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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it!

Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.

As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.

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#494
Thursday · 1 hr 7 min
Dear Shandy Turns 6! Anniversary Q&A Answering YOUR Questions! - Ep 494
It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/r_ZxevOVS9o?si=e00pKFmKXxXcN4GE 2-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/OyAa9zSvvvo?si=ZwnQzIo_hGQ9BUvC 3-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/a_qIhKlUj0k?si=li3AirGKtYteOJrS 4-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/WBusMzUEx4E?si=PH0q3omvLy1Qd0Tm 5-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/jHbE2wU3HPA Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:41 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You First Got Her? 3:47 - Would You Get A Second Dog? 4:22 - Did You Watch The Love Island Reunion? 8:14 - Do You Miss Recapping The Bachelor/ette? 8:47 - Will You Have More Hot Topic Experts On? 10:01 - At The Beginning, You Interviewed Friends—Would You Do This Again? 12:37 - What Are Your Favorite Kinds Of Questions To Answer? 13:40 - Will You Go Full Time? What’s Next? 16:55 - Can You Make A Living From Podcasting Or Does It Have To Be A Passion To Be Worth It? 23:51 - How Do You Split Business Responsibilities? 25:38 - Does Podcasting Feel Like A Job To You? 28:23 - What’s The Hardest Part Of Your Relationship At This Point In Life? 33:50 - What Are Your Home & Outside Pet Peeves For Each Other? 36:26 - What Other Controversies (Other Than Moon Landing Denial) Enrage Andy? 39:10 - When Returning To NYC, What’s Your Must-Eat Food? 39:32 - TV Shows You Watch Together But Don’t Recap? 40:07 - How Do You Feel About AI? 53:44 - If You Could Get Rid Of One Allergy—Eggs, Nuts, Sesame—Which Would It Be? 54:52 - What Did You Think Of ‘The Odyssey’? 56:24 - If Single, Which Reality Dating Show Would You Go On? 58:52 - Favorite Style Of Dumpling 59:51 - What To Do/Not Do If I Ever Run Into You? 1:03:12 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#493
September 25 · 1 hr 2 min
The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 3-4 Recap & Review - Ep 493
Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:50 - Episode 3 23:35 - Episode 4 59:22 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#492
September 24 · 1 hr 24 min
Q&A! Backing Out As Maid Of Honor & Is It OK To Flirt While Married? - Ep 492
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy weighs in on your worries! Finally, you're married with kids but find yourself enjoying flirty banter with a co-worker. Is a workplace crush harmless fun or playing with fire? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus one free breakfast item per box for one year! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It My Anxiety Or Am I Just Not That Into Him? 12:56 - Q2: I Regret Agreeing To Be My Friend’s Maid Of Honor—Can I Back Out? 38:36 - Q3: I’m Living The Life My Dad Wants For Me—How Do I Break Free? 52:47 - Q4: I’m Worried My Sons’ Girlfriends Aren’t Right For Them—Shandy’s Thoughts? 1:07:43 - Q5: I’m Married With Kids, But… Can I Still Flirt At Work? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#491
September 19 · 43 min
The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 1-2 Recap & Review - Ep 491
Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier! - Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:06 - Episode 1 18:26 - Episode 2 39:53 - Who Shandy Has Their Eye On Sharleen is wearing: - sweater dress: https://bit.ly/3VENco7 (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order) If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#490
September 17 · 54 min
Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Dated Him For 6 Months... But We Never Met" - Ep 490
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Dani! 47:28 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#489
September 10 · 1 hr 20 min
Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This? 11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess? 37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help! 58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#488
September 1 · 48 min
Love Is Blind UK S3: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 488
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Ciara & Ajay 10:33 - Cuba & Ryan 22:23 - Sophie & Taylor 26:20 - Francesca & Joseph 29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan 34:18 - Faye & Jack 44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions 45:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#487
August 26 · 1 hr 6 min
Love Is Blind UK S3: FINALE - Episodes 9 & 10 Recap & Review - Ep 487
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:20 - Episode 9 29:53 - Episode 10 58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions 1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#486
August 24 · 1 hr 45 min
Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 486
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:34 - Episode 5 20:57 - Episode 6 56:50 - Episode 7 1:14:42 - Episode 8 1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#486
August 19 · 1 hr 15 min
Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 485
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and one free breakfast per box for one year! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:31 - Episode 1 22:42 - Episode 2 37:16 - Episode 3 57:11 - Episode 4 1:04:41 - Ibiza 1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#484
August 13 · 1 hr 9 min
Q&A! Your Argumentative Boyfriend & Wedding Guests Who Don't Give Gifts - Ep 484
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Are The Perks Of Moving In With My Boyfriend Clouding My Judgment? 17:57 - Q2: My Girlfriend Looks Super Young & It Makes Me Self Conscious—Help! 21:50 - Q3: My Guest Attended But Didn’t Give Us A Wedding Gift—Is It OK To Ask About It? 33:43 - Q4: My Social Anxiety Has Reduced My Friend Circle To Non-Existent—Help! 52:02 - Q5: My Opinionated Boyfriend Is Rubbing My Parents Wrong—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#482
August 6 · 1 hr 22 min
LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum! Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! More Monica: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/monicapaynee TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@monicapaynee More Luke: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lukaswesselhoff TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxx Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke! 1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show 6:56 - Luke’s Journey 13:36 - Monica’s Journey 19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’ 23:37 - Why They Went On The Show 32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence 42:16 - High School/First Kiss 51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism” 57:19 - Conflict Resolution 1:06:06 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#482
July 30 · 1 hr 20 min
Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her? 13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice? 30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him? 57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#481
July 24 · 1 hr 34 min
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed. This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation. Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations became public. He also discusses public scrutiny, accountability, personal growth, and what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling. More Blake: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblakerobertson - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theblakerobertson Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Blake Robertson 1:35 - What Terms He’s On With Hayley Currently 2:13 - Why Did He Propose? 7:31 - The TMZ Article 10:28 - After Filming The Show 19:30 - Charleston 40:49 - Scene 2 55:51 - Night Of The Arrest 1:14:25 - The Affidavit 1:17:24 - Finances 1:22:40 - Did The Show Accurately Represent Their Relationship? 1:26:06 - Beliefs 1:28:43 - Regrets 1:31:44 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#480
July 23 · 1 hr 2 min
The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4! *** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. *** Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:51 - Episode 9/Finale 13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion 59:43 - Reviewing Predictions 1:00:18 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#479
July 20 · 1 hr 39 min
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4! *** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault ** Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and free daily greens per box! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:26 - Episode 5 36:46 - Episode 6 49:33 - Episode 7 1:11:13 - Episode 8 1:34:09 - Predictions 1:38:13 - Who We Would Go For Referenced NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/17/well/couples-therapists-fight-advice.html If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#478
July 16 · 1 hr 39 min
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later. Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:06 - Episode 1 27:49 - Episode 2 43:19 - Episode 3 1:13:45 - Episode 4 1:36:09 - Predictions 1:37:01 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#477
July 14 · 1 hr 13 min
Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:10 - Episode 32 28:23 - Episode 33 32:31 - Episode 34 (AfterSun) 35:39 - Episode 35 1:05:46 - Predictions 1:10:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:11:28 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#476
July 9 · 1 hr 33 min
Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:20 - Episode 26 24:02 - Episode 27 36:24 - Episode 29 51:18 - Episode 30 1:13:55 - Episode 31 1:28:29 - Predictions 1:29:10 - Shandy Word Watch 1:31:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#475
July 3 · 1 hr 4 min
Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:40 - Shandy Debrief 41:30 - Welcome To Caller Ryan! 1:00:15 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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