Born into a Cult. Then Married a Narcissist. Is Coercive Control Stealing Your Life?
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Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one?
If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two.
Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality.
Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beautiful, joins Dr. Kerry to share her remarkable survivor's story: 36 years inside a high-control religious cult, followed by 17 years married to a narcissist. Discover the chilling similarities between coercive control in relationships and cult indoctrination that make narcissistic abuse so hard to name.
Coercive control doesn't always look like abuse — sometimes it looks like devotion, duty, and belonging.
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BROOKE DEANNE is a Trauma Healing Mentor, Rapid Transformational Therapist (RTT), and NLP Practitioner empowering female survivors of abuse and trauma to reclaim their lives by rewriting their stories via a holistic approach to access new levels of mind, body, and spirit integration. After overcoming her history of abuse as an ex-Jehovah’s Witness and toxic relationships, Brooke brings profound insight to her work as an advocate against religious abuse and domestic violence.
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- 0:00Surviving a Cult of Two
- 0:00Everything She Knew She'd Have to Lose
- 6:00The Martyr Role She Was Born to Play
- 12:00The Trauma Bond You Can Have With God
- 18:00Everything She Knew She'd Have to Lose
- 24:00The Shame That Was Never Hers