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Don't Depend On Daddy

Michela Allocca

Learn how to run your life without chaos. Don’t Depend on Daddy blends wellness, routines, and real-life systems to help you feel more grounded, organized, and independent. The conversations are practical and honest, focused on habits that stick, structure that supports your energy, and learning how to take care of yourself without chaos or burnout. The goal is to build independence through small, intentional choices - and create a life that you actually enjoy living. New episodes every Wednesday <3

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  • Nov 8, 2023 · 1 hr 8 min

    32. 3Navigating a Competitive Job Market, Gen Z in the Workplace, Networking Tips for Introverts + More with Eddiana Rosen!

    In this episode Michela sat down with Eddiana Rosen of @careersinreview! Eddiana is an Employee Relations Specialist with 10 years of experience and she shares her guidance on navigating the competitive job market, standing out during the application process, how to update your resume for success, communicating with recruiters, using LinkedIn during the job search process and so much more! This is an amazing episode if you are feeling stuck at work, thinking about finding a new job, or just looking for a refresh in your career. Find Eddiana: IG: https://www.instagram.com/careersinreview/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eddianarosen/ ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book ClassPass Referral: https://classpass.com/refer/VFFN4T311 LTK for Capsule Wardrobe Finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Breakyourbudget DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Nov 1, 2023 · 49 min

    31. Financial Routines to Build Long-Term Wealth

    This week Michela shares a life update and then deep dives on financial routines. The benefits of a financial routine plus how to work through a weekly money routine and a monthly money routine. If you struggle to budget, to stick to a budget, or with overspending, then you'll benefit A LOT from a financial routine! ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book ClassPass Referral: https://classpass.com/refer/VFFN4T311 LTK for Capsule Wardrobe Finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Breakyourbudget DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Oct 25, 2023 · 40 min

    30. How to Create LIFE-WORK Balance

    On this episode Michela shares some of the most important lessons she has learned in her career, from not equating your identity with your job to setting boundaries at work. She also shares three important boundaries you can implement to create LIFE-WORK balance and get the most out of your free time! ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book ClassPass Referral: https://classpass.com/refer/VFFN4T311 LTK for Capsule Wardrobe Finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Breakyourbudget DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Oct 11, 2023 · 21 min

    29. How to Handle the Holiday Season of Spending: 3 Tips to Prep & Plan Your Finances

    This week Michela shares 3 tactical tips to prepare for the season of spending in November and December. If you're feeling overwhelmed about giving gifts and being able to afford the holidays this year, you'll walk away from this episode with tactical strategies to feel more confident going into the holidays! ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book RAKUTEN: www.rakuten.com/r/MICHEL156676?eeid=28187 ClassPass Referral: https://classpass.com/refer/VFFN4T311 LTK for Capsule Wardrobe Finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Breakyourbudget DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Oct 4, 2023 · 58 min

    28. Staying True to Yourself at Work, Taking a Gap Year, & Starting a 6-Figure Freelance Business with Grace Lemire!

    This week Michela sat down with Grace Lemire to talk all things navigating your career post-grad and starting a full-time freelancing business! Grace shares her journey from thinking she wanted to pursue a career in law, to pivoting into freelance work and staying true to herself and what she truly wants out of life and work. If you’re feeling lost in your career or are looking to start a freelancing business, you’re going to want to give this a listen! FIND GRACE: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grace_lemiree/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@grace_lemire LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gracelemire/

  • Sep 20, 2023 · 38 min

    27. Investing in Your Hobbies: How I am Using Money to be More Confident & Happier

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book ClassPass Referral: https://classpass.com/refer/VFFN4T311 LTK for Capsule Wardrobe Finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Breakyourbudget DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Sep 13, 2023 · 58 min

    26. Is Your College Degree Worth It? ft. David E. Linton, Author of Crushed

    In this episode, Michela had a very candid conversation with David E. Linton, Author of Crushed: How Student Debt Has Impaired a Generation and What to Do About It. We talk about: -Why college has become so expensive -Misaligned incentives between universities and students that have led to rising costs -Student debt policies that can actually make a difference and what to look for in the next election & so much more! ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Sep 6, 2023 · 41 min

    25. 8 Money + Career Lessons I Wish I Knew Earlier

    In this episode, Michela shares some updates on her podcast break and what to expect from Don't Depend on Daddy going forward! Then, she discusses the top takeaways from each chapter of Own Your Money and how to implement these lessons into your life. ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jul 25, 2023 · 48 min

    24. Your Dream Job Doesn't Exist

    In this episode, Michela shares the most important lessons she learned while working corporate, as well as 10 listener lessons. Learn about workplace confidence, owning your relationship with your manager, boundaries and more! ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jul 19, 2023 · 49 min

    23. How to Pay Off Your Student Loans

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd www.breakyourbudget.com/book Student Loan Resource: https://www2.ed.gov/policy/highered/reg/hearulemaking/2021/idrfactsheetfinal.pdf DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jul 12, 2023 · 48 min

    22. Don't Waste Your 20s: 5 Non-Cliche Lessons I Learned by 28

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book Follow me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/break-you... DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jul 5, 2023 · 25 min

    21. How I Am Using My Money to Upgrade and Elevate My Life

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book Follow me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/break-your-budget6364268/ DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jun 28, 2023 · 49 min

    20. Let's Catch Up! Book Launch, Travel Recap, Summer Routines + Hobbies

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book Follow me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/break-your-budget6364268/ DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jun 20, 2023 · 26 min

    19. Navigating Your 20's: 4 Life-Changing Lessons I Learned About Money & Life

    ORDER OWN YOUR MONEY! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd GET A FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://bit.ly/3ZsXCDQ www.breakyourbudget.com/book Follow me on LinkedIn! https://www.linkedin.com/in/break-you... DIGITAL PLANNER: https://bit.ly/3yXbVW7 Increase Your Income Masterclass: https://bit.ly/3JXjUt9 Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://bit.ly/3Jg2N5l High-Yield Savings Account Guide: https://bit.ly/409p62A Subscribe to my Newsletter, Common Cents: https://bit.ly/3maI0H0 TEMPLATES & RESOURCES: Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3zC9k5b Be Your Own Boss: https://bit.ly/3ckG9ef Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3ba0X7K 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t DON'T DEPEND ON DADDY: https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget

  • Jun 14, 2023 · 41 min

    18. Money Makeover: How to Reset and Rebuild Your Finances Mid-Year

    On this episode of Don't Depend on Daddy The Podcast, Michela shares her expertise on how to reset your finances mid-year. Learn how to take a financial snapshot, review your goals, reflect on your progress, and create a plan for the rest of the year. Plus, get insights from her new book, Own Your Money, and leave a review if you enjoy the show. PREORDER MY BOOK!!!!!! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd wwwbreakyourbudget.com/book FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://www.quarto.com/campaign/own-y... Book Club Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/3vzZzSh RESOURCES: Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3XZb82l 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3ViM706 Be Your Own Boss Template: https://bit.ly/3i42fog FEEDBACK FORM: https://forms.gle/VWHFs1zoNfDpjU5b8 Podcast: Don't Depend On Daddy https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget Use the code PODCAST1 for $10 off the PFD www.breakyourbudget.com/links @breakyourbudget

  • Jun 7, 2023 · 40 min

    The Art of Deep Work: 5 Essential Productivity Strategies That Will Change Your Life

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  • May 31, 2023 · 1 hr 1 min

    17. Boost Your Career: Crafting Your Resume, Mastering Interview Techniques & Salary Negotiation Secrets ft. Darci Smith (@CareerCoachDarci)

    Thanks for Listening! @CareerCoachDarci Resources: LinkedIn Outreach Templates: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62d6d3fe803f2f2552064d60 Cover letter template: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62d6cd49803f2f2552064d55 Darci Smith Careercoachdarci.com Book Career Coaching Here: https://Calendly.com/darcismith Online Courses Here: https://careercoachdarci.teachable.com PREORDER MY BOOK!!!!!! https://amzn.to/3Z97Qtd wwwbreakyourbudget.com/book FREE BUDGET TEMPLATE: https://www.quarto.com/campaign/own-y... Book Club Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/3vzZzSh RESOURCES: Own Your Career Template: https://bit.ly/3XZb82l 4-Week Financial Plan: https://bit.ly/3H3jT5t Personal Finance Dashboard: https://bit.ly/3ViM706 Be Your Own Boss Template: https://bit.ly/3i42fog FEEDBACK FORM: https://forms.gle/VWHFs1zoNfDpjU5b8 Podcast: Don't Depend On Daddy https://anchor.fm/breakyourbudget Use the code PODCAST1 for $10 off the PFD www.breakyourbudget.com/links @breakyourbudget

  • May 24, 2023 · 47 min

    16. How to Make Six Figures Selling Digital Downloads

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  • May 17, 2023 · 43 min

    15. Creating Your Perfect Capsule Wardrobe: A Guide to Simplify Your Closet and Elevate Your Style

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  • May 10, 2023 · 1 hr 3 min

    14. The Step-By-Step Guide to Starting and Scaling a 6-Figure Side Hustle ft. Erin Mortenson

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