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How to Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong Major Gift Prospects

Sep 12, 2025 · 14 min · 7.0 MB
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Are you stuck chasing donors who never call back? Wasting your precious time on high-capacity but low-interest "prospects"? This episode is your rescue mission.

Mary introduces the ABCDE Method—a powerhouse framework to help you quickly spot which donors deserve your energy (and which should be blessed and released). You'll learn how to focus on donors with true potential and stop burning out on low-likelihood long shots.

With witty wisdom and a dose of real talk, Mary breaks down:

  • Affinity + Action – Why caring alone isn't enough
  • Big Gifts Elsewhere – The receipts don't lie!
  • Connections Inside – One warm intro could be worth $100K
  • Donor Behavior Upgrades – Look for spontaneous signs of readiness
  • Engagement – Time and attention are donor love languages

You'll also get tips on how to filter your portfolio using this framework and how to bless and release like a boss.

🧠 What You’ll Learn:

  • Why high-capacity ≠ high-likelihood
  • How to qualify better and stress less
  • The 5 signs that a prospect is actually ready for a major gift convo
  • The art of saying “no” to the wrong people (without guilt)
  • How to turn signals into strategy

🎁 Free Resource:

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📣 Don’t forget:

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  • Share it with a teammate who's drowning in low-likelihood leads 🙃

🪑 The Small Table Intensive. Half a day. Build or rebuild your major gift program around fewer donors and deeper relationships, using the methodology from my book Small Table Big Philanthropy.

🎯 The Ask Workshop. Half a day. The exact words to use when it's time to ask for 5 and 6-figure gifts. Walk in nervous about the ask. Walk out with the script.

More from Mary:

📘 Mary's books. What to Say and Small Table Big Philanthropy. The books behind the methodology.

🔥 Major Donor Meeting Mastery. My step-by-step system for donor meetings that move the relationship forward.

👩🏻‍💻 Momentum Training. My complete packaging + ask system, all in one place.

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