COURAGEOUS PARENTING

Isaac & Angie Tolpin - becourageousministry.org

Biblical parenting doesn't happen by accident — and in today's culture, raising confident, courageous Christian children demands more intentionality than ever. Each week, Isaac & Angie Tolpin bring raw, unfiltered truth on the parenting topics most podcasts won't touch: self-control, obedience, discipleship, purity, pornography, technology, boundaries, relationships, and marriage teamwork. Whether you're navigating motherhood, fatherhood, or homeschooling, this is Scripture-grounded guidance for parents who refuse to raise passive faith. No compromise. No watered-down advice.

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March 10 · 48 min
False Teachers: How to Talk to Your Children
False teachers are dangerous but so is calling someone one who doesn’t fit the definition. We discuss what a false teacher is and isn’t. You will get specifics on what the red and yellow flags are in determining if someone is a false teacher. It’s vital to teach your children this so that when they're older they don’t get swept up in false doctrine. Get a list of scriptures you can teach your children and three things you can do to equip them to discern when someone is a false teacher. It’s a big charge against someone, so if it’s made, they better be right. But scripture does say to expose what’s evil and if someone truly is a false teacher, we do have a responsibility to expose it. A couple of our favorite companies that we use! REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: Redeemhealthshare.org CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family”
March 3 · 55 min
The Iran War: How to Talk to Your Children
What is the biblical perspective to share with your children about the Iran war? We answer this question and more to help you be the first to share with your children on this important topic. We are living through historical events biblical in proportion. You’ll want to be the ones who guide your children on how to look at them. This is a spiritual battle, therefore an opportunity to teach your children about the unseen battle that’s always happening around us. Make sure to hear the end as we give a final tip that’s vital anytime you are sharing hard things with your family. We must stir up hope in the future while also staying in reality about the world and what’s happening. In this way your children are being equipped to navigate and think biblically about what comes at them in the future. A couple of our favorite companies that we use! REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: Redeemhealthshare.org CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family”
February 24 · 49 min
How Knowing About the Nervous System Impacts Your Parenting
Have your kids struggled with anxiety, fear, impulsive behavior, anger, temper tantrums, digestive issues, restlessness at night, struggles sleeping, irritability, rage, sadness, fatigue, brain fog? The list could go on and on. Many of these issues COULD potentially be related to your child’s nervous system. Join Angie and a special guest, Dr. Rosie Main, who is a Dr of Chiropractic, Certified Functional Medicine Practitioner, and Certified Chiropractic of Neurology, as we discuss how God created our Nervous System, the importance of understanding how our bodies work and how subluxation can actually have a profound effect on our moods, our immune system, our ability to reason and so much more. What a riveting and fun discussion between Angie and Rosie as they discuss the importance of every family having and choosing a like-minded team for the care of their family which includes functional doctors, chiropractors, etc… and how to find Christian doctors that will be on your team and want to empower you and help you live a life that is thriving in Christ! We cover so many topics in this episode including how chiropractic adjustments for Mamas, babies, toddlers, children, and teens can be impactful in very practical ways. If you have ever wondered about a holistic approach to health as a parent, this is like a quick intro to ONE aspect of that, caring for your nervous system. A couple of our favorite companies that we use! REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: Redeemhealthshare.org CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family”
February 17 · 1 hr
Humbling Lessons Learned Parenting 9
A behind the scenes view into a large family of nine with ages four to twenty five who discuss their humbling journey parenting which is full of tips and encouragement. You will hear lively discussion on comparison challenges with other moms, lifestyle choice divisions, the challenge in finding good mentors, the lid to growing caused by pride, and why younger people aren’t learning from older people anymore. Isaac and Angie get really personal with their own struggles and what they’ve learned on their parenting journey so far. You can also subscribe to the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and of course right here on Youtube as well. Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
February 10 · 43 min
What Your Spouse WANTS on Valentines Day
Let valentines week be an opportunity to deeply grow your marriage. If you want a thriving marriage you have to be willing to do what most won’t. Go beyond the valentines day gift. We give you three things to do daily during the valentines day week that could change everything for your marriage. In fact these principles are so powerful and helpful that you should continue them onward too. Perhaps you have a struggling marriage, or a boring marriage, or maybe it’s going well, regardless your children need to see a thriving marriage. If you're in the struggle it probably took time to get there, which means it may take time to get it going in the direction you want. These three principles will help you get it there. You can also subscribe to the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and of course right here on Youtube as well. Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
February 3 · 53 min
The Hidden Habit That Will Cripple Your Legacy
Distractions have always been enemies of a thriving marriage and family, but the temptations today are far greater, and your children’s futures will be even harder with the future integration of AI into so many facets of life. The relationship you have with your phone will largely impact your relationships in life. It takes a great level of discipline to make sure your phone isn’t taking your eyes off the prize. The more social media captivates you, the more future challenges you are sowing in your family. Your undivided attention and influence are needed more than ever in your home. We share some great disciplines to infuse you can adopt, encouragement, and it may be an important episode to also share with your spouse to help you get aligned in this vital area. You can also subscribe to the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and of course right here on Youtube as well. Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
January 27 · 55 min
Choosing Hard in this time of Ease
Have you experienced discouragement in the progress of your family or change you would like to see in your family or marriage? Do you tend to struggle with thinking you can take on more? The current state of reality in Western Culture is one of ease in comparison to what will likely come and what we all experienced just five years ago in 2020. What we do now is important! We must be raising our children up and modeling for them what it looks like to choose to work hard now, to grow in learning new things now! Join Isaac and Angie as they discuss the importance of making hard choices, not choosing the easy path, and seeing that all our lives have incredible purpose for this time. If you are in a season of trial or suffering, be encouraged in the midst of hard circumstances to continue persevering! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
January 20 · 45 min
Why Your Kids Have Attitude Issues & 6 Things You can Do
You will learn six ways to improve the attitudes of your children in this Courageous Parenting episode. If you want more peace in your home, this episode will help. Children’s attitudes are reflective of deeper heart issues and there’s a lot you can do to help them. We also give you four helpful scriptures you can use as you help your children have stronger attitudes as well. If you want a different legacy and know you are doing everything you can to equip your children to be strong in unprecedented times, subscribe to the Courageous Parenting show here or wherever you listen to podcasts. New episodes come out every Tuesday. Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
January 13 · 52 min
Behind The Scenes with the Tolpin Boys: home life, peers, faith, fears
Get a fresh look inside our large family through the eyes of our 10 and 15 year old sons. Isaac has a candid conversation with Ethan and Solomon about what helps them listen to their parents, how impactful serving others has been, fears they are overcoming, challenges of peer influences, dinner conversations, why they are excited to be alive during these times and so much more. From Solomon’s tender responses to overcoming fear, to how Ethan is overcoming his fear of putting his voice out into the world, to why they like family bible time, and what propels Ethan to want to learn from his parents. You will see examples of what intentional biblical parenting can do to influence boys to grow into strong men of God. This is sure to encourage while giving practical insights you can start implementing right away. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
January 6 · 54 min
Instilling REAL FAITH Beyond Attending Church
Parents must take on the discipleship of their children in a more intentional way than previous generations. As AI ramps up over the next few years, soon it will be hard for people to decipher what’s real online. This also gives the enemy unprecedented tools to further his agenda of confusion amongst Christians. Isaac and Angie Tolpin give practical insights and their own personal stories in how to encourage strong faith in your children. For example; children must feel like an important part of the body of Christ, find ways to serve, and experience being used for God’s glory. Look for ways to serve God as a family team too. While their futures won’t be easier to stand firm in the faith, there’s a lot you can do while raising them so that they do! Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Dec 30, 2025 · 49 min
Overcoming Hangups to Creating Family Vision
If you’re a parent, vision is required, yet, why is it so hard to cultivate clarity and create change for most parents? Isaac and Angie Tolpin dive into the common roadblocks to creating family vision, give biblical insights, and help you focus on the most important areas that parents should do this. Change needs to start with God, but will you let Him use you to cause the change in your family? We give clarity on how to hear from the Lord on what’s needed for your family, how to discuss it in your marriage and when to move forward on a fresh or revitalized vision for what’s ahead. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Dec 23, 2025 · 43 min
CHRISTmas when your celebrating with unbelievers
What would your children say Christmas is all about if someone asked them? It’s so hard to prevent the commercialization of Christmas from confusing little minds away from Christ. What can make it even more challenging is when you feel the need to limit your traditions that focus on Christ while being with unbelieving family at Christmas. Get encouragement and insights in how to keep CHRIST the focus with your family regardless of who’s around you. It takes a concerted effort that often feels uncomfortable to cultivate a new legacy, but it’s worth it and it’s what God has called you to do. Merry Christmas everyone, let’s make much of Jesus to our families. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Dec 16, 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
Parenting In the Age of Division & Deception
Your children must learn from you how to navigate division, confusion, and deception in the world. For example, where are you landing with the Candace Owens and TPUSA conflict? What do you make of Kirk Cameron’s belief in Annihilationism? Is Mark Driscoll a false teacher? Should we trust our Government? Do you want your children, too? Isaac and Angie Tolpin discuss these things through a biblical lens from 2 Timothy. Additionally, they discuss two areas they see the enemy’s strategy is right now in leveraging technology for his destructive goals, and the dangers of Christian celebrities erring who aren’t part of a local church with a pastor willing to hold them accountable. They give huge encouragements and warnings from the bible as they journey through deep waters in this important episode.
Dec 9, 2025 · 51 min
Home Discipleship, Gender Roles, & Families Working Together
This is a rare discussion between two homeschool Dads, who both are intentional with home discipleship, have families working as a team for God’s glory, with strong legacies of faith, giving a powerful glimpse into what’s vital to get right. David Nunnery, the founder of Teach Them Diligently homeschool conferences, joins Isaac Tolpin to have a discussion on what truly matters in raising your family. They discuss their own experiences with home discipleship, biblical gender roles in marriage, doing huge projects as a family together, working as a team in marriage, and homeschooling too. This is an insightful episode for both men and women who want to work well together in their marriage to influence a faith-filled legacy. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Dec 2, 2025 · 46 min
Less Pressure & More Christ In Christmas
Do you want your children to fully grasp what Christmas is all about? How fruitful was the last Christmas season for your family? Too often for parents there’s a lot of pressure coming at them from different directions that hurts their ability to keep Christmas focused on Christ; for it to be a season rich in family discipleship. Angie shares the great number of pressures on moms and gets transparent on challenges she’s experienced and Isaac shares a few as well. In the second half of this episode they give three practical keys to experiencing less pressure and encouraging a greater focus on Christ during Christmas. A powerful episode to help both the husband and wife work as a team to recalibrate the Christmas season. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Nov 25, 2025 · 51 min
Understanding Mom Guilt & Overcoming It
Where does mom guilt come from, what could it be a sign of, and how do you have victory over it? These are all questions Angie answers who’s been a mom for twenty-five years with nine children. They discuss the difference between guilt/shame and conviction from the Holy Spirit, it’s important to understand the difference. Listen in on a spontaneous marriage conversation as Isaac coaches Angie to have a different perspective on an area she was feeling mom guilt. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Nov 18, 2025 · 46 min
Overcoming Disunity In Marriage About Discipline
One of the biggest challenges for Christian parents is failing to follow through in biblical discipline as they raise their children. Don’t let that be your family. There are many reasons why there’s a lack of alignment and follow through in this area, discussed in this episode. Isaac and Angie Tolpin also bring a needed perspective to Proverbs 22:6: “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it,” that will be an encouragement to all parents. You can’t save your children, and ultimately they will develop their own relationship with God or not, but there’s a lot you can do to disciple them, and an important part of discipleship can be discipline, if you understand how to reach their hearts, encourage them to repent, and point them to Jesus in the process. If you want the 10 steps to biblical discipline and so much more, join Isaac and Angie in the Parenting Mentor Program at courageousparenting.com. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Nov 11, 2025 · 1 hr
Husband Passivity & How Wives Can Help
There’s a Passivity Pandemic happening in men today when it comes to leading their families and discipling their children in the faith. While husbands are responsible, there’s a lot the wife can do to help, after all two become one flesh in marriage. You will also see a spontaneous inside look into Isaac and Angie’s marriage as they discuss these things in their own lives including the day this episode was shot. Isaac goes in depth on what keeps men passive and how to overcome it, they both talk about lies men and women believe, biblical roles, and end with an unprecedented time’s tip that’s a powerful charge to seriously consider who you are surrounding yourselves with. Listen to this, then listen again with your spouse and talk through it. One of the most powerful tools as mentioned in the episode is to go through the Parenting Mentor Program together at courageousparenting.com. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Nov 4, 2025 · 42 min
Parents MUST Keep Believing Change is Possible!
The change you desire for your family is largely dependent on your hunger to learn and grow. The more you grow, the healthier your family becomes. Why is that? Because it’s really hard to influence people to where you haven’t been. So what do you want changed in your family? The next question should be, “how do I need to grow to influence the change I desire?” You have so much more influence than you might realize, but we all need to keep learning and growing to cultivate a thriving family in these uncertain times. Your influence matters! This episode will encourage and motivate you to take your next steps. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/ REDEEM™ HealthShare from Samaritan Ministries: https://redeemhealthshare.org/
Oct 28, 2025 · 53 min
Navigating Halloween as Christian Parents
Should Christians celebrate Halloween? Should churches adapt something different on that day? How should Christian parents navigate halloween? These are all great questions and Isaac and Angie Tolpin take you to the scriptures in answering them with a compelling argument on why we shouldn’t participate in Halloween but instead see the opportunity to stand firm in the faith and look different than the world on that day. For your children to exercise the muscle of going against the grain with you while they are in your home even when Christians around you are doing things differently. There is a spiritual battle and the enemy wants to perpetuate spiritual confusion. The enemy rejoices in 65% or more of Christians celebrating halloween. Christians should be saying not me and my home!! But are there ways we can be evangelistic on October 31st? Absolutely and the Tolpins cover those as well. Be ready to be challenged and encouraged in this episode. Be sure to subscribe to the show to be notified every Tuesday of a new episode! Get the FREE Workshop with the Tolpins “Cultivating an Unshakable Family” Companies we love who sponsor the show: CTC Math https://ctcmath.com/

COURAGEOUS PARENTING

False Teachers: How to Talk to Your Children

The Iran War: How to Talk to Your Children

How Knowing About the Nervous System Impacts Your Parenting

Humbling Lessons Learned Parenting 9

What Your Spouse WANTS on Valentines Day

The Hidden Habit That Will Cripple Your Legacy

Choosing Hard in this time of Ease

Why Your Kids Have Attitude Issues & 6 Things You can Do

Behind The Scenes with the Tolpin Boys: home life, peers, faith, fears

Instilling REAL FAITH Beyond Attending Church

Overcoming Hangups to Creating Family Vision

CHRISTmas when your celebrating with unbelievers

Parenting In the Age of Division & Deception

Home Discipleship, Gender Roles, & Families Working Together

Less Pressure & More Christ In Christmas

Understanding Mom Guilt & Overcoming It

Overcoming Disunity In Marriage About Discipline

Husband Passivity & How Wives Can Help

Parents MUST Keep Believing Change is Possible!

Navigating Halloween as Christian Parents