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Jameel Mayers

Fathernetics | Dad Hero Stories

Real stories from the men who chose fatherhood and everything it took to get there.

From adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy, Fathernetics explores the journeys behind modern dads, who they were before, what they faced, and who they became along the way. Centered on LGBTQ+ men, with occasional perspectives from women reflecting on their own fathers, these are honest, unfiltered conversations about identity, resilience, relationships, and the realities of building a family.

Because becoming a dad isn’t simple and it’s never one-size-fits-all.

🎙️ Hosted by Jameel Mayers
📲 YouTube & Instagram: @fathernetics
📢 New episodes every Thursday

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  • Avg 58 min
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  • S2 · E126
    May 28 · 55 min

    S2:E26 - Drummond | You Need More Positive Talks in Your Life

    What happens when two men decide that positivity is not soft, it is strategy? In this episode of the Fathernetics podcast, Kiki with Friend of the Show Drummond (IG: @drummondculture)to unpack the origin of Positive Talks and why intentional spaces matter more than ever. We get into content creation, real networking versus surface connections, and how building community takes purpose. We also go deeper with crazy talk around generational trauma, family dynamics, and how our upbringing shows up in our parenting. Drummond shares how self discovery and healing changed how he navigates relationships, leadership, and fatherhood. Watch on YouTube | Listen on all podcast platforms Chapters 00:00 The Birth of Positive Talks 05:47 Navigating Content Creation and Networking 11:53 Building Intentional Networking Spaces 17:39 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing 27:39 Generational Trauma and Its Impact 39:27 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth #fathernetics #lgbtqdads #fatherhoodjourney #personalgrowth #positivetalks

  • S2 · E125
    May 21 · 1 hr 11 min

    S2:E25 - Leo Massey | Jewish Therapist for the LGBTQ+ Community (Prescribed)

    In this episode, we sit down with therapist and Friend of the Show Leo Massey (@lmsw_leo) to talk about normalizing therapy, breaking down misconceptions around CBT and DBT, and why representation in mental health matters — especially for LGBTQ+ families. We also get into parenting, coping skills, neurodivergence, ADHD, and how understanding support systems can change lives. This conversation is honest, grounding, and deeply relatable. Follow Leo on Instagram: @lmsw_leo Follow the show on Instagram: @fathernetics Watch and subscribe on YouTube for more real conversations about modern fatherhood, mental health, and family. #fathernetics #mentalhealth #therapy #LGBTQparents #CBT #DBT

  • S2 · E124
    May 14 · 1 hr 5 min

    S2:E24 - August Black | Mr. Black talks about being an intentional Trans-Dad

    What does fatherhood look like when your journey doesn’t follow the script? In this Fathernetics episode, August Black shares his experience as a transgender dad navigating masculinity, identity, and raising a daughter with intention. We talk about coming out more than once, balancing strength and softness, working in the gaming voiceover world, and what it really means to show up as a parent. This is an honest conversation about modern fatherhood, trans parenting, and LGBTQ+ family life. IG: @augustsinsta Watch on YouTube and listen wherever you get your podcasts. #fathernetics #lgbtqdads #transparents #modernfatherhood #queerfamilies

  • S2 · E123
    May 7 · 1 hr 1 min

    S2:E23 - Ben & Joshua Bishop | The Journey Does Sometimes Require A Smash Room

    This episode of the Fathernetics podcast explores what modern fatherhood looks like before kids even arrive. The conversation moves from K pop and Dungeons and Dragons to the very real emotional weight of surrogacy, chosen family, and building support systems as LGBTQ+ men planning for parenthood. It is an honest look at anticipation, uncertainty, and how community, creativity, and connection carry you through the waiting. 🎧 Watch on YouTube https://youtube.com/@fathernetics 📲 Guests on Instagram Joshua Bishop @twodadsandababydream Ben Bishop @bennybishop89 #Fathernetics #LGBTQDads #SurrogacyJourney #GayDads #ChosenFamily #ModernFatherhood #QueerParents #FutureDads

  • S2 · E122
    April 30 · 1 hr 5 min

    S2:E22 - Alex and Dustin | Fostering, Adoption, and the Messy Truth of Being LGBTQ+ Parents

    In this episode of the Fathernetics podcast, Alex and Dustin share an honest, wide-ranging conversation about life as LGBTQ+ parents. From their shared love of music and concerts to their journey through fostering and adoption, they reflect on how culture, upbringing, and chosen community have shaped the way they parent. They talk candidly about intentional parenting, the importance of self-care, and the real joys and challenges of raising children in a diverse family structure. The episode centers on showing up with purpose, building support systems, and redefining what modern fatherhood can look like. Watch the full episode on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@fathernetics Guest Instagram handles: @leogee2010, @acabal82

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