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How to Close Major Gifts Faster—Without Rushing the Donor

Sep 19, 2025 · 22 min · 10.9 MB
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Ready to pour rocket fuel on your major gift efforts? Major Gift Momentum is the solution. Check it out here!

Do you really need to spend 18 months cultivating a donor before making an ask? 😅  (Spoiler alert: Absolutely not.)

In this firecracker episode, Mary calls BS on the outdated “18-month cultivation” rule and walks you through how to build authentic, strategic donor relationships that lead to major gifts faster — without feeling rushed, pushy, or awkward.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why loooong cultivation timelines are sabotaging your impact.
  • The three things donors must be clear on to say “YES.”
  • Five powerful ways to accelerate donor momentum without pressure.
  • What to say instead of “can you support our work?” 🙃
  • Why smaller portfolios = deeper relationships and bigger gifts.

Resources & Links

 🎯 Ready to crush your major gift goals faster? Grab Major Donor Meeting Mastery – it’s your fast track to YES for just $47!

If you loved this episode, please leave a review and share it with a teammate who’s stuck in “not yet” land.

Until next time, keep fundraising with clarity, purpose, and a little sass.

🪑 The Small Table Intensive. Half a day. Build or rebuild your major gift program around fewer donors and deeper relationships, using the methodology from my book Small Table Big Philanthropy.

🎯 The Ask Workshop. Half a day. The exact words to use when it's time to ask for 5 and 6-figure gifts. Walk in nervous about the ask. Walk out with the script.

More from Mary:

📘 Mary's books. What to Say and Small Table Big Philanthropy. The books behind the methodology.

🔥 Major Donor Meeting Mastery. My step-by-step system for donor meetings that move the relationship forward.

👩🏻‍💻 Momentum Training. My complete packaging + ask system, all in one place.

💻 Connect with Mary Petersen