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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Thursday · 16 min

    How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast

    The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader: https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation. 0:00 - Intro 1:12 - F: Start with humor 2:52 - A: Acknowledgements 3:41 - R: Relate to the audience 7:02 - T: The Takeaway 9:13 - S: Your signoff 10:00 - Improve your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Sousa Marães Directed by Andre Ringkjeob Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 12 min

    This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

    Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference. 0:00 - Intro 2:05 - Be Explicit 3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why 3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Written by Charlie Houpert Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 7 min

    3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You

    Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/D6dy72 Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking. So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 10 min

    How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

    How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 11 min

    How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You

    The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself. This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8 0:00 - Intro 0:14 - The situation 1:00 - Where Don shines 2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response 3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours 3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution 6:36 - The best way I know to work on this Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 22 min

    The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others

    Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation? 👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStory Watch the full podcast episode here: 👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAg Most people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable. You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear. __________________ 0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders 2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook 5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster 9:22 The Power of the False Ending 13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story __________________ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 7 min

    How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure

    Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 5 min

    Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/janZ3F Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 13 min

    Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower. The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 19 min

    The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore

    Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically: 👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support. In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality. 0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider 0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals 4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked 7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature 11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 14 min

    Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before

    The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25 Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIM Most people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen. In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do. 0:00 - Intro 1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts 3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible 7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror 8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions 9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than technique Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 8 min

    Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead

    The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts. In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - Literal jokes 2:07 - Cocky jokes 2:58 - Tension diffusers 3:56 - Honest appreciation 5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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