Conversations with a Dom

E50: Navigating Solo Play Parties, Finding Real Dominants, and Mental Health in BDSM (Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered, Part 3)

Chief and Moineau are back, answering your burning BDSM questions submitted via KinkyEvents.co.uk. Whether you're a solo submissive wondering how to start your journey, or struggling to find a dominant who’s more than just talk, they’ve got you covered. They provide candid advice on tackling BDSM as a solo submissive, ways to find a true dominant partner, overcoming challenges in kinky relationships, and dealing with anxieties and insecurities within the dynamic. Additionally, they discuss practical tips for integrating D/s dynamics discreetly in everyday life, handling dominance outside the bedroom, dealing with emotional drops after events, and the importance of clear communication in kinky relationships. Tune in for an engaging and insightful conversation filled with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and a touch of humor. 00:00 Introduction 01:02 Navigating Play Parties as a Solo Submissive Female 05:19 Listener's Personal Journey into BDSM 06:29 Challenges and Insecurities in Sexual Dynamics 14:49 Exploring Kink and Self-Acceptance 23:50 Advice for New Dominants 33:58 Overcoming Fear and Mistakes in Knot Tying 35:00 Navigating a Daddy-Sub Dynamic 39:28 Finding a Genuine Dominant Partner 46:04 Dealing with Event Drop and Polyamory Challenges 52:17 Expressing Desires for Mental Domination 54:30 Exploring Dirty Talk and Overcoming Nerves 58:40 Balancing Kink and Long-Term Relationships 01:11:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E49: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 2) - Swinger Clubs, Doms Without Labels, and BDSM without Pain

Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions! Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn? Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E48: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 1) – Pegging, Watersports, Introducing Kinks, and More...

Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice. Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They’ve got you covered. Expect candid discussions on pegging, face slapping, balancing desires in a D/s dynamic, and how to keep that dominant spark alive. With plenty of laughs, real talk, and insightful tips, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you deepen your BDSM relationships and own your kink with confidence. 00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:35 Chocolate and aphrodisiacs 02:16 Funny anecdotes and misunderstandings 03:19 First listener question: dominance during oral 05:53 Pros and cons of DS relationships 08:59 Losing dominance drive 12:32 Bringing up kinks with a new partner 14:10 Dealing with extreme kinks 23:45 Feeling like a fraud as a dom 30:07 Developing dominant skills 37:37 Navigating dominance and submission dynamics 38:09 Compromise and communication in kink 39:07 The rubber band analogy 39:49 Recommended reading: with sprinkles on top 40:50 Balancing desires in DS relationships 42:01 Exploring impact play and resistance 44:01 Discussing face slapping and personal limits 54:54 Spontaneity in BDSM 59:02 Finding time for DS scenes 01:09:07 Preparing for pegging Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E47: A BDSM Couple Try Two Kinky Communication Exercises (With Sprinkles on Top book)

Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners. We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships. We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language. If you're a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner then this podcast is for you! Resources: Stephanie Goerlich's website: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com The PDF of exercises: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/negotiationwkshts.html Our website: https://kinkyevents.co.uk Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:58 Kinky Statistics 02:28 Introducing the Book: With Sprinkles on Top 04:39 Exploring Kink and Communication 06:50 Personal Kink Experiences and Fantasies 10:01 Discussing Threesomes and Boundaries 24:06 Fantasy Worksheet Exercise 33:42 Exploring Desires and Fantasies 34:19 Power Dynamics and Control 35:24 Communication and Connection 37:05 Erotic Vocabulary Exercise Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E46: 30 Surprisingly Simple Exercises to Supercharge Communication and Transform Your Sex Life!

Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones. Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising the flexibility of the exercises to suit individual dynamics. The episode encourages couples to actively practice these exercises to foster trust, empathy, and a more satisfying relationship. 00:00 Introduction to 30 Communication Exercises 00:30 Why Communication Matters in D/s Relationships 01:28 How to Approach These Exercises 02:03 Week 1: Foundation of Communication 02:08 Day 1: Joint Journaling 02:28 Day 2: Desire Mapping 03:22 Day 3: Create Safe Words 03:44 Day 4: Daily Check-Ins 04:02 Day 5: Feedback Session 04:40 Day 6: Communication Games 06:11 Day 7: Weekly Reflection 06:30 Week 2: Exploration and Education 06:50 Day 8: Research Assignment 07:19 Day 9: Sensation Play Experiment 08:06 Day 10: Role Reversal 08:29 Day 11: Boundary Testing 09:35 Day 12: Kink Workshop or Webinar 10:38 Day 13: Fantasy Sharing 11:12 Day 14: Weekly Reflection 11:40 Week 3: Deepening Trust and Connection 11:47 Day 15: Trust Exercises 12:08 Day 16: Gratitude Lists 12:24 Day 17: Surprise Day 12:43 Day 18: Vulnerability Night 13:10 Day 19: D/s Day Out 13:46 Day 20: Aftercare Focus 14:06 Day 21: Weekly Reflection 14:41 Week 4: Integration and Future Planning 14:48 Day 22: Dynamic Goal Setting 15:18 Day 23: Contract Review/Creation 15:58 Day 24: Creative Play 16:31 Day 25: Self Care Day 16:47 Day 26: Community Engagement 17:15 Day 27: Legacy Letter 17:45 Day 28: Celebration Session 18:27 Day 29-30: Reflection and Relaxation 18:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E45: Relaxed Intimacy: Sexting, Massage, Teasing, and Edging - Oh My!

Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS relationship. The conversation covers themes of edging, teasing, and the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs. They also highlight the roles of communication and consent in their dynamic, delving into a detailed recount of a night filled with massages, dirty talk, and slow, anticipatory teasing, culminating in deep emotional and physical connection. 00:00 Introduction and Naughty Sexting 01:51 Dreams and Desires 04:56 Consent and Boundaries 07:25 Anticipation and Preparation 16:36 Unexpected Massage 25:07 Teasing and Restraints 30:39 Building Anticipation: The Art of Teasing 31:19 Exploring Sensitivity: Techniques and Reactions 33:30 Roleplay Dynamics: Daddy's Not Supposed to Touch 34:09 Graphic Details: Fingering and Feedback 35:58 The Fantasy and the Reality: Toys and Tools 36:54 Psychological Elements in BDSM 39:17 The Importance of Relaxation and Comfort 43:23 Edging and Penetration: The Balancing Act 46:21 The Climax: Achieving Multiple Orgasms 51:55 Aftercare and Reflection 52:27 Final Thoughts and Resources Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E44: Sex Menu Walk-Through (Have Our Tastes Changed!?)

Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to more fulfilling experiences. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E43: Finding BDSM Events and Making Friends

Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM. They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community. Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode packs everything you need to broaden your kinky social circle and step up your BDSM game, served with a side of cheeky humour and warmth. [00:01:16] Finding BDSM Events: The hosts discuss starting with FetLife and the significance of attending munches to meet the community. [00:03:03] Challenges for Women on FetLife: Moineau shares her experiences with the platform, highlighting the importance of safety and privacy. [00:04:11] Utilizing FetLife for Events, Not Dating: Chief elaborates on how FetLife serves best for finding events rather than forming personal connections. [00:09:30] Word of Mouth: Emphasizing the value of personal recommendations in discovering events and making kinky friends. [00:10:06] Collaborative Events: The hosts discuss how event newsletters from groups like Fox Den can introduce attendees to broader networks. [00:14:00] Finding BDSM-friendly Events on Vanilla Platforms: Suggestions for locating events with a BDSM twist on sites like Eventbrite. [00:16:48] Gender Dynamics at Munches: An observation on the male-dominated attendance and strategies for women to find more inclusive spaces. [00:18:00] Alternative Social Gatherings: Exploring book clubs and erotic poetry readings as unconventional avenues to meet kinky individuals. [00:22:31] Sex-positive Charities as Networking Hubs: Highlighting the role of charities in connecting people with the BDSM community. [00:24:11] Different Types of BDSM Events: Distinguishing between social, educational, and play-focused events to align with personal interests. [00:26:53] The Challenge of Finding the Right Events: Acknowledging the effort required to find fitting BDSM events and the rewarding nature of successful conne Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship

Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy. Join us for an enlightening discussion that demystifies the transition into a D/s lifestyle, offering insights and encouragement for those curious about the path of sexual exploration and deepened partnership. Key Points & Timestamps: [00:00:26] Liz discusses beginning their D/s journey and overcoming challenges related to depression and medication. [00:03:21] Chief and Liz reflect on how D/s dynamics can revive intimacy in long-term relationships. [00:04:30] Introduction of the sex menu as a transformative tool for couples. [00:06:02] Liz shares the initial conversation with Tom about exploring a D/s relationship, highlighting the importance of communication. [00:07:59] Transitioning from minimal communication about sex to frequent, open dialogues. [00:12:34] Liz describes the liberating aspect of submission in her otherwise dominant life roles. [00:14:17] Discussion on the gradual introduction and evolution of D/s dynamics in a relationship. [00:15:22] Homework assignments as a method for exploring and expressing desires within the D/s context. [00:18:40] Overcoming a hiccup in a scene and the importance of safe words and aftercare. [00:23:20] Liz shares the positive changes and deeper connection in her relationship since embracing D/s, encouraging open discussions about sex and desires. [00:29:14] Surprises and adjustments made after filling out the sex menu. [00:32:39] Liz emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear and engaging in open communication with partners. [00:38:14] Looking forward to the future of their D/s dynamic and exploring new activities together. [00:41:48] Final thoughts: The significance of communication and not being afraid t Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E41: 8 Common BDSM Myths Debunked

In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all. Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E40: What's it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?

What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear: Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices. How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating contact. What really happens in a session: Examples of what Dominatrices do and don’t do, and how you should communicate with them. Why fantasy and reality aren’t the same: Insights into the expectations versus the realities of BDSM play, emphasising consent, communication, and safety. How Tom’s experiences have impacted him personally: Tom's reflections on how these experiences have facilitated personal discovery and emotional growth. Tune in for an authentic conversation that demystifies the world of professional domination. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM community can become more inclusive for individuals with autism and neurodivergence. Many thanks to Puppy Ripley, and we hope you love the episode. Useful links Instagram: @puppyripley, @pupsofireland Switchboard Kinky Events Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E38: Stop Overthinking Your Dom/sub Dynamic

Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling Shares Her Secrets

Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom. Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53. Find out more about Miss Mae Ling: https://missmaeling.com/. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E36: What Sexual Fantasy Could You Never Tell Your Partner About?

In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband?'. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E35: We Discuss Our First Sensual Dominance Public Performance

Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down. We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple daring enough to explore. We also share a cascade of top-notch ideas you can try out that will transform your bedroom into a playground of passion. So join us for an adventure into the wild side of sensual intimacy that you won't want to miss! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways)

Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and potentially inappropriate. We also share 5 ways you can engage in powerplay and D/s in public, including sharing a personal story of a hilarious mishap with a cat and a remote-controlled toy. We discuss navigating the thrilling yet risky world of public play, emphasizing the importance of understanding the potential risks. As always, we end with a friendly reminder about the legalities of public sex because as much as we love a good gimp suit, it's best saved for the right environment. So join us for an episode that's as enlightening as it is entertaining, and remember - keep it kinky, but keep it considerate! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom

Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moineau, exploring the fascinating dynamics of a Pleasure Dom and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of the submissive partner, even when they seek pain. We delve into the nuances of creating a safe, consensual environment, and how this contrasts dramatically with the typical perception of a Dom who focuses primarily on pain. Navigating relationships where one partner has a kink that the other doesn't may seem like a challenge, but don't fret. We offer insights on how the Pleasure Dom approach can bridge this gap. We venture into the territory of effective communication and language, discussing how to express your desires, avoid feeling resentment and ensure both partners feel valued. Get ready to discover how a Pleasure Dom's focus on giving pleasure can lead to a satisfying experience for both the Dom and their submissive partner. Lastly, we describe techniques that maximize pleasure. We touch on the need to be responsive to your partner's reactions during a scene and how to hone in on their kinks. While Pleasure Domination might seem like a niche topic, the conversation highlights the universal importance of understanding and satisfying your partner's needs, effective communication, and maintaining a consensual environment in any relationship. Tune in for a captivating exploration of Pleasure Domination and its potential to enrich your relationship dynamics. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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E32: Anxiety and BDSM (with Moineau)

Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

E31: Vibrator Showdown! Lovehoney Magic Wand vs Le Wand Classic vs Le Wand Petite (Tested LIVE)

Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle). Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...