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Ramon weatherall Sr

 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.

But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.

In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.

I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.

Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.

Be that man.

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THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:

1. How to invest
2. How to budget
3. How to defend a purchase
4. The difference between calculated risk and hope
5. That money is a tool — not a goal

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THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:

Write two lists.

LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about money
LIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my son

That second list is your legacy.

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WATCH NEXT:

🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"
["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}
https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U

🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"
[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]
https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

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  • S5 · E6
    April 23 · 16 min

    I Filed Chapter 13 Bankruptcy With $113K Debt Here's Why I'm Still Investing

    This interview features a man who overcame $113,000 in debt and bankruptcy, emphasizing the importance of investing early, accepting financial mistakes, and building wealth through disciplined habits. He shares personal insights on managing debt, the role of family support, and creating a legacy for children. key topics Managing debt while investing The importance of early investing for children Admitting financial mistakes and taking responsibility sound bites "In 2023, I hit the wall with debt." "Admit you're bad with money." "There's good debt and bad debt." Chapters 00:00 Facing Financial Challenges 01:34 Investing While in Debt 02:52 Taking Responsibility for Financial Mistakes 04:40 Understanding Good vs. Bad Debt 07:14 The Importance of Support Systems 09:54 Discipline and Financial Habits 12:28 Creating Wealth Through Habits 13:43 Navigating Bankruptcy Processes 16:12 Empowering Future Generations Support the show

  • S5 · E5
    April 16 · 20 min

    Start Investing with $50 a Month: The Family CEO Framework

    Summary This episode breaks down how to start investing with just $50 a month, emphasizing the importance of automation, low-cost ETFs, and a long-term buy-and-hold strategy to build a legacy for your children. Support the show

  • S5 · E5
    April 9 · 9 min

    "What Happens to Your Son in the Real World if He Treats You Like This?"

    This episode dives into the core principles of raising respectful, responsible, and empathetic young men. Whether you're a parent, educator, or mentor, you’ll learn practical advice on cultivating strong work ethics, respect for authority, and emotional intelligence in the next generation. Main Topics: The importance of instilling a strong work ethic from a young age The role of respect for authority and rules in character development How empathy combined with strength creates leadership qualities Recognizing and avoiding the traits of selfishness and entitlement The significance of listening, respecting others' perspectives, and setting boundaries In this episode: The dangers of raising children who expect things without earning them Why protecting kids excessively hampers their ability to succeed How an attitude of respect impacts relationships with law enforcement and authority figures The difference between necessary assertiveness and being an asshole Tips for parents to teach children about respect and responsibility Timestamps: 00:06 - The importance of raising respectful, responsible children 00:27 - Biggest fears for a parent: raising an asshole 00:46 - Defining an asshole: entitlement and disrespect 01:08 - The dangers of protecting children from reality 01:34 - Blueprint for developing a stand-up young man 03:17 - Why work ethic is critical and how entitlement begins early 03:57 - Consequences of giving everything without requiring effort 04:26 - How not earning leads to failure in relationships and career 04:55 - The importance of practicing respect in relationships 05:46 - Combining empathy and strength in leadership 06:01 - How selfishness manifests in young people 06:31 - The importance of respecting authority and rules 07:32 - Respecting authority influences respect for law and future relationships 07:49 - The impact of respect on social perception and reputation 08:21 - The dangers of being perceived as an asshole 08:49 - Respect, not arrogance, earns admiration and trust 09:18 - Respect in everyday encounters, like interactions with law enforcement 09:47 - Success depends on likability and respect, not arrogance 10:18 - Clear distinctions between healthy assertiveness and being an asshole 10:46 - Core traits of an asshole: lack of work ethic, entitlement, disrespect 11:04 - Teaching kids to respect rules even if they disagree 11:31 - The importance of respecting authority and listening 12:00 - Listening and respectful communication as keys to success 12:50 - Raising respectful children is a full-time job 13:08 - Introducing "The Unbreakable Son" ebook with essential skills for boys 13:39 - How these skills prevent entitlement and promote resilience 14:05 - Call to action: download the ebook and support the message Resources & Links: The Unbreakable Son Ebook Son: 10 Fundamental Skills Every Son Needs (Free Ebook) - https://buildbetterdads.com/ebook YouTube Channel Build Better Dads YouTube Channel - https://youtube.com/buildbetterdads Support the show

  • S5 · E4
    April 2 · 7 min

    The One Parenting Mistake Destroying Your Relationship

    This episode explores the contrasting parenting styles of authoritarian and authoritative fathers, emphasizing the importance of guiding children with high standards and support. It highlights how these approaches shape children's behavior, character, and decision-making skills. keywords parenting, fatherhood, authoritarian, authoritative, child development, discipline, character building, parenting styles key topics Differences between authoritarian and authoritative parenting Impact of parenting styles on child's behavior and character How discipline methods influence children's decision-making The importance of high standards and support in parenting Timing and flexibility in parenting approaches sound bites "A lot of dads fall into a war of compliance." "Blowing up teaches children to hide mistakes." "Control is the goal of authoritarian parenting." Chapters 00:00 The Role of a Father's Voice 07:28 Authoritarian vs. Authoritative Parenting 07:53 The Evolution of Parenting Styles resources The Unbreakable Son: 10 Fundamental Skills Every Son Needs (Free Ebook) - https://buildbetterdads.com/ebook Build Better Dads YouTube Channel - https://youtube.com/buildbetterdads Support the show

  • S5 · E3
    March 26 · 9 min

    Every Dad Needs to Know This FatherHood Secret Now!

    This motivational talk emphasizes the importance of fatherhood, setting boundaries, and teaching resilience to sons. It highlights three critical mistakes parents often make and offers practical advice on raising strong, independent men. Key Topics Parenting mistakes that hinder boys' development The importance of boundaries and discipline Teaching resilience and independence to sons Takeaways Parents should not try to be their child's best friend but their authority figure. Children learn more from actions than words; parents must model the behavior they want to see. Protecting children from all struggles can hinder their growth and independence. Sound Bites "You cannot be their friend, you are their father." "I'm your father, not your best friend." "Kids are watching your actions, not just listening." Support the show

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