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Apr 30, 2019 · 1 hr 3 min
Change Junkies
More people are meeting their partners over social media, so we try to figure out exactly what an attractive Instagram feed looks like. Ben Higgins met his new girlfriend after sliding into her DMs, so he lends his opinion to Jared, Vanessa & Dean. Ben sticks around to help Jared and Vanessa smooth things over from last week’s talk about Jared’s wedding and who isn’t on the guest list. And we talk to Monica Berg, who describes herself as a “change junkie”. She’s written a new book called “Rethink Love”, which aims to tear down some of the myths about love and relationships. She has some incredible advice for Vanessa on how to keep from losing her identity to the person she’s dating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 22, 2019 · 1 hr 5 min
Dating Deeper
Jared’s wedding planning with Ashley continues but something is revealed that deeply upsets Vanessa. Meanwhile, Dean lets us in on some personal work he’s been doing and explains why he thinks he’s a better person when he’s single. And we talk to psychotherapist Ken Page, author of Deeper Dating. He tells us about a meditation practice that’s easy to do, and will put you in the perfect headspace for meeting the right person. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 15, 2019 · 1 hr 10 min
Dean There, Done That
Dean tells us he’s been feeling a lot healthier and confident lately, but to really evaluate what that means, we talk to “Possibilitarian” Cherie Healey. She helps Dean face some of his unprocessed grief from losing his mother, and she shares some incredible advice on how to deal with fear. Plus, Dean lets us in on a HUGE project he’s been working on, and we hear about how his Coachella trip has left him thinking about a recent ex girlfriend. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 8, 2019 · 1 hr 5 min
Pet Names with GiGi Gorgeous
The rumors are circulating that Dean is going back to Paradise, and he finally sets the record straight for you. He hints at a truly epic entrance, and tells us that this new season could completely change the way everybody looks at him. We talk to model GiGi Gorgeous about her journey. She tells us her theory on why transgendered dating is better than cisgendered dating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 2, 2019 · 1 hr 6 min
Dating with Dignity
Dating coach Marni Battista joins us to share some advice on how to meet people that have "evolved" to a more serious level in relationships. And we tackle some dating issues from 3 different perspectives: a single person, someone in a committed relationship, and one in a new relationship. Also, we figure out the male equivalent to flowers... what's a quick gift you can get for your guy to show that you care and are thinking of him? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 26, 2019 · 1 hr 18 min
Non Negotiables with Reza Farahan
It's a girls day on the podcast when Vanessa hangs out with her friend Mikaela Whightman from Bachelor Canada. Together, they tackle the question "can you ever be satisfied in love?" Reza Farahan from Shahs of Sunset stops by, and reveals why hands and teeth could be a clue to what kind of kisser you are. Plus, Vanessa opens up about her anxiety, and how she deals with panic attacks. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 19, 2019 · 1 hr 21 min
Single Parents with Kimrie Lewis
Kimrie Lewis from Single Parents on ABC is hanging out with Dean, Jared & Vanessa, and all their worlds collide when they talk about the Single Parents/Bachelor crossover episode. Kimrie tells us about how her ex was the DJ at her wedding, but at the moment, Kimrie is painfully single, so we see if Dean or Jared can set her up with one of their Bachelor buddies. Plus, we figure out why women feel heartbreak worse than men, and we get an inside update on Bachelor in Paradise from Dean, who spent some time with some of the guys recently. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 12, 2019 · 1 hr 12 min
I Used to Be a Cougar with The Bubbies
Dean’s back from another trip around the world! Blake Hortsmann stops by the studio. Blake reveals if Bachelor Nation pals Jason Tartick and his new girlfriend Kaitlyn Bristowe have tried to hook him up with anybody. We find out what’s been on his mind while watching Colton. Dean and Colton both had a shot at being the Bachelor and they open up about that! And the story of Caelynn sliding into Dean’s DMs has been everywhere, so Dean has to set the record straight, and tell us all the dirty details of what went down in those messages. Then we welcome The Bubbies into the studio, and who better than Grandmas to help us STOP SUCKING AT DATING! They have some crucial words for Vanessa, who recently hit a huge milestone in her new relationship, and you don’t want to miss their answers to your dating questions! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 4, 2019 · 1 hr 22 min
Baecations with Dax Holt
HOW DO YOU BUTTER YOUR BREAD? Etiquette specialist Amy Rainer helps us understand the proper way to do it. You might recognize Amy from Colton’s bread buttering on last week’s episode of The Bachelor. Did you know there’s a right and wrong way to pass the salt? She has some little known rules that may save your next date! We play a round of “10 Questions with Vanessa Grimaldi”! And Dax Holt from TMZ and Access Live stops in to share some of his celebrity expertise, and the dos and don’ts for couples that want to share their relationship on Instagram. He warns us of the effects a vacation (even a short one) can have on a relationship, then Jared and Vanessa open up about some of the crazier dates they went on during The Bachelor. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 25, 2019 · 1 hr 38 min
Alter Egos
Vanessa fills us in on her first Valentine’s Day with her new guy, and we hear about her clapback against a body shaming troll. Plus, we talk to author Sabrina Must about her new book “A Terrible Dater”. With a title like that, she’ll fit right in on this podcast! And life coach Mike Bauer introduces Vanessa and Jared to their alter egos... Barfola and Captain Suckbag! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 18, 2019 · 1 hr 14 min
Your Chairlift or Mine?
These days, it seems like dating apps are the best way to meet people, but our expert says that might not be true! Dean and Vanessa talk to Melissa Brown, CEO of “Its Just Lunch”, about the advantages of getting to know people in person instead of just chatting on apps. And if you think you’ve tried every dating gimmick, strap your skis on, and see what happens during “Chairlift Speed Dating”. Then, Brittany Rose from Temptation Island stops by to talk about her experience on the show, and her intimate connection to Dean. Vanessa has some predictions for this new season, and we find out how Brittany really feels about the cast members after filming ended. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 11, 2019 · 1 hr 28 min
Body Doubles
Things get “twinteresting” when Dean and Jared hang out with Brittany and Briana, who are identical twins engaged to another set of identical twins, Jeremy and Joshua. They tell us all about their adorable proposal story, and we find out how strong the “twin bond” actually is. You can follow their entire wedding adventure on “Our Twinsane Wedding” on TLC. Then Dean opens up about his own fears of infertility, and how he’s confronting that anxiety. And we discuss the new menstruation emoji, and how far texting can go before it becomes cheating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 6, 2019 · 1 hr 11 min
Real Relationships & Fake Accents with Rob Mack and Naz Perez
Vanessa recently made it Instagram official with her new boyfriend, and she’s ready to open up to Dean and Jared about why this might be her most serious relationship yet. Then Rob Mack from Famously Single on E! stops by. He’s a “love coach”, and once we find out what that is, he tells us all about how to find true happiness in a relationship, and he spills about some of the celebrity couples he’s worked with. Plus, we check in with Bri from Colton’s season of The Bachelor, and we start the process of hooking her up with a member of Bachelor Nation she’s made no secret of crushing on. And former Bachelor producer Naz Perez hangs out to tell us about her program called “Heartbroken Anonymous”, which is a support group for anyone going through heartbreak, even if it’s not related to love. And we don’t let her leave without telling us some crazy behind the scenes stories from The Bachelor. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 28, 2019 · 1 hr 36 min
Sister from Another Season with Kristen Doute
Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules stops by to hang with Dean and Vanessa… and she brought wine! After a couple glasses of her new “Witches of Weho” wine, she lets us in about some of the hookups that go down on the new season of Vanderpump Rules, and she bonds with Dean and Vanessa over life on reality TV. Then we take a trip to the sunshine state, with Madisson Hausberg from Siesta Key! We talk to her about the challenges with having a long distance relationship, and we get a sneak peek into her love life on this upcoming season. Plus, Kelsey & Zach from Dating #NoFilter help us out with some dating terms, and they’re dissecting some texts from listeners to figure out where things went wrong! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 21, 2019 · 1 hr 11 min
Into the Freezer with Whitney Bischoff
This week everyone focuses on an extremely important part of Vanessa’s anatomy… her ovaries. Vanessa’s been exploring the topic of freezing her eggs, so we talk to Bachelor alum Sadie Murray , who actually froze her eggs. She was also the original “Bachelor virgin”, so we get her take on Colton’s season and the unending virginity talk. Then, we talk to Whitney Bischoff from Chris Soules’ season, who is a fertility specialist. She has some little-known information that women need to hear before they make any fertility decisions. And Dean opens up about his plans to become a parent. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 15, 2019 · 1 hr 44 min
Feeling Tempted with Chad Johnson
Dean addresses his bombshell interview with Access Live and explains why he said Bachelor relationships aren't real. Jared, who is in a Bachelor relationship of course disagrees with Dean, and they fight it out on the air. Then, former Bachelorette contestant, Chad Johnson from MTV's “Ex on the Beach” is coming by the studio. Dean is NOT happy about it and considers not participating in the interview and discusses with Vanessa and Jared live, with Chad just steps away from the studio. And Mark L. Walberg, host of “Temptation Island” stops by to talk about all the craziness going down on the new season and why couples can come out stronger on the other side of this show. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 8, 2019 · 1 hr 17 min
On Matters of Sex
Dean is back from the land down under, and he’s ready to talk all about everyone’s favorite subject… SEX. Dr Chris Donaghue, author of the book "Rebel Love", stops by to clear up some misconceptions about sex, including a MAJOR misunderstanding Dean has about the female anatomy. We answer your burning questions, and some of them get REALLY down and dirty. Then, we find out something about one of Dean’s exes that left him shook. Plus, we find out if Dean or Vanessa had a New Year’s kiss! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 18, 2018 · 1 hr 31 min
Dean's Homecoming
Dean’s back from his trip to South America! He’s got a bunch of stories from his adventures, and he finally some news from his dating life! Then, we hang out with relationship expert Hillary Goldsher (drhillarygoldsher.com), for some advice on how to get the most out of therapy. She also has some valuable resources people can check out before getting started with therapy. And she sticks around to lend her expertise to some relationship questions from our Facebook page. Plus, Vanessa tells us why she thinks she’s in her sexual prime, and we hear what Dean thinks about using sex toys. Brought to you by: AMAZON FIRE TV - Head to www.amazon.com/isuckpodcast to order a Fire TV of your very own STAMPS.COM - Enter dean for a special 4 week Trial THRIVE MARKET - Take an EXTRA 25% off your first order + free 30 day trial at THRIVEMARKET.COM/DEAN THIRD LOVE – Go to THIRDLOVE.com/VANESSA now to find your perfect-fitting bra… and get 15% off your first purchase! 23ANDME - get 30% off any 23andMe kit. Order your DNA kit at 23andMe.com/DEAN Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 11, 2018 · 1 hr 24 min
Trust Your Gut
Vanessa wants to clear up some rumors that have been circulating about her romantic life with a member of Bachelor Nation, and we hear about Jared’s experience as a Chippendale’s dancer, and his first time being spray tanned. Then matchmaker and relationship expert Susan Trombetti (exclusivematchmaker.net) stops in to share some tips on how to tell if you’re being cheated on, and how to know you’re getting to know the “real” person you’re dating. Plus, she’s a Bachelor fan! She shares her expert analysis on Vanessa’s break up with Nick. And we hear some intimate details about Vanessa, her bedroom, and costumes. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 3, 2018 · 1 hr 17 min
Surviving the Ultimate Sucky Date
Jared and Vanessa meet up to talk about Lauren Bushnell’s new boyfriend, country singer Chris Lane, and it leads to a conversation about if you should give an ex a heads up before “going public” with a new relationship. Then Youtuber Brittani Louise Taylor stops by, and shares her absolutely wild story about the worst relationship in history. She has some dating lessons she learned from being involved with a manipulative and dangerous person. And she helps break down the differences between dating apps, and when is the best time to tell someone you’re dating that you have a child. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.