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Energetically Her

Kayla Langholf

Welcome to the Energetically Her Podcast. 


Hosted by Kayla Langholf, founder of Energetically Her and creator of Rewire Into Riches™ tools. This show blends 22 years of therapeutic expertise with cutting edge intuitive psychic strategy. This is where 30X becomes the new normal.


This show combines the power of energetic communication, emotional intelligence, and intuitive business strategy to support women who are building their legacy from the inside out. Here’s to creating a life that feels as good as it looks on your Instagram. 

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  • S2 · E96
    Friday · 23 min

    Why it's easy to help everyone else first and hard to accept help in return

    In this episode we dive into several lessons on why you feel responsible for how other people feel and make it your job to fix it. We also get into why expanding your capacity is a myth and what to do instead, what happens when you ignore intuition, and how to create emotional boundaries with people you care about. This episode will help you with family, relationships, clients, and other connections you have. Also cheers to the first video format episode on the podcast. Now let's get into the show. What you'll learn: -Why it's hard to ask for you to help, but you're the first person everyone calls -How to create deeper connections with people without solving their problems and feeling responsible for how they feel -The real reason you take on everything for everyone (it isn't because you're capable) -Why you keep saying yes to things when your whole body says no -What capacity really is, and why expanding it isn't possible -The 4 categories of needs that have to be met before anything else you build will hold -Why constantly helping someone with their problems makes the rest of their life harder and takes you away from the lessons you're supposed to be learning -Why certain people avoid how they feel and how it backfires in every area of life -The real reason people get instantly overwhelmed by others emotions/feelings -Why some people try to prove their value with what they DO instead of WHO they are Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E95
    August 14 · 12 min

    3 things you say every week that block your intuition part 2

    Part two of 3 common phrases that keep people from hearing their intuition 100% clearly. Once you notice them, you can’t unhear them and you'll shift the pattern... yay. This episode will help you hear the difference between sounding positive and actually being in your power What you'll learn: -3 energetic communication phrases that block your intuition (there's over 600) -The common phrase that guarantees you get the opposite of what you want -The foundational shift that has to happen before working harder or longer hours will ever actually pay off -Why you can work harder than anyone you know and still feel like you're getting nowhere -Why saying “I'm trying” shuts down your inner voice and slows progress moving forward Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E94
    July 24 · 10 min

    You can get really good at the wrong thing. The story behind why my intuition told me not to publish a collaboration mid recording

    I've never shared the story until now. Years ago I recorded an episode to feature a guest and intuitively decided not to publish it.... mid recording. This is the behind the scenes of what it looks like to use intuition for hard business decisions, pivots, and what it looks like to honor your values. This episode covers: You can get really good at something you're not meant to do long term. I share the first 5 signs to look out for (there's a lot more) The story behind why I didn't publish a collab podcast episode featuring a guest because intuition told me not to What happened to my guest within 2 to 3 months of the podcast recording that confirmed what I intuitively knew would happen How following through on a commitment can work against you, and when to know it's beneficial to change your mind Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E93
    May 5 · 10 min

    I ignored my intuition last week and it cost me 3X in my business

    I thought I was saving money and ended up spending 3 times more than I planned. If you have ever talked yourself out of the thing you actually wanted, this episode is for you. This is the story of what happens when logic overrides intuition This episode covers: How to tell the difference between saving money and self sabotage Why choosing the cheaper option ends up costing you more in the end The one question to ask yourself before making your next business investment Why "I can make this work" is a red flag in decision making How I tried to save money on my spring brand photoshoot last week and ended up spending triple Why the investment that scares you a little is usually the right one Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E92
    April 28 · 54 min

    The decision that scares you, is the one your body is saying YES to featuring human design and astrology guide Kyla Derkach

    In today's episode Kayla sits down with Kyla Derkach in a conversation about what somatic deconditioning actually is and why it changes everything: Kyla covers why the decision that scares you the most is usually the one your body is already saying yes to, how high functioning survival mode disguises itself as mental ambition that never shuts off, and the astrology shifts every business owner/leader needs to know about right now so you can stay ahead of the curve. This episode covers: Why second guessing a decision doesn't mean it's the wrong one and how to sit with the discomfort without leaving your path What "minimum effort, maximum satisfaction" looks like in real life because it's not about doing less, it's about doing the right things as the right version of you How your undefined human design centers are conditioning your decisions without you knowing it Get Kyla's signature theme everyday practice you can start today to build unshakeable trust in your own intuition over time How to know if you're working hard for the right reasons or running from something without years of therapy to figure it out Why moving to a new city, starting over, or changing your environment doesn't fix the real problem and what actually does What the current astrology is predicting for business and why the leaders who know this now will be the ones ahead of the curve Check out Kyla Derkach: https://hathaastro.com/ https://www.instagram.com/hatha.astro/ https://hathaastro.com/deconditioning-meditations Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E91
    April 3 · 19 min

    Why pushing through isn’t working like it used to

    If you’ve been pushing through to get results but feel more resistance, more hesitation, or like nothing is working despite your hard work. There are 6 intuitive reasons for this (more like 25 but I cover 6 in this episode). Think of today's episode like a mini masterclass where I show you what patterns are happening and how to work with this energy instead of forcing your way forward This episode covers: -6 reasons why you can’t push harder to get results anymore (and what it’s actually showing you) -The #1 reason your strategy has stopped working (and what to do now) -The 30 second technique that dissolves “I need to push harder” FOMO so you commit to things that are actually for you -How Kayla grew the podcast to 54 countries in 3 years (without pushing harder) -How to make the right decision when you’re afraid of making the wrong choice or missing out on something important -How to know the difference between goals created from ego vs your intuition (hint only one creates easeful results) -Why the next 20 years is focused on intuition and how you can stay ahead of the curve for business, career, and all areas of life -3 phrases people say every week that make achieving results harder without realizing it Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E90
    Nov 25, 2025 · 12 min

    3 things you say every week that block your intuition

    Here are 3 common phrases that keep people from hearing their intuition clearly. Once you notice them, you can’t unhear them and you'll shift the pattern... yay. This episode will help you catch the moments during your week where you disconnect from your inner voice without realizing it What you'll learn: -3 energetic communication phrases that block your intuition (there's over 600) -The exact reason your ideas feel exciting at first… and then fade -How one word pushes you out of intuitive flow and into overwhelm -The #1 mistake people make after receiving an intuitive download -The identity shift that makes intuition easier, clearer, and faster -Why saying “I don’t know” shuts down your inner voice (and what to say instead) -Why intuition doesn’t give full clarity upfront -The biggest misconception about intuition that nobody talks about Find this helpful? Leave the energetically her podcast a 5-star rating and review. Feel free to share this episode with someone who needs to hear this today Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E89
    Oct 24, 2025 · 7 min

    The best birthday hack for intuitive entrepreneurs

    Your birthday is the most strategic day of the year, here's how you can set yourself up for more success. If you'd like to access to your solar return birthday guide that breaks down your entire year forecast, DM me on Instagram about this episode and I'll send you the business astrologers' info that I've been working with. Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E88
    Aug 4, 2025 · 21 min

    How to use your intuition as a reliable business strategy

    Intuition isn’t a feeling, it’s a million dollar business strategy when you know how to use it. In this episode, I’ll show you how to turn your inner knowing into your ultimate edge so you can stay 10 steps ahead, make faster decisions, and build a business that’s richer in all areas of life So excited to share this with you! This episode should be a paid training, let's go! - Why feeling “off” in business is one of the most powerful positions you can be in - The difference between hearing your intuition vs. trusting it (and what’s getting in the way) - What it actually looks like to use your intuition as a business strategy (not a backup plan) - Why trusting your timing is a million dollar skill and how to refine it starting now - How to stay 10 steps ahead without overthinking every move - The subtle signs your intuition is trying to lead… and why most driven women override it without realizing until afterwards - And more Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E87
    May 29, 2025 · 5 min

     The duality of feeling everything deeply, BUT not needing any of it to feel complete

    How to feel everything deeply, without needing any of it to feel complete. You can feel everything… and still feel like you. The gift isn’t about being intuitive, it’s about knowing what’s yours and what isn't -The duality of feeling everything deeply, without carrying any of it -How to feel connected to everything… but detached to the outcome Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E86
    May 21, 2025 · 10 min

    If you think making a certain amount of money will help you relax, listen to this

    This will shift how you see money forever. A must listen for all my business owners, intuitive leaders, and powerful women. Because the only thing worse than not reaching the level of success you want, is being highly successful in a version of yourself you don’t recognize or want to be anymore. This was me in 2022. Here's a story only a handful of people know, until now. But only listen if you want to make more money.... -The money lesson that cost Kayla 29K unexpectedly and changed the way she viewed money -The moment that Kayla decided to end her career after having her highest income month to date -The real cost of not clearing other people's energy, emotions, and expectations when you're building your business -What happens when people try to be impressive instead of being themselves -If you've ever thought "what if I build something successful that I don't even want later", or you'd rather make less money to stay in integrity while building your business, this episode is for you Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E85
    May 1, 2025 · 13 min

    How I grew the podcast to 31 countries in less than 2 years without paid ads, optimized SEO, an editing team, or a perfect plan

    Ready to create global influence, understand the energetics behind visibility, and have your life's work known around the world? -The one decision that led Kayla to create global visibility through the podcast show without running paid ads, optimizing the SEO, having an editing team, or having the perfect plan -The energetic strategy to become well known for your life's work -The mindset that led to becoming a globally ranked podcast in under 2 years -What it looks like to choose your intuition over your to do list -The energetic technique that's better than making a 5-year plan -3 prompts to highlight where you're subconsciously blocking being seen -Why “surrender to the flow” is the biggest business lie ever told Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E84
    Apr 25, 2025 · 58 min

    Feng Shui for More Money, Social Media Visibility, and a Business That Feels Like You With Jeannette Cieszykowski

    How to use Feng Shui for more money, business collaborations, increase your visibility online, become magnetic to big opportunities, expand your wealth capacity, create a work life balance, build your business authentically, and so much more featuring Jeannette Cieszykowski. She’s known for helping high level people including entrepreneurs create a life that feels just as good as it looks. She uses Feng Shui and life strategy tools to help her clients feel clearer, calm, and in control. With a master's in landscape architecture and over 11 years of experience in Feng Shui… you could say she knows a thing or two (or 500) about leveraging energy work for more success. Work with her when you’re ready to 10X your productivity, clarity, authenticity, and money. Share this episode to your Instagram story and tag us so we can see! -The top 3 things to look for that repel money in 2025 -The biggest mistake people make when wanting to receive more money -The #1 thing you can do today to make more money (take a picture of this and tag me and Jeannette) -How to increase your online visibility -A game changing technique to boost your productivity you can implement today -How to use visual triggers in your home to increase your motivation, focus, and progress -How Feng Shui makes the most of your efforts 10X -Learn about Kayla’s personalized wealth map experience with authenticity, money, love, magnetic energy, and work life balance -Asking yourself this ONE question everyday will change your business, money, and life Connect with Jeannette Cieszykowski: https://www.instagram.com/elementalclarity/ https://www.youtube.com/@ElementalClarity Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E83
    Apr 14, 2025 · 16 min

    Want to influence rooms you haven't walked into yet? Start Here

    PSA: This isn't mindset work, this is telepathy. Learn the first step for.... -How to bend time without lifting a finger -How to influence rooms you haven't walked into yet -How to shift the energy between you and someone else without saying a word Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E82
    Apr 2, 2025 · 16 min

    Using Telepathy Instead of Text Messages, Behind the Scenes Business Lessons, and more

    Behind the Scenes: Learn how I use telepathy instead of sending a text message, come behind the scenes of recent business lessons, get the story on how I've turned my greatest fear into now my favorite thing, and more. This episode feels like you and me are sitting poolside having a deep conversation over iced coffees. -Recent business lessons using Telepathy -What this next era looks like, and how Kayla adapts to unexpected changes -How my biggest fear has now become my favorite thing , plus a 2 minute exercise you can do today Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E81
    Mar 4, 2025 · 10 min

    This one strategy will 30X your business

    This business strategy is so powerful it should be illegal.... save this episode for later Waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/heaven-on-earth-waitlist Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E80
    Feb 19, 2025 · 43 min

    Create Consistent Sales, Unique Offers, and Your Brand Aesthetic Using Human Design Featuring Meaghan Senn

    Use your human design chart to make consistent sales, create offers based on your unique strengths, determine your daily business non-negotiables, and more featuring Meaghan Senn, an expert in Human Design and Astrology. Save this episode for later and share with a friend! ✨How to consistently sell your offers using your Human Design chart ✨2 places to look in your chart for your personalized brand aesthetic ✨Where to look in your HD chart if you’re not making sales ✨How to create offers based on your unique strengths ✨The #1 mistake entrepreneurs make when using their HD chart ✨How Meaghan sells consistently on her IG stories without having to create new things every time Meaghan Senn Instagram and membership: https://www.instagram.com/meaghansenn/ https://www.meaghansenn.com/offers/ccFNXdi2/checkout Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E79
    Feb 4, 2025 · 16 min

    3 ways to make MORE money using your emotions

    Because girls just wanna have fun n' funds right? Learn 3 powerful ways you can make more money using your emotions that you won't find anywhere else. Definitely re-listen to this episode since today could be an entire paid training. -3 secret tools you can start today that put you in the top 1% -The #1 thing no one tells you about how to release money blocks Access your freebie here: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/VqZE4ouU Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E78
    Jan 28, 2025 · 6 min

    Is It Fear or Fuel? The Answer Might Surprise You

    The unfiltered truth about what pushing through your upper limit actually looks like... -How to determine if it's intuition or fear behind your decisions -What uprooting Kayla's entire life and moving to a new state in 3 weeks actually looked like (This has never been shared before) -Why fear is actually fuel - here's how to use it to your advantage Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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  • S2 · E77
    Jan 21, 2025 · 6 min

    The Secret to Consistency: Why Discipline Isn’t the Answer for 2025

    This episode is worth thousands! Welcome back for episode 2 of the Subconscious Business Secrets series. -The #1 secret for reaching higher levels of success without adding stress -Kaylas favorite 30 second exercise to accelerate your wins in real time -The most overlooked strategy to staying consistent in business -How Kayla's clients accomplish more without needing more discipline -And more... Let's go! Get on the energetic communication membership waitlist: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/energeticcommunicationwaitlist Your most profiable move in 10 minutes: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/your-most-profitable-move Freebie: Get an intuitive yes or no in 60 seconds https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/FzsLuW2e Offers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklist Kayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

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