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Dear Future Husband

Christian Bevere

Are you praying for your future husband? Have you written him letters? On the Dear Future Husband Podcast, we believe that marriage is a gift and an entrustment—that you can begin preparing and praying for your relationship NOW. Learn new ways to flourish as a single woman while covering your future (or current) relationship. Trust me, your future husband will thank you!!

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S7 · E16
Thursday · 53 min
Things Women Accidentally Do That Push Good Men Away (vs Make Him Stay)
Have you ever wondered if something you’re doing in dating is quietly pushing a good guy away? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian sits down with Arden for a playful but honest conversation inspired by How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. They unpack the things single women can unknowingly do that create distance, confusion, or pressure in dating, and the things women are often scared to say or do that may actually invite the right man closer. What to expect: The dating habits that can accidentally push good men away Why playing it “cool” can sometimes block real connection What a good guy may actually be looking for on a date The difference between being intentional and being intense How to show interest without performing, chasing, or settling The things women fear saying that can actually build trust Save hundreds with the experts at Libertore CPA here: StopIRSPain.com Dive deeper in the Bible with Logos here: Logos.com/Bevere Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E15
August 20 · 50 min
The Advice I'd Give My Daughter for Dating in Today's World ft. Rebekah Lyons
Sometimes the clarity you need comes through the people God places around you. In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian is joined by Rebekah Lyons for a heartfelt conversation on relationships, wisdom, and the voices we allow to shape our decisions. Rebekah shares the motherly advice she gave her daughter before getting married young, how to handle conflict with humility, and why no woman should have to process love, dating, or marriage alone. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or praying for the right relationship, this conversation will remind you that wise counsel matters, community matters, and God often uses trusted voices to help us see clearly. PS— Start your free Monarch trial here: https://monarchmoney.yt.link/4c1iK25 or use code cb50 for 50% Off Monarch Core tier. Head to https://perelel.yt.link/fKPgqIv and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E14
August 13 · 42 min
The Engagement Advice Every Future Bride Needs (Even If You're Single)
What if engagement season has more in store than you've prepared for? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere talks about what to do, what not to do, and what many couples miss during engagement. From handling pressure and expectations to building healthy communication, preparing spiritually, and keeping your focus on the covenant ahead, this conversation will help you approach engagement with wisdom and peace. Whether you’re engaged, dating seriously, or praying for your future husband, this episode will help you think deeper than the wedding day and prepare for the marriage God is building. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E13
August 6 · 48 min
Cheap Dates = Rich Future? (Advice From a Single, Financial Expert)
Could dating be wasting your money? 🫨 In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Anthony O’Neal to talk about money, dating, and preparing for marriage with wisdom. From spending too much on dates to recovering from past financial mistakes, Anthony shares practical advice for singles who want to build a healthier relationship with money before marriage. They also discuss investing, breaking generational cycles, stewarding what God has given you, and why your financial choices now can shape the future you’re praying for. Whether you’re dating, waiting, or hoping to build a strong foundation for marriage, this conversation will help you think differently about money, purpose, and preparation. Start your free Monarch trial and get 50% off your first year with code cb50 https://monarchmoney.yt.link/vlVnKE4 Use Code "DFH" for 40% off your Good Ranchers subscription here: https://www.goodranchers.com/discount/DFH Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E12
July 30 · 1 hr 8 min
Alexa PenaVega Opens Up About Love, Divorce, Faith, and the Story God Rewrote
What if the story you never would have chosen became the place where God met you most deeply? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Alexa PenaVega for a heartfelt conversation about faith, surrender, marriage, motherhood, and trusting God through the seasons that don’t make sense. Alexa shares how she came to know Jesus, what God taught her through her first marriage and divorce, how she met her husband Carlos, and the ways God has carried their family through both beautiful and heartbreaking moments, including the loss of their infant daughter. This conversation is honest, hope-filled, and deeply encouraging for anyone learning to trust God with their past, their future, and the parts of their story they never expected. Download the FREE Upside App here https://yt.link/chmUBNo and use code CB25 to get an extra 25 cents back per gallon on your first tank of gas! Thank you Upside for sponsoring this video! Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E11
July 23 · 25 min
When Your Heart Has Been Broken
Heartbreak... No one's friend or favorite word. It can leave you questioning your worth, your future, and even whether love is worth pursuing again. But there's a purpose past the pain and a joy set ahead! In this episode, we talk about the reality that rejection isn't always fair—but it doesn't have to define your story. We'll explore how God can redeem even the deepest pain, use it to shape your purpose, and restore hope without hardening your heart. If you're healing from disappointment or wondering whether to believe in love again, this conversation is for you. Thanks to Monarch for partnering with me! Start your free trial and get 50% off your first year of total money clarity using my link https://monarchmoney.yt.link/4XXuYVR or code cb50 for 50% Off Monarch Core tier. Head to https://perelel.yt.link/HAmZc8q and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E10
July 16 · 38 min
Do Single Men and Women Want the Same Thing? | Men X Women Panel Pt. 2
Christian dating can be fun, honest, and full of surprises. In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the single men and women’s panel for Part 2, where they play dating icebreakers, answer real questions, react to each other’s responses, and explore what actually helps Christian singles connect. You’ll hear funny first impressions, honest thoughts on chemistry, what makes someone easy to talk to, and how men and women approach dating differently. Watch this episode on YouTube for a more interactive experience here: https://youtu.be/_vjWoIryxK0 Use Code "DFH" for 40% off your Good Ranchers subscription here: https://www.goodranchers.com/discount/DFH (Sorry, the 2 bachelors are not included 😂) Use code "BEVERE" for 90% off on Logos here: http://logos.com/bevere Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E9
July 9 · 39 min
What Happens When Christian Singles Judge Each Other Blind Dating? (Men and Women Panel)
Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?! In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face. From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals, this conversation opens up the dating questions Christian singles are often thinking but rarely ask out loud. Subscribe for more conversations on dating, faith, relationships, and becoming the person God has called you to be. ______________________________ Download the FREE Upside App here https://yt.link/5d7lCDP and use code CB25 to get an extra 25 cents back per gallon on your first tank of gas! Thank you, Upside, for sponsoring this video! Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E8
July 2 · 39 min
Rita Springer on Long Singleness, Surrender, and Refusing to Settle
What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle. Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, she and Christian talk about unmet desires, the temptation to lower your standards, and how to trust God when the timeline still has not changed. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep hoping without becoming desperate, this conversation will remind you that Jesus is not a backup plan. He is the prize. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E7
June 25 · 46 min
Maybe He's Just Not That Into You?! (And Who Could Be) ft. Jeff Bethke
What if men are not as hard to read as women think? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating. Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking: How can you tell if a man is interested? Why do some men seem emotionally guarded? What qualities should actually matter when you’re looking for a husband? And are some standards helping you discern wisely, while others may be keeping you stuck? If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he interested, or am I reading this wrong?” this episode is for you. Thanks to our sponsor, Monarch, for making finances less frustrating! Start your free trial and get 50% off your first year of total money clarity using my code "CB50" at https://monarchmoney.yt.link/JjvxbY1 for 50% Off Monarch Core tier. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E6
June 18 · 53 min
Being Single Is Better Than Being with the Wrong Guy ft. Ashley Hetherington
Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be. Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping women see this season not as a punishment or a pause, but as a time to sow, grow, heal, and prepare with purpose. If you’ve ever felt like the last single friend, wondered if you’re being too picky, or been tempted to settle for an almost-godly guy, this conversation will encourage you to stop wasting your waiting and start trusting what God is growing in you. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E5
June 11 · 34 min
The Questions Men Wish They Could Ask Women About Dating! (ft. Panel of Single Women)
What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly? In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face. Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture. From what makes a woman feel pursued to what men misunderstand about singleness, standards, emotional maturity, and readiness for marriage, these women share their real reflections with honesty, grace, and vulnerability. Special deal: Head to https://perelel.yt.link/XvgmlLV and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E4
June 4 · 42 min
The Honest Truth About Singleness, Dating, and Desire from women in their 20's, 30's, and 40's
What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way. They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly: Why does dating feel so complicated? What should women do with disappointment? How do you stay hopeful when waiting feels longer than expected? And what does it look like to trust God with your future while still being honest about your desires? This conversation is thoughtful, funny, vulnerable, and deeply encouraging for any woman navigating singleness, dating, or the tension between contentment and longing. Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, healing, or simply trying to understand this season better, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind, you’re not forgotten, and your story is still being written. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E3
May 28 · 55 min
Why You Feel Stuck in Singleness — and 5 Secrets to Move Forward ft. Dr. Henry Cloud
“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?” For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life. We unpack how your habits, mindset, and emotional health determine your future. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will challenge and encourage you! Dr. Cloud gives practical advice on: why people stay stuck how to stop sabotaging your future the connection between faith and responsibility and how healthy relationships start long before marriage and MORE Your future isn’t found by accident — it’s built by the decisions you make today. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E2
May 21 · 48 min
Did An Angel Tell Him NOT to Date?! (What A Couple Learned From 12+ Years of Waiting)
What if your waiting season is actually where God builds the foundation for the relationship you’ve been praying for? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with DeAngelo & Whitney Moss for a powerful conversation on waiting well, dating with purpose, and preparing for the marriage you actually want. After waiting 12+ years to intentionally date, DeAngelo & Whitney share how God used singleness to shape their vision, character, and calling before bringing them together. They discuss becoming the spouse you desire, trusting God’s timing, and why preparation matters more than pressure. They also reveal their brand-new app, The Dating Project, designed to help singles meet online in a more compatible, purpose-aligned way. This episode will challenge the way you think about dating, singleness, and God-led relationships. DEAL: Head to https://perelel.yt.link/5erhSyc and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S7 · E1
May 14 · 47 min
The Secrets to Making a Long Distance Relationship Last ft. Arden and Christian Bevere
“Long-distance relationships never work”… unless they do. 👀 For the launch of Season 7, Christian and her husband, Arden, share the real story behind their long-distance relationship — what challenged them, what kept them connected, and why they’re actually grateful they dated from far away. They open up about the habits, communication, and lessons they learned while dating across the country that helped shape their relationship and strengthen their foundation. So, tune in if you’ve ever wondered whether long distance can actually last, how to build trust from miles away, or what makes some couples survive the distance while others don’t. LIMITED TIME OFFER: Get our exclusive "Prayer Is My Love Language" tote here: https://christianbevere.com/merch Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S6 · E16
April 2 · 1 hr 1 min
Why He's NOT Asking You Out... Single Men Panel pt. 2
Part 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️ We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters. We get into the questions everyone’s thinking, but few are asking: Do men actually like Botox and “high maintenance” women? Why aren’t men approaching women anymore? And what are the absolute WORST dates they’ve ever been on? Nothing is sugarcoated. The guys react in real time, share personal experiences, and give brutally honest perspectives on modern dating, attraction, and what’s really going on behind the scenes. If you want to understand how men think in today’s dating world… this is the episode you don’t skip. 👀 Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S6 · E15
March 26 · 1 hr 1 min
Men Explain What They're Thinking in Dating... Finally! (Single Men Q&A Pt. 1)
What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense? In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering—the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between. What are they really thinking while dating? What actually matters to them? And why does it sometimes feel so confusing? They didn’t hold back. This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of perspective that might just shift the way you see dating—and men. If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a man’s mind and finally understand what’s going on… this episode is for you! Ready to invest in better quality meat? Save $25 on your first Good Ranchers Box with code "DFH" at https://go.goodranchers.com/dfh Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S6 · E14
March 19 · 45 min
Submission is Being Taken Out of Context ft. Pastor Darren Whitehead
What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth. Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more powerful? They also dive into dating through a biblical lens, asking the hard questions many avoid: How do you truly evaluate someone for marriage? Are you choosing based on feelings, or fruit? What does wisdom—not culture—say about compatibility? This conversation tackles the often controversial topic of gender roles in the Bible. What did Scripture actually intend? Where has the modern church gotten it right—or wrong? And how do we live this out in a way that reflects both truth and grace? Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
S6 · E13
March 12 · 48 min
The Dating Skills No One Teaches You ft. Alison Cheperdak
In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage. In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which fork to use—it’s about confidence, respect, and emotional intelligence. We dive into how to maintain high standards without becoming rigid, the small behaviors that instantly elevate your presence, and the hidden life skills etiquette teaches us that make dating smoother, more intentional, and actually enjoyable. Alison also shares practical tips on navigating modern dating with grace, setting the tone for meaningful interactions, and showing up as your best self—without losing authenticity. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance confidence with kindness, keep your standards high while staying open, and create dates that feel effortless and memorable, this conversation is for you. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

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