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Hot Mess Habits

Victoria Harder

HOT MESS HABITS is the podcast for the high achieving, want to be organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. each week we chat about habits, routines and current obsessions for the everyday, type b girl.

hosted by Victoria Harder, new episodes every monday

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  • Tuesday · 29 min

    GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER *BEFORE* FALL BEGINS (realistic reset)

    If you're craving a fresh start, a little motivation, and a plan for getting your life back in order, this episode is for you. 🍂 JOIN THE GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER CHALLENGE (LAST DAY TO JOIN!): https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n In today's episode: - how to do a simple life audit - the power of a good brain dump - my new "open loop" system (that is actually working) - creating a realistic bare-minimum plan - getting your home and routines ready for fall - why it's never too early to start planning for the holidays - how to actually make your goals happen before the end of the year!! other videos to in the get your life together series: why you're not consistent: https://youtu.be/9Ygts0Aaz0g 7 habits & systems to implement today: https://youtu.be/g4BxU1tZQMM why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9

  • August 18 · 47 min

    7 HABITS & SYSTEMS THAT KEEP ME SANE (that you can *actually* do) | get your life together week two

    WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: ⁠https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n⁠ today we unpack some actual *REALISTIC* habits + systems that keep me sane as a chaotic-leaning, adhd, type b girly. other videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9

  • August 11 · 35 min

    this is why you're not consistent | get your life together week one

    WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other side today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sideother videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9

  • August 7 · 29 min

    JULY FAVORITES | the odyssey, hyperfixation snacks, the thing i've used since high school + MORE

    PLS tell me you like this format of episode!! This is week 5 (?) of being consistent posting the podcast + also switching up some of my episode types: I am trying to be more unfiltered and CONSISTENT! lmk how you like! today we chat all about everything I was obsessing about in July make sure you sign up for the "get your life together challenge" happening this month: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n other realistic episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

  • August 1 · 24 min

    7 HEALTHY PHONE HABITS TO BREAK YOUR ADDICTION

    this is the year we end our phone addiction!!! GET YOUR BRICK NOW (not sponsored, just listen to the episode to hear why I love it): https://getbrick.app/VICTORIA84372 GET THE FULL DIGITAL DETOX GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/how-to-get-unaddicted-to-your-phone if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you. we are covering: - realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction - why it is so important WHEN we scroll - the best iphone feature for phone addiction - why i love the brick so much (and my fave new feature!) - the thing that can be missing from the screen time conversation TIMESTAMPS: 0:53 guilt isn't a strong enough motivator, but it is telling you something 11:06 why it is so important WHEN you scroll 12:40 the BEST new brick feature 14:24 not giving into excuses 16:17 fave iphone feature: greyscale 17:40 practice leaving phone in other room 18:46 self awareness of when your phone becomes a coping mechanism 21:19 no phone policy at the table 22:33 guide to detoxing other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT sub count: 7180

  • July 23 · 27 min

    your guide to a MIDYEAR RESET (refreshing goals, redefining productivity, type b pep-talk!!)

    we still have SO MUCH TIME! if you haven't looked at your goals, habits + routines in a while, this is your motivation! today we cover: - why we need to take the time to check in (especially if you have adhd) - why we need to shift our view of productivity - HOW to actually accomplish our goals - redefining our schedule + taking action this episode is for: 🤎 for the type b moms 💻 for the work-from-home girlies 🧠 for the adhd brains ✨ for the recovering perfectionist / eldest daughter TIMESTAMPS: 1:46: life updates: odyssey + family vacay 8:40: why does a mid-year reset even matter 13:10: does every goal needs to be productive?? 15:05: check in with your goals 17:19: my examples of goals I had to shift 22:50: start with HIGH IMPACT low effort 26:44: hosting free challenge!! outro other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

  • July 18 · 38 min

    THINGS I FIND INCREDIBLY CHIC AS A TYPE B MOM

    my ultimate list of things I find incredibly chic as a type b mom!! lmk if you can relate or have any to add! TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 PODCAST UPDATES 15:30 having a cute diaper bag 17:20 grocery pick up 19:20 pouches to organize 22:35 having a key attachment on bag 23:22 having nice claw clip 24:16 hot beverage early morning 25:33 baby wearing 26:04 no shame over restarting and picking back up 27:30 having pedicure 30:20 drink hot tea 31:27 vibey evening routine 34:27 car stocked with must haves 36:00 being a chugger not sipper 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7160

  • July 9 · 25 min

    HOW TO HAVE A BUTTER MOM SUMMER

    OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈 we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO 🧈 butter mom summer guide (paid playbook): https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide⁠ 📵 the brick (my phone detox device) — https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi i'm victoria, host of hot mess habits 🍓 this is a space for type b moms who want realistic habits + routines without the pressure of doing it perfectly. we talk motherhood, food + fun drinks, dream lifestyle, productivity + just generally trying to get our lives together!! new episodes weekly 🩰 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS instagram: @hotmesshabits + @victoriaharderxo tiktok: @victoriaharderxo substack: victoriaharderxo.substack.com podcast: hot mess habits on apple + spotify blog: victoriaharderxo.com shop: victoriaharderxo.com/shop shopmy: shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo amazon (ca): amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

  • June 24 · 21 min

    21 days without social media (breaking my scrolling addiction)

    this video is NOT sponsored but I do love & highly recommend brick: https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372 if you are feeling like you cannot stop scrolling, are getting iriratated with your kids, are constantly anxious, it might be time to do a social media reset today I chat all about my 21 day challenge and the impact it had on me! 🌸 RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BE LESS ADDICTED get a brick → https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372 more ideas on breaking your addiction → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=194s 🤎 ABOUT THE PODCAST hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!! 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/ Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo? SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

  • June 16 · 15 min

    de-influencing you as a wellness girly

    in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO morning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!! 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/ Substack →https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo? SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

  • April 24 · 25 min

    realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies

    realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies in this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-go...chatbooks photo books → https://rstr.co/chatbookers/12968quince linen bedding → https://goto.quince.com/vD40yN🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood, food and drinks, and all the little things that make ordinary days feel good. 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → victoriaharderxo.comsubstack → substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → instagram.com/victoriaharderxopodcast → instagram.com/hotmesshabitstiktok → tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

  • April 14 · 17 min

    6 micro habits that are DESTROYING your goals (and you don't even know it)

    okay so this one is a little spicy because i'm talking about the habits we don't even realize we're doing in this episode i'm sharing 6 micro habits that are quietly ruining your productivity — especially if you have ADHD or tend to run on type B vibes. we're talking time blindness, doomscrolling, the 100-item to-do list trap, and the self-help content habit that was secretly making me more anxious than motivated. PLS let me know if you can relate!!! MENTIONED: → Daily planning notepad (use code PODCAST for $10 off): https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list TIMESTAMPS:1:26 micro habit #1: not making a plan + hoping it works out3:32 micro habit #2: leaning into your struggles instead of figuring them out6:11 micro habit #3: scrolling before bed (and in the morning)8:31 micro habit #4: leaving at the time you're supposed to BE somewhere11:03 micro habit #5: the 100 item to-do list12:22 micro habit #6: too much self help content 💖 ABOUT THE SHOW I'm Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here on Hot Mess Habits, we chat realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful life. 💖 LET'S BE FRIENDS: The blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo TODAY'S BLOGPOST: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/04/15/micro-habits-ruining-productivity/

  • March 31 · 18 min

    why you never finish your to do list (adhd + type b edition)

    if you’re constantly ending your day feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like you didn’t actually get anything done… this is for you.In this video, I’m sharing why you never finish your to-do list (especially as an adhd / type b girly), how to actually plan your day in a way that works for your brain, and the simple system that’s been helping me stay on track lately.This is a realistic, behind-the-scenes chat about productivity, time blindness, overwhelm, and creating routines that feel doable in real life (especially for my adhd multi-passionate girlies)MENTIONED:→ My daily planning notepad: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list→ Digital version (print at home): https://bodegoods.co/products/productivity-notepad-digital-download→ How to plan your day (blog post): https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/30/how-to-plan-your-day-with-adhd-realistic-type-b-approved/→ Why you never finish your to-do list: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/30/why-you-never-finish-your-to-do-list/TIME STAMPS:0:00 always feeling overwhelmed2:20 problem one: brain dump vs to do list2:59 mistake two: time blindness4:30 “but this will add more time”6:46 step one: brain dump!!! 8:13 step two: make a plan (what time works)10:13 actually planning14:20 mindset shifts💖 ABOUT THE CHANNELI’m Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada.on this channel (and my podcast, Hot Mess Habits), we chat realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful lifeSubscriber count: 6984music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTLET’S HANG OUT:The blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram: / victoriaharderxoPodcast Instagram: / hotmesshabitsTikTok: / victoriaharderxoSHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria

  • March 24 · 17 min

    how i started and launched a podcast in 30 days (that now has over 1M!!! listens)

    if you’ve been wondering how to start a podcast as a beginner, this is exactly how I launched mine in 30 days!! I’m sharing what actually helped me stop overthinking and finally start — without a perfect plan, fancy setup or feeling fully ready. This is a behind-the-scenes, honest chat about starting a podcast from scratch, especially if you struggle with perfectionism or feeling overwhelmed (hellooo fellow adhd multi passionate girlies) MENTIONED: → My full podcast setup + equipment: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/24/everything-you-need-to-launch-an-aesthetic-podcast/ → This episodes blog post so you can read through: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/03/24/how-to-start-a-podcast-in-30-days/ 💖 ABOUT THE PODCAST I’m Victoria — a WFH mom, content creator & routine-obsessed type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Hot Mess Habits is all about realistic habits, routines, content creation & cozy, everyday lifestyle. We love low-pressure productivity, mom life and building a meaningful life music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT LET’S HANG OUT: My Blog: https://victoriaharderxo.com/ Substack: https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo? Instagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo Podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabits TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria

  • February 22 · 33 min

    winter self-care + wellness for the type B girl

    this is your gentle winter reset!! we’re talking cozy home vibes, drink rituals, adhd-friendly movement, winter mom life, and the small things that actually help when the dark months feel heavy. WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies who thrive in summer but struggle in winter 🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation when it gets dark at 4pm ☕ moms feeling stir-crazy, overstimulated & stuck inside 🕯️ cozy girls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent it whether you’re feeling seasonally low, low-energy, stuck in doom scrolling, or just craving sunshine — this episode is about creating soft, realistic winter habits that make the season feel a little more doable! timestamps: 0:00 missing the sun + winter reality check 3:26 romanticizing winter (vibes + ambience) 6:45 habit stacking your cozy routines (essential oils) 12:02 drink rituals as self care 15:40 self care station: drinks 18:05 winter movement ideas 21:08 winter mom life 23:39 my winter must-haves + favourite products!! 💌 FULL BLOG POST: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/02/22/winter-self-care-for-the-type-b-girl/ — WINTER FAVES LINEUP: Salty Face self tanner (my glow all winter): go.shopmy.us/p-37227899 UltraHuman Ring (sleep + steps tracker): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo Sage Wellness oils (liquid sunshine blend): https://shopmy.us/shop/collections/4069611 Revive Oils (non-MLM essential oil dupe brand): https://www.revive-eo.com/?rfsn=8945782.676df4 Blume Super Belly – strawberry hibiscus: https://amzn.to/4rWiUIy Sunrise alarm clock: https://amzn.to/4aZtOrf — OTHER WINTER RESET CONTENT: • how to not be seasonally depressed → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTJSTPMV5jE&t=767s • digital life reset → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZDxWyTjAmg&t=327s • we are getting un-addicted to our phones → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=191s 🎧 about the podcast: Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, cozy resets, and current obsessions for the everyday Type B girl. new episodes every week. music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT LINKS Instagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo Podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabits TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria — 💖 about me I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content, ADHD-friendly routines + mom-life resets.

  • February 11 · 26 min

    how to not be seasonally depressed (a realistic winter self care pep talk)

    your gentle winter pep talk. we’re talking bare minimum days, cozy habits, ADHD-friendly routines, and how to protect your mental health during the long, heavy winter months!! WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies 🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation in winter ☕ moms who feel extra overstimulated this season 🕯️ cozy souls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent it whether you’re feeling seasonally depressed, stuck in doom scrolling, low on energy, or just not like yourself lately, this episode will help you reset in a way that feels kind and realistic timestamps: 0:00 winter feels heavy (and that’s okay) 5:53 the art of a bare minimum day 10:08 what my “hard day” list looks like 14:33 screen time + evening habits in winter 21:08 romanticizing winter instead of resisting it 23:28 sick season helpers 24:12 connection, community & getting through the season 💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST https://victoriaharderxo.com/how-to-deal-with-seasonal-depression-winter OTHER COZY RESET CONTENT: • realistic goal setting for women → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCwO46w20u8&t=1016s • screen time addiction reset → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=191s 🎧 about the podcast: Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, cozy resets, and current obsessions for the everyday Type B girl. new episodes every week current subscriber count: 6875 music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1 LINKS Instagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo Podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabits TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvic ... 💖 about me I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content, ADHD-friendly routines + mom-life resets.

  • January 28 · 25 min

    how I’m preparing to thrive in postpartum | wellness habits, meal prep & realistic mom self care

    let’s chat postpartum 🤍 this is all about what postpartum was actually like for me the first time, the mistakes I made, and everything I’m doing differently this time to prepare in a more supportive, realistic way. from meal prep and recovery to self-care, support systems, and slowing down — this is postpartum prep for the wellness-loving, Type B, real-life mom. WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 mamas preparing for postpartum 🧠 adhd / Type B girlies who need realistic systems 🍼 first-time moms who don’t know what to expect ☕ moms who want to feel supported whether you're pregnant, newly postpartum, or reflecting on your own experience, I hope this feels like a cozy, honest chat that helps you feel a little less alone and a little more prepared 🤍 timestamps: 0:00 why I’m focusing more on postpartum than birth this time 3:42 what my first postpartum was really like 7:55 going back to work too soon (and how it affected me) 11:20 the biggest mindset shift I have now 14:05 my postpartum meal prep plan 18:30 prebooking pelvic floor physio + recovery support 20:40 lounge sets, self-care, and feeling like myself at home 24:15 creating nursing + care stations around the house 27:10 asking for help & setting expectations with support people 30:05 the text scripts + postpartum binder idea 32:12 final thoughts for anyone entering this season 💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST POSTPARTUM RESOURCES MENTIONED: • postpartum essentials blog post • postpartum amazon essentials 🎧 about the podcast: Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl. new episodes every week music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1 LINKS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria 💖 about me I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.

  • January 22 · 28 min

    2026 is just getting started: realistic goal setting for women who want more meaning

    let's chat realistic goal setting for women who want more meaning in 2026 this episode is all about gentle goal setting, vision-led planning, and actually creating systems that support your real life. especially if you’re Type B, ADHD, in a new season! WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies 🧠 adhd dreamers ☕ moms who want realistic goals 📅 goal-setters who want more meaning, less pressure whether you’re planning your entire 2026, setting a few fresh goals, or just craving more direction + clarity, this episode will help you reset in a way that feels good timestamps: 0:00 why it's not too late / letting go of the January 1st pressure 2:56 life update 6:44 the dreaming phase: what would your dream life actually look like? 12:13 finding your year anchors + non-negotiables 13:07 defining your vision + your why 14:51 refining your goals so they actually align with your values 17:34 creating systems 22:30 final mindset shifts to make this sustainable 💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST: https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/01/21/realistic-goal-setting-for-women-2026/ 🎧 about the podcast: Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl. new episodes every week music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1 LINKS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria 💖 about me I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.

  • January 14 · 40 min

    how to do a full digital reset for 2026 (get your life together + stop doomscrolling!!)

    let's chat how to reset your digital life for 2026 in a realistic, cozy, sustainable way!this episode is all about clearing digital clutter in a way that feels doable — organizing your phone, laptop, inbox, camera roll + more — especially if you're ADHD, Type B, a creative, a mom, or all of the above.WELCOMING ALL THE:📱 digital chaos girlies🧠 adhd brains📓 2026 reset + rebrand lovers☕ busy moms craving less mental clutterwhether you're a content creator, working from home, or just craving less noise + more peace — this digital reset will help you start 2026 feeling more focused, calm & clear.timestamps:0:00 intro: your digital life matters too!!1:45 my digital backstory (aka how I won my first laptop at age 10)5:20 we can't ignore the darker side of the online space8:46 quick wins10:40 home screen detox14:35 phone contacts16:10 camera roll18:50 unsubscribe from emails20:03 social media audit24:06 update all passwords25:14 refresh calendar26:57 in depth camera roll28:08 in depth app look28:54 computer desktop31:03 digital notes32:14 declutter subscriptions34:02 business owners this is for you36:52 systems for 202638:35 personal digital habits💌 LINKS MENTIONED + FULL BLOG POST:https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/01/14/digital-reset-2026/ GETTING UN-ADDICTED TO YOUR PHONE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=229s🎧 about the podcast:Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl.new episodes every weekmusic license: MB01P3LS645GYU1LET'S HANG OUT:InstagramPodcast InstagramTikTokSHOP W ME:SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves):Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!)💖 About MeI’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.

  • Dec 19, 2025 · 30 min

    let’s reset our entire life for 2026 (a realistic guide to actually achieving your goals)

    let's chat how to reset your entire life for 2026 in a realistic, sustainable way that actually helps you achieve your goals, without extreme routines, toxic productivity or buying a new planner and hoping it fixes everything (guilty hehe) This episode is all about honest reflection, intentional vision setting & setting your focus for habits that work long term, especially if you’re Type B, ADHD, a mom or just overall burnt out by traditional productivity advice. WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girls 🧠 ADHD brains 📓 2026 reset + rebrand lovers ☕ busy moms who want realistic routines Whether you’re doing a full 2026 life reset, setting goals for the new year or just looking for a calmer way to plan, this episode will help you slow down and move forward into the new year with intention! timestamps: 0:00 resetting for 2026 (realistic + intentional) 6:02 the 3 reflection questions you need before goal setting 13:28 building a vision for 2026 (not just goals) 16:58 using notion for long-term planning + vision 22:12 creating routine menus that actually stick 25:00 simplifying food + meal planning for real life seasons 30:14 final encouragement for a sustainable reset 💌 LINKS + FULL BLOG POST: https://victoriaharderxo.com 🎧 about the podcast: Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, and current obsessions for the everyday, Type B girl. new episodes every week music license: MB01P3LS645GYU1 LET'S HANG OUT: My Instagram Podcast Instagram TikTok: SHOP W ME: SHOPMY (gift guides, wfh must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria 💖 About Me I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content + mom-life routines.

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