Excuse My Grandma

Grandma's Guide to Being a Good Friend ft. Gia Giudice

How do you know who's a real friend, when to set boundaries, and when it's time to walk away? This week on Excuse My Grandma, Kim and Grandma Gail are joined by Next Gen NYC star Gia Giudice to talk all things friendship, loyalty, and drama. From Grandma's old-school friendship rules to Gia's three-strikes policy, the three discuss what makes a lasting friendship, navigating complicated friend groups, and balancing friendships with relationships. Plus, Grandma shares a personal story about knowing a friend's husband was cheating, and the group weighs in on whether honesty is always the best policy. They also answer listener dilemmas about one-sided friendships and family drama ahead of a wedding. Whether you're the friend who's always giving advice or the one who's learning to set boundaries, Grandma has some wisdom for you. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Chris Harrison on Leaving The Bachelor, Why Dating Is Broken & His Big Comeback

This week, Kim and Grandma Gail are joined by television royalty: Chris Harrison! After nearly two decades of guiding people through televised romance, Chris sits down with Gail and Kim to pull back the curtain on modern romance, reality TV, and life after the rose ceremonies. Chris opens up about treating his departure from The Bachelor like a divorce, why stepping back to focus on his kids and find love with his wife, Lauren, was the best decision he ever made, and how public scrutiny taught him to see past the "villain" edits in both TV and real life. Plus, Chris gets candid about his new series The Vow, Fox Nation's legal drama with Warner Bros., and why you can’t put a cease-and-desist on finding love. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Excuse My Grandma: Live at 92NY

Bringing you a special bonus episode of Excuse My Grandma, recorded LIVE at the 92nd Street Y in New York City! Kim and Grandma Gail take the stage for a night of laughs, unfiltered opinions, and plenty of family drama, joined by special guest comedian Gabby Bryan. From airing out their own family grievances to debating dating, boundaries, and what you should (and definitely shouldn't) tell your parents, nothing is off-limits. Plus, they answer audience questions, share behind-the-scenes stories, and reflect on how far Excuse My Grandma has come. It's everything you love about Kim and Grandma Gail, but this time with a live audience! Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod

How to Do Halloween Right

Happy Halloween, little ghouls, goblins, and kitty cats! In this episode, Kim and Grandma Gail get into the Halloween spirit (complete with animal prints, cat ears, and headband headaches) to break down all the spooky season etiquette. From whether it’s "very immature" to demand a couples costume from your boyfriend to if you should ever date someone you met dressed as Freddy Krueger, Grandma isn't holding back her honest opinions. Plus, we discuss why adult Halloween feels like New Year's Eve 2.0, fall date ideas, age limits on sexy costumes, and why Grandma thinks Halloween should probably end in middle school. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Grandma’s Guide to Weddings Ft. Dorothy Wang

Want to have a traditional or a modern wedding? Grandma Gail has a guide for that. With the help of special guest Dorothy Wang, the hosts share how to plan a destination wedding, how to keep things intimate, traditions to incorporate, and what to leave in the past. In celebration of her 1-year anniversary and new show “Dorothy’s ‘I Do’”, Dorothy shares what actually went wrong at her wedding ceremony, why she disinvited a guest, and who from her past got a last-minute invite. Kim, Grandma, and Dorothy also discuss traditional vs modern marriage and motherhood rules, answering questions in Ask Grandma Anything. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Ticket to our Live Podcast 10/21 at 92ny.org Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Are We Too Attached To Our Stuff?

What do you keep, what do you toss, and when does sentimental turn into clutter? This week, Kim and Grandma Gail are talking all things closet editing, from the clothes you swear you’ll wear again to the memories you can’t quite let go of. They get into what’s actually worth saving, why some things are harder to part with than others, and how our phones may have become the new junk drawer. Plus, Kim shares stories from the Hamptons film festival, Grandma weighs in on holding grudges, and they answer listener questions about exes, old letters, family belongings, and knowing when it’s finally time to let something go. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

How Independent Should You Be in a Relationship?

Kim and Grandma Gail are talking about independence in relationships, from whether all your free time should automatically go to your partner to the importance of having your own friends, interests, and routines. They debate alone time, separate plans, shared calendars, and what actually makes a relationship feel secure. Plus, Grandma gives her take on a recent rom-com, the two catch up on what they’ve been watching, and they share what’s coming up next, including their live podcast at 92NY on October 21. Tickets here: https://www.92ny.org/event/excuse-my-grandma Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

How to Be the Woman Everyone Wants in Their Circle With Ramy Brook

This week on Excuse My Grandma, Kim and Grandma Gail sit down with fashion designer Ramy Brook and her mom, Helene, for a conversation about reinvention, friendship, style, and the wisdom that comes with experience. Ramy shares how she launched her brand at 42, why her friendships and community played such a major role in building her business, and what she’s learned about taking the first step before you feel completely ready. The group also gets into personal style, why we somehow always feel like we have nothing to wear, building friendships that actually last, and the difference between following trends and knowing what works for you. Plus, plenty of generational opinions, Grandma Gail’s signature honesty, and a few stories that prove some of the best advice really does come from your mom or grandma. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

How to Be Better at Dating with Serena Kerrigan

This week on Excuse My Grandma, Kim and Grandma Gail sit down with Serena Kerrigan and her mom, Lily, for a conversation all about modern dating, confidence, relationships, and knowing when not to settle. Serena's new book, Let’s F*cking Date: Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again, releases September 22nd. Serena shares what she’s learned from building a career around dating advice, how her relationship with Felix changed her perspective on love, and why marriage should never be treated like the finish line. The group also gets into rejection, dating with a positive mindset, what actually makes a healthy relationship, and the advice Serena grew up hearing from her mom and grandmother. Plus, they play a round of “Do It for the Plot or Not” and debate first-date rules, texting an ex, flying to another city for someone you barely know, and more. If you’re trying to date with more confidence, choose better partners, or stop putting so much pressure on finding “the one,” this episode is for you. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Barbara Corcoran’s Guide to Mother-in-Law Relationships

Barbara Corcoran joins Kim and Grandma Gail alongside her daughter-in-law, Lia, for an honest conversation about one of the most complicated family relationships: the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dynamic. Barbara and Lia open up about meeting when Lia was just 15, learning how to navigate boundaries, unsolicited advice, parenting differences, communication and the role respect has played in their relationship. They also share why they once went to therapy together and what it taught them about addressing resentment before it builds. Plus, Barbara looks back on how she went from working as a diner waitress to building a career in real estate, shares the gut instinct that guides her biggest decisions, and opens up about the lessons she has learned from Shark Tank, entrepreneurship and motherhood. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

How to Be a More Interesting Person

How do you actually become an interesting person, and do you need a “personal brand” to know who you are? Kim and Grandma Gail compare how their generations developed a sense of self, from social media and endless choices to strong opinions, lifelong interests, and knowing when not to care what other people think. They talk confidence, hobbies, dinner party etiquette, finding clues in your childhood, and why Grandma Gail thinks having nothing to bring to the conversation makes you a boring guest. Plus, the very important debate over whether open-toed shoes belong on the streets of New York City. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Your Guide to How To Actually Keep a Family Close

Summer is officially winding down, and Kim is having a full-blown existential crisis about it—while Grandma Gail is already moving on to Halloween pumpkins, Palm Beach restaurants, and Frank Sinatra on Broadway. In this episode, Kim and Gail break down the art of surviving family dynamics. From predicting who's going to show up late to family dinner (spoiler: it's Kim) to debating the fine line between loving family closeness and total intrusion, they get real about what it actually takes to keep a family connected across generations. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Six Months Living Together: What Actually Changed?

Kim and Grandma Gail are talking weddings, relationship timelines, and why every generation seems to have a very different idea of when you should move in, get engaged, get married, and start a family. From influencer weddings and social media pressure to living with a partner, comparing yourself to your friends, and Grandma’s very direct take on “wasting time,” they unpack how much you can actually plan when it comes to love. Plus, a few interruptions from cameras, leaf blowers, and an unexpected exterminator. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Excuse My Grandma’s Thoughts on Attraction

This week, Kim and Grandma Gail are getting into what actually makes someone attractive, and why being “hot” might matter a lot less than you think. From Love Island and first-date chemistry to money, ambition, confidence, and what really matters once the honeymoon phase wears off, they debate whether attraction can grow over time and how much lifestyle compatibility should factor into who you choose. They also talk AI, influencers, and Grandma’s less-than-glamorous week dealing with healthcare in the Hamptons. Follow us on Instagram ⁠@excusemygrandma ⁠@⁠⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠⁠ TikTok⁠ @excusemygrandma ⁠and ⁠@excusemygrandmapod ⁠ Watch on ⁠YouTube⁠ ⁠Spotify⁠ Read our ⁠Excuse My Advice Column ⁠and watch on ⁠YouTube⁠

Heather Dubrow on Surviving 30 Years of Marriage in the Spotlight

Heather Dubrow joins Kim and Grandma Gail for a candid conversation about family, marriage, aging, and life in the spotlight. Heather reflects on 20 seasons of The Real Housewives of Orange County, raising four children on camera, maintaining a nearly 30-year marriage, and embracing new stages of parenthood as her family approaches the empty-nest years. She also opens up about her evolving relationship with her mother, processing grief after the loss of her father, navigating beauty standards in Hollywood, and taking chances even when others question your path. Together, the three generations discuss what makes family relationships meaningful, why there is no single right timeline for life, and the importance of saying yes to opportunities that feel right. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Hosting Then Vs Now with Everything Delish

Kim and Grandma Gail sit down with Jamie Milne, the creator of @everything_delish, to talk about modern hosting, family recipes, and why a gathering does not need to be perfect to be memorable. Jamie shares the influence her grandmothers had on her cooking, what makes a great dinner party, and how social media has changed the way we think about food, entertaining, and aesthetics. They also get into grocery shopping habits, whether guests should take off their shoes, cooking for a picky partner, balancing work and motherhood, and why the host should actually be able to enjoy the party. Plus, Jamie shares details from her upcoming cookbook, Everything Delish (preorder on Amazon). Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

The Couple's Guide to Traveling Together Without Breaking Up

Kim and Grandma Gail are talking all things travel, from airport habits and packing preferences to planning a trip with your partner. As Kim prepares for a road trip through Italy and the South of France, Grandma shares her best travel advice, stories from past trips and strong opinions on everything from reclining airplane seats to checked luggage. They also debate what makes someone a good travel partner, whether couples need to have the same vacation style and how social media has changed the way we experience new places. Plus, the duo shares a few travel horror stories, including forgotten passports, flooded hotel rooms and chaotic summer storms in the Hamptons. This July, Excuse My Grandma is donating all podcast proceeds to Meals on Wheels America in support of senior nutrition programs. Learn more at mealsonwheelsamerica.org/seniorsarewaiting. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Are Summer Flings Ever a Good Idea?

Kim and Grandma Gail are talking about summer in the Hamptons, modern dating, and the red flags that deserve a second look. Kim recaps spotting finance bros “in the wild” at the U.S. Open, while Grandma reveals exactly how she would approach a cute guy at Surf Lodge. They also debate whether summer flings are worth the potential heartbreak, why certain dating app compliments give an immediate ick, and how to avoid repeating the patterns of a toxic relationship. Plus, they play Red Flag, White and Blue and weigh in on calling your mom three times a day, dating before a divorce is finalized, and whether a man should pay for your ride home after a first date. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

Grandma’s Dos and Don’ts for Wedding Season

Wedding season is officially here, and Kim and Grandma Gail are breaking down the etiquette rules everyone is secretly confused about. From destination weddings and expensive bachelorette trips to plus-ones, registries, dress codes, Irish exits, and how much you should really spend on a gift, Grandma shares what has changed and which traditions still matter. Plus, Kim reveals why she is always ready to leave the after-party early, and Grandma admits she once rewore her wedding dress to someone else’s wedding. Follow us on Instagram ⁠@excusemygrandma ⁠@⁠⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠⁠ TikTok⁠ @excusemygrandma ⁠and ⁠@excusemygrandmapod ⁠ Watch on ⁠YouTube⁠ ⁠Spotify⁠ Read our ⁠Excuse My Advice Column ⁠and watch on ⁠YouTube⁠

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Celebrating Fatherhood and Navigating Grief with Matt Fogelson

In this Father’s Day episode of Excuse My Grandma, Kim and Grandma Gail reflect on the dads, grandfathers, and father figures who shape our lives. They start with the lighter side of the holiday, from Knicks merch and dad jokes to Poppy’s Waze obsession and the classic things all dads seem to do. Then, Kim and Grandma are joined by Matt Fogelson, author of Restrung: Fatherhood in a Different Key, for a deeper conversation about grief, fatherhood, complicated parent relationships, and what it means to carry someone’s memory forward. Matt shares how losing his father, becoming a father himself, and finding healing through music helped him understand his past while choosing a different future. This episode is a reminder that Father’s Day can be joyful, funny, emotional, and complicated all at once. Follow us on Instagram @excusemygrandma @⁠⁠kimmurstein⁠ TikTok @excusemygrandma and @excusemygrandmapod Watch on YouTube Spotify Read our Excuse My Advice Column and watch on YouTube

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