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Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
- 47 episodes
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- English
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Wednesday · 20 minYou've Got Decisions: BF Prostate
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 26 · 1 hr 12 minEP 496: The Stud Bylaws feat. Punkie Johnson
Punkie Johnson joins Mandii B and Weezy, and the missed signals are getting cleared up! Weezy reveals she tried to shoot her shot, Punkie explains the unwritten stud rules she grew up with in New Orleans, and the trio debates dating double standards, heaux phases and what actually counts as sex. Punkie also opens up about why Saturday Night Live wasn’t the right fit, the pressure of being a masculine woman in entertainment, and how Dave Chappelle helped name her comedy special. Plus, she shares her plans to start a family with her partner and a longtime friend as the donor, sparking a conversation about whether romance and parenthood have to go together. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 23 · 21 minYou've Got Decisions: My Friend is Flaky! Should I Cut Her Off?
Mandii B and Weezy unpack one-sided friendships, question what a godparent actually owes your child, and call out the difference between someone letting you down and expecting a relationship they never agreed to. Plus, why some friends need a demotion instead of a dramatic goodbye. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 21 · 19 minYou've Got Decisions: Would I Be Wrong For Leaving My Bf Because Of His Autism?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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S2 · E16October 20 · 1 hr 47 minSelective Ignorance: Ep. 86 | Ban Dogs, Ban Laws, Ban Freedom Of Speech Feat. Deante Kyle
Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance, joined by A-King, Jason "Jah" Lee, and special guest Deante Kyle (Grits & Eggs Podcast) for unfiltered conversations about politics, Black culture, social justice, and accountability. After recognizing Breast Cancer Awareness Month and encouraging women to schedule mammograms [00:00], Mandii introduces the crew [00:33] before diving into hilarious debates about chirping smoke detectors [04:55], TaskRabbit and cleaning services [07:04], and whether there are simply too many dogs in public spaces [09:26]. The “This Is America” segment kicks off with controversy surrounding White House press secretary Katie Zacharia’s reported firing and questions about her legal credentials [13:50], leading to personal stories about quitting jobs almost immediately [17:24], airport lies [22:06], and evolving religious beliefs [24:00]. The conversation shifts to protests in Paris and Europe versus America’s “No Kings” demonstrations [28:16], examining political activism, censorship, and France’s exploitation of African nations. The crew emphasizes the importance of voter registration and the upcoming midterm elections [35:15], spotlights Florida politician Angie Nixon [36:11], and explores everything from aliens, robotics, and Elon Musk [37:15]to Tesla backlash [38:25] and money’s influence on American politics [40:28]. Amar’e Stoudemire’s decision to join law enforcement [41:48] sparks a heated debate about police brutality, systemic racism, and whether policing can be reformed from within [44:21], before examining military propaganda and the realities of war [53:13]. Following Deonte’s departure and a hilarious grits conversation [57:02], Mandii returns from break with another reminder to register and vote [58:01] before addressing Floyd Mayweather’s support for Donald Trump amid reports of financial troubles [59:40]. The crew revisits Killer Mike’s podcast history [01:01:39] and dissects his controversial defense of capitalism [01:05:59], examining Fred Hampton’s revolutionary legacy [01:09:16], the fallout from political conversations over brunch [01:10:24], and the difference between building personal wealth and creating opportunities for collective economic empowerment [01:11:14]. A deeper discussion distinguishes commerce from capitalism [01:13:49], questions the contradictions between luxury lifestyles and revolutionary politics [01:17:07], and explores the backlash surrounding Killer Mike’s political positions [01:24:37]. The crew challenges misconceptions about Black spending power [01:26:42], stresses the need for political urgency and clarity [01:31:15], and debates the importance of distinguishing genuine opposition from disagreements within the Black community [01:36:04]. After a hilarious technical mishap [01:40:08], the episode wraps with final thoughts, upcoming guest announcements, and bonus episode previews [01:43:01]. From Donald Trump and political protests to police reform, Black capitalism, economic liberation, and the power of voting, Selective Ignorance delivers an honest, entertaining conversation challenging how we define progress, accountability, and collective empowerment. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama @deante.kyle @gritsandeggspodcast Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod Tiktok @selective.ignorance X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 19 · 1 hrEP 495: The Floor Is Obsession ft. Erica Chidi
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by doula, author, and women’s health educator Erica Chidi for a conversation about knowing your body, asking for what you want, and refusing to audition for love. Erica opens up about her marriage to a man, exploring non-monogamy, and the breakup conversation that helped her embrace being gay. The three debate whether the right partner can change your relationship style, why foreplay deserves a rethink, and how outercourse can become the main event. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 14 · 34 minYou Got Decisons: Reality TV Star Kara Leona Sit Down
Kara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains why their problems went deeper than adult content, and clarifies the conversation around her six-figure months. Plus, the double standard between Hollywood nudity and sex work, the comments that actually hurt, new music, and why she’s paying for her own boob job. It’s an honest conversation about providing for your family without giving up yourself. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 12 · 1 hr 9 minEP 494: Freak With Limits feat. Connie
Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a little too personal, London versus New York nightlife, and why Hollywood keeps getting kink wrong. Beneath the outrageous stories is a real conversation about consent, accountability, and knowing your limits. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 7 · 24 minYou've Got Decisions: Yuck Mouth - Can I Get Past Bad Oral Hygiene?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 84 | Consent is Not in Perpetuity
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ]. The crew recaps CultureCon with the Spill app [ 05:07 ], praising its sexual-health advocacy while critiquing event logistics [ 07:45 ], panel value and press-run fatigue [ 11:30 ], and ticket prices—with a vodka debate mixed in [ 15:14 ]. From there, they question growing concerns around food safety and lab-grown foods [ 20:14 ], including federally approved lab-grown egg alternatives, labeling practices, and how consumers know what they’re actually eating [ 23:49 ], before connecting the confusion to corporate profit motives [27:40 ]. The main conversation centers on the Cornell Seven civil case [ 28:13 ], sparking a deeper discussion about consent when alcohol or drugs are involved [ 29:14 ], rape culture and who society chooses to believe [ 31:37 ], and the role of alleged group-chat evidence [ 35:11 ]. They examine proposed changes to New York consent law involving voluntary versus involuntary intoxication [ 39:09 ], discuss safety and consent when someone is blackout intoxicated [40:33 ], and debate empathy, dating red flags [ 48:35 ], justice, and the dangers of relying on hypotheticals when evaluating harm [ 53:06 ]. The conversation continues with a Georgia former jail employee required to register as a sex offender following a sexual relationship with an inmate [ 57:39 ], as the crew emphasizes how authority and incarceration create power dynamics that complicate meaningful consent [ 01:00:57 ], examines the relevant Georgia statute [ 01:06:52 ], and adds some humor with a Jailhouse Temptations detour [ 01:08:13 ]. The episode then shifts to the NFL after Houston Texans linebacker Azeez Al-Shaair was reportedly told by an official to remove the name of a Palestinian child from his eye black [ 01:09:59 ], prompting a discussion about political expression, censorship, and reflexive defensiveness [ 01:11:51 ]. Later, the hosts react to viral claims that Black men are “hard to love” [ 01:18:22 ] and question the rise of dating gurus, relationship experts, and online grifters [ 01:23:57 ] before unpacking actor Da’Vinchi’s comments about work ethic, Black Americans, and the African diaspora [ 01:26:33 ]. They push for more nuance around culture, opportunity, immigration, and work ethic [ 01:30:14 ], then close with resources surrounding campus sexual assault, voting reminders, and support for Selective Ignorance in the Signal Awards [ 01:38:57 ]. Be sure to vote for Selective Ignorance in the Signal Awards: Selective Ignorance With Mandii B in the Craft - Best Host (Culture) Category Selective Ignorance With Mandii B in the Genre - Conversation Starter Category No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod Tiktok @selective.ignorance X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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October 5 · 59 minEP 493: Friends With Baby Benefits
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From debating whether two friends can have a baby together without catching feelings, to navigating jealousy, emotional intimacy, and the unspoken rules of open relationships, the crew gets into just how complicated modern relationships can really be. Plus, they talk dating women versus men, whether bad sex can actually keep things less messy, and how their views on love, sex, and partnership continue to evolve. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 30 · 24 minYou've Got Decisions: Doubling Back on My Baby Daddy vs Being with a Vegan
Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the ladies unpack when choosing yourself means choosing neither. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 28 · 56 minEP 492: That’s My Wife, Not My Mom! feat Olivia & Kelly
Mandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them expected. From coming out later in life and navigating intimacy to handling strangers who mistake them for mother and daughter, the couple shares what their relationship looks like beyond the comments. The conversation also gets heated over surrogacy, reproductive choices, and LGBTQ+ representation in schools, with Olivia opening up about her experience as a gay kindergarten teacher before the ladies close things out with bedroom questions and some hilarious generational differences. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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- DDS2 · E12September 22 · 1 hr 55 min
Selective Ignorance: Ep. 82 | Rollin', Robots & Raggedy Robert feat. Akeem Ali
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [ 12:26 ]. They defend personal boundaries while discussing Cardi B swiping away a fan who touched her [ 22:11 ], meet-and-greet horror stories [ 26:28 ], fan entitlement and parasocial behavior [ 27:20 ], and even photo etiquette at clothing-optional resorts [ 30:39 ]. In “This Is America,” they react to Converse apologizing for a Chuck 70 X campaign image featuring K-pop star Karina that critics said evoked racist imagery [ 31:43 ], as Akeem questions whether outrage can become a marketing strategy [ 33:04 ]. The conversation expands to the effectiveness of boycotts [ 39:00 ] and why culturally aware creatives and diverse decision-makers need to be “in the room” before campaigns go public [ 42:02 ]. Technology takes over as the crew reacts to warnings about increasingly autonomous AI agents [ 45:03 ], imagining their impact on dating and everyday life [ 47:23 ], deepfakes and robotics [ 52:44 ], futuristic nanotechnology [ 55:59 ], and fears surrounding Neuralink and brain-computer interfaces [ 56:30 ]. A run of classic Selective Ignorance tangents covers drugs and productivity [ 57:43 ], psychedelics and the brain [ 59:36 ], pineal-gland and wisdom-teeth theories [01:02:50 ], Chick-fil-A conspiracies [ 01:04:52 ], human-meat rumors [ 01:08:46 ], and America compared with other countries [ 01:13:44 ]. The final stretch examines Chris Brown criticizing Texas Rep. Venton Jones after Jones apologized for participating in an official recognition of Brown [ 01:18:24 ], moving through responsibility [ 01:21:35], repeated second chances [ 01:22:20 ], accountability versus advocacy [ 01:23:56 ], public grace for Black men [01:25:26 ], and Brown’s past controversies [ 01:26:40 ]. They close by unpacking Macklemore’s removal from Ed Sheeran’s U.S. tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks [ 01:30:54 ], debating politics on concert stages [ 01:33:55], intent versus impact [ 01:35:38 ], Robert Kraft’s involvement and humanitarian donations [ 01:37:28 ], and fears surrounding political speech and accusations [ 01:42:11 ], before wrapping with Akeem Ali’s tour plug [ 01:48:27 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod Tiktok @selective.ignorance X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 21 · 1 hr 15 minEP 491: Stud Standards feat. Carter the Body
Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why masculinity doesn’t erase her womanhood, and challenges the idea that bad men make women gay. Plus, the trio debates a lesbian Mount Rushmore, bisexual dating stereotypes, representation in Hollywood, and whether being romantic makes you a “soft stud.” “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 16 · 20 minYou've Got Decisions: Am I Settling or Just Chasing Lust?
On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 14 · 1 hr 26 minEP 490: Flowers Don’t Fix Cheaters ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking accountability, friends getting too involved, and why flowers after cheating don’t equal changed behavior. Plus, they discuss non-monogamy, forgiveness, femininity, and finding love without losing yourself. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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September 9 · 21 minYou've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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- DDS2 · E10September 8 · 1 hr 25 min
Selective Ignorance: Ep. 80 | Power Of The Tongue
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ], the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ], questioning whether deregulation and Project 2025 could contribute to broader disruption [ 08:00 ]. After jokes about honorary degrees [ 11:32 ], they discuss Fivio Foreign’s baptism and church hypocrisy [ 13:56 ], before Mandii recounts a tense debate about Christianity, astrology, witchcraft, science, and credible sources [ 17:13 ]. The conversation turns to manifestation and the “power of the tongue” [ 27:09 ], goals outside podcasting [ 28:47 ], and whether speaking things into existence influences outcomes [ 29:39 ]. They reflect on career and relationship momentum [ 31:49 ], life-changing decisions [ 33:18 ], Mandii’s move to Atlanta and new network [ 35:59 ], seeing past goals become reality [ 38:45 ], and respect within podcasting [ 42:18 ]. The main debate examines surveillance versus safety, beginning with abortion tracking and reproductive-health surveillance [ 45:29 ] before expanding to Ring cameras and community monitoring [ 52:20 ], Meta smart glasses [55:36 ], and wearable cameras becoming increasingly normalized [ 56:46 ]. The crew weighs intent versus what gets recorded [ 58:01 ], the potential for misuse [ 59:51 ], and whether public surveillance protects people or creates new privacy risks [ 01:02:25 ]. They debate cameras as crime deterrents [ 01:03:18 ] versus fears of Big Brother and government overreach [ 01:04:41 ], including the politics surrounding Flock license-plate cameras [ 01:06:37 ]. Finally, they confront the contradiction of fearing surveillance while carrying smartphones and installing connected cameras [ 01:17:21 ], question the “nothing to hide” argument [ 01:20:15 ], and close on how much privacy Americans should sacrifice for security [ 01:22:51 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod Tiktok @selective.ignorance X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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