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Breaking Free Podcast · August 6 · 47 min

The Hidden Mental Health Crisis Facing Young Men w/ Josh Butson

In this deeply personal episode of The Breaking Free Podcast, I sit down with my cousin, Josh, to share a story that many people silently relate to, but few openly talk about. From the outside, Josh appeared to be living the dream, playing the sport he loved. Behind closed doors, however, he was battling feelings of being trapped, unhappy, and disconnected from himself. After making the difficult decision to walk away from football, Josh faced one of the hardest chapters of his life. Losing his sense of identity led to binge eating, declining mental health, and questioning his purpose. But this wasn't the end of his story. Josh opens up about how committing to an Ironman 70.3 became more than just a physical challenge, it became a catalyst for rebuilding his confidence, mindset, and direction in life. Together, we explore the importance of vulnerability, changing negative self-talk, building healthier habits, finding gratitude, and asking for help when life feels overwhelming. This conversation is a reminder that your darkest chapter doesn't have to become your final chapter. In this episode: Josh's hidden mental health battle Walking away from football Losing identity and purpose Binge eating and emotional struggles Building resilience through Ironman training Reframing negative self-talk Gratitude and mindset The importance of asking for help Supporting men's mental health Finding purpose after adversity If this conversation resonates with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it. Thank you for listening and watching wherever in the world you are. Jump on BonCharge and grab yourself some protection from wifi, 5G, blue/red light and so much more… At the Checkout Use Code “Nath22” to receive 15% off. Connect with Josh Butson: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua.butson Connect With Me (Nathan Francis Coach/Mentor) Substack: https://substack.com/@nathanfrancis Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.Mind Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1 Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/ Email me anytime: nathanselfsabotage@gmail.com The Breaking Free Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpw Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151 Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8- 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to the Breaking Free Podcast — where we dive deep into men’s health, mindset, personal freedom, and the inner work it takes to live life on your terms. 👊 Ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Connect with me for 1:1 coaching, tools, and content designed to help you unlock your potential and lead with strength, purpose, and clarity. 🔗 Follow and connect: Instagram: @nathanfrancis__ 💥 Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Let’s build a generation of grounded, powerful men—one conversation at a time.

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In this deeply personal episode of The Breaking Free Podcast, I sit down with my cousin, Josh, to share a story that many people silently relate to, but few openly talk about.

From the outside, Josh appeared to be living the dream, playing the sport he loved. Behind closed doors, however, he was battling feelings of being trapped, unhappy, and disconnected from himself.

After making the difficult decision to walk away from football, Josh faced one of the hardest chapters of his life. Losing his sense of identity led to binge eating, declining mental health, and questioning his purpose.

But this wasn't the end of his story.

Josh opens up about how committing to an Ironman 70.3 became more than just a physical challenge, it became a catalyst for rebuilding his confidence, mindset, and direction in life.

Together, we explore the importance of vulnerability, changing negative self-talk, building healthier habits, finding gratitude, and asking for help when life feels overwhelming.

This conversation is a reminder that your darkest chapter doesn't have to become your final chapter.

In this episode:

  • Josh's hidden mental health battle
  • Walking away from football
  • Losing identity and purpose
  • Binge eating and emotional struggles
  • Building resilience through Ironman training
  • Reframing negative self-talk
  • Gratitude and mindset
  • The importance of asking for help
  • Supporting men's mental health
  • Finding purpose after adversity

If this conversation resonates with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it.

Thank you for listening and watching wherever in the world you are. 

Jump on BonCharge and grab yourself some protection  from wifi, 5G, blue/red light and so much more…

At the Checkout Use Code “Nath22” to receive 15% off.

Connect with Josh Butson:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua.butson

Connect With Me (Nathan Francis Coach/Mentor) 

Substack: https://substack.com/@nathanfrancis

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.Mind

Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1

Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94  

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/

Email me anytime: nathanselfsabotage@gmail.com

The Breaking Free Podcast 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpw

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151

Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8-

 

 

🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to the Breaking Free Podcast — where we dive deep into men’s health, mindset, personal freedom, and the inner work it takes to live life on your terms.

👊 Ready to break free from the patterns holding you back?

Connect with me for 1:1 coaching, tools, and content designed to help you unlock your potential and lead with strength, purpose, and clarity.

🔗 Follow and connect:

Instagram: @nathanfrancis__  

💥 Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 

Let’s build a generation of grounded, powerful men—one conversation at a time.

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