
Pretty Boys Like Trap Music
Why do suburban white kids fantasize about the storied struggles of rap music? What happened when war lost its meaning? What is the path forward in today’s matrix of porn, sports betting, and misogynistic online content? Ella, Maria, and their Straight Male Correspondent Guy continue their discussion of bell hooks’ groundbreaking The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love with a focus on how patriarchy makes for good business. Topics include: How The Sopranos, Succession, and Animal Farm beg the question: why should men want to compromise their privilege? How low-status, exhausting work can make masculine authority feel more appealing The relationship between boys and mothers in places of heightened male domination The nuances of commercialized female sexuality in a capitalist patriarchal framework Follow Cobra Lily on Instagram and TikTok Check out the Cobra Lily website Read Ella’s essay, “Leaving Love to the Market,” which inspired the episode Explore Ella's Substack Intro song by Ivy Frey at Shirkerism zine
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