Her Side Of The Affair

Stacey Chenevert

This is the podcast every unfaithful woman needs.
Hosted by a woman who’s lived it, Her Side of the Affair is a safe, shame-free space for women who had an affair and want to heal.
Through honest conversations, personal stories, and practical guidance, we dive deep into the emotional chaos, heartbreak, and hard questions that come after the affair ends.
If you're tired of hiding, ready to let go, and desperate for healing—you’re not alone anymore. This is your place to be seen, understood, and walk toward redemption.
Your story isn’t over. Let’s write a new chapter—together

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21 episodes
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Yesterday · 21 min
The reason its hard to end an affair. (Its not what you think)
Have you ever asked yourself.. If I know this relationship needs to end, why can't I let go? Today I want to explain what is keeping you stuck in the affair breakup cycle. Email- stacey@moderndayeve TikTok- Stacey Chenevert
July 29 · 20 min
My Affair Doesnt Excuse Your Neglect
What if I told you one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves in marriage is that sex automatically equals intimacy? In this episode, we are going to cover how an affair doesn't excuse neglect in the marriage. Follow me on Tiktok -Stacey Chenevert Email me - stacey@moderndayeve.com Schedule a 1:1 coaching session-https://calendly.com/stacey-moderndayeve/30-minute-consultation
July 20 · 17 min
I love Jesus and Still Had an Affair
I never imagined this would be my story. As a Christian, I loved Jesus, served in the church, and believed an affair was something that could never happen to me. In this episode, I'm sharing my story. Email me at stacey@moderndayeve.com
Apr 14, 2025 · 17 min
I Feel Lost Without My Affair Partner- The Truth No One Tells You
Are you struggling to let go of your affair partner? Do you feel so fearful at the thought of not having him in your life? In today's episode, I share with you some deeper reasons (like core wounds) why its hard to let go of your affair partner. I also want to invite you to join SAFE HAVEN, a membership I have created for the other woman to come and heal without fear of judgment. I have included a link for more information. https://www.moderndayeve.com/restore-membership If you want to heal your core wounds, have healthier relationships, and prevent future affairs, email me to apply for the Healing Your Attachment Style Program. Stacey@moderndayeve.com
Mar 27, 2025 · 20 min
What happened to the fantasy I imagined with my affair partner
Have you ever felt during the affair that you wished you could have more time with that person, and when you got it, it was not what you imagined? In today's podcast, I am sharing a client's story of her experience of reality not being like fantasy. If your affair ended and you are ready to let go and heal, or if you are stuck in the breakup cycle and want to be free, then join me In the Safe Haven membership, where the other woman comes to recover from her affair. https://www.moderndayeve.com/restore-membership
Mar 21, 2025 · 17 min
Why Do I Want To Protect My Affair Partner
In this powerful episode, we explore the surprising and often misunderstood reasons why women feel an intense need to protect their affair partner—especially when it comes to their husband. From emotional enmeshment and trauma bonds to guilt, secrecy, and misplaced loyalty, we unpack the psychological and spiritual layers that keep women stuck in a protective dynamic. If you’ve ever felt torn between truth and protection, or if you’re trying to make sense of your own emotional attachments, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and hope for healing. My affair ended now what Emergency Plan --https://www.moderndayeve.com/my-affair-ended-now-what-emergency-plan Book a private 1:1 coaching session--https://calendly.com/stacey-moderndayeve/30-minute-consultation
May 30, 2024 · 19 min
I Am Torn Between My Husband And Affair Partner
In this podcast, I share with you my story of when I felt torn between my husband and affair partner. I discuss the role emotions play and the reasons for feeling torn. Join me on Tiktoc @moderndayeve Life after infidelity www.moderndayeve.com mini-course www.moderndayeve.com 1:1 coaching signup www.moderndayeve.com email me at stacey@moderndayeve.com
Mar 14, 2024 · 24 min
I relapsed and called my affair partner
It's common to have a relapse after an affair. But it's important to make sure we don't get stuck in this cycle. www.moderndayeve.com stacey@moderndayeve.com
Mar 4, 2024 · 8 min
You are not alone
In this episode, I share with you why I started my infidelity coaching business. www.moderndayeve.com stacey@moderndayeve.com
Jul 10, 2023 · 24 min
I messed up and called my affair partner
In this episode, I share with you a time during recovery when I had a relapse and called my affair partner and what I learned from this mistake. If you would like to work with me you can find me at www.moderndayeve.com or you can email me at: stacey@moderndayeve.com
Feb 28, 2023 · 19 min
How My Affair Started
I am an affair recovery coach who specializes in helping the unfaithful end their affair and heal their unhealthy attachment styles so they can prevent future affairs. I offer 1:1 coaching sessions and you can sign up at www.moderndayeve.com Follow me on Youtube---Stacey Chenevert Instagram--- Modern.Day.Eve.Coaching Tictok--Modern Day Eve Coaching Reach me at Stacey@moderndayeve.com
Jan 30, 2023 · 21 min
How My Affair ended
The struggle to end my affair was real and extremely painful. In this episode, I share with you how I ended my story in hopes you will know you are not alone in this struggle and that you can walk away. Email: stacey@moderndayeve.com Website:www.moderndayeve.com
Jan 14, 2023 · 15 min
Infidelity And Church Hurt
It is my experience that not all churches will be kind to the member who has an affair. But know this, God is not like that. It is God's heart that as a believer we should be restored humbly and gently. Don judge God because the church has failed you. God will never fail you. Email- Stacey@moderndayeve.com Coaching 1:1 sign up at www.moderdayeve.com
Sep 5, 2022 · 15 min
Is It Real Love Or Limerence? The Truth About Limerence
Are you being told the way you feel about your affair partner is just limerence and it's not real love? I was told this many times and it greatly slowed down my recovery time. So let's talk about it!
May 30, 2022 · 14 min
The pressure of affair recovery timeline
When an affair ends there is an expectaiint to heal and recover by a certain time frame. I have discovered this kind of thinking applies more pressure to the unfaithful and betrayed spouse which causes the opposite affect.
Jan 20, 2022 · 14 min
Will My Affair Partner Make A Good Spouse
Have you ever wondered if your affair partner would make a good spouse? In this episode, I share with you my thoughts on will my affair partner make a good spouse.
Dec 14, 2021 · 18 min
AffairyTale--I married My Affair Partner
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to marry your affair partner? In this episode, I share with you what my experience was when I married my affair partner.
Dec 9, 2021 · 21 min
Living In Crazy Town / The Double Life Of Infidelity
Do you ever feel like since your affair you have become someone you don't recognize? Infidelity causes us to live as two separate people. In this episode, we will talk about living the double life of infidelity.
Nov 30, 2021 · 21 min
Ugh Sex, Why is sex difficult after my affair
Do you wonder why you don't want to have sex with your husband since your affair ended? I struggled with this after my affair ended, but I want to encourage you that you can get past this and go on to have a fulfilling sex life with your spouse after infidelity.
Nov 24, 2021 · 20 min
The Great Escape
In this episode we talk about how infidelity is our escape from the problems we are struggling with.