Demystifying Gay Porn

I. Que Grande

Everyone in the connected world knows what porn is and has seen it. Join I. Que Grande, an award-winning producer in the Gay Adult Entertainment Industry as he humanizes adult entertainment stars, deconstructs sex work, illicitly recounts stories from on and off the set and explores sexuality. If you watch gay porn and want to hear a different side of your favorite stars, or if you are just a little curious, this podcast is for you.

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Jan 27, 2023 · 35 min
S4E4: Open Lines - Small Dick Fetish
Send us Fan Mail A listener messaged me on Instagram telling me he gets turned on men by with small dicks. After speaking to him briefly, I was fascinated. I'm in an industry that absolutely idolizes men with huge dicks and sells them to their audience. There are sites that exist dedicated to men with small dicks, micro penis, etc... They exist however they are mostly humiliation or cuckold websites where a scene partner points, makes fun and degrades the subject. Here's Matt, a listener who had an encounter with man who kept telling him he had the smallest dick. When Matt didn't believe it could be that small, the man got fully hard, dropped his pants and showed him. In that moment something changed in Matt and he's been fantasizing about men wth small dicks since. How small? Listen and find out. Support the show
Jan 19, 2023 · 36 min
S4E3: Wakefield Poole / Boys in the Sand / Casey Donovan
Send us Fan Mail Pioneering adult filmmaker Wakefield Poole revolutionized gay porn in the early 1970's. Boys in the Sand was the seminal gay porn film that ushered in the era of gay porn chic before Deep Throat. Casey Donovan was the "All-American Boy Next Door," who helped create a genre and was one of the most marketable adult and mainstream models of his time. Listen to all of this fascinating history and more on this episode of Demystifying Gay Porn. Enjoy! Support the show
Jan 11, 2023 · 46 min
S4E2: The Jonah Wheeler Interview
Send us Fan Mail Gay adult performer Jonah Wheeler began his career during the pandemic and has quickly become a sought after entertainer by collaborators and studios alike. His charming, genuine demeanor and "big brother next door" attitude are on full display as we discuss growing up in the Virginia suburbs outside of Washington, D.C and studying music in college, nurturing a career in the city as a musician. Oh and of course, some of the things that help make Jonah Wheeler who he is sexually. Support the show
Dec 30, 2022 · 12 min
S4E0: Season Prologue / The Surprise of a Knight
Send us Fan Mail It has been a long time, but Demystifying Gay Porn is almost here! Season 4 premieres next week but I felt as if devoted listeners, watchers and newcomers may want a taste of some of the changes this season will bring. There will still be plenty of model interviews. But I wanted to start putting together a detailed history of gay porn with stories of iconic studios, movies and stars. Let me know what you think and please enjoy! If you like what you hear and want to be a part of the process of creating this podcast and youtube channel, head over to patreon.com/demystifyinggayporn. Cheers! Support the show
Dec 14, 2022 · 27 min
S4E1: Jim French / Colt Studio / Dakota
Send us Fan Mail Jim French was a classically trained illustrator who began his career in fashion and later formed small companies selling nude male illustrations during the late 1960's. French would go on to form Colt Studio; America's first gay porn studio. Dakota a.k.a. Ken Sprague was a popular Colt Man who used his earnings and notoriety to buy a declining Gold's Gym in Venice Beach and turn it into a household name. Support the show
Aug 19, 2022 · 58 min
Summer Sessions Ep. 5 - The Larger Than Life King Dwarf!
Send us Fan Mail It was my pleasure to meet and interview King Dwarf, whose personality, along with, ahem, other appendages made him a star amongst content creators, fan sites and the twitter-sphere. We met at a dusty motel room in central New Jersey and shot the shit for about an hour about the growing pains early on in life. It wasn't until high school where although bullied, King Dwarf received a confidence boost when the guys in the locker room began to notice and admire his big dick! Then, one day after high school, he jumped onto Chatburbate turned on his camera whipped his dick out and started jerking off in front of curious viewers. It changed his life. From there, King Dwarf went on to being a Tumblr star before the sites ill-fated decision to move away from it’s money maker. Following that King Dwarf began to take nude photos, post on twitter and his now a fully-fledged adult content creator on fan sites. With his newly crowned notoriety in the adult entertainment industry King Dwarf has also found his family of friends that love and support him as well as a new love interest! From studio work to other ventures find out what’s next for King Dwarf all during this candid interview. Enjoy! Support the show
Aug 17, 2022 · 20 min
Summer Sessions Ep. 4 - Champ Addresses the C*m Dumplings Incident
Send us Fan Mail Champ Robinson has been in the middle of a relaunch and promoting his new website Vision X. On top of that he has been more open about collaborating and also sharing scenes with models that originally belonged solely to him. It was during one of these content sharing scenes that Champ was confronted by an queer Asian sex worker who was offended by Champ's use of their scene on his website series called "Cum Dumplings," which features Asian models as the bottom. One thing led to another and the following week Champ and his studio were at the receiving end of backlash by a group of queer Asian sex workers who demanded he change the name of his series. I originally asked Champ to come on the podcast while all of this was going down to try and explain his side of the incident better but he was sick in bed and not mentally prepared for it. I caught up with him this week and gave him this opportunity to tell his story. Support the show
Aug 5, 2022 · 58 min
Summer Sessions Ep. 3 - The Creator of Giants and Tiny Feet Productions
Send us Fan Mail Ripper, my guest this week, is a size difference enthusiast who’s into macro fantasy. Unlike my other guests on the subject though, Ripper is also a content creator and owner of the website Giants and Tiny Feet. Like many other size enthusiasts, Ripper was fascinated watching movies like "Honey I Shrunk The Kid, and also remembers sharing school spaces with upper class men who towered over him as a kid. We discuss how macro changed for him during puberty and how like many others in the community with similar tastes, how joining the forum Coiled Fist opened up a world of possibilities. Standing 6’4, an object of fantasy to other macro members himself, Ripper discusses dating men who were a lot shorter and being disappointed due to his fantasy of being “The tiny," writing fan fiction and how he went from fan to content creator and everything that comes with the territory of owning your own studio. Please enjoy! Support the show
Jul 25, 2022 · 48 min
Summer Sessions Ep. 2 - Interview with a Pornosexual
Send us Fan Mail In the late 2010's I began seeing a phrase or new sexual orientation rather, called "the Pornosexual." A pornosexual, more recently also referred to as a solosexual as well, describes a person whose sexual orientation is linked solely to porn. It's become so easy to get your hands on porn today that some people just don't feel the need to have another person in the room. I received a message from a listener named Timmy, a self-described pornosexual who is a gay man in his mid-sixties who discovered porn while in his teens by way of Blue Boy magazines and VHS tapes. After a 26 year long relationship Timmy is now in a healthy relationship with himself and his love of porn. During our conversation we discover a little more about the age demographic of gay men who lived through the AIDS epidemic; a time where being alone and finding new ways to get off may have saved your life. In there a correlation? Yes, to an extent. This is a great episode filled with some history and Timmy's story. Enjoy. Support the show
Jul 15, 2022 · 34 min
Summer Sessions Ep. 1 - The Side Position
Send us Fan Mail I had a couple of interesting conversations that just couldn't wait for Season 4, so here's episode 1 of 5 in a "Summer Series." It's safe to say everyone who listens to this podcast knows what a top is and what a bottom is. But, have you heard of a side? If you haven't, make way because here they come. Well they've always been here. A side is basically described as a gay man who doesn't enjoy receiving or giving anal sex. But we don't want basics. That's why we reached out to OtterXaddy (pronounced Otter Zaddy) who is a side, to lay it all out for us. In this episode you will learn that a side is more than just a "gay man who doesn't like anal sex," it is everything sexual including oral, kinks, fetishes minus anal. So if you think about it; we've all participated as a side at one point or another. Otter details moments in his dating history when he realized he just wasn't that into anal sex, but loved everything else that came with being a gay man and how sides are made to feel like less of a gay man by others who don't understand them. This is a great conversation filled with so much to learn and I hope you enjoy it as much as we had putting it together. P.S. If you have any questions you'd like to ask our guest this week, here is his twitter handle: @otterxaddy Support the show
Jul 8, 2022 · 48 min
S3E30 - The Davey Wavey Interview
Send us Fan Mail What can I say about Youtube Star Davey Wavey that he hasn’t already said or that you might not be aware of? I got an email from Davey Wavey in March about connecting and was blown away; how on earth did he find my dog and pony show? Lol! Of course I know who Davey is but it wasn’t until a listener of the podcast asked me about a studio called Himeros TV that I finally made the correlation. Davey Wavey is the creator of Himeros TV; an adult platform aiming to revolutionize gay erotica as we know it. During this episode, Davey and I talk about his early days on YouTube before it became the juggernaut it is today. We discuss his channel, growing an audience and his shift towards more sexually charged content that led to Himeros TV. Davey opens up about his relationship with gay porn while growing up and the lack of intimacy, depth and originality that has long been associated in the adult entertainment industry today. This led him to venture into starting his own studio that would be "like gay porn but better." But do we really need another gay porn studio? Was there initial pushback from other studios? Why is Himeros TV a better way to watch porn? You will get it straight from Davey's mouth on the season 3 finale of Demystifying Gay Porn. Enjoy. Support the show
Jul 1, 2022 · 40 min
S3E29: Open Lines - The Size Kink
Send us Fan Mail If you haven’t already listened to the two macrophilia podcasts on the previous seasons Demystifying Gay Porn, JoeVoter is here to share his experiences with this fascinating fetish more popularly known as "Size Kink." Size kink goes by many different names. Macrophilia, macro for short, being the most basic definition you will find in an easy search. Then theres size fetish, size kink, etc...today and form here on out, I will use the term size kink. I have reached out to a couple of producers and members of the size kink community for this season but unfortunately, our schedules did not coincide. I posted a message on a Facebook group I found and to my delight, JoeVoter, messaged me and said he would be thrilled to talk to me about how he discovered his love of all sizes. JoeVoter, his handle on social media, and I open the discussion with a brief description of what a size kink means to him, how he came to find any material pertaining to his particular taste when he was young and how everything changed when he came across a forum known as coiled fist. Coiled Fist a popular forum, home to members of the size community. If you're still a bit confused about what a size kink is, you may have recently stumbled upon a popular meme, picture or video that almost broke the internet. The now infamous scene was featured in Amazon Prime’s The Boys, which knowingly or unknowingly to the producers features of the most homoerotic size kink scene to date! Oh yeah, you better believe we talk about that! Enjoy. Support the show
Jun 26, 2022 · 32 min
S3E28: The "Migs" Interview
Send us Fan Mail A couple of weeks ago during a monthly sweep for new models in the NYC area, I noticed a cute Only Fans model who appeared on my Twitter feed. When I clicked on his page I noticed he was following me! I was like, "How did I miss this kid?" I reached out to Miguel, better known in the sex Twitter-sphere as "Migs," and wanted to see if he was interested in joining me on the podcast and he agreed. Migs, a first generation Mexican-American talks about growing up in New Jersey and moving to New York City and falling into porn content creation almost by accident. After getting serious, he established a core base of Filipino fans who thought he may himself be Filipino and to whom he is grateful for. Migs and I discuss growing up in a single-parent Latin family, moments of sexual awakening, Only Fans as a steady income and his plans for the future. Enjoy! Support the show
Jun 17, 2022 · 43 min
S3E27: Christina, the kinky tax attorney and gay porn fan
Send us Fan Mail It's been a while since Betsy, the female gay porn fan helped us get a woman's perspective of gay porn on season one of the podcast. I recently received an email from Christina, a fellow enthusiast in which she proclaimed her love for gay porn. So naturally, I wanted to hear all about it. Oh, but that's not all! Christina is an extremely sex positive, confident tax attorney who also happens to be a highly functional autistic person. She further shattered so many preconceived ideas I had about women and porn. During our conversation she discusses finding erotica which then led to porn and finally gay porn. She then describes what it was like growing up hiding erotic novels from her Baptist mother, who wanted to raise Christian soldiers. We also talk how normalizing sex through honest conversation and education will allow people to connect and will inevitably save the world. Gosh, this was a fun episode! I hope you enjoy. Support the show
Jun 10, 2022 · 55 min
S3E26: The Underwear Fetish Episode
Send us Fan Mail Jake is an avid listener of the DGP podcast. When he reached out to me through Instagram we spoke briefly about his appreciation of men's underwear. After a couple of conversations, I asked him to come on the show and share his story. Jake has a collection of underwear that is close to four hundred pair deep. It’s what he likes and it’s what gets him off. Furthermore, Jake has a good understanding of the confidence a nice pair of underwear imbue in a man. During our discussion I learned of Jake's experience growing up in a military family with a healthy dose of euro-centric body positivity. Jake then reveals how he discovered his underwear fetish and explains how he navigates his life and current relationship after the dissolution of a long marriage. And there's so much more, so sit back and enjoy! . Support the show
Jun 3, 2022 · 1 hr 3 min
S3E25: The 3rd Champ Robinson Interview
Send us Fan Mail As you probably already know, Champ Robinson and I have known each other so such a long time. On one of his recent trips to L.A. I crashed at his place and grabbed this interview with him. Champ recently relaunched his website as Vision X, where he offers various different series thanks to the different themes he has played with in his content such as cuckolds, cosplay, big brothers, daddies and other taboo subjects. I sat down and caught up with a man who tirelessly works at his craft trying to get better while learning so much of the behind the scenes that goes into the industry. We almost immediately jump into topics like his affinity to religion or being a spiritual person, the idea of self-realization and importance, the difference “casual racism,” and fooling around with one another. We then move into the idea of being “over-porned,” his first sexual experience, the first time he ever saw a gay porn film and bridal showers at gay bars. We really do get into it so I hope you enjoy. Support the show
May 28, 2022 · 1 hr 1 min
S3E24: The Brian Bonds Interview
Send us Fan Mail This week, I speak to Brian Bonds, who I have trying to set up an interview with for almost 4 years now. Brian came by and we spoke about living in sin city, Las Vegas, growing up in Arkansas closeted in a baptist family and coming out to his parents as first gay but then a porn star. Brian also does a lot for HIV advocacy and we talk a little bit about that controversial bug-chasing episode. We then discuss a new generation of porn viewers who have grown up with Brian Bonds, kinks, fetishes and that infamous gang-bang proposal! We definitely had plenty to talk about and I hope you enjoy! Support the show
May 20, 2022 · 39 min
S3E23: The Dillon Diaz and Jake Waters Interview
Send us Fan Mail For the second season of the podcast, Dillon Diaz and I had a great conversation via zoom but I knew the minute I could be in the same town with him, I would want to have a face to face meeting and sit down. On this episode, Dillon and I discuss how the porn world has been for him since full-on production has resumed, the various different studios he has been working with as well as more aggressively pursuing his fan site pages. Then, we are fortunate to be joined by porn model Jake Waters, who Dillon recently met and fell in love with . If you follow their social media, watching their relationship development from afar has been beautiful. Jake describes how he started in the industry and that fateful day he met Dillon on set. From there we discuss the fun and difficulties of being in the same industry and watching your partner have sex with someone else. Lastly, since recording this episode, Dillon and Jake have become engaged! Congrats to them both, enjoy! Support the show
May 13, 2022 · 51 min
S3E22: Open Lines - Hot-Wired Nipples
Send us Fan Mail I know it sounds painful BUT it's not what you think! On this week's "Open Lines" episode we talk to, E, who is a listener of the podcast and also happens to have a nipple fetish. E is attracted to men who are extremely turned-on by having their nipples touched, sucked and tweaked. I've been on many a porn set where in between takes all these sexy men are playing with each other's nipples before they get in front of the camera. Why? And why was I not recording it?? I always understood that some men love to have their nipples played with but here's a bit of a deeper dive into the subject. Enjoy! Support the show
May 6, 2022 · 54 min
S3E21: The Military Classified Interview w. Rob Navarro
Send us Fan Mail Before the end of Season 2, a fan of the DGP podcast asked me to interview Rob Navarro of Military Classified. I quickly searched his name and to my surprise, I knew exactly who he was and the work he did. And I was definitely a fan of his work! I contacted Rob and asked him if he’d be interested in appearing on the podcast. He agreed. A year later, I would find myself driving through the west coast and reached out again to touch base and we were able to set up this impromptu meeting. Rob graciously invited me on to the set where it all happens; where real, straight military men walk in and get a blow job from or have sex with the very man I am interviewing! “Military gay porn,” is a sub-genre of “Gay for Pay,” porn. Rob Navarro has been operating Military Classified since 2004. Before being the star of his own site though, Rob already had quite the career as a Billboard charting, Christian Rock singer and a voice actor, notably being the Latin Ronald McDonald! So how did he get to Military Classified? Listen and find out. Enjoy! Support the show