipe for an emotional roller coaster. Win-Loss vs. Win-Learn: How to reframe "failures" as the necessary "sidewalks to the classroom" of your life. The 3 Directions of Connection: Why peak happiness requires connecting to yourself, to others, and to something greater than yourself. Curiosity as the Antidote to Judgment: How staying curious about your own story and the stories of others dismantles the barriers to love and fulfillment. The 7 Factors of Fulfillment: James shares how he used this BU framework to organise his life and why he decided to put spirituality at the "hub" of his wheel. Action Steps & Resources: [DIP YOUR TOE IN] Enrol in the Certificate of Happiness Studies: Start your journey with our foundational 6-week short course. Use code PODCAST at checkout for a special listener price (available for the first 100 people). https://buhappinesscollege.thinkific.com/products/courses/certificate [DIVE IN THE DEEP END] Book a Happiness Strategy Session: Work 1-on-1 with a BU coach to complete your own "7 Factors of Fulfillment" audit. Use code HAPPY100 to save $100 off your first session. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/coaching The Happiness Blueprint: Explore our comprehensive self-study program to master all 75 skills of happiness taught at the College. https://www.buhappinesscollege.com/happiness-blueprint Pre-order 'How to Be Happy': Secure your copy of Declan’s upcoming book to start building your own evidence-based toolkit for life. https://amzn.to/40AU8BT What is one thing you are choosing to be curious about this week? Share your thoughts in the Spotify comments
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S2 · E10
March 31 · 15 min
Connection: Loneliness at Work is a Silent Crisis, Let's Talk About it
This episode of How to Be Happy: At Work tackles one of the most significant, yet overlooked, challenges in the modern office: the "silent crisis" of workplace loneliness. While we often think of loneliness as a personal issue, research shows it is a deeply embedded workplace experience that predicts everything from reduced commitment to a drop in overall performance. Building on our previous conversation about Clarity, Declan Edwards explores Connection; the second of the 7 Cs of Workplace Happiness. He breaks down why tokenistic efforts fail and how leaders can intentionally foster genuine, human-to-human relationships that drive both wellbeing and business results. In this episode, we explore: The Loneliness Data: Why one in five employees feels disconnected, and why remote or hybrid work isn't the only cause. The "Best Friend" Factor: Why having a trusted confidant at work is a leading predictor of high engagement and retention. The Cost of Disconnection: How a lack of belonging acts as a silent drain on innovation and team energy. The Problem with Return-to-Office Mandates: Why forcing people back into the office is often a poor overcorrection for a lack of intentional connection. Practical "Sonder" for Leaders: How to view your team as the main characters of their own stories to build empathy and trust. Micro-Connection Moments: Three simple, actionable strategies to bake connection into your daily rhythm without adding more meetings to the calendar. Connection isn't a workplace "extra"; it is a fundamental human requirement. This episode provides the roadmap to move from a group of individuals to a truly connected, high-performing team. Action Steps & Resources: The Executive Diploma of Happiness Leadership: Join the waitlist for our evidence-backed course designed to help managers build thriving, human-centered cultures. Catch Up on the 7 Cs: If you missed it, go back and listen to the episode on Clarity to see how it sets the foundation for connection. Share the Ripple Effect: If you’re a leader looking to humanise your workplace, forward this episode to your team or a fellow manager.
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