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Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

Shawn Johnson + Andrew East

Former Olympic Gymnast Shawn Johnson and NFL player Andrew East sit down to share their most vulnerable sides and open up like they never have before. Tune in to hear one of the most celebrated couples on social media walk you through some of their most memorable moments together. Get ready to laugh and cry as you hear some of the most embarrassing and raw stories that have never before been shared.


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  • Wednesday · 50 min

    328 | My First Day as a Pro Gymnast

    We’re taking another trip down memory lane! This week, Shawn is looking back on what it was like turning pro at just 12 years old and sharing the stories, nerves, excitement, and little moments she still remembers from those early days in gymnastics. What story do you want to hear next?! Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew ➜ Shop SKIMS Cotton, and all of my favorite pieces, at [www.https://SKIMS.com] After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. ➜ Treat yourself to a childhood favorite. Go to [www.https://kachava.com] and use code EASTFAM for 15% off your first order. ➜ Find egglife wraps chillin’ in the fridge at Aldi, Whole Foods, Kroger, Target, Walmart & more. Visit [www.https://egglifefoods.com] to find a retailer near you. ➜ Get prepped for patio season for way less. Head to [www.https://wayfair.com] right now to shop all things home. (00:00) what it means to be a pro gymnast (05:40) making it to the elite level (09:00) receiving my first camp invitation (16:00) the path to the national team (24:10) my first day as a “pro” (26:44) my first assignment (33:27) quickly climbing the competition ranks (36:40) getting scouted by agents (40:11) “i already was very tired” — what does that mean? (45:00) the stress and joy of the journey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • September 3 · 48 min

    327 | our throwback series (ep. 1) the day i made the nfl

    Welcome to our newest nostalgic series — where we’re going back to the old days and telling the stories behind our careers, our relationship, our adventures, and all the little moments that made us who we are today. 🥹 For Episode 1, we’re starting with his NFL career — what life was really like back then, the highs, the lows, the behind-the-scenes moments, and the stories we haven’t really talked about until now.And this is just the beginning…As the series continues, we’ll take you back through our Olympic and gymnastics days, football stories, our first dates, the early days of our relationship, career milestones, and all the funny, crazy, unforgettable moments in between.Basically… we’re opening the memory box. 😂 So, let’s go back. 🤍 → www.https://kachava.com — Use code EASTFAM for 15% off your first order. → www.https://betterhelp.com/EASTFAM — Sign up and get 10% off. → www.https://dupe.com — Paste any product URL or upload a photo to find similar items for way less. → www.https://gominno.com — Start your FREE 7-day trial today. (00:00) going down “nostalgia lane” (07:20) the start of the nfl journey (12:40) when the free agency calls began (17:40) the timeline that led to kansas city (27:30) the first practice and what came next (31:30) the first time wearing a game-day jersey (37:00) finding a new passion (42:10) having each other through every chapter and the ripple effects that followed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 26 · 59 min

    326 | our marriage report card

    We’re putting our marriage to the test! This week, we’re giving each other a marriage report card and rating everything from communication and quality time to parenting, romance, and more.We’re sharing where we think we’re crushing it, where we could use a little work, and whether we actually agree on the scores. Nothing like finding out what grade your spouse gives your marriage in real time 😂 Would you ever give your marriage a report card? Try the exercise with your partner using the same questions we did ➡ https://shawnjohnson.com/marriagereportcard Then come back and tell us whether you agreed on your scores 😂 Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew ➡ Right now, listeners can get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at www.https://square.com/go/EASTFAM. ➡ Find egglife wraps chillin’ in the fridge at Aldi, Whole Foods, Kroger, Target, Walmart, and more. Visit www.https://egglifefoods.com to find a retailer near you. ➡ Ready to simplify your cleaning routine? Go to www.https://BranchBasics.com and use code EASTFAM for 15% off the Premium Starter Kit. ➡ Head to www.https://LolaBlankets.com and use code AUG50 at checkout to shop Lola’s biggest sale of the year before it’s gone. (00:00) transitions are hard (04:45) we like measuring everything: marriage report card categories (07:50) do we genuinely like being around each other? (12:35) something we used to do that we don’t anymore (14:55) how well do we feel understood by each other? (26:34) do arguments become personal? (30:10) everyday physical and verbal affection (35:18) how satisfied are you with our intimate relationship? (37:30) how well do we operate as a parenting team? (41:25) how aligned are we financially? (45:35) how well do we share the workload of life? (49:55) how aligned are we on the life we want? (53:58) how fun is our marriage right now? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 20 · 53 min

    325 | how to know when it's time to break up?

    Breakups don’t always have to end with burned bridges, bad blood, and an ex becoming the villain of the story. In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to end relationships with grace, how we talk about our exes after the fact, what we’ve learned from relationships that didn’t work out, and whether it’s actually possible to walk away while still respecting what you once had. We’re getting honest about heartbreak, boundaries, forgiveness, and why the way you end a relationship can matter just as much as how you started it. Love you guys! ⮕ Find egglife wraps chillin’ in the fridge at Aldi, Whole Foods, Kroger, Target, Walmart, and more. Visit www.https://egglifefoods.com to find a retailer near you. ⮕ Go to www.https://davidprotein.com/EASTFAM. Buy four cartons and get the fifth free. ⮕ Upgrade to luggage that looks better, lasts longer, and travels smarter. Head to www.https://NOBLTravel.com for up to 46% off your entire order. ⮕ Ready to simplify your cleaning routine? Go to www.https://BranchBasics.com and use code EASTFAM for 15% off the Premium Starter Kit. (00:00) encouraging flexibility in the east family (02:35) ending relationships well (08:15) andrew’s first breakup (18:00) shawn’s first breakup (25:00) appreciating past relationships (30:50) having a black-and-white ending (35:20) “i thought i was going to marry her” (41:25) if you break up, it’s over for good (44:10) is timing bs? (46:25) thoughts on ending relationships well Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 14 · 48 min

    324 | The Marital Challenges We Weren’t Ready For

    In this episode, we have an honest conversation about some of the parts of marriage we weren’t prepared for. The things that have challenged us, the ways we’ve had to grow individually and together, and the lessons we’re still learning along the way. We love our marriage, but that doesn’t mean every season has been easy- and there are definitely things we understand now that we couldn’t have understood when we first got married. This is a vulnerable one about expectations, communication, conflict, changing as people, and what it actually looks like to keep choosing each other through it all. Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew ➡ Shop Everyday Cotton and all of Shawn’s favorite bras and underwear at www.https://SKIMS.com. After you place your order, let them know we sent you. Select “podcast” in the survey, then choose “Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew” from the dropdown. ➡ For a limited time, Home Chef is offering our listeners 50% off and free shipping on your first box, plus free dessert for life. Go to www.https://HomeChef.com/EASTFAM. ➡ Find egglife wraps chillin’ in the fridge at Aldi, Whole Foods, Kroger, Target, Walmart, and more. Visit www.https://egglifefoods.com to find a retailer near you. ➡ If you want something your kids will love and you’ll feel good about, head to www.https://GoMinno.com and start your free seven-day trial today. (00:00) a summer to remember (02:10) a new friend who opened our eyes (04:10) going back to the beginning of our marriage (09:40) a shift in perspective (15:45) communication gaps (20:40) team tone vs. team words (24:10) navigating extended family dynamics (31:40) financial pressures (35:35) balancing career aspirations (38:48) it’s different being married to a “mom” (44:35) marriage is for the long haul Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 13 · 49 min

    Olympic Couples Talk Love, Marriage & Competition | Chock & Bates

    We sat down with Olympic ice dancers Madison Chock and Evan Bates to talk about what it takes to compete at the highest level alongside the person you love. From becoming partners on the ice to falling in love, getting married, and continuing to chase huge goals together, Madison and Evan share what their journey has really looked like behind the scenes. We talk Olympic pressure, marriage, trust, competing as a couple, and what keeps them coming back after all these years. As athletes ourselves, we loved getting to compare experiences and hear what it’s like when your teammate also happens to be your spouse. This was such a fun one. Enjoy! (00:00) we have a couple crush (01:30) what’s your dynamic as a couple? (03:20) navigating the rough times & going home (05:30) life post-olympics (07:06) the community around chock & bates (09:00) who is more likely to be…? (18:45) confidence on the ice (21:00) feelings are moldable (23:44) the subjectivity of our sports (27:40) the mixed zone & kiss and cry cameras (32:15) quantitative vs. qualitative “success data” (34:27) the journaling process (39:35) the art of designing costumes (43:15) our shared love of sports & vacations (45:13) the post-olympics blues (47:18) what’s next for chock & bates? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 2 · 47 min

    322 | Failing Fantastically: The Skill Nobody Teaches You

    This episode we talked about one of the most important life skills that nobody really teaches us: how to fail well. We shared why failure isn't something to fear, but something to embrace, and how our biggest setbacks often become the moments that shape us the most. However... one show DOES teach us this and that's Gabbys Dollhouse! During a segment of this episode we had the pleasure of sitting down with the star of Gabbys Dollhouse, Laila Lockhart Kraner, to talk about a puppy-riffic addition coming to the Dollhouse. Watch Gabby and her little sister Doozie, played by Celestina Harris, in their first adventure together in an all-new season of #GabbysDollhouse, debuting September 14 only on Netflix! Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew Ka'Chava → Take your daily ritual with you. Get 15% off your first order with code EASTFAM at https://www.kachava.com Lola Blankets → For a limited time, get 40% off select products with code EASTFAM at https://www.lolablankets.com Minno → If you want something your kids will love and you'll feel good about, start your free 7-day trial at https://www.gominno.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 29 · 22 min

    321 | interviewing our five year old son

    A birthday letter to my son, Jett, on his fifth birthday. We've been reflecting on a year full of milestones- motorcycle rides, first football games, funny one-liners, and sweet moments of growing curiosity and faith. Then, stick around for the cutest birthday interview, where Jett answers questions about his favorite things, our family, and all his big dreams for the future. Love, Dad book ▶ https://thecouragetocommit.com/ newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter podcast instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ shawn's instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson shawn's tik tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast andrew’s tik tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en (00:00) a letter to jett (12:30) an interview with jett (13:00) what it feels like to be five (14:00) why do we have birthday parties? (14:30) all about jett james east (16:50) jett's favorite things (18:50) what we're most excited about at five (20:44) wishing big adventures for jett Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 22 · 1 hr 5 min

    320 | the guy who knows us too well

    What's up, everybody! Welcome back to Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew! This episode is extra special — we're sharing our live conversation from the book tour with Jimmy Soni the incredible ghostwriter and third author behind our new book on commitment. Jimmy has spent 15 years writing biographies and bestsellers — from Cato the Younger, to "The Founders" (the origin story of PayPal), to his upcoming book on Kobe Bryant. We talk about how our three very different writing styles collided (and somehow worked), the hardest parts of spending three years turning our lives into a book, and the surprising story behind our chapter on love. We also open it up to a live Q&A covering: Raising kids in youth sports without burning them out What sports really teach you about life and teamwork Advice for newlyweds and long-distance relationships Navigating modern dating outside the apps How parenting has changed (and challenged) who we are Prioritizing marriage, family values, and friendship Grab our book and follow along as we open up more than ever about commitment, marriage, parenting, and everything in between! - https://amzn.to/4vWeLWy ◼️ Right now, listeners can get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/EASTFAM. 🧳 Head to NOBLTravel.com for up to 46% off your entire order. 👚 Shop Everyday Cotton, and all of Shawn's favorite bras and underwear, at SKIMS.com. 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every week! (00:00) revealing who we really are (01:40) jimmy's background and his "why" (06:00) how the book idea led us to jimmy (10:00) emotions vs. data (12:11) the hardest part of working with us (15:30) writing a love letter to ourselves (20:00) the different voices in the book (21:40) how kobe bryant and galileo shaped jimmy's journey (27:47) how to "produce success" (31:30) the paradoxes of commitment (32:50) productive struggle vs. harmful commitment (36:12) lessons from sports that apply to everyday life (41:25) advice for newlyweds (44:10) product testing our relationship advice (46:52) dating advice (49:05) softening as parents and navigating our different intensities (55:45) best friend or rival? (57:08) what we learned while writing the book (59:44) finding balance in friendships and relationships #CoupleThings #ShawnJohnson #AndrewEast #BookTour #Commitment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 15 · 33 min

    319 | are we getting bored of each other? | marriage ruts

    Does every relationship eventually hit a rut? Is it normal to get bored, feel disconnected, or just settle into routine? In this episode, we're talking honestly about the seasons every relationship goes through- why they happen, how to recognize them, and what has helped us stay connected through the "funks." Whether you've been married for a few months or a few decades, we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone. A huge thank you to our sponsors! 🧼 Branch Basics: Get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit at www.https://BranchBasics.com with code EASTFAM. After you purchase, when they ask where you heard about them, be sure to mention Couple Things! 🧻 Goodwipes: Give your booty a Scentsational Summer! Buy any two packs of Goodwipes at your favorite retailer, text them your receipt, and you'll be reimbursed almost immediately for one of them. For all the details, head to www.https://goodwipes.com/EASTFAM to snag a free pack of Goodwipes. (00:00) the fear of your spouse getting bored of you (03:30) marriage isn't always a rom-com (05:00) what "boredom" means to different people (07:45) a funk vs. true boredom (15:30) accepting what won't change vs. choosing to grow (20:20) life isn't boring, but seasons can affect engagement (28:40) building trust through seasons of “boredom” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 9 · 1 hr 1 min

    The Truth About Faith, Loss, Music & Purpose | Granger & Amber Smith

    Amber and Granger Smith join us for one of the most honest conversations we've ever had. We talk about Granger's journey from country music to ministry, Amber's perspective through every season, the heartbreaking loss they've openly shared with the world, and how their faith has shaped the way they continue moving forward. We also dive into: • Granger's transitioning from the stage to serving as a pastor • Marriage through life's biggest challenges • Raising a family in the public eye • What grief has taught them about hope • Their latest podcast and the conversations they're passionate about • Advice for anyone walking through hardship Whether you've followed Granger's music for years or recently discovered their ministry and podcast, this conversation offers encouragement, wisdom, and an honest look at finding purpose through every season of life. If this episode encouraged you, be sure to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could use a little hope today. https://arisewithamber.com/pages/our-family-story https://www.instagram.com/amberemilysmith/?hl=en https://open.spotify.com/episode/2yZ813twuMVn02b6pNalpQ https://www.instagram.com/grangersmith/?hl=en (00:00) from country music to pastor (01:20) amber and granger's story (04:43) why ministry? (09:40) why putting it on paper became beautiful (11:30) the story behind the book (14:50) is grief good? how it can build you (25:22) why we believed in sharing our story (30:58) navigating grief with kids (36:25) our best season yet (39:00) the journey through seminary (40:16) the teenage years (41:30) habits and routines that have helped the smith family (45:40) a word of hope (48:55) why reviving the soul matters (52:52) thoughts on self-help culture (55:58) temporary vs. everlasting purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 8 · 44 min

    318 | What If Your Spouse Never Changes?

    Most arguments don't start with the words we say- they start with the meaning we attach to what happened. In this episode, we dive into the stories we create in our minds, the assumptions we make about each other's intentions, and how those stories can shape the way we see reality. Sometimes our minds are protecting us from something that isn't true… and sometimes they're pointing out something that genuinely needs to change. We have an honest conversation about marriage, conflict, expectations, and the moments when we have to ask ourselves: "Am I seeing the situation clearly, or am I reacting to the story I've created?" We talk about why two people can experience the same moment completely differently, how to separate assumptions from truth, and what it looks like to take responsibility while still holding each other accountable. Because growth isn't just about changing ourselves or changing our partner—it's about learning when to challenge the story in our head, and when to listen to what it's trying to tell us. Let us know what you think about this one! We love you guys! Shawn & Andrew Take your daily ritual with you. Go to https://kachava.com and use code EASTFAM for 15% off your first order. (00:00) fourth of july (01:18) how we interpret reality (04:25) the moment that sparked this passion (07:04) forgetting because you don't care vs. forgetting because you're overwhelmed (15:27) reframing the "good" and "bad" seasons of marriage (20:00) "your spouse is late..." (32:25) the math problem in marriage (34:17) romanticizing the past (35:26) the power of "and" (36:35) how our marriage has grown (37:30) choosing generous reactions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 1 · 43 min

    317 | Answering Your Unanswered Questions

    In this episode, we're answering your unanswered questions from tour. Thanks to everyone who sent in questions- we had a blast recording this one! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave your questions for the next Q&A episode :) Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew https://thecouragetocommit.com/ Sign up and get 10% off at https://betterhelp.com/EASTFAM. If it takes research to buy it, let Dupe do it for you. Stop wasting time comparing options. Just go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you're looking to buy. (00:00) welcome to the new studio (01:30) the ultimate coca-cola story (06:50) it's about to get crazier as a parent (16:40) building community as a family (20:00) shawn's dad racing anything with wheels (22:10) thoughts on the la olympics (23:36) de-escalating my investment in my passions (25:45) how faith changed my perspective (28:30) courage and commitment in 2008 (30:10) working incredibly hard but never excelling (33:50) building awareness of your gifts (36:25) motivating each other through a slump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 25 · 57 min

    Thomas Rhett Gets Candid About Success, Fatherhood & Legacy

    This week we're joined by our friend and one of country music's biggest stars, Thomas Rhett We dive into his journey from growing up around music to becoming one of the most successful artists in country music. Thomas shares stories from his early days as a songwriter, the moments that changed his career, and what life was really like during his rise to fame. We also talk about his marriage to Lauren, raising five daughters, balancing family life with life on the road, and the values that keep him grounded through it all. Plus, Thomas opens up about what he wants the next chapter of his life and career to look like. We also discuss his upcoming Soundtrack to Life Tour and what's ahead musically, including his latest releases and the deluxe version of About A Woman. He's also hinted that a new album is in the works and could be his favorite project yet! Follow Thomas: Instagram: @thomasrhettakins TikTok: @thomasrhettakins Facebook: Thomas Rhett Official Website & Tour Dates: https://ThomasRhett.com (00:00) pinch me moment: interview with thomas rhett (02:20) thomas on being new to podcasting (03:40) the power of counseling (08:10) parenting (10:35) what does thomas want to be known for? (17:00) how thomas's perspective on life purpose changed over time (21:05) balancing the public eye (26:50) how to teach "relevancy" (33:46) passions vs. professions (36:42) will a new identity fix it all? (41:50) how to navigate a "second chapter" (45:20) you can't crush simplicity (48:18) thomas's thoughts on biohacking (50:00) what words do you think of when you hear "god"? (52:49) thomas's tour (55:40) the tennessee volunteer in thomas's heart Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 24 · 37 min

    316 | The End of One Chapter, The Beginning of Another

    In this episode, we unpack what it actually feels like to hit the New York Times bookseller list- the surreal high, the crushing pressure, and the most stressful stretch of our lives. What looked like success on the outside came with chaos on the inside. Was this the end of a chapter… or the beginning of something entirely new? OUR BOOK IS AVAILABLE NOW! https://thecouragetocommit.com/ Branch Basics! If you want to try the Premium Starter Kit, you can get 15% off at https://BranchBasics.com with our code EASTFAM. Goodwipes! Head to https://goodwipes.com/EASTFAM to snag your free pack of Goodwipes. Lola Blankets! For a limited time, our listeners can get 40% OFF select Lola Blankets products with code EASTFAM at checkout. Just head to https://LolaBlankets.com and use code EASTFAM. We love you guys! Shawn & Andrew (00:00) the past six months (03:00) the unique stress we experienced (08:00) getting my phd for the book (15:10) what we learned about ourselves (18:30) our book tour (21:10) can a big project or goal mess with family values? (25:00) preserving a clear mind is so powerful (27:35) the call in central park (33:50) thank you for being part of this journey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 22 · 56 min

    Our Story, Our Faith, Our New Book | Steven & Mary Beth Chapman

    OUR BOOK IS FINALLY HERE! https://thecouragetocommit.com/ This week, we're honored to sit down with legendary Christian artist Steven Curtis Chapman and his wife Mary Beth Chapman for the second time on this podcast! Together, they share the remarkable story of their marriage, family, faith, and the experiences that shaped their lives. We talk about the challenges they've faced, the lessons they've learned through loss and heartbreak, and the hope that has carried them forward. We also dive into their newest book and the stories they felt compelled to share for the first time. This is an honest, inspiring conversation about resilience, faith, family, and what it takes to keep moving forward when life doesn't go as planned. find more about Steven & Mary Beth here! https://showhope.org/about-us/founders-story/?ads_cmpid=23390702105&ads_adid=&ads_matchtype=&ads_network=x&ads_creative=&utm_term=&ads_targetid=&utm_campaign=&utm_source=adwords&utm_medium=ppc&ttv=2&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23395102279&gbraid=0AAAAADtVAwWvP3iq39NVK0lBsxFuu395O&gclid=Cj0KCQjwrs7RBhDuARIsAIVfBD3KAQMjTBmk4m-0IfIpK3ruAt43XkuxXN1xtyvog7tRcXSeSs4PeocaApj4EALw_wcB (00:00) our hearts for the chapmans (04:00) opryland: where it all began (07:30) how our book came to be (16:50) even though it's messy, it's so beautiful (24:40) self-care vs. sacrificial love (28:30) "you did it... what's the secret?" (33:50) the power of counseling (and sticking with it) (40:30) how adoption changed our lives (49:13) forgiveness and choosing to stay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 12 · 1 hr 13 min

    315 | We Did LIVE Couples Therapy In Front of a Crowd (with Dr. John Delony)

    After the incredible response to Dr. Delony's first appearance, we invited him back for a live event with our community. Enjoy a live counseling session with Dr.Delony at our show! If you haven't grabbed your copy yet, The Courage to Commit is officially available wherever books are sold or at the link below. https://thecouragetocommit.com/ Shop Everyday Cotton, and all of my favorite bras and underwear, at https://SKIMS.com. Go to https://kachava.com and use code EASTFAM for 15% off your first order. If you’re thinking about adding a sports court or upgrading your outdoor space, head to https://americasportsconstruction.com to get started, check them out on Instagram @americasportsconstruction. (00:00:00) a live audience podcast! (00:00:46) welcome dr. john delony (00:02:50) when is a good thing too much? (00:08:00) "you have to go find yourself!" (00:12:11) "but that meant so much to me" (00:21:26) it's not your fault, but it is your problem as a spouse (00:26:30) why are people afraid of commitment? (00:31:31) checking in on what we are valuing as a unit (00:39:35) what even is commitment? (00:42:34) how to encourage productive struggle (00:50:50) dying to yourself daily (00:54:45) how do you know when to walk away when shame is winning? (00:58:00) balancing personal and business life (01:03:07) hospitality toward my spouse (01:06:07) creating security and boundaries in our marriage (01:10:30) engagement hurdles Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 5 · 40 min

    314 | Therapy Lessons That Changed Our Lives

    PRE-ORDER OUR BOOK HERE AND COME MEET US ON TOUR!! https://thecouragetocommit.com/ In this episode, we're sharing some of the secrets, fears, and experiences we've never talked about publicly before. We dive into the therapy lessons that genuinely changed our lives, family, and marriage, from understanding shame and anxiety to improving relationships, setting boundaries, and learning how to show up more authentically. Whether you're in therapy, considering it, or just trying to navigate life a little better, this conversation is full of honest reflections and practical takeaways. ➡ Treat yourself to the flavor and nutrition your body craves. Go to https://kachava.com and use code EASTFAM for 15% off your first order. ➡ Sign up and get 10% off at https://BetterHelp.com/EASTFAM. ➡ Be prepared to save yourself a ton of time and money — just go to https://DUPE.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy. (00:00) it's been a wild book release (02:55) therapy lessons that changed our lives (05:20) the different operating systems in a marriage (06:48) enchanted by the differences (11:25) your spouse sees what you have blinders to (13:15) learning each other's languages (14:50) time can worsen wounds (16:40) practicing forgiveness (18:40) defining enough (20:10) is this honoring my spouse? (21:21) never speaking poorly about your spouse (22:22) the human heart isn't made for fame (24:00) never use the "d" word (26:30) never use the word "favorite" (27:00) the power of bids (30:00) making a monster out of small issues (32:32) no blanket statements (34:30) your acceptable window is different than others Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • June 4 · 57 min

    Why You're Still Anxious (Even When Life Is Going Well) | Dr. Curt Thompson

    Come meet us on tour & pre-order our book here! https://thecouragetocommit.com/ Psychiatrist, author, and speaker Curt Thompson joins us for a powerful conversation about anxiety, shame, healing, relationships, and what it means to be truly known. Drawing from neuroscience, attachment theory, and decades of clinical experience, Curt explains why so many people feel disconnected, why shame is often hiding beneath our struggles, and how real transformation happens through connection- not isolation. We also discuss suffering, hope, mental health, community, and the stories we tell ourselves. Whether you're navigating anxiety, feeling stuck, working through past wounds, or simply trying to build deeper relationships, this conversation offers practical wisdom and hope. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did! Find out more about Dr. Curt Thompson here! https://curtthompsonmd.com/ https://www.instagram.com/curtthompsonmd/?hl=en Love you guys, Shawn & Andrew (00:00) meet dr. curt thompson (01:14) should hard work be a part of it? (05:19) why is there pain or discomfort? (08:13) cancel culture and how the internet fuels it (17:40) how do we respond to shame, wield it, and use it? (25:44) not avoiding or doubling down on shame (30:14) fostering shame well (38:38) healing past shame (50:15) the power of our presence and making sense of our stories Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • May 28 · 58 min

    Cooper Alan & Hally: High School Sweethearts to Parenthood

    We absolutely loved this conversation with country artist Cooper Alan and his wife Hally who joined us to talk about their relationship journey — from meeting long before the fame to navigating marriage, touring, and becoming parents to their newborn daughter, Coley. We get into how their relationship has changed through Cooper’s rise in country music, what life on the road really looks like, balancing family with touring, upcoming music and shows, and the moments that shaped them most along the way. This episode is full of stories about love, growth, family, faith, country music, and building a life together through every season & we hope you love it as much as we did!! You can find out more about Cooper Alan here! ➜ https://cooperalanmusic.com/ Follow Cooper here ➜ https://www.instagram.com/cooperalanmusic/?hl=en Follow Hally here ➜ https://www.instagram.com/hallywcooper/?hl=en Don't forget to find us on tour & pre-order our book today!! ➜ https://thecouragetocommit.com/ (00:00) meet the alans (01:08) parenting a girl 🥹 (03:25) how the alans became the alans (05:50) best friends to marriage (08:20) selling beer and writing songs (12:20) superpower teammates in the world (15:00) it's the dream, keep chugging along (17:15) what breeds confidence and passion? (20:20) anxiety during the journey (22:44) the alans' past year (26:50) ebbing and flowing in marriage (30:22) the proposal (31:20) separating real life from social media (35:50) taking the leap and the creative process (38:25) defining success (41:00) being promoted to dad (42:20) balancing the "more" (46:50) the empaths in the room (48:00) what we want to be remembered for (54:40) what's coming up for cooper Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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