Dating in Berlin presents: Dating, Laughter & Disasters

Rejection is key to success | Eoin Maginn | S5:E10

Breaking Patterns: Confidence, Self-Discovery & Overcoming Rejection | Eoin Maginn How do you stop doubting yourself, overcome rejection, and find the confidence to go after what you really want? This week on Dating, Laughter & Disasters, I’m joined by self-development coach Eoin Maginn to discuss confidence, discipline, personal growth, and breaking free from the patterns that hold us back, both professionally and personally. We shared our own experiences of how small risks paved the way for greater opportunities, self-growth, and ultimately a more fulfilling life. We discuss why you don't need to believe in yourself to take action, how indecision keeps you stuck, and why the fear of embarrassment can stop you from pursuing opportunities in dating and life. 💘 In this episode: Building confidence and overcoming insecurity Why taking action matters more than believing in yourself Dealing with rejection in dating and everyday life Breaking the habit of comparing yourself to others Getting out of your comfort zone and embracing discomfort Stop living for other people's approval and start showing up for yourself Eoin’s message is simple: stop waiting until you feel ready. Take the risk, accept rejection, and keep showing up. 🎧 Connect with Eoin Maginn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eoinmaginn.dialledin/ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@eoinmaginn 💘 Connect with Lulu | Dating in Berlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ Website: https://www.datinginberlin.com/ Substack – Still Dating in Berlin: https://stilldatinginberlin.substack.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luludatinginberlin Book: Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships https://www.amazon.de/dp/3000732977 Follow Dating, Laughter & Disasters for more honest conversations about modern dating, relationships, confidence, and life in Berlin. 💬 What's one thing you'd do if you weren't afraid of rejection?

Modern Dating Is Broken | Unseen Connection | S:5 E:9

Are dating apps killing our chances of finding real love? 💘 What if you could meet someone without seeing them first? This week on Dating, Laughter & Disasters, I’m joined by Me, founder of Unseen Connection, the blindfolded dating experience bringing singles together in Berlin, Lisbon, London, Dublin, Cork, New York and beyond. We talk dating app burnout, endless swiping, flaky matches and why so many of us are struggling to find meaningful connections. Me explains how blindfolded dating works and what she discovered after screening hundreds of applications — including that 78% of men and 90% of women who applied said they wanted a partner. So are there more people looking for love than we think? We also get into the realities of building a dating business as a solo founder, overcoming self-doubt, and creating spaces where a first meeting can lead to romance, friendship, business connections or a much-needed confidence boost. Could taking looks out of the equation change how we date? And could meeting in real life be the answer to modern dating fatigue? 🎧 Listen now and decide: would you try blindfolded dating? 💘 CONNECT WITH UNSEEN CONNECTION 🌐 https://unseenconnection.com/ CONNECT WITH LULU JOHNSON & DATING IN BERLIN 🌐 Website: https://datinginberlin.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ 📖 Book: Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships — https://www.amazon.de/dp/3000732977 ✍️ Substack: https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin Subscribe to Dating, Laughter & Disasters for honest conversations about modern dating, relationships, dating disasters and the search for real connection.

Why You Feel Lonely Even When Your Life Is Full | Monica Jiang | S5: E8

Why do so many of us feel lonely even when our calendars are full? Dating host Lulu Johnson sits down with loneliness and community expert Monica Jiang to explore modern loneliness, dating, friendship, and how to build meaningful connections that last. Monica explains why loneliness isn't simply about being single or physically alone — and why community is something we practise, not something we find by endlessly adding more plans to our calendars. From Berlin's hyper-independent culture to the pressure to handle everything yourself, this conversation explores why genuine connection can feel so difficult and what it takes to create a deeper sense of belonging. In this episode, we discuss: Why you can feel lonely even when your life is full The difference between loneliness and being alone How to build real community and deeper friendships Dating when you're feeling lonely or emotionally burnt out How self-reliance can turn into emotional isolation Why dating apps and AI companions can't replace human connection Simple ways to make connection part of everyday life, from shared dinners to regular phone calls If you've ever felt alone in a crowded city, struggled with modern dating, or wondered how to create a more connected life, this conversation offers a thoughtful place to start. 💬 What helps you feel genuinely connected to other people? We'd love to hear your thoughts. 🎧 Subscribe to Dating, Laughter & Disasters for honest conversations about dating, relationships, modern love, and the messy business of finding connection. CONNECT WITH MONICA 🌐 Website: https://www.monikajiang.org/ CONNECT WITH LULU & DATING IN BERLIN 💘 Website: https://datinginberlin.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ 📖 Book: Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships https://www.amazon.de/dp/3000732977 ✍️ Substack: https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin Hosted by Lulu Johnson, founder of Dating in Berlin. #ModernLoneliness #DatingInBerlin #DatingPodcast #ModernDating #Friendship

How to actually get better at dating | Jamie Slate | S5: E7| Part 2

Do women actually like nice guys? Is there something to be said for friend-zoning women? And are we missing out on daily opportunities to meet people? This is part 2 of Lulu's chat with Dating Coach James Slate. They talk about why boring questions can kill attraction, how to flirt without cheesy pickup lines, the difference between day game and night game, and why James believes you should always aim for “better than boring. James also shares how facing his own fears around approaching people led to his dating meetups, coaching and Vibing — and why rejection doesn't necessarily mean failure. Follow James: 📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jamieslate.coach/?hl=en⚡️LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-slate?originalSubdomain=de 🎧 Listen to Dating, Laughter & Disasters 📱 Follow Dating in Berlin: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ 🌐 Events, podcast & more: https://datinginberlin.com/ 📖 Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships: https://www.amazon.de/dp/3000732977

Dating mistakes that kill attraction | James Slate | Dating Coach| S5:E6 PART 1

Fed up with being single?Awkward small talk making you want to disappear? Dating coach Jamie Slate says the secret to better connections might be learning how to be “better than boring.” In this episode of Dating, Laughter & Disasters, James shares with Lulu his playful conversation starters, tips for handling rejection without taking it personally, and the amazing story of how he met his wife at Burgermeister. Expect honest advice, hilarious dating stories, and a fresh take on finding confidence in real life. Follow James https://www.instagram.com/jamieslate.coach/ Keep up with Lulu's dating banter: Website https://www.datinginberlin.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2UxzWQsuvozSx3lVAZLKpD?si=c870bb0129894ddb&nd=1&dlsi=831b0778e12b4cd1 Have you got a dating disaster, awkward first-date story, or Berlin romance story to share? Send it in, and you could be featured in a future episode. mailto:hello@datinginberlin.com Subscribe, leave a comment, and tell us: what is the biggest dating red flag you ignored? #DatingInBerlin #DatingStories #DatingAfter30 #DatingDisasters #BerlinDating #ModernDating #SingleLife #Podcast

"I Need Romance in the Dark Rooms"- Book Daddy | S5: E6

Berlin’s sex and dating scene is a LOT. And if you’ve ever wondered what actually goes on behind the private parties, dark rooms, apps, and afterparties… this episode gets into it. I’m joined by Joss, aka Book Daddy, who has been living in Berlin since 2016 and has experienced plenty of the city’s more hedonistic corners. He now writes about queer dating, sex and nightlife from the inside — including his ongoing project The Broken Boys Club. We chat about why sex in Berlin can feel incredibly easy to find, while actual connection can feel weirdly difficult. We get into private parties, “DL” spaces, chemsex, afterparties, dating apps, sobriety, emotional availability, and the difference between having endless options and actually finding someone you want to build something with. And yes, there are some VERY Berlin stories along the way. In this episode, we talk about: ​Why Berlin is the easiest place in the world to find a hookup — but not necessarily a relationship ​What actually goes on at private parties and how the unspoken rules work ​“DL” spaces, chemsex and afterparties in Berlin’s queer nightlife ​How sobriety can completely change the way you date and connect ​The line between sex, intimacy and emotional availability ​How Joss became known as Book Daddy ​His writing and The Broken Boys Club ​What years of dating in Berlin have taught him about people, sex and relationships it’s funny, honest, occasionally chaotic and definitely not your average conversation about dating. Because maybe the problem with dating in Berlin isn’t that there aren’t enough people to meet. Maybe it’s that there are too many ways to connect without actually connecting. Follow Joss: Substack: https://bookdaddy.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/book.daddy.presents/ Broken boys Club: https://www.dancelawyer.com/publication/zixmt8mbuki2onrq1yrukobi11pmp6-nz3af Follow Lulu on: Substack ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin⁠⁠ Website ⁠https://datinginberlin.com/⁠ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@datinginberlin⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/⁠ Linkedin⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/lulu-johnson-245a3b317/⁠ If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so exhausting, why everyone seems either unavailable or complicated, or how comics turn disaster into material, this one is for you. Perfect for anyone living in Berlin, dating in Berlin, or just fascinated by the beautiful mess of it all.

The Dating Orange - "I wouldn't have swiped right on my fiancé" | S:5 E:4

After her first appearance on the show in 2024 and racking up 53 first dates, The Dating Orange is back to prove that love still exists, having met her fiancée in the most unconventional way! Lulu and Orange discuss dating-app burnout, the green flags to help you find love, and the difficulty of getting men to go to dating events, Follow Orange: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2rJ44yMH6rQaGDXHKmVzPb?si=6cZZurtETsqAhfQ4TG1aiw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedatingorange/ Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/7gUHgemE5MeumXucOdBXb3 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedatingorange Follow Lulu on: Substack ⁠https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin⁠ Website https://datinginberlin.com/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@datinginberlin Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ Linkedinhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/lulu-johnson-245a3b317/ If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so exhausting, why everyone seems either unavailable or complicated, or how comics turn disaster into material, this one is for you. Perfect for anyone living in Berlin, dating in Berlin, or just fascinated by the beautiful mess of it all.

Daniel Lukas is The Only Funny German, like.

German-born, Cork-based comedian Daniel Lucas — better known online as **The Only Funny German** — joins Lulu Johnson for a very Irish conversation about comedy, dating, culture and building a life abroad.Daniel talks about moving from Germany to Cork, why he ended up staying, and how random thoughts turned into viral comedy videos.We get into the differences between **German and Irish humour**, Cork accents, dating in a small city, Irish culture, and what it’s actually like trying to build a creative career somewhere new.If you like **dating disasters, Irish banter, cultural differences, comedy and stories about starting over in another country**, this one's for you.🎙️ **Follow Daniel / The Only Funny German:**[The Only Funny German] https://www.instagram.com/theonlyfunnygerman/🎧 **Listen to Dating, Laughter & Disasters:**[Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/[Dating in Berlin](https://datinginberlin.com/📩 **Share your own dating story:**[hello@datinginberlin.com](mailto:hello@datinginberlin.com)📱 **Follow Dating in Berlin:**[Instagram – @datinginberlin_ https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/[TikTok – Dating in Berlin](https://www.tiktok.com/@datinginberlin_

Tyrone Stallone: "Men Have to Work Harder to please women"| S:5 E:2

From pu$$y eating competitions at Kikat club to men having to work harder to please women sexually, the raw honesty in this ep will have you laughing out loud with Berlin's sharpest and wittiest comedian, Tyrone Stallone. Follow Tyrone:https://www.tyronestallone.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAcGRvZgJleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA85MzY2MTk3NDMzOTI0NTkAAae8RCH_yQkimFhP-AlxkbcqOjfnfrvr3-SrYYX-HE5LzJCDGxk8cYSmhvw9Gw_aem_ZmFrZWR1bW15MTZieXRlcw Subscribe for more dating disasters, listener stories, comedy, and honest conversations from Berlin and beyond. Follow Lulu: Substack: ⁠https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin⁠ Apple: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/dating-laughter-disasters/id1711177256⁠ Website: ⁠https://datinginberlin.com/⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@datinginberlin⁠ Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ Email: mailto:hello@datinginberlin.com Join the conversation. Have a dating disaster, awkward first-date story, or Berlin romance story to share? Send it in, and you could be featured in a future episode. Subscribe, leave a comment, and tell us: what is the biggest dating red flag you ignored?

"Your nose rings are actively repelling men!"- Season 5 is BACK! | S:5 E:1

Lulu Johnson and Ivy-Jo are back on the couch, and as usual, nothing is off-limits. Lulu opens up about going viral, laughing at troll comments about her nose rings, looks, age, and sex stories, and why the trolls are part of her success. This episode is for anyone who loves dating horror stories, Berlin chaos, brutally honest friendship banter, and laugh-out-loud oversharing that somehow still leaves you feeling seen. Subscribe for more dating disasters, listener stories, comedy, and honest conversations from Berlin and beyond. Follow Lulu: Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/2UxzWQsuvozSx3lVAZLKpD Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/dating-laughter-disasters/id1711177256 Website: https://datinginberlin.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luludatinginberlin Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lulu-johnson-245a3b317/ Substack: https://substack.com/@stilldatinginberlin Have a dating disaster, awkward first-date story, or Berlin romance story to share? Send it in, and you could be featured in a future episode. mailto:hello@datinginberlin.com Subscribe, leave a comment, and tell us: what is the biggest dating red flag you ignored?

Season 5 is coming back on 09.09 with a BANG!

Season 5 is coming back loud, funny, and a little bit feral. Catch me on YouTube at 10 am Sept 6th, and on all other podcast platforms at 6 am Sept 9th. Lulu Johnson returns with the story behind Dating, Laughter and Disasters - the book, the podcast, the live events, and the very personal reason she turned years of Berlin dating chaos into comedy that actually helps people. This podcast matters because it's about more than just dating. It's about reclaiming your story, building something of your own, and finding laughter in the middle of the mess. If you love candid storytelling, sharp honesty, and an Irish voice that never takes itself too seriously, this is an easy one to press play on. If you have ever wondered how to turn a messy love life into something useful, this one is for you. Lulu shares how an emotionally abusive relationship, years of hard-won self-awareness, and plenty of outrageous dating stories shaped her voice, her writing, and the show that now spans 130+ episodes. She also breaks down how the podcast grew into live shows, matchmaking events, and a wider creative life that includes writing, content, and a growing audience across Berlin and beyond. She talks honestly about loneliness, staying single on purpose, dating events, and why meeting people offline feels human again. Perfect for anyone navigating modern dating, starting over, or looking for a creator who can make the chaos feel a little more survivable. For more, follow Lulu on: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@datinginberlin Substack: ⁠https://stilldatinginberlin.substack.com/⁠ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/ TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@luludatinginberlin Website: https://www.datinginberlin.com/

Berlin Dating Weekender- Valentine's Day 2026

Level Up Your Love Life in Berlin! This Dating Event is designed to help you date better, smarter, and with more confidence. When: Valentine's Day, February 14, from 4-7 pm Where: Work.ish, Harzer Str. 39, 12059 Berlin Sign up now⁠ - limited tickets available! What to Expect: Expert Panel Discussions: Get the real talk from relationship coaches and dating gurus, Ari Cohen and Frau Kiss 'Date Better' Workshops: Hands-on sessions to boost your communication and connection skills. Meet Fellow Singles: Connect with like-minded people ready for meaningful relationships. Ready to unlock your dating potential? Sign up now - limited tickets available! The Weekender is the brainchild of Lulu Johnson (datinginberlin.com), acclaimed author of Dating in Berlin and host of the podcast Dating, Laughter & Disasters, and Annika (@overdated.berlin), founder of Overdated, the well-known dating event offering a new way to meet people in the modern dating era. Together, they’ve been redefining how singles meet — creating spaces that move beyond endless swipes, ghosting, and algorithmic love. Note: The event begins at 16:00 sharp; please arrive from 15:30. Follow Lulu Follow Annika Follow the Event on Instagram Our Dating Experts: Ari Cohen and Frau Kiss Thanks to our sponsors: ECKN Einhorn

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100th Episode LIVE from Podfest Berlin 2025

It happened.... 100 episodes in 106 weeks! Lulu rounds off her huge milestone with Ivy-Jo, and Matt LIVE from Podfest Berlin 2025! There's life catch-ups, Ivy's final diary entry, and PLENTY of laughter as we end the podcast on a laugh! Please like, share, subscribe, and rate the show on whatever platform you listen on :) The goal of Lulu’s podcast is to make you laugh while getting real about the struggles of modern dating — with the hope that we can all be a little more respectful and ethical along the way. Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

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Rebuilding Modern Romance: A Guide to Meaningful Matches with a former Matchmaker- LikeButter

Lulu sits down with Sasha — a former San Francisco matchmaker turned dating-scene innovator. Featured in Forbes and Business Insider, Sasha went from pairing singles to launching “LikeButter,” a standout offline dating event in Berlin. In this episode, we dive into the power of intentionality and why blending friendship with dating can spark deeper, more meaningful connections. Tune in for insightful stories, practical takeaways, and a refreshing new lens on finding love in Berlin. Check out Like Butter's next event Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ The goal of Lulu’s podcast is to make you laugh while getting real about the struggles of modern dating — with the hope that we can all be a little more respectful and ethical along the way.

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Live Show Dec 4th with Thursday Dating Events

Lulu is teaming up with Thursday Dating for a special night of matchmaking- based on personality! A social game meets personality matchmaking — live at Volksbar! Ever wondered if you’d “date or pass” based purely on someone’s personality? No swiping, no photos — just vibes, banter, and chemistry. Find out more at Get Thursday.com https://events.getthursday.com/event/thursday-personality-date-or-pass-irl-25-35-berlin/ Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

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Put in the Work if you Want to Heal- Crow Lady Coaching

You can't change the dating scene; you can only change yourself. Dating coach Elizabeth offers valuable insights into nervous system regulation and attachment theory, plus she also recommends writing your list of what you want in a partner! Get into coaching for your own sake, and self-reflect and take accountability for why you act the way you do. The goal of Lulu’s podcast is to make you laugh while getting real about the struggles of modern dating — with the hope that we can all be a little more respectful and ethical along the way. Find out more about Elizabeth's coaching at crowlady.com Follow on Instagram Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

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He was obsessed with me, then Ghosted me...

Lulu and Nikki are perplexed that some grown men still play games and find it so hard to be honest. The topic of celibacy also comes up as the girls discuss "fast food sex" and waiting it out for the "gourmet". The goal of Lulu’s podcast is to make you laugh while getting real about the struggles of modern dating — with the hope that we can all be a little more respectful and ethical along the way. Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

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Slut Shaming & Masterbation Shame: Generational Dating Differences

Red joins the show to share her stalker story, while Lulu has a lightbulb moment about why she’s always chased a long-term relationship. The episode also dives into the contrasts between Gen Z and Millennial dating — from slut-shaming to masturbation taboos — revealing just how much the dating game and the conversation around it have changed. Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠Website⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

Love Stories of Berlin: Tinder Husband, Tinder Baby!- Quickie Report #30

Ivy says 'ta-rah' as she heads off into motherhood, and the two besties spend the last episode of the 'Quickie Report' on positive love stories, so Lulu can be reminded that love can be found in Berlin. Follow Lulu for more relatable dating content: ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠

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Unlocking Healthy Masculinity: Ari J Cohen

Join Lulu and male dating coach Ari J. Cohen as they delve into the complexities of modern masculinity, dating, and relationships. Discover how embracing both masculine and feminine traits can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections. This episode challenges the toxic dating advice prevalent today and offers actionable insights for men seeking genuine relationships. Enjoying the podcast? Don't forget to rate it on whatever platform you listen on. Follow Ari on Instagram YouTube strengthinrelationshps.com Follow Lulu for more laughter and relatable dating stories ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠ Ari's book recommendations: How to be a 3% Man/Corey Wayne The Game/Neil Strauss Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus/ John Grey The Five Love Languages/ Gary Chapman Rethinking Sex/Christine Emba The Four Agreements/Don Miguel Ruiz Attached/ Amir Levine, Rachel Heller

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