Episode 92: You Are Not That Important And That’s Freedom

Send us Fan Mail The “what if they don’t like me?” spiral can hit even when you’ve done years of inner work and that’s exactly why we wanted to talk about it. We’re Kira and Denise, and we’re unpacking how people pleasing, wanting to be liked, and self-judgment stack on top of each other until you’re no longer acting like yourself. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation, drafted the “perfect” follow-up text, or tried to manage someone else’s feelings so you don’t get judged, you’ll recognize this pattern fast. We connect the dots back to childhood conditioning and conditional love, where approval can feel like survival. Then we bring it into real life: work meetings, authority figures, social media comment sections, and the quiet ways we perform to stay “safe.” The point isn’t to make triggers disappear forever. Healing is the journey of noticing the old identity show up, building awareness, and choosing a new response that protects your energy, your boundaries, and your authenticity. Support the show Follow us on Instagram, leave a review, and share your experiences – we'd love to hear what resonates with you! And don't forget we have a PREMIUM channel as well on Apple! Bonus episodes to help you heal faster. Ready to take your healing journey up a notch? Our new audio course will walk you through the real foundations that have to come first before anything else can stick—awareness, emotions, nervous system regulation, boundaries, and trust. The 1% shift that takes you from zero to one. And from one, everything else becomes possible. Learn more HERE. Follow our Instagram page Follow Kira on IG Follow Denise on IG Click here to download Kira's free self-love hypnosis audio or her free gut guide Book a complimentary consult with Kira