Your Birthday Was Rigged to Fail: How Narcissists Sabotage Special Days
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It's your special day. Your birthday. Maybe the narcissist participated in the build-out or maybe they pretended not to notice. But you knew. And you got your hopes up. Perhaps this birthday will go differently.
What you didn't expect was to spend the rest of your birthday managing their feelings.
In this Viewers' Stories episode, Dr. Kerry shares submitted accounts of birthdays that ended in tears, anniversaries engineered to fail, and being asked to comfort the person who hurt you.
This is the Thursday companion to Monday's episode, "Why Narcissists Destroy Your Best Days — It's Not Forgetfulness, It's Sadism," with psychotherapist Lynn Strathdee
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- 0:00"He needed to be the one who had a bad day"
- 1:20The paper doll: candles blown out with eyes sore from crying
- 2:17When the effort is the setup: "people forgot him"
- 3:16The rising bar — engineered to fail
- 4:22Why your help threatens them: the sun and the Earth
- 6:21Nursing the wound (Gollum's ring), and why confusion is data