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Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Why Narcissists Use Pet Names Instead of Calling You by Your Real Name

June 15 · 25 min · Season 5 · Episode 278 · 18.5 MB
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What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn't affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance? 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names.  

Learn why some narcissists even speak about themselves in the third person, and the chilling moment when a "compliment" reveals exactly what they really think of you.

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LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change. 

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